1) I was a church organist starting at age 9.
2) I went to 12 years of Catholic School, for which I am thankful.
3) Although an ex-Catholic, I am ever appreciative of the moral base established with regard to right and wrong that the Catholic faith provided.
4) I have always loved cemeteries and still do -- found the biggest, bestest puffball mushroon near a tombstone and swiped it.
5) Being a good Catholic girl, I was a virgin until age 16 at which time I slept with someone I didn't know at a New Year's Eve party because I was tired of being teased about being a virgin. (Very Dumb).
6) I am a misogynist magnet.
7) I have known at least three murderers in my life, all of whom I knew could be murderers as I interacted with them.
8) While living in Chicago, I worked three jobs to make ends meet. One was at Crate and Barrel Outlet Store -- that was fun!
9) I took over a failing business from my mother which I turned into a successful enterprise within a difficult industry. We supplied area brides for their wedding needs for 25 years until my step-daughter lost the business just after 9/11. (Not her fault).
10) Spending a summer in Chicago while still in college, I dated the most handsome man I have ever met against my better judgment -- he was intrigued when I turned him down the first time. (cont. in 11)
11) An undercover policeman took me to the side and told me to stay away from Mr. Handsome as he was in trouble with the law. I had no idea he was involved in a major cocaine ring and would be busted just after I went back for classes. (Big Duh -- didn't do coke...)
12) I have a general naivete' about people's motives that sometimes saves me, sometimes not.
13) I married a man I didn't love well at age 29 for companionship. After two years of marriage, I stuck my hand in his pocket to get a quarter and pulled out a vial of cocaine. (What is it with me and men who like cocaine?)
14) I am over the moon to have an intelligent President-elect heading to the White House.
15) I really do not enjoy anti-intellectualism. Hearing the phrases, "Don't talk over my head", or "Use words that I can understand", make me go ballistic.
16) As a life-long feminist I sneered at my mother waiting on my father hand and foot in my youth. I married the service hungry equivalent of my father at age 35 as I believed he was the "one". Who knew I would marry my father?
17) I had always believed in the potential of a soulmate and never gave up on the concept of there being "one" out there for me. Perhaps the naivete' thing, or, more likely, the "one" and I are still trying to work it out...I am willing to keep trying.
18) While living in Tahoe, my car was buried under 14 feet of snow. I left in the spring and never went back. Darn snow.
19) I would give anything to live in a city, again, even Chicago in the middle of a snowy winter.
20) I enjoy silly things like making scarves and jewelry as well as doodling floor plans for a fantasy dream home.
21) I have never lived up to the potential of my youth and all that was offered to me, and likely never will at this late age. (Read Malcolm Gladwell's new book, "Outliers" --> I had a LOT of opportunities that I wasted for lack of focus).
22) Although I never had any children or my own, I have been blessed to have grandchildren that don't know the difference between "blood" relatives and non-"blood", who love me as their grandmother.
23) My husband says I am a narcissist who does not give enough to his needs... 'Nuf said?: "Opposites don't always attract, do they, Hubby?"
24) I enjoy community service more than I do laundry and housework, but cooking and feeding are still everyday tasks to be performed in my household. (See 16)
25) I really hate it when people who are all take and no give complain that they are not getting enough of something from me and/or the Universe.


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I once often worked alone in the morning at an eatery with a dishwasher who turned out to be a serial rapist. He would commit the crime before coming to work. Then, he'd come to work and we'd quietly prepare food and the kitchen. It was a bit of shocker when he was caught.
I have been mulling the story around about one of the murderers and how sometime you just KNOW people are capable of something terrible -- I knew it on this one as he scared me to death when I was a little girl. I was nearly 30 when he killed someone, again, over drugs....
One of the other murderers killed my sister; the last, well, I am not sure if I could ever write about that one...maybe, but it would be in novel form and I would be in another country before it was published!
