Lea Lane

Lea Lane
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“I’ve discovered the secret of life,” Kay Thompson, the eccentric entertainer and “Eloise” author, once said. “A lot of hard work, a lot of sense of humor, a lot of joy and a lot of tra-la-la!” And that's been my life: As a travel writer for over 30 years, I've been around the block (more like around the world), and I write true stories about interesting people and places. I've lived an unconventional life in conventional trappings. Been a corporate VP, worked with foster kids, acted in an Indie ("Nurse 1"), was on Jeopardy!. I've been managing editor of a travel publication, written for the Times, and authored books. OS is my home, but I also blog on The Huffington Post, and I've contributed (mostly anonymously) to everything from encyclopedias to guidebooks. Married young, divorced late; married late, widowed early, I dated lots in-between -- and survived a scary illness. After being happily, peacefully solo for many years, I'm now happily married again. I founded and still edit www.sololady.com, a lifestyle Website for single women. I'm truly grateful for each precious day, each well-earned wrinkle, my family, my cat. Truth, laughter, friendship, late love. And this blog -- on this wonderful site!

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JUNE 5, 2011 5:48PM

My Little Travel Tips, A-Z, UPDATED

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Summer's here and lots of us will be traveling, whether near or far. I wrote these succinct, sensible, alphabetical bits of travel advice especially for solos, but they apply to any traveler.

Please feel free to add your own tips, in the same alpha style, and I'll add them to the text and credit you. We all have some.

 

Ask directions! (That goes for you men, as well.)

 OEsheepdog

 

 

 

 

 

Avoid DVT. That's deep vein thrombosis, a blood clot which can be fatal, and you can get it from being cramped for hours in a plane seat. Get up, move around in your seat, and wear knee-high elastic stockings/socks (about $8 in a drugstore and often available at the airport). They're not cute, but I wear them under pants and nobody sees them. (Also, be sure to move around, either in your seat or take walks every hour or so. Wendy O)

 

 

 

Bring a book or DVD you love. And if you have an iPad or Kindle, great. And if you bring a laptop, the lighter the better. Wendy O

 

Be Polite. There's often a love-hate feeling towards tourists and politeness can tip the balance. Abrawang

Bring photos. Of loved ones, to keep you smiling.

Carry-On, with wheels. It's always better, but when you're on your own, it's imperative. You probably need half of what you pack, and a carry-on with wheels and a backpack can take you around the world. And in today's ever-changing world of airport security checks, be up-to-date on what you can carry on!

Carry some paper towels or tissues. Now and then the toilet paper might be lacking. Abrawang

 

 

Choose clothing that cleans easilyYou want to be able to wash them out in the sink and to dry overnight in your hotel bathroom. Choose colors that disguise or hide spills. Nothing ruins your image faster than spilling your coffee first thing in the morning and having to wear those clothes all day long until you reach your hotel again.  dianaani   

Convert. Be sure to have the right converter(s) for any electronics you bring. mypsyche

Don't be afraid to make a fool of yourself. And when you do, don't get upset. Find the humor in it and laugh. Procopius  

Don't TALK LOUDER to get foreign language speakers to better understand you. Abrawang

Double-check. Being on your own means you're responsible for just about every decision, so you don't want to make mistakes. For example, when you're leaving a hotel room, look again. When you're reading a map, check your route --twice. Better to be safe.

Engage others. Ask questions. You'll meet more people that way.

Find a home base to eat. When you're on your own, it's nice to choose a restaurant or cafe to return to each night, and even a favorite waitperson to talk to.

Fix things ahead. When you're traveling you don't want to deal with luggage that doesn't zip, clothes missing buttons, and other odds and ends.

Get travel insurance. Especially for trips far away, you don't want to take a chance!

Go off-season. Fewer crowds, better choices in lodging and restaurants, more real, good rates.

Hide your valuables. Wear a pouch around your neck, under your clothes. Better yet, don't take anything you don't want to lose.

Inns and small hotels--think small. When you're on your own, small lodgings are great ways to make friends.

Join a group. Whether for a half-day tour or your entire trip, you can join others for companionship.

