You’d think that with the type of material I write that I would know what a “nip slip” is.  But, until about a year or so ago, I didn’t!  I had never even heard of the expression.  Then I discovered the term on the web in reference, I believe, to some movie star.

Anyway, I think that most nip slips are intentional.  I have written about, and believe strongly in the power of, purposeful peeking.  I have discovered that there is nothing more exciting than allowing the “inadvertent” glimpse of a breast or, on occasion, undies, for both the peeker and the peekee.  Moreover, I’ve also found that women get as turned on by a peek at another woman’s boobs as men do. Perhaps it’s because they know their men are peeking.  I don’t know.  I do know that I like to peek at other women and my husband certainly does.  We often discuss the availability and quality of peeks at the few social functions we attend.

But then there is the occasional mortifying nip slip situation.  About six months ago, before it became beastly hot here, we went to a friend’s birthday party.  It was quite the wild affair, held outside, with a live band playing a lot of country rock.  I wore a very sexy, girly outfit- a miniskirt on top of which I wore a pretty, frilly, extremely low cut, tight fitting (body clinging) green spaghetti strap pullover. And, of course, one of my wigs just to accentuate the low-cutness of the top and to add to the power of my appearance.  I was all tingly at the looks I was getting right from the start of the party.

After a while, I may have a bit too much wine and really got into the Texas Two Step, reveling in the Paso Doble turns I was doing with a friend of ours.  Gosh-I was sweating!

In case you didn't know, one of the Paso Doble steps you use in the Two Step is one in which the girl twirls in front of the guy, and then behind the guy, and then again in front of the guy, all the while keeping her arms WAY above her head.  It is very, VERY sexy.  Very!!  (I mean-VERY!!)

Well, out of the blue my husband came over to me, lifted me up and carried me away from my dance partner.  I was so angry!  I assumed, of course, that jealousy had consumed him (it was, naturally, part  of my plan to make him jealous-that always leads to great sex).  What are you doing I demanded.

He smiled and said, let me fix this.  One of my straps had broken and he had to tie it over my shoulder.  I was mortified.  I guess what I had displayed was more of a boob slip than a nip slip.  Well, that was bad enough, but a day later our friend called and was like, “Ummm…I was videoing Keiko and…um…well, why don’t you come over and take my camera for a day or so.”

Here is a still from the video he shot (dance partner intentionally removed).

I have given this event a lot of thought (months, actually) and have decided, so what?  Really!  What does it matter?  I’m a woman, I have boobs, they are a natural part of my body and, so what?  Admittedly, I'm stiall a bit embarassed and wonder if our friend made a copy of the video he shot, but, if he did, it does not matter. 

Personally, I think a little nip slip is more enticing than the boob slip, but I guess you all will have to weigh in on that.