Lea Lane
- Location
- Florida, USA
- Birthday
- August 26
- Title
- freelance writer/editor
- Bio
- “I’ve discovered the secret of life,” Kay Thompson, the eccentric entertainer and “Eloise” author, once said. “A lot of hard work, a lot of sense of humor, a lot of joy and a lot of tra-la-la!”
And that's been my life: As a travel writer for over 30 years, I've been around the block (more like around the world), and I write true stories about interesting people and places.
I've lived an unconventional life in conventional trappings. Been a corporate VP, worked with foster kids, acted in an Indie ("Nurse 1"), was on Jeopardy!.
I've been managing editor of a travel publication, written for the Times, and authored books. OS is my home, but I also blog on The Huffington Post, and I've contributed (mostly anonymously) to everything from encyclopedias to guidebooks.
Married young, divorced late; married late, widowed early, I dated lots in-between -- and survived a scary illness. After being happily, peacefully solo for many years, I'm now happily married again.
I founded and still edit www.sololady.com, a lifestyle Website for single women. I'm truly grateful for each precious day, each well-earned wrinkle, my family, my cat. Truth, laughter, friendship, late love. And this blog -- on this wonderful site!
MY RECENT POSTS
- A Sad Parallel: Reflecting on
the Suicide of Mary Kennedy
May 17, 2012 11:26PM - Wild Hair on Wild Hatch: A
Sassoon Moment
May 09, 2012 10:38PM - Two Dog Years
April 18, 2012 03:04PM - Bits & Pieces
March 28, 2012 02:56PM - Bandstand & The Headband
April 19, 2012 08:34AM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “The tone is authentic
and the scene sad. But real.
So
real.”
9:38PM - “I remember that term
started a dozen years or so,
ago. Like
"baby
bump"…”
1:52PM - “How wonderful this is,
Deborah. I felt I was there:
the time,
the heat, the
viewp…”
1:43PM - “Audabon has nothing on
you. Lovely!!”
1:14PM - “Was so touched by this
video, and you put it into
even
greater context. As
anothe…”
1:13PM
Lea Lane's Links
- LINKS
- -MY SON'S MEMOIR, THE ZEROES, Now in Paperback
- -CLICK HERE TO AID FAMINE VICTIMS IN SOMOLIA
- -MY WEBSITE FOR SOLO WOMEN
- Favorite THINGS posts
- -A-Z Travel Tips
- -My Last Meals
- -Poem:This Golden Moment
- -Scars
- -Eating Blind
- -I'm a Mad Men Gal
- -The Anniversary I'll Never Forget
- -My Son Lost His Shirt and Found The Zeroes!
- -10 Books in a Blink
- -How Unrelated Symptoms Saved My Life
- -Yeats/Torture
- -Is Empathy a Pejorative?
- -Media Vultures on Death Watch
- -Has America Jumped the Shark?
- -Why I Stay Here
- -A White-Knuckle Landing
- -15 ways to Cut Back
- -Birth & Death: The Circle of Life
- -Fear of Flying & My Near Misses
- -Waiting for the Blood Test
- -When a Post Goes Viral
- -25 Things About Me
- -I Don't Celebrate Christmas
- -A Scary Dream
- -Racing at 150 mph!
- -Quarantined on Thanksgiving
- -Musings, 3 am
- -Remembering Racism
- -Problems with August
- -Losing a Dream, Losing a House
- Favorite FUN posts
- -Why My Cat Sits Joins Us at Dinner
- -Five Ways to Keep Mad Men
- -The Weirdest Meat I Ever Ate
- -"Independents" Day!
- -Real Lessons from The Real Housewives
- -Another Husband for a Minute
- -Joan Walsh, Where are You?
- -Monkey Business!
- -10 Unexpected Bonuses from Health Reform
- -About My Bidet
- -What Happened in Vegas?
- -No Sex & 9 Other Ways to Spring Ahead
- -To Suzy: It's Over
- -Valentine Poem for Sweetie
- -Why Bill Maher is Angry
- -iPuke? iPeek?
- -The Embarrassing Things in My Purse
- -Resolutions I Will NOT Make
- -Ode to My Tweezers
- -Ode to a Groundhog
- -My Reality TV Addiction
