Lea Lane

Lea Lane
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“I’ve discovered the secret of life,” Kay Thompson, the eccentric entertainer and “Eloise” author, once said. “A lot of hard work, a lot of sense of humor, a lot of joy and a lot of tra-la-la!” And that's been my life: As a travel writer for over 30 years, I've been around the block (more like around the world), and I write true stories about interesting people and places. (Check out my travel site, Travels With Lea.) I've lived an unconventional life in conventional trappings. Been a corporate VP, worked with foster kids, acted in an Indie ("Nurse 1"), was on Jeopardy!. I've been managing editor of a travel publication, written for the Times, and authored books. OS is my home, but I also blog on The Huffington Post, and I've contributed (mostly anonymously) to everything from encyclopedias to guidebooks. Married young, divorced late; married late, widowed early, I dated lots in-between -- and survived a scary illness. After being happily, peacefully solo for many years, I'm now happily married again. I founded and still edit www.sololady.com, a lifestyle Website for single women. I'm truly grateful for each precious day, each well-earned wrinkle, my family, my cat. Truth, laughter, friendship, late love. And this blog -- on this wonderful site!

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JUNE 14, 2010 9:05AM

A Play That Wins a Tony Starts a String of Memories

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Rothko

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I recently saw Red, just awarded the Tony for best play, about the abstract-expressionist artist Mark Rothko. In the play, set in 1959, Rothko is flooded with memories about art and life –and change.

The play sparked my own memories of my life in-and-around New York City. These connections cascaded in a six-degrees-of-Kevin-Bacon kind of way back to the play.

Life bounces around, connecting and changing, and if you live long enough in a great city you can eventually look back on fascinating people and interesting connections, sometimes inspired by one work of art, such as a play. Here goes:

My son Cary teaches art, and Rothko is his favorite artist. My new husband and I invited him and his significant other with us to see Red. Cary was a teaching assistant to our own OS artist Gary Justis, at Northwestern, a surprise connection I am delighted about.

My mother was an artist too. That connection is more genetic than coincidental. (She won a scholarship to Cooper Union, and had more talent than taste – her wise-cracking wit always seemed to dominate her work.)

In the play, Rothko competes with the younger artist, Jackson Pollock. Ten years ago I was on a press trip to Pollock’s house on Long Island. The group was late and the curator let me stay alone in Pollock’s studio while she answered the phone. The floor was a swirl of drips. It was silent, like being in a cathedral. I was thrilled that the play set off that forgotten moment.

In the play Rothko speaks of the young artist Andy Warhol. Warhol was a guest at a party I attended in the 1970s at a restaurant called Maxwell’s Plum, accompanied by an actress named Sylvia Miles.

The party was in honor of the playwright, Mark Medoff, who had gone to my high school and whom I had interviewed for The Miami Herald. Mark’s most famous play is Children of a Lesser God.

At another party for Mark I met Anthony Perkins, the actor who played the psycho in the classic Hitchock thriller of that name. He sat at a small table and seemed shy. His wife at the time was a  photographer named Berri Berenson, who would later die in one of the planes flying into the World Trade Center. I hadn't thought of that in many years, and remember her pretty face and blond hair.

Do you see how a play, or any work of art, can set off memory cascades? And how past and present connect? Here are some more remembrances set off by Red:

Rothko paintings are displayed at the Museum of Modern Art along with Pollocks and Warhols. The great architect Louis Kahn, was once honored with an exhibit of his models and drawings there.

At that exhibit I briefly talked with Ann Richards, the former governor of Texas, who was standing next to me, admiring Kahn’s work. Years later, after her death, I would attend an event in Austin and meet her daughter, who looked like her. As I am not a Texan, what are the odds of meeting both the mother and daughter?

Louis Kahn designed the temple in Chappaqua where my late husband, Chaim Stern was rabbi. Chaim in fact suggested some changes in the design to make the area around the pulpit (bema) less austere, and Kahn agreed to a few.

Chaim performed a wedding at the temple for a local girl and Dustin Hoffman, who had been in the movie Midnight Cowboy. Sylvia Miles, the actress accompanying Warhol at the party for Mark Medoff was in that movie too.

So you see how things go around? We’re back to remembering a little known actress from the past named Sylvia Miles. And all because I saw a play.

In Red, Rothko speaks of change. Pollock and Warhol were the next generation of artists, and he found them cutting edge. But I just was at MOMA, where a performance artist sat for seven hours a day staring at people who sat across from her, one at a time, and that is now considered art. I wonder what Mark Rothko would have thought of that.

When you let yourself think a bit about your life, whether it is about artists in New York or friends in a small town, the memories and connections are sometimes amazing. And so is the inevitability of change, a major theme of Red.

 

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Art can inspire and it can also unplug long-forgotten memories.
Connections are amazing, always there when we look for them. It's not surprising to me your family has so many artists. Another wonderful piece where you weave in your life with wisdom in such an entertaining way.
This happily reminds me of one of my favorite posts of yours, Lea: Julia, James, Jacques, Sara, Claudia, Barbara, Ruth, & Moi

when the movie Julie and Julia stirred a similar memory in you.

You've lived a wonderful, rich life with a tapestry of memories. How generous of you to share those with us here. You spoil us.
Yes, Mary, my family is filled with artists and writers. We don't seem to make much money doing it, but it leads to interesting times.

