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Kwombles

Kwombles
Birthday
June 22
Bio
Instructor of English (and psychology) at Cisco College. Mother to three awesome kids (who have some issues), wife, and all that jazz. Sometimes snarky. Obsessed with knowledge, books, cats, flowers.

It seems like there's always something to be mad at or feel threatened over when it comes to autism-related reporting or blogging. Sometimes it's reasonable outrage, like an article on autism that doesn't involve autistic individual perspectives or an article on autism that goes to Jenny McCarthy for…

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I'm sure this is common. Gods, I hope it is: Kids making disaster areas of their rooms. Every couple months I get the courage to go back and look at my kids' rooms. I don't know why I bother, but it eventually starts to occur to me that my husband might…

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Another school year for the girls finished on Thursday. Where did it go? It slid by so fast; it feels like they just started! Heck, close my eyes and it feels like the first day of school two years ago this August when my childhood classmate drove the bus right past…

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MAY 24, 2012 10:22PM

Lilies and Roses and More












For my garden girlies
for successfully navigating
through another school year.
Go, girlies!
Editor’s Pick
MAY 24, 2012 11:12AM

Autism, Autism Speaks, and the True Stakeholders

Autism isn't a four letter word in our house. It's not something we treat with kid gloves, not something we see as a tragedy or, in our kids' case, in need of a cure. We see it as something to be worked with and around, but we don't talk much about…

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I get it--I do--Rosie's tired of school--doesn't want to go, and I don't blame her. It's over, no teaching is going on, so why make them go? I know, I know, a lot of the kids love it, the last week with lots of socializing going on, but what about the…

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So I was set to go purple.
Product view
But first I had to deal with the black hair.
So I used two bleach kits.
Well, this ought to be interesting...

Did I mention the scalp burning?

After an hour and a half of messing with it,
I decided this interesting "strawberry blonde"
can stick around for awhile.
Splat Hair Color Complete Kit, Luscious Raspberries
MAY 22, 2012 11:33AM

My Day...People, It is MY DAY!

The girls are in their last (abbreviated, the heartless bastards--the school, not the girls, of course!) week of school. I am "off"---hahaha, like that's really true--I'm running an online maymester course (why students want to read a 700 page book in two weeks and be tested on it, I have no…

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MAY 20, 2012 10:48AM

Artichoke Secrets

 I have grown artichokes for several years now but never harvested them.
 I love how beautiful they are.
I love the different shades on one plant.

















MAY 19, 2012 10:17AM

When There Are No Roadmaps

Parenting, no matter that it has been done since the dawn of man, really doesn't have any roadmaps at the individual level. Yes, there are more books than any one person could read and as many opinions as there are assholes, but that really doesn't help you when it's crunch time…

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MAY 17, 2012 7:47AM

Thursday Thrills












As I woke to a grumbling brain this morning, percolating away at disparate thoughts and insisting I problem solve, it occurred to me that change is not something many of us deal with well. We may keep it internal, box it up, and not let on to the outer world how… Read full post »
MAY 15, 2012 8:14AM

Tuesday Blessings














MAY 14, 2012 5:11PM

The Freedom to Offend

There are plenty of reasons to avoid the internet--so many unsafe spots, so many places to be made aware of just how awful or clueless people can be.

Simon Baron-Cohen started the inevitable comparisons between autism and psychopathy with his Zero Degrees of Empathy book and theory, but at least he ha…

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MAY 13, 2012 10:18AM

A Thistle Morning













MAY 13, 2012 9:56AM

The People We Used To Be

Joan Didion, on keeping a notebook, writes, "It all comes back. Perhaps it is difficult to see the value in having one's self back in that kind of mood, but I do see it; I think we are well advised to keep on nodding terms with the people we used to…

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MAY 12, 2012 11:37AM

In All Seriousness, Take Two

Yesterday, I owned up to one of my issues.
My need for symmetry and balance.
My slightly (ever so) obsessive need to 
maintain that symmetry...

Fortunately, my mom and my Danny-boy talked me down
from the need for four more potted peonies and another
gerbera daisy.

Danny-boy did it his normal way of ea… Read full post »
MAY 11, 2012 10:19PM

All Good Things

In life, all good things come hard, but wisdom is the hardest to come by.
Lucille Ball
It's been coming, sure and steady. Dad's been promising for the last several years that at any time he could retire--next year was it, for sure. But next year would come and he would stay. He/…

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MAY 11, 2012 4:20PM

In All Seriousness


For some reason I ordered two sets of two potted silk peonies (they were sold individually). Now, I can see wanting two...but four? Did I see them online and go, "oh, lovely" and order them two separate times? How did I forget I ordered the first set? They came a day/…

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MAY 11, 2012 8:34AM

Be Silly

When the world weighs you down, be silly.
When things are hard, or sad, or just plain a pain-in-the-ass, be silly.
And see how many animal prints you can put together in one outfit...
Wear silly shoes.

Surround yourself with toys and PLAY with them!

Life is hard. Loss in inevitable. Obstacles are a consta… Read full post »
MAY 9, 2012 9:44PM

Skies










MAY 8, 2012 6:17PM

Change: Be One Who Makes It

How do you effect change, change that's big, change that's lasting? Can you, can one person, have that kind of impact? I remember arguing adamantly with my grandfather nearly 24 years ago that one person can change the world. We argued back and forth for a good long while, my grandfather…

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MAY 7, 2012 8:18PM

Monday Gardens
















MAY 7, 2012 11:13AM

Take That, Super Moon Biotch!

I know, I have issues. So what's new about that?




MAY 6, 2012 12:28PM

M-O-O-N spells Freaking Moon

Everywhere on facebook, on yahoo news, on Huff, everyone's talking about the super moon. Some are even wondering if it will cause problems. There's even an article on myths about the moon. Everybody's out taking pictures of the moon and posting it.

Now, readers here know I looooove the moon. Love, lov…

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