Lea Lane

Lea Lane
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August 26
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freelance writer/editor
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“I’ve discovered the secret of life,” Kay Thompson, the eccentric entertainer and “Eloise” author, once said. “A lot of hard work, a lot of sense of humor, a lot of joy and a lot of tra-la-la!” And that's been my life: As a travel writer for over 30 years, I've been around the block (more like around the world), and I write true stories about interesting people and places. I've lived an unconventional life in conventional trappings. Been a corporate VP, worked with foster kids, acted in an Indie ("Nurse 1"), was on Jeopardy!. I've been managing editor of a travel publication, written for the Times, and authored books. OS is my home, but I also blog on The Huffington Post, and I've contributed (mostly anonymously) to everything from encyclopedias to guidebooks. Married young, divorced late; married late, widowed early, I dated lots in-between -- and survived a scary illness. After being happily, peacefully solo for many years, I'm now happily married again. I founded and still edit www.sololady.com, a lifestyle Website for single women. I'm truly grateful for each precious day, each well-earned wrinkle, my family, my cat. Truth, laughter, friendship, late love. And this blog -- on this wonderful site!

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AUGUST 4, 2010 1:12PM

Thoughts on Writing About My Travels

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  at the Grand Canyon, on assignment

 

Especially in this time of dire economic hardships, people comment that they envy my travels and my “interesting” experiences. Yes, I focus on the positives and the fun things. And yes, there have been bountiful times, and many interesting people in my long life, and I enjoy remembering and sharing them.

But I've been holding back. I still write about the interesting people, but I've recently stopped writing about travel, something I have done professionally for over 30 years, and something I love doing.

I’m not altogether comfortable writing about travel when so many of us are struggling right now. I was aware as I wrote about past trips to Antarctica and romances in China and other exotic locales that there are people without jobs for many months. And there are seniors with fixed funds cut to shreds in this near depression, who have health problems, who don’t sleep well, and who live alone.

In fact, I was one of those people for most of this decade, until this year. Most of my fun tales date from before then. And I guess that's a main point of this post. Things can change.

My life has been filled with extremes of all sorts, from gigglingly great to desperately awful, and I’ve adapted to both, and tried to stay positive. Sometimes the glass was half-full and sometimes, like now, it's overflowing. But I have never felt it half-empty, even when it was.

Those of us who are able to write or draw or photograph have an extra reason to be thankful. Our talents will never leave us, and they allow us to visit past pleasures, bringing others along for the ride.

So if I again write anecdotes set in faraway places, as I so enjoy doing, I hope you can relax and enjoy them with me. We all bring something to this site. Maybe I'm one who brings a bit of escapism, and that can ease tension and open horizons.

And maybe I'm the one who needs to realize that most of all.

 

 

 

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Yours, I think, Lea, is always a blog of hopefulness in one way or another. Thanks for that. R for persisting in that.
I completely relate to and appreciate your sentiments here, Lea.
I'm holding out a bit of my cup to catch the overflow! Thank you!
Lea, I have had some of the same thoughts. I used to write about my exotic travels on facebook with oodles and oodles of pictures. I can't prove it of course, but I just sensed that people resented me for my good fortune. Perhaps I've misread, and my popularity waned for any number of other reasons. Anyway, I stopped writing and sharing pictures of my travels.

I'm married to a businessman who has been self employed for over 20 years. I often joke that in our house it's often feast or famine. We've had a great run these last few years, but I know things can always change. It keeps me humble.

Rated!
Jon and Kathy, thanks for the support.

mhold, my cup runneth over for the moment. Bring yours and I'm happy to fill it.

Bluestocking babe, you really relate. I have written travel articles and books in pubs where I knew the readers were interested. On sites like this it is different. Yet I have so many tales to tell. It has been a bit of a dilemma.
Lea, I think your posts are always balanced and show a sense of 'wow, I am really lucky to do this'. Never do you show a sense of entitlement. I definitely think a nice tasty bit of escapism is called for!
Don't you dare stop writing about your travel experiences. In fact, I'd like to see more about those exotic locations that I, for one, will never see first-hand. A little bit of escapism is a good thing.
Mypsyche, I hope that's true. I certainly don't feel anything but lucky that I was able to write about traveling. The pay was terrible, but the experiences were treasures.