Kathy, I have to agree that any foodie worth her salt and pepper would like that post about the many food writers. I am surprised myself at how lucky I have been to be at the right place and the right time so many times. Part of it is my interest in the sensual, artsy side of life, and partly that I lived in NY for so many years. Live long enough, and show up.
I may need to go and paint.
You know your latest works especially remind me of Rothko. He was commissioned to do some paintings for the Four Seasons restaurant in NYC, and wound up not doing them. I know that you have taken that kind of commission, and so has my son, and so would I!
You've led an amazing life, Lea, to have so many experiences that can spring to mind in those moments!! But I know very well what you speak of here, which is the power of a work of art to reach into our memories and lives and spark powerful feelings. That's happened to me many times and it's what I love about art, and performance such as theater is definitely one of most intense experiences that way.

I was in love with a guy in my 20's who adored Rothko and so showed me a treasured book of his paintings. When I said I didn't get it, he nearly broke up with me. At the time, I don't know that I'd seen a Rothko in person, or if I had, I hadn't paid attention. Several years later, face to face with one in a museum, I was overwhelmed by it and whispered to the memory of my long departed love, "I get it now."
I believe that these memories are not random or happenstance, but a projection of the spirit we have developed and nurtured. I hope that is not too heavy, but I believe it. Great Post, and I learned a lot.
Three degrees! Lea, you've taken us on many journeys, but it is the paths you travel with your words that I love the most. Your life has been fantastic; your telling of it phenomenal! Thank you and {{{R}}}
Silk, at first I didn't get the seeming simplicity of Rothko. And then I understood better the edges of the color and the shimmer, and when I saw the play, much of the complexities were discussed.

Dave, we can put ourselves in situations I guess.

One, two or three degrees of separation. Live long enough and you find them.
Lea you've nailed why I adore DooWop, why I've written posts abt it, and why I'll write more and why I'll always listen.
R.
You have created a beautiful and inspiring post...and a string of memories of my own, as well as some additions to my to-do list. Thank you!
I love the way you share your life and experience with us, Lea . . . it allows me to vicariously enjoy some of the places you've been/people you've met, and I always feel enriched by it. Art and life . . . gotta have them both!
Jonathon, doo wop? I don't quite get it, but thanks.

Sophie, glad I loosened up a few memories.

Hi Owl, always glad to see you!
My goodness, the play was like your own personal madeline!
How very Proustian ;-)
Astute comment. See you soon!
Such a great post and interweaving of things past and present.

"Red" is also my middle daughter's nick name as she is a "red head," a Gemini, moody, changeable, juggling careers, very artistic, creative and fiery persona!

Love the color red and all its textures and meanings.
Your central theme is a very powerful one. I often feel and think those connections.

I hung a large untitled Rothko print next to Dan's drafting table. I see it every day and I really love the warm feeling of it.
So true, Lea. And so well-done. Interestingly, my sister and I were just talking about how death (a relative of ours just passed on) spurs a whole bunch of memories of connections. And the need to connect outward to others as well. Life, a spider's web.
Lea--what a fascinating follow-the-dots, not to mention life you've led! To add to the six degrees of Sylvia Miles, perhaps~I was once in a drugstore on 57th street standing behind her and had my pocket(book) picked. I wouldn't be surprised if you and I had shared a gallery opening, or something. (I've been in a "new york state of mind"of late:) (r)
Cathy, when I was a girl I had auburn hair, and my nickname was "Red."

Susanne, what a lovely painting to have over a drafting table. I know you have a wonderful house, full of warmth and love.

Beth, you 0ften need a starting point to remember. And a work of art often provides it.

Oh dirndl, now WE have a connection. A B-movie actress from the past!
Lea, You have placed me in fine company! I'm honored to be a part of this marvelous cascade of memories. Please forward my best to Cary.

I knew someone in Chicago, Rothko's grandaughter who was a friend of mine. We competed for several grants and things. She was a noted painter who was popular in the 80's and early 90's. I willnot give her name because she is very private.
And your late husband, Chaim Stern was my cousins Rabbi in Chappaqua, which I only found out after "meeting" you here on OS.
Gary, you have just proved my point about connection, and you have furthered it by a direct connection to Rothko himself.

trilogy, I have met so many people around the country who are connected to Chaim, especially through his prayer books.
I love how you shared your cascading memories, the flow of them, and the seeming coincidence of events. Yes to "showing up"! You have shown up in many interesting places and met so many fascinating people. Sylvia Miles won an Oscar for her role in Midnight Cowboy -- she made a huge impression on me when I saw the film for the first time in 1969, I guess it was, as a 15-year-old. I remember it was the first film to be rated X. By today's standards, it would probably be PG!
I wonder what happened to her, Deb? I should google. That movie was incredible, and I remember her in it.
a great post on art and life. rated.
What is it about art and music? They both seem to have this mystical ability to conjure up memories. Sort of gives credence to the concept that there are 6 degrees of separation doesn't it?
Thanks, Caroline and Fay. Connections, connections.
Lea, I looked up Sylvia Miles -- I remembered incorrectly. She was Oscar-nominated but lost to Goldie Hawn in "Cactus Flower." Here's a link to her imdb page if you're interested: http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0587249/. She's still around, apparently!
I'm still kicking myself for not seeing "Red." A college friend told me it was extraordinary. I saw "A Little Night Music" with Angela Lansbury. Catherine Zeta-Jones was off that night, but her understudy was magnificent. I also saw "Next Fall," which was mediocre (though nominated for a Tony). I'm glad you got to see "Red." Missing it is my only regret after a week in Manhattan.
By the way, I met Ann Richards in Aspen years ago. She was attending the Aspen Institute. I have a lovely picture of us together smiling. Everyone who's seen the picture thinks Ann is my grandmother. Great story, Lea.