Oscar Fun: My Brush w Kate Winslet and Other (Drama) Queens
Inspired by John Guzalowski’s recent post, Have You Had a Brush With Fame?
And Mungular’s recent post, Who's In Your Hollywood Entourage?
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I've lived a long and "interesting" life, in and around world cities. With the Academy-Awards and nostalgia as my excuses, here are a few fun, brief encounters with a real queen, a world queen, a political queen and a few Oscar–winning drama queens.
1956, Miami Beach
A few blocks from my house, in front of the Sheridan movie theater, 24-year old Elizabeth Taylor and her second husband, producer Mike Todd are here to publicize his movie, Around the World in 80 Days. She is often described as “the most beautiful woman in the world,” but she looks more like a doll on my shelf: short, shoulder-length jet hair, purplish eyes, paperwhite skin. In a couple of years Todd will be killed in a plane crash, and Liz will find comfort with Carrie’s dad, singer Eddie Fisher. But at this balmy moment, all seems perfectly divine.

Liz Taylor and Mike Todd
I stand right behind her, roped off in the first row because I have stood for over an hour, waiting for my first brush with a celebrity. In the photo in the Miami Herald the next day, my awed young face peers longingly at Elizabeth Taylor’s perfect countenance. I don’t wish being photographed near a young Liz on anyone.
1989, Bangkok
I am working on an early DVD project for the military as the executive producer (not exactly Mike Todd, but a bit of irony). I’m between marriages and have been living for a few years in Washington, DC with the owner of the company, but have been my on my own here for several months, heading the international crew.
I see Liz Taylor once again, at the Oriental hotel, at a charity event for the magical festival of Loy Krathong, where the country is alight with candles along its waterways. She is with Larry Fortensky; in two years he will become her seventh husband –for awhile. She is overweight, over made-up. And this time I ‘m not overwhelmed.
1965, Edinburgh
I ‘m walking to a castle in Scotland, on my honeymoon, and a car suddenly stops next to us, and inside is Queen Elizabeth 2. Her eyes and skin are exceptional (similar to Liz Taylor’s, actually). I do not see Philip, or her purse.
Several years later, when I live in London, I see her several times in official ceremonies, but not as close-up, nor for as long, and not by chance. So it isn’t as special. And she isn’t aging well.
1970, Hyannis, MA
My youngest is three months old, and my first husband, Mr. Wonderful, and I are staying at a Cape Cod resort. One evening we decide to hear the singer Peggy Lee at a summer theatre.
Much buzz. Enter Jackie O and her entourage, among them astronaut and current Ohio senator John Glenn, children Carolyn and John, Maria Shriver, Ethel Kennedy and some of her brood. Jackie is married to Onassis, who is not there.

Jackie Kennedy Onassis, 1970 --major star, even if she wasn't in movies
They sit up front and we observe the boisterous family interaction, and after the show there is slow dancing on the stage, and hubby and I maneuver next to Jackie and John Glenn, and all seems so casual. I don’t notice any Secret Service men dancing with each other.
When we go for our car, Jackie is already waiting for hers. It is raining and we all huddle under a portico. She seems aware and yet aloof. I hope she will turn and say in that breathy voice, “ Has anyone ever told you that you look like me?” But of course she just stares off in the distance -- the most famous woman in the world on a summer evening, in the rain. Finally her car comes, and she exits, Glenn holding an open umbrella above her, leaving the rest of us babbling and wet.
1975, NYC
I am dining at Café des Artistes restaurant in New York, with husband and friends. We are going to Lincoln Center after, and there is a crowded rush at the doorway vestibule as theatergoers retrieve their coats, ready to leave. I am pushed from behind and turn, rather annoyed. But it is Warren Beatty pushing against me. And next to him is Diane Keaton.

