Kathy Riordan

Kathy Riordan
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SEPTEMBER 14, 2012 4:03PM

Our Highest Selves

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"Even in our grief we will be resolute. . ."

It was hard not to be moved watching the ceremony this afternoon at Andrews Air Force Base as the remains of the four fallen U.S. State Department employees were returned from Libya, in the presence of grieving loved ones, the Secretary of State, the Vice-President, and the eulogizer-in-chief, the President of the United States.

In solemn moments like these, people can reach for their highest selves.

I was struck by a moment following remarks by Secretary of State Hillary Clinton and then, President Barack Obama, both of whom seemed to be steeling themselves against emotion, as the President stepped back and, side by side a few feet apart, he and Secretary Clinton reached out for each other's hands in a moment that made entirely insignificant a bloody rivalry four years ago.

It was, today, a revealing look into what service in highest office does to transform people, whether Clinton or Obama, how suddenly getting all those intelligence briefings and knowing what's going on in the world and how precarious the circumstances we come to take for granted can be, how men go grey in the office, mature and age.  It goes to the comments Obama made repeatedly in recent days about being wise and measured as opposed to shooting first and aiming second.  It also goes to the difficulty of campaigning against a sitting commander-in-chief in times of national crisis, when unity seems even more important.

This isn't a time for politics, not from either side.  It's not a time for opportunism.  The world spinning around outside can look petty and insignificant.  
 
It's a time for higher selves.

 
 
Video and transcripts:

CNN video of procession

 

President Obama's remarks at transfer of remains ceremony - The Washington Post 

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Thank you for this, Kathy. It was heartbreaking and touching.~r
Thanks. Let's listen attentively.
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I though this was Joan H.'s Blog.
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John Ruskin comes to Memory.
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Say all you have to say in few words.
Your Readers will be sure to skip you.
Write in the plainest possible words.
Surely . . . (paraphrased) folk will skip.
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P.S.
Yes Sad.
I was at Andrews .
I was there in 1948.
My Father held me.
Uncle Bernard died.
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I am not dramatizing.
I was one-month old.
I have the W.P. Ring.
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It was Thanksgiving.
I can't Remember it.
Dad always grieved.
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Uncle Bernard died.
He was a air- pilot.
Thanks for memory.
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I'll go listen to eulogies.
It's health to touch pain.
I best go view moonrise.
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Well said Kathy. This is a time for unity.
And as Lincoln implored in his first Inaugural, a time when,"the mystic chords of memory... stretching from every battlefield and patriot grave to every living heart and hearthstone all over this broad land, will yet swell the chorus of the Union, when again touched, as surely they will be, by the better angels of our nature."
I'm so pleased you wrote just what Tamar and I, watching, felt. So well said, friend.


r.
I actually listened to this on the radio and it was exceptionally moving, not just what they said, but the pain that drove what they said. Excellent point....let us at least bury our dead....
A really wonderful post, Kathy. R.
Well said Kathy. Quite the contrast from Ryan's speech today attributing all the tumult to the worldwide dislike of Obama.
Maybe if our eulogizer-in-chief would attend national security briefings we wouldn't have to cry when people who represent our country come back home in coffins. He didn't attend 40% of these meetings, including the last one happened just two days before this tragedy. Two days before the anniversary of 9/11. Maybe if people in the countries that aren't that friendly to us, despite the tones of money we're giving them, would know that our representatives and our embassies there are untouchable and if something, anything happens to them, our government would respond with all the force we have, instead of rushing with apologies for our freedoms and democracy ; maybe if we, the people in our free country would say to our not-good-for anything president that we are sick and tired of his incompetence, his free-load life, his constant excuses, his constant blaming anyone and anything for his broken promises and not-sustainable policies; maybe, just maybe, if we do that, we wouldn't watch Obama, who just returned for a short time from his campaigning and fund-raising, "...steeling himself against emotion" and will see someone who would know what to do and how to react to a barbaric attack that took life of one of our bravest Ambassador. I envy you for being able to watch this man and admire him, because I can't. I can't for a simple reason that everything you wrote in your post in regard to him is so far from truth and so much covered with your desire to see in this man something he isn't. So, please, except my grievance for your blindness.
Beautifully put. Thank you.