Keep a journal. Writing, sketches, photos, whatever. Collect them together, easy to reach, in chronological order and you'll have priceless memories and mementos to pass along.

Leave info with family and friends. So that they can contact you and know where you are. Leave pills in their original container, with the label on. FusunA 

Learn the Language! Even if only "please" and "thank you," "How tasty!" "Yes" and "No." People appreciate your effort. Abrawang

Learn the local currency. It will save fumbling around in shops and markets and makes you less prone to being taken advantage of.Abrawang

Memories are great --take photos, record sounds. Especially when you're on your own, these mean alot.

Note details. When you're traveling alone, nobody else will point them out.

Offer to take photos. You often see people taking photos of each other who'd rather have photos taken of both/all of them together. Your chance to do a good deed, and to have a nice moment and maybe even make a travel acquaintance. (And if they offer to take a photo of you? Well, I 'd hand over my camera only if they have one that's as good or better! :>) )

Prepack basics. Keep a kit of toiletries and other necessities that you usually need when you go. Silly to have to pack them each time.

Prepare. When you're going it alone, it's especially important to have as much info about where you'll be going as possible. This saves time, stress -- and leads to more possibilities.

Prevent Problems. Photocopy your passport, itinerary, and emergency contact numbers. Put those copies in a separate place, in case of loss of the originalsdianaani  (Or, scan and send it to yourself on yahoo and then if it's lost the photocopy is never more than a computer away. Linda Chancler.) 

Question. That's the easiest way to start a conversation.

Read the local newspapers. Many cities have English language ones or there's the International Herald Tribune. You'll feel more a part of the place. Abrawang

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Read up on wherever you're visiting. Tourist guidebooks and local histories both serve useful purposes.

 

Reserve tables through a concierge. You'll get better ones.

Save your old and tattered underware instead of tossing it. Bring it with you and discard as it gets 

used. rosycheeks

 

 

 

Sense the Sun.  Sun can be stronger than you are used to. Pack hat, shirt, and slacks made of SPF30+ fabric (see http://www.sunprecautions.com). You'll be stylin' and it's so much easier (and cooler) than applying creams. dianaani

 

Smile. It helps in all ways.

Stave off seasickness! (See Inverted's long comment below in the comments section!)

Stay alert. Vacationers are often targets for theft and assault. Don't leave your common sense at home. Donna Carbone

Stay near your interests. If you're going to a concert, or shopping, or spending time at museums, choose a lodging where you'll be close by. This is especially convenient at night.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Study the local map(s). In big cities it helps you get oriented. Abrawang

Take the stairs. Travel means indulging, and there's not always time for walks, swims or gyms. So take the stairs instead of elevators, and you compensate for those extra calories. I prefer non-enclosed, pleasant stairs, and small hotels are more likely to have these.

Use a cell. It's important to stay in touch. And learn the emergency number equivalent of 911.

Use safety deposit boxes. If there's no in-room safe. Be sure to ask.

Vitamins and veggies -- down 'em daily. Two ways to stay healthy on the road. But aim for peeled or cooked veggies, or wash them carefully, if raw.

Write down PIN numbers somewhere safe, and bring. If you remember PINs only as words, remember that foreign banks may not match up to North American bank machines. FusunA 

Wash your hands. You're touching who knows what, so wash up. I carry anti-bacterial gel or wipes, just in case. No need to get sick going solo, and hand-washing is a proven health-maintainer.

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ater, water, water --carry it. Preferably bottled. 

Wear sunglasses while you eat alone. It glams you up, and you can look around without people realizing it. A winner.

X-rays, meds -- prep. Arrive prepared and healthy, with all needed tests, vaccinations, and extra meds. It's no fun to be sick on the road, so head it off.

Yoghurt --eat in some form. I usually spoon some up for breakfast while I'm traveling. Sometimes I enjoy yoghurt as a smoothie or a snack. Something about the bacteria breakdown, but I think it helps keep my stomach calm.

Zoos zing -- enjoy. So do other animal situations, such as safaris or snorkeling. You can commune with the animals for as long as you want, one on one. One of my favorite solo things.

