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latethink

latethink
Location
Oregon, USA
Birthday
October 27
Title
Medical Transcriptionist
Bio
Painter of furniture and canvas, typist for longwinded doctors. Mother and ex-wife.

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APRIL 6, 2010 4:31PM

I'm Aware of Your Point of View

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I have a job, my dog, my home, 1 or 2 good friends, my opinions, some hope, some righteous indignation, some snark and silliness.  This is where I come to talk about what I like, what I've done, how I feel, who I know and things of that nature.  You can't make me feel guilty anymore for who I am because at least I do not pretend to be something I'm not. 

 My likes and dislikes are important to me.  I do not seek affirmation nor do I deserve condemnation.

This is not a diatribe against OS.  I love OS, even the dustups.  Sometimes I'm a little sarcastic and mean here, mostly I'm a little dull.  Sometimes I do not feel free to write what I want, but I'm going to get over that.   And I would like to thank a lot of other OS black sheep for making me feel brave.  It seems silly to say it takes bravery to write what you want on your own blog, and maybe it is.  But I know some people who would never, ever, ever, say what they thought in public because of fear of reprisals.  That is not going to be me.

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I have a cat too, how could I forget.
Ooh, especially the dust-ups! But really, I very often never say what I think for fear of reprisals. It's surprising how much it hurts when you slap yourself upside the head.
But Mumbletypeg!! We are anonymous, how bad can the reprisals be? Splinters under your fingernails hurt too, sometimes you just have to pluck them out and take a good look at them and hope they don't hurt anyone else. I just read a post by someone who wrote about a huge dustup with someone I read fairly consistently and still was not aware of. There's just too much to read here to keep up with everything.
No no no. I mean personal reprisals! Very personal!
I know where I live!
MTP, Oh yes, the personal reprisals. Even when they do not come from other people, we know the other people well enough to provide them ourselves. Good luck with that. Very cute, you know where you live.
Bravo. Some people live to dish out reprisal. Ignore them. Be yourself. Life is shorter than you think.
Late, this is your playground! You do with it as you please, as long as you don't hurt anyone in the process. It took me a long time to stop pleasing everyone and please myself in my little corner of OS!
good.to.know.Scanner
"pleases.himself"
in.the.corner.of.OS.
laughing.at.Amanda.
(second time in 2 days)
You know the old saying -- If you want a friend in Washington, get a dog. If you want a friend here, write about American Idol or gay sex.
RB, I actually only got an imaginary reprisal, if you can figure that one out.

we are all aware of Scanner's proclivities and welcome him just the same. Thanks for the encouragement Scanner.

Tom, I do not watch American Idol, and do not know what to say about sex of any kind lately (except maybe the alone kind) and yet, look at all my friends here!

Thank you so much Elisa. Thanks everyone.
the writing is the thing.

that is all.
LOOK OUT! HERE COMES LATETHINK!

Damn, girl, go for it. And if I ever give you lip, you just give it right back.
Personal reprisals can still come from other people online. And they hurt me, I am sensitive. I have lately developed a reticence to speak here that I did not have before. I understand what you are saying. Despite the anonymity, we still form connections and, as Beth Mann said today, words have meaning. Great post!
so true Lorianne.

WATCH IT LAINEY! No, this is not meant for anyone in particular on OS, and no one gives me shit, really. I mean what do I write about? Mice, books, movies. And I live for lip from you, Lainey.

It's more of what you are saying, Sweetfeet. It's the personal reprisals and they do make you want to watch what you say, so I understand completely. So I just wanted to say this quickly. Thanks.
If you can't say what you think here, where can you say it. I hate that we feel like we need to censor to please. Well not We, but sometimes me, sometimes others. Say what you want if they don't like it they don't need to read it!
Eggzackly, Lunchlady2.
I do not know Bonnie, I think I am beneath attack by OSers. And honestly sometimes I think it's nice to have a mean older brother around so you can give him what for and not feel bad about it.

Amanda G, I left you out before, didn't mean to. Thanks for coming by.
"party on, Garth"

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Thanks for this, latethink.