Lea Lane

Lea Lane
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“I’ve discovered the secret of life,” Kay Thompson, the eccentric entertainer and “Eloise” author, once said. “A lot of hard work, a lot of sense of humor, a lot of joy and a lot of tra-la-la!” And that's been my life: As a travel writer for over 30 years, I've been around the block (more like around the world), and I write true stories about interesting people and places. I've lived an unconventional life in conventional trappings. Been a corporate VP, worked with foster kids, acted in an Indie ("Nurse 1"), was on Jeopardy!. I've been managing editor of a travel publication, written for the Times, and authored books. OS is my home, but I also blog on The Huffington Post, and I've contributed (mostly anonymously) to everything from encyclopedias to guidebooks. Married young, divorced late; married late, widowed early, I dated lots in-between -- and survived a scary illness. After being happily, peacefully solo for many years, I'm now happily married again. I founded and still edit www.sololady.com, a lifestyle Website for single women. I'm truly grateful for each precious day, each well-earned wrinkle, my family, my cat. Truth, laughter, friendship, late love. And this blog -- on this wonderful site!

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JULY 1, 2010 11:23AM

Americana: Mohonk Then and Now (and a comment about Greg)

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  Mohonk Mountain House

 reflections of Mohonk Mountain House, originating in 1869

 

This first week of July many of us will be writing about Americana and displaying images of our beautiful country.

Some of us just spent a weekend at one of the great old lodgings from the mid-nineteenth century, an era when people carriaged or trained north of New York City to the worn, nearby mountains to escape from the heat and enjoy nature.

I returned to Mohonk Mountain House last weekend, 30 years older (and, sigh, thirty pounds heavier) than the last time I had ventured there. My sons were ten and twelve back then and my husband and I brought them here on a summer weekend.

We walked around the pristine sky lake, gauged in the Ice Age and filled by rain. The gentle path was punctuated by the original gazebos perched on many of the huge boulders and outcroppings surrounding the lake.

gazebo

gazebos ring the lake, precariously perched

 

Signs around the premises 30 years ago read, “Shhh. Quiet.” I was nervous that my sons might raise their voices and be reprimanded by some Quaker descendent of the original owners.

Our small dark room seemed as if it were one of the originals from 1869, furnished with a straight-back chair and a small bed overlooking an old fireplace filled with ashes.

The food was overcooked and an afterthought. There was no wine that I remember. The place was pretty empty, except for older people rocking on the chairs on the porches overlooking the lake.

***

Driving up on this past summer weekend to attend the OS writers retreat, the rolling grounds, flower beds and hodgepodge lodgings of Mohonk seemed much the same as they did 30 years ago.

But I am no longer with the husband I first came with. I am here with a third, and he rowed me around the lake just like the first one did. Just slower. We were on our own, still newlyweds. Who could have guessed?

My grown-up sons are now living in New York City and are creative, and nobody can shush them. One even married us a couple of months ago.

The “Shhh” signs are gone. The only sign I saw was for fish food.

Mohonk--Feed the fish

 but don't feed the fountain fish!

 

Our room was white and pale green. It looked brand new, as if no one had ever used it before. Lavish meals were displayed at buffet stations, and the main dining room was filled with children decidedly, happily noisy. I had some fine wine.

Older people still sat on the chairs on the porch, gazing at the lake.

But I am one of them now. Happily rocking, chair or not.

***

Our retreat to this piece of Americana has been chronicled by the other fine OS writers who attended, and I urge you to read them all for a Rashoman-like view of the experience. Greg Correll will compile the list of our takes in his definitive post about the writers weekend.

Greg initiated the idea, planned it, followed up, brought his exceptional writer friends to facilitate. He even had his best friend Alex take us on his tugboat along the Hudson.

tug on the Hudson

 a sheriff's boat alongside our tug, when the tug wasn't steering right

Those of us who know Greg’s body of work realize that he is a brilliant man, artist and writer who deals with adversity. I think his writing sometimes captures the spirit of Walt Whitman. And those of us who have met him now know that he is a centered, gentle, patient man. He listens as much as he talks. He has  grace, and a generous spirit. He tells funny stories.  He has exceptional friends, a loving wife and lovely daughters.

Grand old hotels are pieces of Americana,  but good, talented people like Greg are the best of what America represents.

Greg Correll

our man Greg on the Hudson, telling an amazing story

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Americana comes in many guises.
If I thought I missed out before, now I am even more jealousing (thinking of Deven when I say that). You captured so beautifully the senses and the essences of what was surely a unique experience for all. Thank you for bringing me along in spirit after the fact.
You saved the best for last...that closing sentence is perfect, because without men and women of honor and character, our nation would not be the (mostly) successful beacon it has been for over 200 years.
Sounds/looks like an amazing, magical place . . . and an inspired event, as well.
I can't wait to read all the rest of the posts about this great weekend. I am jealous!
Lea, I have been reading the various posts about the Mohonk writer's retreat and was very impressed with what Greg did and he is to be congratulated for his great idea and implementation! This event ranks right up at the top of the many meet ups I have read about on OS over the past two years.