 

 


 

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Great tips Lea.. I suffer with this first one (swelling) on my annual 4 day bus trip. I might try knee highs this years
Some great tips here, Lea. Thank you. -R-
Great tips and I love how you've organized these, Lea. And wouldn't these make a great chapter for the book? (ahem)
Linda, the swelling is a sign that you should wear some elastic socks, and also move your feet around. Can be dangerous if it's several hours of cramped travel.
Go look at my latest blog - there's me - in elastic socks!
Great tips Lea. I really like the sunglasses one! People watching without anyone knowing.
Thanks! very timely as I'm leaving for two weeks in France a month from today. =o)

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Nikki, these tips were adapted from Solo Traveler, so already done!

Elastic socks come in black and men and women can both wear them.They're not bad, Trilogy.

Have fun, Shiral. Sounds delish.

Have fun,
DVT scares me
plastic hotel keys confuse me
i love vanilla yogurt
i need a vacation
Lea, what a service you've provided here--some things I've learned the hard way and some I hadn't thought of. I'm unnaturally attached to my sunglasses anyway so I had that one covered. Definitely the most valuable tip for me was about the hotel keys. It never occurred to me that my personal info could be accessed through them. Thanks for that!

I wish I had this list a few years ago. I was such a hopeless rube the first few times I traveled abroad...probably still am. I just think of myself as more sophisticated now ;)
I second the yogurt tip. I make sure to drink Diet Coke and eat yogurt every single day when I'm traveling, whether domestically or abroad, based on a tip I got from a pediatrician I worked for years ago. Great tips, Lea! Travel insurance? I married my husband because he failed to buy any, so in at least that one instance, I'm glad he didn't.
What a great idea, Lea! I learned some good ideas, and thought of some of my own rules to add to yours:

C - Choose Clothing that can be washed out in the sink and will dry overnight in your hotel bathroom. Choose colors that disguise or hide spills. Nothing ruins your image faster than spilling your coffee first thing in the morning and having to wear those clothes all day long until you reach your hotel again.

L - Learn the Language! Even if only Please and Thank you, How tasty! Yes and No. People appreciate your effort.

Prevent Problems - Photocopy your passport, itinerary, and emergency contact numbers. Put those copies in a separate place, in case of loss of the originals.

S - Sun can be stronger than you are used to. Pack hat, shirt, and slacks made of SPF30+ fabric (see http://www.sunprecautions.com). You'll be stylin' and it's so much easier (and cooler) than applying creams.
all good, and of course they would be - you've had more experience than the lot of us combined! love your style, ms. lea - and the sunglasses when dining alone is sooooo true.
We need to the zoo and talk to the animals. I like zebras.
great advice. I also do what dianaani does: photocopy my docs, and bring quick dry no fuss items to wear.
with the destruction to my lymphatic system, I have to manage leg swelling on a daily basis. I just fround Reflexa Travel Socks which offer graduated pressure which is what you really want. Plus the socks are made with celliant, reported to increase circulation. I bought them from a doctor at Doc's Socks LLC. Very comfortable! I was also taught by a doctor to simply point and flex my feet to work the calf muscles which are the pumps of the lymphatic system. This simple movement, easy to do i an airplane seat, helps reduce swelling. I spend at least 70% of any flight standing up and stretching - it helps make others feel comfortable to do so too!
Love em! Love to travel! Great stuff! thanks thanks thanks!
I just got back from a frequent trip to europe. I did eat yoghurt and cerial before taking a ferry in the north sea. I got sick. Very sick. along with most. was it not enough yoghurt or the 100mph winds and rough seas?
I just got back from a frequent trip to europe. I did eat yoghurt and cerial before taking a ferry in the north sea. I got sick. Very sick. along with most. was it not enough yoghurt or the 100mph winds and rough seas?
wschanz, yogurt will not help you with motion sickness; it serves another purpose entirely.
Outstanding list Lea. Re the valuables, many hotels have safety deposit boxes if there's no in-room safe. Be sure to ask.

At the first opportunity, get out all the local currency - paper and coins, and learn it. It will save fumbling around in shops and markets and makes you less prone to being taken advantage of.

Study the local map(s). In big cities it helps you get oriented.