Diane Keaton when she was dating Warren Beatty
He is craggy handsome, she is cute, and I now thoroughly enjoy the light contact of his upper body until our coats arrive and hubby and I are off into the night.
1982, Armonk, NY
I am on line at a cider mill north of NYC, among pumpkins and kids. My sons are playing somewhere as I patiently wait for the world’s best donuts, coming down an assembly line out of hot fat and plopping into powdered sugar. The smells of cinnamon, yeast and apples fill the fall air.
I stand behind a woman talking to her daughter. Her voice is familiar, and I realize that she is Glenn Close. Nobody else seems to recognize her, in her cap, sunglasses and jeans, so exurban and motherly. At one point I mumble something like, “I can’t wait much longer,” and she turns and smiles and says, "Yes, but they’re worth waiting for, aren’t they?” And I debate whether I should say more, and I decide not to.

Glenn Close, glammed up
She doesn’t cut the line. She doesn’t pull rank. She speaks sweetly to her daughter. I have liked her ever since.
1999, Chappaqua, NY
I meet political queen Hillary Clinton, newly moved to Chappaqua, and her hubby, the President of the United States. I wrote about that dinner here.
2007/8, Greenwich Village
It has been 50 years since this star-struck girl swooned at Elizabeth Taylor, and just about every Tuesday, except in summer, at 2:10 pm I pick up my granddaughter from her pre-school. She is three, and already has two boyfriends –Koll, and Joe, who is Kate Winslet’s son.
In the crowded half-doorway with other moms, nannys and grannys, about half the time, Ms. W is standing with us, observing the adorable children before we pick them up. She usually wears a tee, black jeans, black–rimmed glasses, not much makeup. Her hair is loose or in a pony tail, and she’s pretty, like most of the moms, but not really prettier.

Kate Winslet, who doesn't say much
I have been warned by my kids -- who were warned by the school-- not to bother her. She feels free to pick up her son because she feels comfortable. I watch little Sabrina flirting with little Joe and Kate smiles at them and because I’m warned not to talk, I just smile at her.
I occasionally mumble things into the air (not to her – rules) like, “Aren’t they adorable!” And she does the same, but never first.
And so, for months, on Tuesdays at 2:10pm , I stand so close to this year’s probable Best Actress Oscar-winner that I can smell her skin (clean), without having a single real conversation.
So I will cheer her on this Sunday because I think she deserves the award, but not with special affection. And anyway, my granddaughter Sabrina chose Koll over Joe.


