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“I’ve discovered the secret of life,” Kay Thompson, the eccentric entertainer and “Eloise” author, once said. “A lot of hard work, a lot of sense of humor, a lot of joy and a lot of tra-la-la!” And that's been my life: As a travel writer for over 30 years, I've been around the block (more like around the world), and I write true stories about interesting people and places. I've lived an unconventional life in conventional trappings. Been a corporate VP, worked with foster kids, acted in an Indie ("Nurse 1"), was on Jeopardy!. I've been managing editor of a travel publication, written for the Times, and authored books. OS is my home, but I also blog on The Huffington Post, and I've contributed (mostly anonymously) to everything from encyclopedias to guidebooks. Married young, divorced late; married late, widowed early, I dated lots in-between -- and survived a scary illness. After being happily, peacefully solo for many years, I'm now happily married again. I founded and still edit www.sololady.com, a lifestyle Website for single women. I'm truly grateful for each precious day, each well-earned wrinkle, my family, my cat. Truth, laughter, friendship, late love. And this blog -- on this wonderful site!

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OCTOBER 24, 2010 2:21PM

Five Ways to Keep Mad Men in Our Lives

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For many of us, Sunday nights without Mad Men will be difficult. (And what about Monday mornings without Nelle’s analysis and commenting with other "madmenmaniacs"?) We'll have to wait many months to see if Megan really becomes Mrs. Draper, if the ad agency will prosper or fail,  if Sally and Glen will runaway and join a cult.

I offer five suggestions to ease our pain and keep MM in our lives. Please, use your clever brains and contribute others. We can use all the ideas we can get.

Throw a Mad Men Halloween party

For starters there’s still time to create a festive party with a Mad Men theme to keep the buzz going until the end of October. Some ideas: Bobbing for apples in a punchbowl of Seagram’s 7. Creating scary masks of Glen and Lane and a jilted Faye. Wearing a sheet with sunglasses and a wig as the ghost of Mrs. Blankenship. Another easy costume idea for women or men: Joan, with red wig, and red dress, over three well-placed balloons, emphasizing her pregnancy.

Substitute another TV show to analyze

Boardwalk Empire is perhaps the best possibility. True, Steve Buscemi as Nucky Thompson is no Jon Hamm as Don/Dick, but the HBO series set in the 1920s in Atlantic City during prohibition offers the same details of real time and place. The irony may be missing and the subtle symbolism, and the violence will remind you of The Sopranos, but maybe you could discuss the evolution of Al Capone and the pitfalls of abstinence, an inversion of Mad Men.

Other possible series to analyze: Breaking Bad? The Real Housewives Series? Dora the Explorer?

OK, I give up. Nothing compares to MM. 

Read. You remember?  b...o...o...k 

You now have an hour or two every Sunday to read. If you are too far-gone, try titles that may remind you of the series, including Little Women, Far from the Madding Crowd, and the Mad Woman of Chaillot. Seriously, Rona Jaffe’s book The Best of Everything is a great read from that era about office romance, where secretaries longed to marry their bosses.

Go back to the beginning

Remember during the first Mad Men seasons when every conversation wasn’t analyzed the next day and every look wasn’t interpreted? You could now return to the beginning of the series and after each show, analyze it with friends, aware of course of what will be coming in the future. Could be surreal fun. Also, note the progression of hairstyles, clothing, attitudes.

Create the Mad Men game

Think up questions, and challenge other "madmenmaniacs" in a trivia game. Sample questions, both easy and difficult:

How many brunettes, how many blondes and how many redheads has Don schtupped since the series began? (Also, any four-legged creatures? Inanimate objects?)  

She may look 27, but how old is Sally supposed to be in 1965?

What is Sally's friend Glen's last name? 

A hard one: The Sound and The Fury and Ship of Fools are books mentioned in the series. What are two others?

An easy one: What is the name of Don’s youngest child? 

You get the idea. All of these kinds of facts can be googled. Play along, fill your Sundays with fun, and next year it will be 1966 in Mad Men time!