It was interesting to read your account of staying at the Mohonk some years back and it's always fun to visit a location again and make note of what is the same and what has changed.

One of the beauties of Open Salon is that it offers a cross section of Americans and allows them to easily present their experiences of the U.S. and to learn from others, as well! Because it is a free site and has so many members I would have to say that it is the quintessential American web site for ideas and discussion of all stripes!
Holly, I'm still remembering the great bread and local cherries you so generously brought to the tug ride. And I will be calling the boy.

Sally, this was one of those special moments. It was set in beauty and brought forth beauty.

Steve, so true. And sorry if I embarrass you, but you, like Greg, are one of them.

Owl, hope to meet you someday at something like this.

sweetfeet, I understand totally. I have missed many things that once gone are hard to replicate. But there will be more.

designanator, you have written and shown great examples of Americana throughout your time here. I love reading your posts.
This is an inspiring post. You and Greg are an inspiration as well._r
Joan, takes one to know one, girl. And you'll never guess who I met over the weekend in NYC. :) Will report ...
Lea, thanks for the great tour and piece about our friend Greg!
You are another wonderful talent and sensitive man, Gary. Steve B, Jimmymac... I could go on, but I would leave too many others out. One of the joys of this place is getting to really know some of those who we spend time with through the site. Hope we meet someday (and I'll bring Cary along).
Oh, how disappointed I am that I missed this event! I am envious as all get out. But I am planning a (tentative) retreat in a great Midwestern place, perhaps this fall. Right now it's just a gleam in my eye, but I hope to carry through. As my blog says, "Watch this Space."
Thank you for the great account of your time at Mohunk and your pics.
I've enjoyed all the posts about the retreat and hope to write one of my own someday.
Thanks for this-lovely to hear your remembering as you revisited Mohonk, and to see through your eyes the renewal. I also enjoyed reading your observations about Greg, and the pictures were the perfect complement.
Thanks for this!
Yes, it was a magical weekend.
Hugs.
Jon
(Rated)
Nice to see Greg's photo here--and midtale, at that.
Sounds like a grand outing with a wonderful guy.
R for returning to share with the rest of OS
ladyslipper, you'll get there girl. You can make it happen!

Were your ears burning Jimmy, when I mentioned you above?

You make the nicest comments, Sophie.

Jonathan! Still in the afterglow, and hearing your deep voice read your poem...
as many thumbs up as I can muster. And what a great take on the place and the experience. Lea, your wealth of experience and your ability to write about it all continue to astound me.
Right places at the right times, I guess Nikki. (And some wrong places at the wrong time.) Anyway, hope to do it again. Say hi to Molly.
I loved this, Lea. Your writing conjured accurately Mohonk Mountain House, enriched with reflections of the past like the rippled image on the lake, and completing the view of the present. You have imbued my happy memory of MMH with the added dimension of Lea and I love it more for this. I agree with everything you said about Greg.
There's no way I can convey what you know about Greg, Maria. Just that I really admire and like him. (And you, too for that matter.) You two are lucky to be friends.
I would look so cool in a powdered wig and tights. Plus I have ample fundament. Substance, I like to think.

Thank you, dear Lea, for this keen amble, this paean to Mohonk and America. You fill in the story and resonate our experience Saturday.

Poor Alex! He feels a bit like Captain Failure, for almost needing a tow that last 100 yards. Silly guy. It was wonderful, that ride. Funny how each of us see ourselves slightly dislocated from what others experience; my inner reality was more anxious than what people perceived last weekend, and I, too, felt like calling in sick last minute, wondered if my writing on Saturday would suck, etc.

Except you seem to have mastered, Lea, the inside out Voyager Voice, in your posts, and especially that excerpt you read on Saturday evening. It's in evidence here: the interleaving of memory and perception, observation and gentle assessment. Even grand feeling. All without verbosity or self-importance. It is necessary, to include ourselves, to perform the magic of making the intimate universal. But it's delicate: one must be a mature soul to do so without Ego.

You have that magic touch. This reads like a Good Conversation.

