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Kellylark
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Although I basically write all day in my paid work, it is dry, technical and scientific stuff and I get paid mostly for knowledge and experience. I don't think of myself as "a writer". But I have a lot of fun on OS anyway!

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OCTOBER 21, 2008 2:30PM

My "Undecideds" Break for Obama

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As a scientist, I don't hold much regard for anecdotal evidence, but my small, unscientific sampling of the undecided voters in my life has made me very happy so I'll go with it this time!

Over the past 3 days, I have had conversations with four previously undecided friends and family members, and each has come around to the decision to vote for Obama over McCain.  Note that I generally follow my own advice and try not to discuss politics with anyone I wish to remain friendly with or related to, especially when their views diverge from mine.  In these cases, I'd made the pitch for Obama  in varying degrees of intensity over the past few months, but really, all of these folks have come around in the last week or so with little recent input from me, which makes it even better.  So, here are the results of my survey:

1.  My 86 year old Aunt was a Hillary supporter, but was seriously considering McCain, based primarily on Obama's lack of experience.  I have avoided all political discussion with Aunt because she and I tend to be brutally honest with each other and often end up rather cranky when we disagree.  This is exacerbated by the fact that  she has openly stated that Dammit, she is 86 (85, 84, 83, 82, 80) years old now and can speak her mind at will.  So I hesitantly asked her how she felt about the election, and she surprised me by saying that she just couldn't vote for McCain with Sarah Palin on the ticket. She knows how fragile the 72 yr old's health may be, and she is happy with Biden on Obama's ticket and she will be voting for them.   One FLORIDA undecided vote to Obama.

2.  A colleague/friend who is a registered Republican who was with McCain all the way called me Sunday from her current temporary home in Sweden to tell me that she'd just heard that Colin Powell was endorsing Obama, so she'd be voting for Obama too.  THIS was exciting and unexpected!  She is the one of the four I'd discussed the election choices with most vehemently, and while nothing I'd said swayed her, Colin Powell did!  A second FLORIDA undecided vote for Obama!

3. Yesterday an old friend called from California just to catch up (and for advice on her recent life epiphany).  Suz had been leaning McCain for reasons that totally escaped me ... she is the most free-spirited, ecologist-type  I know, and she'd never fully explained her McCain support.  She was still "undecided" when we talked, but after going through the pros and cons, and deciding we really need a BIG change, she came in for Obama, and promised me her vote. (She is in California, so I am not too worried if she flips back).

4. An even older male friend called from Massachusetts, and he has decided to vote for Obama as the lesser of all the evils.  Dan and I go back 34 years, and we've had some shouting matches in our day over politics, and indeed he even shouted his reluctant support for Obama at me ("I am a TRULY independent voter and will make the best choice for the country regardless of party affiliation, unlike YOU ... yada yada"). He said in a 3 way race, he'd have voted for Hillary (SHOCKER, he hated Bill). He also told me he had considered Nader, until he saw a televised interview (no details on who, when, or where) in which Nader was "shit-faced" (drunk) to the point that even the interviewer had asked him if he'd stopped by the martini bar before the interview.  Salacious gossip, I know, and I haven't bothered to corroborate it, I just think it's funny.  Dan has owned a bar for 30 years so he knows "shit-faced".

So there you have it.  Three women and one man who'd seriously considered voting for McCain are choosing Obama for various reasons, and it gives me all kinds of hope for the future - not just in regards to who gets elected - but in people in general - where all manner of folks seem to be striving for, and making choices towards,  hope and improvement in the USA.

And that makes me feel better.

 

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Kelly, that makes me feel better, too. As Susan Mitchell commented somewhere, after losing so many times, I'm not going to celebrate until all the votes are but I am hopeful, very hopeful.

Thanks for the encouraging post.
Bravo. These "undecideds" are the key demographic, and I think they are breaking for Obama. Now to make sure they all vote.

WOOF
Nice. Good work! Thanks for sharing these stories - it gives me hope for Nov 4th.
Lauren - your post about your email exchange has been bugging me to call MY Aunt and have this conversation. Thanks for the inspiration!

CCC, the ealry voting lines were 2-3 hours long here yesterday on day 1, that is also hopeful that they are getting out there to vote.

madtypist, I'll also not rest easily until the election is over and Obama has won. That's why I wanted to share my fresh hope here today :-)
Kelly, your post gives us all an insight to four different people and how they are coming around to Obama. It shows that age, race, region nor sex factor into the decisions.... it comes down to who best will serve the whole country.
Makes me feel better too...do any of them live in Colorado...that would really make me feel better.
I like anecdotal evidence when it falls my way:)
No Coloradoans, mary, sorry. You're still in play though, find your undecideds and talk to them :-)

Roger, I tend to agree about the anecdotal evidence!
I don't know too many undecideds these days--I seem to unconsciously select friends within my end of the political spectrum. One of my coworkers, though, was undecided until this week. He's a smart guy and liberal on a lot of issues, but fiscally conservative. I imagine he'd call himself a libertarian, although I haven't asked. He's also quite wealthy, and was leaning towards McCain primarily because of tax issues. But some really good canvasser talked him into voting for Obama this weekend--wish we had more canvassers with that kind of talent! So, there's a VIRGINIA undecided for Obama.
That makes me feel better, too. I go back and forth, sometimes optimistic, sometimes depressed, depending on the day.
Hillary would have taken Arkansas in a landslide - the primaries had the Dems showing up 2 to 1. A lot of those Dems won't be voting for Obama, dammit, so we're still a Red state. I think there may be a handful of Indedpendents here, but not enough of us to swing anything.

I still hope, though. I do.
Hey, Kelly.

I hope your sample proves out. Me, I'm a pessimist and am holding my breath until this election is over. I have so far managed not to alienate any more friends and relations and have already cast my vote, so it is out of my hands.
Virginia undecided breaks for Barack - one mind at a time as I always say!

Thanks for looking in Sister - Arkansas could be tough for Obama but we know there are plenty of reasonable filks there who may yet surprise everyone :-0

Hey Rich, glad to hear it's been politically calm in the family - as long as you're not suffering too much holding it all in!
Great work! Thanks for your personal commitment to getting our country back on track.