Boa, so great to see you. You always encourage and I thank you. Hope you are going to write more on OS.
Hi Lea - I appreciate your sentiments here, but I don't think you have to worry about that because of the wonderful way you write your stories. I know I tease you and I AM totally envious of your travel experiences, but not all of the personal ones :-)

There is no sense of arrogqance or entitlement to your travel posts. You write great stories that are just a pleasure to read. Your voice in the st0ries sounds exactly like you, and there is always a note (even when unspoken) of appreciation for your good fortune in this aspect of your life. I hope that makes sense.

I'd just tell you not to worry about it but I know that's futile :-)
Ms. Stim & I used to go on press junkets for her travel magazine (mostly I posed as a photographer) before the aftermath of 9/11 devastated the travel industry. I enjoy your stories much like I enjoy reading Theroux, Bryson, and travel lit in general. Economic ups and downs are a side note. Reading a good story is always a pleasure.
Lea, the way you present your stories is just that - in story form. They are written for entertainment, for laughing, for being amazed, for sharing, and you often poke fun at yourself in the telling of your travel tales. I loved 'He Never Calls, He Never Writes' -- which made me laugh and appreciate your wit and brevity (It was 101 Words). You write from a writerly POV, and it's very clear you're not about putting your life out there for others to envy. Silly girl. Now tell us, how was the Grand Canyon trip?
Lea, your postings not only bring pleasure, they bring hope to those whose lives aren't as full as yours. Life is full of ups and downs. We all just need to hold on tight when difficulties hit us and then let go shouting, screaming, and singing for joy when good times visit us again. Thank you for your thoughtfulness.
I love this piece. I especially love this paragraph: "My life has been filled with extremes of all sorts, from gigglingly great to desperately awful, and I’ve adapted to both, and tried to stay positive. Sometimes the glass was half-full and sometimes, like now, it's overflowing. But I have never felt it half-empty, even when it was."
Nancy, I try to keep it in perspective.

Stim, interesting that we share that experience. And I enjoy those writers, too.

Oh Gabby, thank you for that. That's exactly what I'm trying to do. I need to get past the over-thinking and just get to the writing, for writings sake.

Patricia, ups and downs are the themes of most of our lives. I prefer writing about the people and places that matter.
Write what ever you feel comfortable doing. Your past experiences in no way diminish or increase the current suffering or misfortunes of others.
I started out here posting stories about my travels, but quit because I realised very quickly no one beyond a very select few had any interest.
Susan, I agree that para is the heart of it.

Enemy of the State, I used to write loads of travel here, but I sensed it a bit much right now for OS. I shall mix it up and see. Some do enjoy it, some don't.
Don't stop a bit of your writing. As a fellow traveler I admire the spirit it takes to thrive in the unknown and frankly many times the uncomfortable. That's the thing. It's about being fully alive and we all need a bit of reminding as to what that is all about.
Thanks, Denese. You do feel fully alive when you travel.
I feel a little guilty and uptight about writing about my recent-year travels for the same reasons. Perhaps I should write about some of my hard times and long desperate years...but I don't feel like it: I feel like writing about my enjoyable experiences.
Very sensitive of you, Lea (not that that surprises me!). I've never felt you write in any way that feels inappropriate. I think you have explicitly stated that you feel fortunate to do all that you have done in your life but also it's always there between the lines in your gratitude and appreciation for what you've experienced. And I also definitely have read between the lines that you've had plenty of financial struggles in your life (you never complain about it, either). You seem to have experienced all extremes, both in childhood and ever since, and be sensitive to people in all situations, especially those who aren't well-off (actually, you only seem tough on the rich!).
You write about your travels with such wonder and enthusiasm that I don't think anyone would resent your ability to do so. In times of struggle, escapism via someone else's travels can be a welcome respite. At least your travel blogs have always felt that way to me.
Thank goodness for your writing. Its a good escape from my daily dull life.
I'd love to hear about your travels --- it's okay if you're not destitute as well...resentfulness comes from within and it's unfortunate when that poisonous eye is turned towards you.
I appreciate hearing about successes and blessings. : )
You don't need my permission to keep writing about travel, but you do have my blessing.
Myriad, I would encourage you to keep writing about your travels, as you did me.

Nelle, why am I not surprised that you analyze me so well?

Bell. thanks for being a loyal reader.

Just Thinking, I love your generous take on travel writing.
Thanks Lea, I needed a reminder today that things can change. And I look forward to reading your travel stories!
sixtycandles, I'll take that blessing.