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Comments
I have a similar post brewing somewhere about my celeb encounters, but they aren't as good as yours.
I loved the insight that you are annoyed at a strange man jostling you until you realize it's Warren Beatty and suddenly you like the body contact.
Here's a post I wrote about one my brushes with a celebrity:
http://open.salon.com/blog/tom_cordle/2008/09/28/goodbye_cool_hand
Tom, I tend to back off and empathize with folks' need for privacy. Some of these people are nicer than others and sometimes you can tell from brief just a tiny encounters. (Will catch up on your piece.)
But Jeeze, you sure have had some interesting moments....
That is my favorite picture of Jackie ever ... and I have volumes of them (a my-mother thing)
:) Loved living your life for a few wonderful moments, Lea!!! Thank you!
Ben, that is an absolutely absurd scenario which I adore! Too much! I too came across Nicholson once, but he wasn't peeing. He was filming "As Good as it Gets" in a convertible on the road in front of my house. The neighbors and I watched for hours for a scene that took a minute. He looked like he knew he was one lucky guy and was waving and kidding around.
Yes, Ann that photo is one of the most famous of the many, many taken of her. Sexy, for a change. She's crossing the street near her apartment in NYC. (For years I was told I looked like her and I really had this fanatsy she might say that. But she probably couldn't see it and looked right through me.)
Sally, I never kissed Barney or Ozzie. And I have a few years on you. And you don't know the whole story -- I tend to write about more about the fun stuff. "Interesting" has many aspects, as you know, but who wants to read about sad things all the time.
Sheep, glad you came along. These are silly, but the Oscars give us an excuse to be silly. And with most of us feeling the economic pinch, I felt like writing this.
My wife, daughter and I used to play a game. I have a good eye for faces, so I'd usually spot the "person," but couldn't remember the name--but our daughter would instantly know it. She was uncanny.
It didn't matter what generation they came from.
My dear wife would usually miss the entire thing, even if the person was sitting next to us--when my daughter and I wouldn't say a word, knowing it would make my wife self-conscious. (She was a small town girl, after all.)
Then my wife would stand in the street with her hands on her hips, watching them disappear around the corner, disappointed, or get mad at my daughter and I for not telling her who was slurping their soup next to us for the last hour.
Cruel, I know, but we are only the little people, and must gather our pleasures whilst we may.
My late husband #2, who I have written about, was like her. He met many famous people, but could care less. (A great example is in the Hillary story I linked on this piece.) I mean, he officiated at Dustin Hoffman's marriage and didn't even tell me!
zumalicious, glad you enjoyed. It was nice reflecting back on light-hearted stuff and my evolution. It meant much more to see someone famous when I was young. When I became older I met famous people, and I saw the realities. These are just the "stars."
Very enjoyable reading your take on celebrities among us. Similar to NY, where I live (L.A.) and work (studio lot) there’s a lot of this. I’m probably more like your 2nd husband and don’t pay it much mind.
Although I had to laugh when my 2-year old, rushing headlong into Jenny Bec’s - a kids toy store on Montana Avenue in Santa Monica – just about bowled over the Governator himself who was on his way to the trendy new Caffee Luxxe. (Maria and their brood were waiting in their black SUV @the curb, and it might’ve been his turn to gather caffeine and pastries...?) It was then that I realized (duh!) state Governors don’t have federal Secret Service agents w/them - no one jumped in and wrestled my son to the ground, yelling, “CLEAR!”.
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I didn't know Kate Winslet lived in NY. My husband bought me her perfume for the holidays. I think he bought it because it had her picture on it.
I was just your average workaday journo with a camera and a notebook.
Jimmy, Michael Jordan in his heydey would be the most famous man in the world.
David, when I was in Cape Cod Maria hriver was in that group. Just one of the young set-- a whole bunch of cousins.
Joan, when I was babysitting for my kids once my son had been at a party with Robert Redford. My daughter-in-law was more excited about it than he was and said he looked great.
L and P, yes, she probably is shy.
B, I'm sure you were more than "average." Would love to hear more about your tales.
Kit and Kat, I do believe that Tammy Faye Baker has been dead for a few years. You might want to rethink that last celeb-spotting.
Wait. I've got it! It's Freaky Troll! What a spotting that would be.
Freaky?
Love your descriptions of the encounters. Right now I'm living vicariously through my brother Rick who's a working actor in New York. This week he has his first lines on the show he's been working on--Life on Mars (ABC, she shamelessly episode whores)--with Harvey Keitel. He meets a lot of famous folk and I make him give me the blow-by-blows.
too big for dominos pizza,
where he bought us aspiring poets a huge pie,
brought it back to his hotel,
played tired old soothsayer,
gave us drinks, sent us out...
i drove drunk home,
the cops stopped me but i acted straight...my brush with fame....
also saw bobby vinton in hawaii
Merc8tor, I did see one episode of Life on Mars and found it really interesting. There should be lots of fun gossip (and it is fun). I think the lavender I thing is probably an exaggeration. Never got right in her face. But they sure were/are gorgeous.
James, your poetic comment exudes the gritty side of this silly stuff. (Hope you have a designated driver now.)
and that's kind of what i expected about kate winslet. i have never gotten good vibes from her--though i've never met her, of course.
and her hubbie sure makes horrible movies.
We sometimes forget that they are not the roles they play, but people like us, with pretty ordinary lives otherwise.
As for Ms. Winslet, she takes on daring roles. For Dave Cullen: did you see "Things We Lost in the Fire" (produced by Sam Mendes)? Unforgettable performances.
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Delia, yes, I agree. Joe's loss.
Dave, I like some of Sam Mendes' films, like American Beauty.
Dragonlady, Kate Winlet seemed like an ordinary mom. But the way we treated her wasn't ordinary.
Screamin', I was told for years that I looked like Jackie. Now that she's gone I hardly hear it anymore because people don't remember her as much.