 

 

 

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I admit it. I am a madmenmaniac.
Lea, I wanted to comment but I've never seen the show. I know I'm a big weirdo. Have a fun Halloween!
Lea, I wanted to comment but I've never seen the show. I know I'm a big weirdo. Have a fun Halloween!
My favorite TV night is Sunday - because Desperate Housewives is followed by Brothers and Sisters. But then I've always loved soap operas, especially when so well acted by such appealing pros.
Well thank you for commenting, B. And you are NOT a big weirdo!

Hawley, I go for the "reality" soaps, except for MM. Interesting how we differ there.
We had a sad little "Oh no" moment when we realizd it wouldn't be there tonight. Like Hawley, I have my Sunday night soaps to keep me warm but Mad Men is 100x better !
What is Sally's friend Glen's last name?

Bishop
Well, shows you what a madmenmanic I am...I didn't know they were on Hiatus. I DVR it every Sunday night and then never get around to watching. So, guess that's good news for me. I'll just watch R-E-A-L-L-Y slowly. thanks for the heads up Lea.
i've already got the shakes, lea, from withdrawal. i told my husband, as the credits rolled, "that's the last one." he said, "until when?" (i think he wants a precise date since the sopranos restarts were always so 'well, not quite ready yet.'

love the disguise/costume idea. i call dibs on suave roger 'cuz my hair's the right color. ;;
I only watched it once. My allergy to cigarette smoke triggered watery eyes and a dry throat just watching the TV! I can appreciate the vibe the show brings, though! R
Maybe what I will do is rent the series and start from scratch since I've not seen Mad Men (well, I tried one or two but I was too confused). You've made this show sound very appealing. My big question, though, is are you watching Real Housewives of Beverly Hills???
Lea, I try not to think about waiting nearly a year for Mad Men's return. Thanks for offering a few coping strategies. Of your reading list, I've only read The Mad Woman of Chaillot. Some of the others look very interesting, especially The Best of Everything. I may just order that one today.

I'm also a "Boardwalker"; already deeply engaged with Bushemi's Nucky Thompson. The violence can get a little rough at times, but just as with the Sopranos you tolerate the ugly in exchange for great storytelling. I usually close my eyes on the brutal stuff anyway .

Madmenmaniacs unite!
Hhhmmm, let me think on how many women for Don ... I'll need more than two hands I think. Gene, the little feller's name is Gene.

p.s. I did spend part of today reading a book!
Nancy and Mary, I can't get into soaps, but I do get into Real Housewives, A very dirty pleasure, for whatever reason.

Brian, I think it's Glen Bishop.

I envy you, trilogy. You have lots of fun ahead.

Candace, you can have Roger. I'll take... good grief, I have no idea.

Libmomr, I hear you. But I still dig it.

BB, I think Boardwalk is great. It just doesn't engender the symbols and discussion of MM. And yes, the violence is off-putting. But I think it's about the best of the rest.
I can't even watch Boardwalk as a substitute for the Sopranos! I'm with Mary, I'm going to start from the beginning. You DO make it sound so appealing.

If you can spare some time for a book, I've got some recommendations!

D
Are you sure that promoting "Mad-Men" is what the Ed I tor had in mind for the "Sanity" theme?
Scarlett, yes it's Gene. And Can you categorize the women by hair color?

Denese, actually just finished a book called Room. Very interesting and short-listed for the Booker. See, I don't always watch reality shows and MM!

Fred, more likely for the scary theme!
The first step to recovery is admitting you have a problem LOL

Darn fun to read....great stuff!!
I admit it! I have a problem! Withdrawal is not easy...Be kind.
Oh, I am totally on the page. So, kindness you shall definitely be given.
Since I'm in bed Sunday nights at 10, I always taped the show, so I can't say it's thrown a monkey wrench into my schedule. Truth is, I tape nearly everything playing at 10 so I can know what I'm doing on Saturday night--LOL

R for imagination
Good ideas but nothing, nothing will help me tonite. I miss that big hunk Don and just hope Megan can be nice to him. Isnt that all he really wants is someone to care?
Tamar (whom I think you met at Mohonk w me) thanks you!!! r.
Thanks, Richard. I appreciate that.