Carry some paper towels or kleenexes. Now and then the toilet paper might be lacking.

Read up on wherever you're visiting. Tourist guidebooks and local histories both serve useful purposes.

Always be polite. There's often a love-hate feeling towards tourists and politeness can tip the balance.

Don't TALK LOUDER to get foreign language speakers to better understand you.

Try to read the local newspapers. Many cities have English language ones or there's the International Herald Tribune. You'll feel more a part of the place.
I think you've got them all down! There probably aren't too many more who have traveled more than you have! Thanks.
Thank you all, as usual for kind words.. Hope some of the tips are useful.

And Kathy, thanks for clearing that up about yoghurt. It does not help with motion sickness.

And dianaani and Abrawang, special thanks. I added your entries to the post.
And don't be afraid to make a fool of yourself, and when you do, don't get upset, find the humor in it and laugh.
T -- Take a moment. Too many vacations involve rushing from point A to B to C to D, just trying to see everything. Instead of stressing about getting to the next "must see," find a cafe, a park bench, just some place to sit and appreciate where you are and all that's around you. It's great for people watching, too.

W -- Walk. The best way to learn a new city or any area in general is to walk in, around, and through it. You'll see more, find a nook to explore that you'd miss otherwise, and simply feel more a part of wherever you are.
Lea, was so glad to see this on FB. I will add the things that are good to do but also hard:
--those walks-- around airplanes--- seem to annoy everyone even though it's common knowledge that we should do so. I do so anyway but not nearly as much as I'd like.

---Okay women, Clothes! I never pack just a few though I wear two outfits, maybe three on any trip of any length. What is that awful mimdset that makes me pack two full bags? Anyone else have this disorder? The one that whispers 'you never know whom you'lll meet or that you'll extend yr stay? Crazy bec. should either happen you can always shop for what's missing.
---This is an add on. Bring one book you know you'll love and a DVD also to get through unanticapted long waits. I once read "For Love " by Sue Miller from JFK to landing in England.
___but of course most of you have kindles and the like and small laptops are best, without small printers. You can print once at home.

----Last: I wear a small bag around my neck for carrying passport tickets or ticket Locator numbers, credit cards, amd passport. This object keeps me calmer when going from door to security to the airplane which can be a confusing sequence. Thanks Lea, wish I could do each and every instead of most. Timely post as I fly home tonight Paris to JFK.
Very good tips, and I especially feel like all of those related to communicating with locals - including at least learning basic words in their language, like "Please," "Thank you," etc., is excellent.
Lea ~ Having spent many years sailing boats all over the world, I can offer some advice regarding motion sickness for travelers on the sea.

Before boarding: do not drink coffee or any beverage overly sweet, highly caffeinated, or aggresive in nature. Do not gorge or eat a huge meal. Eat like a baby, meaning; mild foods only.

After boarding and under way: Eat only just enough to satisfy the craving, no more. Eat in small amounts. Take frequent naps and you will enjoy the awake time more. For most people it will take approximately three days at sea to become more or less truely accustomed to the motion and be able to vary their diet (for this reason a 10 day charter minimum, is much more worthwhile than anything less).

Simple, tried and true seasickness remedies: 1. A small wedge of lime (the green one!) licked or just sniffed gently. 2. Just a grain or two of salt touched to the tip* of the tongue. This last is interesting because you will find that there are different spots (for different people) on the tongue, that are sensitive to the results. Ear plugs (even just a bit of tissue in the ears) can be very valuable, as the hearing becomes very acute during seasickness and the increased volume of noise apparent to the sufferer, further exacerbates the malady. Clean the ears once in awhile because with the increase in motion comes a noticeable increase in the production of earwax.

Seasickness must be treated as serious business by the captain and crew, as the person affected (especially if inexperienced or a complete novitiate at sea) can exhibit (and is often experiencing) symptoms analogous to someone extremely inebriated or narcotized (while at the same time attempting to hide their condition out of embarrassment) and may, variously, exhibit behaviours ranging from zombieism (like sleep walking) to extreme panic (wanting to jump overboard and swim for the nearest shore).