- -I Got Published in the New Yorker
- -Broccoli Obama
- -101 Words: He Never Calls, He Never Writes
- -I'm Not Who You Think I Am
- Favorite PEOPLE posts
- -The Reality of Ramona
- -Happy First Anniversary, Love
- -Messages from the Donald
- -The Bellman With Tourettes
- -Elvis Trivia
- -The Woman Who Slept with Rohairmoo
- -Chelsea Clinton & Moi
- -What Fay Vincent Told Me about Steinbrenner
- -Why I Didn't Love Daddy
- -A Play Connects to Famous People I've Known
- -Remembering Rue McClanahan
- -My Son Just Married Me!
- -Rick Died & I Was There for Him
- -For Nathan, Who Was only Two
- -Unexpected Lovers at Passover
- -Six Degrees of Separation
- -Porn King, Coke Prez, Murderer
- -My 2000 NYT Interview
- -My Man in Rio
- -You Caught Me, I'm in Love
- -Dumped By Answering Machine
- -My Best Friend Ended Her Life at 37
- -to lea at 17
- -Phyllis Schlafly Drooled on Me
- -Best in Show? Not This Lover
- -The Man Who Met Einstein
- -The Sahalis: Symbol of a Decade?
- -To My Sister, On a Big Birthday
- -My Birthday/Blogiversary
- -Mad Men: When My Bosses Were My Lovers
- -Julia (and Other Famed Chefs)
- -A Nice Jewish Girl Named for a Racetrack
- -A Conehead at the Fair: A Summer Tale
- -Anne Frank Would Have Been 80
- -Did I Really Just Tell You That?
- -Becoming Invisible
- -Elizabeth Edwards, Joan Rivers: Two Moms
- -My Surprising Talk With a Naked Actor
- -Why I'm Alone
- -Kate Winslet and Other (Drama) Queens
- -My Valentine Lover, 2006
- -My Life in 100 Words
- -One Snowy Dud, One Sexy Stud
- -My Gender Bender, Victor-Victoria Cruise
- -How I Wound Up in Claus Von Bulow's Apartment
- -To Odetta
- -My Late-in-Life Love
- -An Ugly Duckling OS Tale
- -To My Neighbor Hillary
- -OJ: You're Finally Juiced
- -On Being Single
- -Wisdom from a Hooker
- -The Seeing-Eye man
- -Two Weddings and a Funeral
- -Ted Kennedy's Brave Fight, and My Husband's
- -Dinner with Hill and Bill
- -The Abuser
- Favorite PLACES posts
- -Four-Part Antarctica Series
- -Keukenhof garden, Amsterdam
- -Belgian Spring
- -Mugged in Stockholm
- -A Life Along I-95
- -A Magic Invite to Firenze
- -On New Zealand's Milford sound
- -Honeymoon Blip on the Black Sea
- -Eat, Pray, Scratch in Bali
- -Americana: Mohonk Then & Now
- -Scary Journey on the Norwegian Ferry
- -The World's Most Colorful Neighborhood
- -The Magical Slot Canyon
- -The Other Ground Zero
- -India Life Lessons
- -Wild Dogs in Romania
- -Flutterbies in the Amazon, & Leo
- -Blue Lights in Barcelona
- -Crossing the Atlantic
- -Two Faraway Thanksgivings, & What I Learned
- -Sabrina's Walk of Remembrance in NYC
- -South Beach: Hot & Cool
- -Watching Greenland Melt
- -Carnaval in Colombia
- -Alone on a Cliff
- -An Irish Ramble
- -Dramatic Polar Photos
- -Argentina: Penguins, Penguins, Penguins!
- -New York's High Line
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When I read of the suicide of Robert Kennedy Jr.'s wife Mary Richardson Kennedy, I thought of my best friend Delia, who took her life at the age of 37. Like Mary Kennedy, Delia was a privileged and beloved mot
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When I heard about Dick Clark's death I remembered how we all used to rush home from school, drop our books and sit in front of the tv watching the kids from Philly dance close and do the lindy on American Bandstand, the show he hosted five days a week.… Read full post »
Hunger is in the air: At the movies, with The Hunger Games. On TV with ads about a War on Hunger, as corporations such as Walmart are recognizing that one in six children in the US goes to bed hungry. And around the world, the percentage is much higher.
Like so… Read full post »

