Detritus

For random bits
MAY 22, 2012 11:33AM

My Day...People, It is MY DAY!

The girls are in their last (abbreviated, the heartless bastards--the school, not the girls, of course!) week of school. I am "off"---hahaha, like that's really true--I'm running an online maymester course (why students want to read a 700 page book in two weeks and be tested on it, I have no…

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MAY 20, 2012 10:48AM

Artichoke Secrets

 I have grown artichokes for several years now but never harvested them.
 I love how beautiful they are.
I love the different shades on one plant.

















MAY 19, 2012 10:17AM

When There Are No Roadmaps

Parenting, no matter that it has been done since the dawn of man, really doesn't have any roadmaps at the individual level. Yes, there are more books than any one person could read and as many opinions as there are assholes, but that really doesn't help you when it's crunch time…

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MAY 17, 2012 7:47AM

Thursday Thrills












As I woke to a grumbling brain this morning, percolating away at disparate thoughts and insisting I problem solve, it occurred to me that change is not something many of us deal with well. We may keep it internal, box it up, and not let on to the outer world how… Read full post »
MAY 15, 2012 8:14AM

Tuesday Blessings














MAY 14, 2012 5:11PM

The Freedom to Offend

There are plenty of reasons to avoid the internet--so many unsafe spots, so many places to be made aware of just how awful or clueless people can be.

Simon Baron-Cohen started the inevitable comparisons between autism and psychopathy with his Zero Degrees of Empathy book and theory, but at least he ha…

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MAY 13, 2012 10:18AM

A Thistle Morning













MAY 13, 2012 9:56AM

The People We Used To Be

Joan Didion, on keeping a notebook, writes, "It all comes back. Perhaps it is difficult to see the value in having one's self back in that kind of mood, but I do see it; I think we are well advised to keep on nodding terms with the people we used to…

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MAY 12, 2012 11:37AM

In All Seriousness, Take Two

Yesterday, I owned up to one of my issues.
My need for symmetry and balance.
My slightly (ever so) obsessive need to 
maintain that symmetry...

Fortunately, my mom and my Danny-boy talked me down
from the need for four more potted peonies and another
gerbera daisy.

Danny-boy did it his normal way of ea… Read full post »
MAY 11, 2012 10:19PM

All Good Things

In life, all good things come hard, but wisdom is the hardest to come by.
Lucille Ball
It's been coming, sure and steady. Dad's been promising for the last several years that at any time he could retire--next year was it, for sure. But next year would come and he would stay. He/…

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MAY 11, 2012 4:20PM

In All Seriousness


For some reason I ordered two sets of two potted silk peonies (they were sold individually). Now, I can see wanting two...but four? Did I see them online and go, "oh, lovely" and order them two separate times? How did I forget I ordered the first set? They came a day/…

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MAY 11, 2012 8:34AM

Be Silly

When the world weighs you down, be silly.
When things are hard, or sad, or just plain a pain-in-the-ass, be silly.
And see how many animal prints you can put together in one outfit...
Wear silly shoes.

Surround yourself with toys and PLAY with them!

Life is hard. Loss in inevitable. Obstacles are a consta… Read full post »
MAY 9, 2012 9:44PM

Skies










MAY 8, 2012 6:17PM

Change: Be One Who Makes It

How do you effect change, change that's big, change that's lasting? Can you, can one person, have that kind of impact? I remember arguing adamantly with my grandfather nearly 24 years ago that one person can change the world. We argued back and forth for a good long while, my grandfather…

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MAY 7, 2012 8:18PM

Monday Gardens
















MAY 7, 2012 11:13AM

Take That, Super Moon Biotch!

I know, I have issues. So what's new about that?




MAY 6, 2012 12:28PM

M-O-O-N spells Freaking Moon

Everywhere on facebook, on yahoo news, on Huff, everyone's talking about the super moon. Some are even wondering if it will cause problems. There's even an article on myths about the moon. Everybody's out taking pictures of the moon and posting it.

Now, readers here know I looooove the moon. Love, lov…

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MAY 4, 2012 2:39PM

Can't We All Just Get Along?






April 30. The last day of Autism Awareness Month. The last hurrah, although let's be honest, the wider world didn't really notice all that much and probably didn't learn all that much, either.

The truth is that autism awareness happens at the individual level every time we, as parents, take our autist…

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APRIL 29, 2012 11:12AM

Saturday's Garden


















APRIL 29, 2012 10:58AM

Stop the Judge Rotenberg Center

Greg Miller asks that we get two people to sign the petition to get the MA state senate to stop the JRC from using aversive procedures. Keep passing the link on--it was at 28 signatures last night and this morning it is at 178. We see petitions all the time, I know.Read full post »


But were they totally worth it? Hell yeah.
From now on I want all my shoes to have 
decorations at the top.
Steven Muller, President of The National Association of Residential Providers for Adults with Autism has released the following statement regarding the Judge Rotenberg Center:
The video of staff at the Judge Rotenberg Center applying electrical shock as punishment for teenagers with developm… Read full post »
APRIL 26, 2012 7:55AM

Cats...





Good thing cats don't read blogs,
or Mabel would be mad at me 
because she's left out here.
:)