Antoinette, you never know. Things change on a dime, from better to worse and even better, vice versa.
Lea ... first of all, you are a talented writer, regardless of the topic.

Second, I think writing is all about observing then sharing, albeit politics, people, places (and a bunch of other "Ps" I'll think of later). The point is you do this extremely well, and historically, you've done it on the platform of travel ... also extremely well.

Third, while the current economy may prohibit some from enjoying their own travel, I know many (including me) who would enjoy hearing of the people and places seen by others. In fact, currently, I am on an Anthony Bourdain kick, enjoying his descriptive words as much or more than the video he creates. You're in that league.

I told you when you married ... I hope you (and your hubby) continue to share your travels, no longer as a single "chic" but as a fully mature couple exploring the world together. Now that's a wndow I'd love to peek into. Do it! Please!
Rod, I guess I am throwing it out into the web for people like you. And I'm a Bourdain junkie too. The bad boy who can cook and write.
Thank you, Bonnie. I try to put it out there for others, not about me, even though I'm right there. Some time I will write about some of the fantasy -- but only because it is exactly that, and really over the top.
This really hits home, Lea, to tell you to truth. I also try to stay positive and wonder sometimes if it's all just too vapid for words, and I bleed for some of the pain and heartache that I read here. Thank you for this perspective.
Pilgrim, what can we do but keep on keeping on, trying to do the best we can?
This economy has made most of us nervous. When I read about travel it takes me back to the days when I could afford to go anywhere in the world. How lucky was I? Now, things have changed but I will never quit reading about the wonders of the world. Call it escapism? : )
I know a few entitled people who tell me things like, "you really should travel with a babysitter. It's SO worth it." (true story)

Lea, you are not like that. You are always very sensitive and full of wonder when you write about your travels. I enjoy your photos and your tone - and I am glad that your cup runneth over.
MAWB, and hopefully, the travels will return. There are ways if one really, really wants it.

Denise, I'm glad that I come across that way. I'll try to stay that way and get back to some travel tales you might enjoy.
Lea, I fully understand what you are saying and I love your writing and plan on following you wherever you go. I do a little travel writing for local publications, nothing grand but often write about places I visit just for fun. I'll be reading you in all the old familiar places! RRRRRR
Bernadine, I shall think of you as I write. Nice that you are doing some travel writing, too.
Love that you wrote this and look forward to more travel tales from the past, present and future.
Sandra, please come back more. We miss you.
I was thinking this exact same thing when I posted my latest on getting ready to go to Italy. What about the people who can't afford to do this? I couldn't afford to do if for years and years either in time, family committments, money, or any number of reasons, but as you point out - things change - circumstances of life change.
If you happen to be a travel writer, and a great writer as well, I say you go with your heart and go with your gift. it's up to the reader to take it in the spirit in which it is given. And your spirit, Lea, has never been of "one-upmanship" - just great stories I love to read.
Glad I'm not alone in feeling this, trilogy. The trouble is, it's been my life for 30 plus years. I'll deal with it.
I agree with Wolfman. You are a bright light in a sometimes dark world. I learn from your posts, and I feel better after reading them. Your cup runneth over -- may it always be so.
Back at you, Steve.
Lee, I implore you to not hold back! Your innate sensitivity and good judgement would allow you to share privileges you so deserve in a way that invites everyone along, away from the difficulty and drudgery of an inescapable reality and into a refreshing pause of mental lushness. And no matter how well intentioned, it is just a fact of life that not everyone can be pleased. But why let the sour spoil the sweet dish for the rest of us.
Thanks, Maria. I will remember what you said when I start again to write travel pieces. I hope you're right.
Far be it from me to tell you what to do, Lea . . . but I am going to suggest something anyway. Perhaps the world is a bit too much with you right now, although a little introspection now and again is a good thing.

Do not hold back. Write about your past pleasures in travel, a thing that you do quite well. What is that after all other than communication and sharing? Do not empower current travails by allowing them to inhibit you in that.
Brassawe, I just did. Let's see what happens.
Bali, Bonnie. I just posted!
Anyone who doesn't vicariously enjoy your vivid travel adventures as shared with us here is a sourpuss and not to be catered to. But it's sensitive of you to think of them.
There are loads of them on a big site like this, Hawley. But I will write what I know.
en ,through your article ,i seem go into an beautiful sense .it seem that i visit it myself.thank you ,give me chance to enjoy so beautiful sense.by the way do you love Gucci handbag?