Sermeq Kujalleq, the much-discussed collapsing glacier in Greenland, from my boat. This is one of the major ice fields of the world, and has been shrinking rapidly. The ice around me seemed frighteningly softened, like ice cream.
(Photos taken by my Austrian travel companion, Katha… Read full post »

This particular Valentine's Day prompts me to express something I’ve wanted to shout from the rooftops for awhile now.
I realize more and more that late love can be just as romantic as young love. And I think what makes it especially precious is that you realize… Read full post »
Since 2001 I've lived on the 22nd floor of a condo in downtown Miami, my home in the sky. I came here from New York with my husband, who had just retired. Three months later he unexpectedly died. So I lived alone here, with my cat Sweetie, for almost 10 years until… Read full post »
Growing up, even though I seemed to make lots of friends I just figured they didn’t know the real me. That’s what my mother had been telling me during my childhood, over and over: “They don’t really know you. They don’t live with you.” I heard it so much… Read full post »
Folks, there's no "War on Christmas." Just ask those of us who don't really celebrate the holiday, the outsiders looking through window panes at everybody else celebrating inside.
This is a confusing season for many, maybe you too. It isn’t easy for those of us who never get c
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I recently saw two movies dealing with the end of the world -- Melancholia and Tree of Life. These artsy films sparked a remembrance of doomsday fears I once felt. Honestly, I often think of it when this time of year comes around.
What has come to be known as… Read full post »
Gilbert, Arthur and
Anna Schacht, my uncles and aunt
When I was a child, looking through a family album, I remember asking my mother why there was a face cut out of a photo of a little girl in a frilly dress standing next to my mother’s two… Read full post »
I've never written before about this. Perhaps it will trigger me getting to that memoir; it's all true, and unfolds-- slowly, steadily -- in almost mystifying ways.
The slim, dark-haired woman sitting at the table in the Westchester brasserie was reading Pride and Preju… Read full post »

Typhoons outside Philippines (ahooy.com)
Debate has ensued about “crying wolf” and the overhyped hurricane coverage. Here’s an example of the other extreme:
In the fall of 1989 I was living at a basic hotel near the airport, outside Manila. I was executi… Read full post »
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The official photo of the Virgin inaugural flight (flightglobal.com), June, 1984. Invited passengers, with Richard Branson on the far left. Can you spot me way in the back, at the top of the pyramid?
Sir Richard Branson's estate on his private Caribbean island just b… Read full post »

In this time of high unemployment it seems like an impossible idea to quit a seemingly ideal job when another isn't on the horizon. But 21 years ago I did. And that move gave me the chance to literally fly away, far beyond my wildest dreams.
It
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Egon
A couple of weeks ago, cruising around Scandinavia on the Italian ship MSC Poesia (“poetry” – can there be a lovelier name?), I met a brilliant and charming Swiss man, a tablemate at dinner named Egon who had booked passage on the ship f… Read full post »
Sometimes we need to get outside of ourselves to see who we really are.
Messages poured in from all over the world celebrating the election of Barack Obama as President of the United States. Can you remember his election night speech in Chicago, and the thrill of… Read full post »

Woody Allen’s newest film, Midnight in Paris has become a hit, on its way to becoming his highest grossing film ever. Which reminds me of another film that he made long ago, and my possible connection.
But let me first give you… Read full post »
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I never really understood my father. Daddy was a “professional gambler,” if betting daily on greyhounds and thoroughbreds could be considered a profession rather than an addiction. His mornings were spent at the desk in m… Read full post »
This Sunday, The Book of Mormon is a shoo-in to win the Tony award for best musical. I was just in NYC and if I had wanted to see the sold-out musical-comedy I could have purchased a scalped ticket for a thousand or so smackeroos. (I/… Read full post »

No, we're not holding hands, we're just relaxing. Ramona Singer looks surprised -- did she just see Jill Zarin?
I've been addicted to The Real Housewives series for several years now, but this year the meanness and vitriol seem to have gone wild. I just/… Read full post »

One of my last vacations with my husband Chaim Stern, not long before he died of cancer ten years ago, was an April trip which included the Keukenhof gardens outside of Amsterdam.
This April, 2011, two weeks before Easter, I returned to these fabled gardens, walking along… Read full post »


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One summer many years ago, when I was traveling with my husband and two small sons through Scandinavia, we overnighted in a campground outside of Stockholm.
Our Volkswagen camper’s top was popped up and my two little boys were still snoring… Read full post »
Years of poking about the world have rewarded me with precious items, and yes, tchotchkes (inexpensive "collectibles" in Yiddish, but hard to translate). I've grown to cherish most of them -- beyond the material to the memory.
And I can't imagine discarding them.
So many memories, through the years,… Read full post »
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