I will post soon on Mohonk. (think: late Sept/October for the next one? Hmm.)
You prove my point, Greg.
I had a feeling Greg was "that good"!
Wonderful post Lea. thanks for this. and the gorgeous pictures.
Sometimes someone you hope is that good turns out a bit less. Not so this time.
What a wonderful trip this must have been! So glad you got to re-visit after 30 years! That alone might have been worth the trip, but the writers, the scenery, the tugboat, the magic of the place, WOW. R
love the reminiscences of your earlier visit and the comparison to this time, the photos (the precarious gazebo!) and the pics, especially of greg in his cool hat. thanks for doing this, lea, and giving us a very personal view of a weekend many of us (me, me, me) wish we'd been at, too. lovely.
Sheila and Candace, thanks for stopping by.

And Holly, with global warming, I'd say that moves back to November 15!
Thank you Lea. This is great and I look forward to doing it again! Yay Papa!
I had no idea this retreat was even happening (not that I could have come, being all the way on the other coast) so it's great to hear a bit. I'll look forward to reading those "Rashomon" accounts!

I always love hearing about places I haven't been, and hoping I get there some day. This area sounds wonderful. I'd like to be in an adirondack chair right now, sitting by a lake! (As opposed to getting ready to move, which is what I'm doing this holiday weekend....)
It sounds absolutely wonderful! I am so sorry I was unable to make it. Glad y'all had a great time, tho!
Molly, you have a great daddy.

Silk, you would have loved it. Really top writing exercises. Have a successful move.

Patie, thanks. Maybe next time.
I'm for a retreat on the West Coast; I'll come. Of course, you'd need just the right combination of Greg and his compassion + organizational skills + acccess to someone as wonderful as his workshop leader + his talented and attentive daughter who happens to be a senior staff member at Mohonk...

But perhaps you can fly Greg out ;-)...or save your frequent flyer miles and come on out east...
Thanks for the reporting. I must make it a point of going next year.
Sounds great and your description of Greg is no surprise to me.
Nice idea nikki. But yes, all elements need to be 100% to get 100%. Doesn't always happen.

Trudge, I would try for it.

Duane, he's all that.
Ah Lea lovely unique angle on the time that was. We were wondering what on earth we were going to write, remember? Well, you found the words. Beautiful.
Well, I am jealous, and jealousing. The only reason I didn't go is because I don't have any more PTO days to spare (after taking care of my 90 year old mother's health issues and being on a new job). Ordinarily, the fact that I'm not a writer like you two are would have stopped me. However, I feel that I "know" and think so highly of each of you, I would have made the trip, PTO (paid time off) permitting.

You're both exceptional spirits and if you make this a yearly event I'll be likely to go. And yes, Greg (and you) are exceptional writers, as well.

xoxox

Sad to have missed you but so happy it turned out well;

denese
you have to know how the rest of us feel (waaaah!), having missed out on such a growth experience, and Mohonk itself - magical. How wonderful to row the lake again, no? very magical.
Gail, you did too.

Denese, get to the next one!

gabby, I know. It's hard to read. But I think it's good to hear that people on this site can be as nice as you would hope. And there will be other chances, other places.
It just sounds marvelous all of it. What a beautiful place to meet with such incredible folks.
Nice to hear from you, LL2!
A transformation -- of a place that should have been magical into a magical place. I'm glad you got to revisit and to make new memories. (What was Greg's story about?)
I envy those who were there. =o) It sounds like a great retreat.

And a little vacation on a house by a lake, and rowing around ON the lake sounds like summertime heaven, to me.
rated
Bell, yes it was a transformation. And I just can't tell the story--Greg will have to, if he wants to be that honest and open. It was darkly hilarious.

Shiral, well I wouldn't call Mohonk a LITTLE house. More like a rambling castle.
Lea~ You nicely balanced your old memories with the new, and make me wish I was there with you all. It was a beautiful weekend for it (I am just a half-hour away, but had visitors). Hopefully there will be a next time. (r)
That was a pleasure to read Lea. I love the "then and now" aspect of the story for both the Mohonk and for you. And I love those original "resort" hotels, and you did her description so well.
dirndl, I wish you were there. So close!

Kelly, then and nows are always fun when you're describing something.
Dang it. I know I left a comment here a few hours ago. It was cute and funny, too. To bad I can't remember what it is. Something about pagoda's. I'm a ditz. Happy Fourth, Lea!
What a lovely story. I so envy you the visit to beautiful Mohonk.

This is a great tribute piece, not only to upstate, but to Greg.
Jealousing too. What a wonderful weekend!
Michael, whatever the comment I'm just glad you stop by.

Connie, Greg deserves a tribute. Big time.

Thanks, merwoman.
I keep reading these marvelous accounts about your damned marvelous time and I'm gonna have a nervous breakdown. Y'all know that! ;-|
Matt, the room was small and the roast beef too well done. Does that make you feel a wee bit better?
Beautiful post Lea, I SO wish I had been there. You captured the beauty and agedness of Mohunk so well. I've been there mainly with children in tow. To be there with you guys would have been heaven. R
Thanks, Wendy. Come next time.
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