Lastly: don't be ashamed to let it all go...! But when you do, please, do it to leward (not to windward!) and make sure you hold onto something tight as you do it!

Saludos ~ hope this is helpful.
Thank you all for your help.

Inverted, thank you especially! It's so long that I will just leave it in comments.
Stay alert! Vacationers are often targets for theft and assault. Don't leave your common sense at home when you travel.
R
Thanks, Donna. I added your advice.
Thanks for the tips, Lea.

*I learned that if one is taking prescription medication, to leave the pills in their original container with the label on.
*If you remember your PIN for debit cards as words, write their numerical equivalents somewhere safe to avoid translating the word to numbers, since European numerical set up doesn't match the North American bank machines.
♥R
Good advice Lea. All of it ... coming back from a long road trip ... especially No #1. My little feet were on the dashboard half the way home. By the way, I think DVT happens when one is too long at the computer too. ;)
Here's a tip I learned just this past week in Paris. Bring some moleskin and a small cuticle scissors to cut it to fit. Even my well- worn sandals caused blisters and sore spots because I walked further and longer than I ever do in real lilfe.
Thanks Fusan and Dolly. And glad you all are keeping them coming.
Also, don't forget to ensure you have the right converter(s) for any electronics you bring (she says with rueful recently acquired knowledge).
Ask for directions.
Just added your two entries!
All these are great, but the new one for me is wearing sunglasses when eating alone. That's a great idea and I eat alone often.

Lezlie
It's amazing how sunglasses can make you feel special and glamorous when eating on your own. People will be looking at you to figure who you are, and you can have fun with that.
Great idea, Lea, and good advice from all.
I didn't realize that about the hotel key cards!

And good info about DVT. My husband has protein S deficiency, which he discovered after a week-long hospital stay for pneumonia. He was unknowingly a prime candidate for DVT and it could have happened at any time! Our daughter has it as well, and has to avoid any birth control with estrogen and also has to be aware of her increased risk for blood clots. I wonder how many people out there are similarly unaware until...
Lea, great ideas for us all -- thanks! The idea that plastic hotel keys are a personal info risk, however, has been thoroughly debunked here: http://www.snopes.com/crime/warnings/hotelkey.asp
Bell, I never heard about this. Elastic socks, indeed.

Mike, thank you! I am removing the tip.
i was tired last night.

are you suggesting yogurt instead of the daily does of malox to coat the stomach in an effort to ward off food borne illness? That is why I developed the habit of having it for breakfast along with cereal rather than anything fresh or cooked.

you are very right that it was not a deterant to that ferry ride's motion sickness. I should have known how the gale wind values related to MPH before I got on!

As we were landing in Ullapool we were told that the trains and carrageways were all closed due to high winds.
Lea - making my first trip to London/Paris/Scotland in Sept. Thanks for helping me not be so stressed and for giving me the common sense my excitement tends to make disappear... Elastic socks are on my list now, and I'm scanning copies of everything to my laptop!
Great piece. I also put duct tape or I tape a business card over the hotel door peephole. Very useful for a woman traveling alone.
Can people look IN the peephole? For some reason I thought they couldn't.
Save up your old and tattered underwear instead of tossing it. Bring it with you and discard as it gets used and then have some fun shopping for new stuff if you are away long enough to need it. Saves toting those plastic bags of dirty underpants around and you get to SHOP in a foreign place which is fun. It was really helpful when I traveled with kids since the dirty stuff accumulated very quickly.
Great advice and I love that you included other's!!
R
Thanks, rosycheeks and Susie.
Some great ideas I never would have thought of - thanks! If I ever travel again, I will have this list handy.
Great list. I'll add, Bring your own pillow! I can't sleep without mine.
TIP: Print this excellent list and put a copy in your carry-on. Read it when you start to pack and keep it in your suitcase, backpack, or handbag as you travel.
I'm late to this post, Lea. I am happy to see that your travel philosophy apparently covers places off the beaten track. Travel to most First World locales (such as in Western Europe) don't need these travel tips. There is a whole world out there that we should experience, and we can, despite the minor inconveniences, particularly if we follow your practical advice. Bravo.