26.) One fall, I picked up acorns in cemeteries to sell to the Illinois Forestries Dept. I had the time of my life as I love autumn, the smells of the fallen leaves, and the odd succulents (hens and chicks are ubiquitous) growing all over the place for no apparent reason.
That is probably better than one of the first ones...;)
Lainey -- Outliers is really great -- I still have a portion to read. I love Malcolm Gladwell -- he is divinely inspired, to my way of thinking!
Great list. Skipping parenthood and embracing grandmahood is inspired!
When it comes to men I've always been a magnet for wackos - like guy that cozied up to me in a bar, told me about his drug problem and his fetish for feet - and then asked for my phone number AND a ride home because he didn't own a car. No, no and no! It used to be an entertaining spectator sport for my friends. They would sit me out like bait and wait to see who happened by.
When I finally found a guy who wasn't like that - I convinced him to marry me.
Cherie, you have NO idea, or wait, yes you do. I used to run around with a girlfriend who for some reason (and the only woman I know that did) had a lesbian thing for me. Actually, she wanted me for a threesome with her boyfriend, again, not my thing.
Anyway, that threesome vibe must have come off us when we were together. If I hadn't blocked them all out of my mind, I could probably write an amusing story about those days...;)
idaho -- I probably need a talk, but being a narcissist with low self-esteem (smile) you would have your work cut out for you...;)
Olga, ick, on the funerals unless they are not someone you know. Then, if someone that you don't know, only for the music at the church. The thing about cemetaries is that the stones provide a thumbnail sketch of the life of that person. In a peaceful setting you can let your mind run wild. One of the worst things about funerals is the smell of the funeral home. Oooohhhh, double ick!
I love going to cemeteries--but not ones here in L.A. I like to read the tombstones and walk around the graves.
You sound like a lucky person to me--you were close to some bad things but looks like it's all turned out o.k.
Mr. Handsome definitely endangered both of our lives by a stupid thing he did -- I have seen that same scene unfold on TV several times were one or more person ended up dead...
And I love #15. Bring on the big words.
Great list.
Mary, your blog has more than 25 interesting things that you have done. Family Fued, changing your life, the painting story, meeting the author, and on and on. Maybe you are just struggling to come up with 25 more!!
PF, you too -- I think it is hard to blog your lfie, then come up with 25 things that we don't know?!
I was thinking about some people's 25 listing including the famous people they have met. I have met a few, talked with a few, and know a few here on OS. Went to school with the sons of two of the ten wealthiest men at that time (late 70's). Neither guy was exceptional -- kindof just like the rest of us but maybe a little more spoiled.
One of them regularly bruised my arm by punching me, the other once threw his tennis racquet during a tournament that just missed hitting me. True to form, I went down to the courts and gave him a talking to -- during the match. I feel bad talking about him as he is already dead. The other one, well, now I have to Google him.
Yep, we all put our pants on one leg at time regardless of our achievements or birth. That is why these 25 thing are fun for us -- an additional peak into the lives of people with whom we now share the OS bond.
Cartouche, yes, thank you for noticing. My life has been sharply divided into "chunks" -- that is why I have written that I am cramming many lifetimes into one. The cramming portion, was pretty much finished done by the age of 48. Right now, with the exception of enjoying OS, all is pretty much the same day to day...I think I am craving a little excitement! :)
I had my own 5th and 8th adventures, and you are right "cavalcade" is very descriptive. Also, I named them as royalty past: King Barry the Scary, King Fred the Dread...I got a few more, but these are two of the most colorful reigns...back to back unfortunately!
Excellent list!
On 21---you put a lot of positive energy out into the world---even just here on line---potential is a pretty tough thing to measure---even for Malcolm Gladwell!
Aaron, no one would have to twist my arm to get me back to Chicago, as Roger well knows!
Roger, you always say the sweetest things and I appreciate that so much, I really do!!
And Monsieur Chariot -- I am so pleased for your return FOR MANY REASONS. One of which is that we need more appreciative Catholics here on OS! :)