Admitting our intimate thoughts makes us feel our humanity. This is why sexual fantasy still holds a veil of taboo in our culture: we’re uncomfortable with our primal selves.
Fuck it. (and I was trying to use that word LESS this year!)
I say let it out. Talk about it and just get it out in the open. We can rant and bitch about politics like a second language, but anything relating to our sexual beings is “too crude” for discussion?
Sure, there are times and places it would be inappropriate. Who wouldn’t be horrified if they went to the daycare to pick up their six year old, only to hear two parents talking about their swing party the previous weekend? Like I said, there are time and places to do that.
Like this blog (or Tink's house) . . . to encourage people to realize that even oddest fantasy is OKAY I’m going to share mine. These won’t be detailed, but just an outline of the general situation.
* Secretly watch my husband dominate another woman.
* Being made to kneel in public.
* Serving other men at my husbands behest.
* Bukkake
* “Hiding” under the table at a restaurant.
* Leashed in public.
* Spraying hubs with milk.
* Taken in my sleep.
* Human puppy.
There are more, but this is as far as I’m comfy going. Most of these will never happen . . . well I cannot say never but for now they are just thoughts.
DSM thumpers can kiss it, there is no pathology in mere thought (alone). Everyday I have ideas that pop up that make me think “WTF, why am I thinking THAT!” People, its normal!
So, in the spirit of fun and sharing, I hope anyone reading this learns a bit more about themselves.
Happy Monday everybody!
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I think anything that you want to do that you can get away with without either embarrassing yourself or your partner or some (as they called them in the Godfather) pain in the ass innocent bystanders is fabulous and worth giving a try.
I'm not sure why you couldn't do most if not all of your fantasies in the course of your life. I know I needn't challenge you to, because you strike me as the sort of adventurous woman who will do what ever suits you and your partner.
I would advise against hiding under a table in a restaurant as you have no idea what kind of nasty crap might be under there until you are there, so if you decide to give it shot,try not to be wearing anything too pretty.
I'd like to.....well...don't want to say here. But I'd like to. oh yes. :)
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I'm physically incapable of kneeling in public, but I'm made to beg for table scraps all the time. It's really annoying. And there's way too little meat and way too much rice.
I hide under the table all the time. If I don't, Cindy barks, "Snippy! Go lay down!" Not much fun, though Stephen has figured out how to achieve "clean plate" status with my help.
Leashed in public. (bares 11 remaining teeth and snarls) Don't even go there or I won't be responsible for my anger. Let's just say (sarcastically) it's not as fun as it looks!
I've seen Archie, the Great Dane next door, spray hubs. Maybe not with milk, but he lifted his leg and got all four tires. You should have heard Will and Cindy carry on. They hosed the entire car down. That's utterly disgusting. You cur.
Taken in my sleep. Yeah, right. I've been taken in my sleep, and it's always to one of two destinations--either to the vet, or to the groomer. (bares 11 remaining teeth and snarls viciously)
Human puppy? Why not canine toddler? Is this an example of interspecies racism? Don't you condescend to me, missy.
Seriously..
It is finally back on and I need to tell everyone that you are the only sanity in my life.
Thank you and you will see this message everywhere because I have gone crazy all day.. but I did clean.
Rated with hugs
Those are the ones that make you're "comfy"????
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! You FREAK!!!! :~D
:D
"Like this blog (or Tink's house) "
~nodding~ Tink's House is where EVERYBODY is invited to shred their decency and give in to the temptations. Whoooo!! ;D
Brian: Tuesdays are better!
Jack: Amen!
John: Hmmm . . . .
Healing: Yep, in the words of my favorite pod cast "Sex is fun, play with it"
Snippy: I think your mama needs to give you some cuddle time!
Linda: I hate it when the wireless crashes. BIG HUGS!
Amy: LMAO! We really need to compare notes!
Nose: The thought police are the kind of people who NEED sex the most, they aint gettin any! lol
Tink: Party in the parking lot at Taco Bell!
SJ: LOL
Linnn: :D
Bonnie: Nah, just horny, lol
Duane: I know. I seriously believe if the entire planet accepted and embraced sex, a lot of problems would go away. It wouldn't be a cure by ANY means, but it would be a great place to start.
"I say let it out. Talk about it and just get it out in the open.
We can rant and bitch about politics
like a second language,
but anything relating to our sexual beings
is “too crude” for discussion?"
remember that they, in their futile wisdom,
call it the Body Politic
.... even
the "constitution"
of healthy
bodies absorbed into some ridiculous
supernal body of laws and rights and endless
loopholes.
..............................
bodily existence is all there is or will ever be.
we should enjoy it while we got it.
words like fuck are barely important in the overall scheme of things.
yet: to be barely important in today's impotent ideology
is of utmost importance,
so fuck the rules and write your heart out about
rosy vulvas and
kneeling
and spreading it to the
one you love.
silly bother, this sexual american adolescence,
yet god help us
somehow necessary...
look at those ads...
sensual and
selling a way of life
BEYOND THEIR CAPITALISTIC CRAP
pure ecstasy, what
would a constitution say about that
as the right of every man and woman, forever?
It seems more appropriate to you somehow.
"Press the "R" button please FRed(tm) "
I'd like to see you actually write about one of these experiences, especially human puppy since I had no idea what that is.
Loved this post.