Why am I not surprised at your cleverness, Nikki?

Zanelle, I have no idea right now what Don is thinking. And we shall have to wait till next year to find out.

Jonathan, be extra kind to Tamar. It will be hard for awhile.
well, of course I loved this, and thanks for the shout-out, Lea. Personally, I'm going to deal with the season ending...by going to sleep before 5 AM tonight. Hey, it works for me!

And I agree about not over-analyzing every last detail in the show. Who the hell would want to do that vs just enjoying watching it? Oh, wait....

But the best way to deal with the hiatus is obvious: Drink! To me, the funniest thing about the show was always those AMC plugs for their Mad Men cocktail features that would come on right after you saw a scene of someone ruining their life due to drinking.
Whatever you say, Nelle. You deserve a rest and as many drinks as possible, every Sunday night until the new season!
Mad Men isn't on tv out here on the satellite channels we have. I'd fail miserably at this game. However, Steve Buscemi is pretty cool.
Lea ... Kilroy was here! o_o

I read this because you wrote it; can't offer a thing beyond that. My Sunday nights belong to the NFL (for now) and HBO the rest of the time; it's their best program night. Besides, obviously I am a sucker for initials. {{R}}
Guys, try it next season. You might like it!
Hi Lea, just stopping by to say hi, lived a kind of madmen life, short 10 years, seventies, but had two older siblings in the thick of it. One woman one man, what stories. Don't do this series. Just not into it that much, I'm weird huh? Glad you enjoy it, many, many, many people do. the hiatus was all over my facebook this weekend.....people miss their fix.
Sheila, I really appreciate that you just "stopped by." Kind of you!
I don't have access to the show but I have taken to doing Netflix marathons with some of the shows I miss and I like the continuity. I'll put this one on my list.
Continuity is the ideal way to go, sophie. I hate the dribs and drabs.
I've heard so much about this series that I'm going to catch up via Netflix (We don't subscribe to the channel -- Showtime, I believe?) Same way with "The Tudors." I watched on Netflix. The Tudors might be a good substitution. Lots of sex. With added beheadings.
I'm having a hard time being cut off cold turkey like this. Here's a really obscure question, if someone feels like running it down. I was watching "Chinatown" again (love it), and the assistant water commissioner's secretary looks an awful lot like Mrs. Blankenship. No kidding.
Boardwalk Empire is indeed a distinct possibility. I am getting hooked.
Bell, beheadings are something MM may not have.

Hells Bells, the actress may very well be Ronnie something (can't remember her name). She is in her 60s now and very attactive when not in costume.

CD, me too!
Baby Gene will be in the 3rd grade by the time they get back. (He's the fastest growing baby in Hollywood this season).
Allow me to recommend HBO's In Treatment, back for a third magnificent year.

I loved it when it was placed in a Maryland suburb and even more now, in Brooklyn. A month or two ago, a scene was shot around the corner from where I live. The main character, an Irish shrink, looked as dour between takes as he does during takes. And why not? The shrink's heavily invested in his patients' troubles. And Ireland's current economic strangulation is enough to drive anyone to drink--or to emigrate to Brooklyn.
Yes, baby Gene is growing fast, Gabby.

And Leon, I will try the Irish shrink. I could use him!
Been trying to get to this for 3 days. Ah, at last. I love the show and have found a few good ideas for dealing with the void through the winter. I also have one (typically) surreal suggestion, but only for those who watch the show: Pick up a copy of "Putney Swope" and try to imagine it as an extended episode of Mad Men. There are possibilites here, and the timeline is creeping up on Swope time anyway. Hey, it could happen. (What, I'm not saying. Either you know about Swope or you don't). Blasphemy? Naw! Truth and Soul! And you're appreciate the return of Draper et al that much more when the new season starts next year. ;)
AJ! How creative of you. I may have read Putney Swope years ago, but I'm afraid I do not remember. Will check it out. Many thanks for this most intellectual suggestion of all.