Lea Lane

Lea Lane
Location
Florida, USA
Birthday
August 26
Title
freelance writer/editor
Bio
“I’ve discovered the secret of life,” Kay Thompson, the eccentric entertainer and “Eloise” author, once said. “A lot of hard work, a lot of sense of humor, a lot of joy and a lot of tra-la-la!” And that's been my life: As a travel writer for over 30 years, I've been around the block (more like around the world), and I write true stories about interesting people and places. I've lived an unconventional life in conventional trappings. Been a corporate VP, worked with foster kids, acted in an Indie ("Nurse 1"), was on Jeopardy!. I've been managing editor of a travel publication, written for the Times, and authored books. OS is my home, but I also blog on The Huffington Post, and I've contributed (mostly anonymously) to everything from encyclopedias to guidebooks. Married young, divorced late; married late, widowed early, I dated lots in-between -- and survived a scary illness. After being happily, peacefully solo for many years, I'm now happily married again. I founded and still edit www.sololady.com, a lifestyle Website for single women. I'm truly grateful for each precious day, each well-earned wrinkle, my family, my cat. Truth, laughter, friendship, late love. And this blog -- on this wonderful site!

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MAY 18, 2012 12:18AM

A Sad Parallel: Reflecting on the Suicide of Mary Kennedy

 
 
 
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When I read of the suicide of Robert Kennedy Jr.'s wife Mary Richardson Kennedy, I thought of my best friend Delia, who took her life at the age of 37. Like Mary Kennedy, Delia was a privileged and beloved mot

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APRIL 19, 2012 9:33AM

Bandstand & The Headband

 

When I heard about Dick Clark's death I remembered how we all used to rush home from school, drop our books and sit in front of the tv watching the kids from Philly dance close and do the lindy on American Bandstand, the show he hosted five days a week.… Read full post »

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APRIL 11, 2012 11:01AM

Hunger

Hunger is in the air: At the movies, with The Hunger Games. On TV with ads about a War on Hunger, as corporations such as Walmart are recognizing that one in six children in the US goes to bed hungry. And around the world, the percentage is much higher.

Like soRead full post »

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MARCH 29, 2012 3:20PM

Melting Away Before My Eyes

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Sermeq Kujalleqthe much-discussed collapsing glacier in Greenland,  from my boat. This is one of the major ice fields of the world, and has been shrinking rapidly. The ice around me seemed frighteningly softened, like ice cream.

(Photos taken by my Austrian travel companion, KathaRead full post »

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FEBRUARY 13, 2012 8:10AM

A Valentine to Older Love & Romance

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This particular Valentine's Day prompts me to express something I’ve wanted to shout from the rooftops for awhile now.

I realize more and more that late love can be just as romantic as young love. And I think what makes it especially precious is that you realizeRead full post »

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JANUARY 11, 2012 8:15AM

360-degree Views: Storms & Reflections

Since 2001 I've lived on the 22nd floor of a condo in downtown Miami, my home in the sky. I came here from New York with my husband, who had just retired. Three months later he unexpectedly died. So I lived alone here, with my cat Sweetie, for almost 10 years until… Read full post »

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DECEMBER 22, 2011 9:04AM

The Worm Finally Turned


Growing up, even though I seemed to make lots of friends I just figured they didn’t know the real me. That’s what my mother had been telling me during my childhood, over and over: “They don’t really know you. They don’t live with you.” I heard it so muchRead full post »

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DECEMBER 19, 2011 10:33AM

Celebrating Christmas? Not So Much

 

Folks, there's no "War on Christmas." Just ask those of us who don't really celebrate the holiday, the outsiders looking through window panes at everybody else celebrating inside.

This is a confusing season for many, maybe you too. It isn’t easy for those of us who never get c

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OCTOBER 23, 2011 2:20PM

I Thought I'd Die a Virgin in a Nuclear War

 

I recently saw two movies dealing with the end of the world -- Melancholia and Tree of Life. These artsy films sparked a remembrance of doomsday fears I once felt. Honestly, I often think of it when this time of year comes around.

What has come to be known asRead full post »

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SEPTEMBER 27, 2011 10:24AM

The Girl with the Cut-Out Face


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When I was a child, looking through a family album, I remember asking my mother why there was a face cut out of a photo of a little girl in a frilly dress standing next to my mother’s twoRead full post »

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SEPTEMBER 14, 2011 1:47PM

A Remarkable Synchronicity

  

I've never written before about this. Perhaps it will trigger me getting to that memoir; it's all true, and unfolds-- slowly, steadily -- in almost mystifying ways. 

The slim, dark-haired woman sitting at the table in the Westchester brasserie was reading Pride and PrejuRead full post »

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SEPTEMBER 1, 2011 6:59PM

I Went to Work in a Typhoon

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Debate has ensued about “crying wolf” and the overhyped hurricane coverage. Here’s an example of the other extreme:

In the fall of 1989 I was living at a basic hotel near the airport, outside Manila. I was executiRead full post »

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AUGUST 24, 2011 12:07PM

The Virgin Flight of Virgin Air

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The official photo of the Virgin inaugural flight (flightglobal.com), June, 1984. Invited passengers, with Richard Branson on the far left. Can you spot me  way in the back, at the top of the pyramid?

 

Sir Richard Branson's estate on his private Caribbean island just bRead full post »

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AUGUST 18, 2011 12:05PM

Fleeing a Gilded Cage and Flying Away!

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In this time of high unemployment it seems like an impossible idea to quit a seemingly ideal job when another isn't on the horizon. But 21 years ago I did. And that move gave me the chance to literally fly away, far beyond my wildest dreams.

It

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AUGUST 6, 2011 11:27AM

My Frisky Nonagenarian Soulmate, Who Lives On a Ship

   

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A couple of weeks ago, cruising around Scandinavia on the Italian ship MSC Poesia (“poetry” – can there be a lovelier name?), I met a brilliant and charming Swiss man, a tablemate at dinner named Egon who had booked passage on the ship fRead full post »

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JUNE 29, 2011 7:58AM

When The World Reminded Us What America Can Be

 

 

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Sometimes we need to get outside of ourselves to see who we really are.

Messages poured in from all over the world celebrating the election of Barack Obama as President of the United States. Can you remember his election night speech in Chicago, and the thrill ofRead full post »

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JUNE 23, 2011 12:21PM

Was I a Character in a Woody Allen Movie?

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Woody Allen’s newest film, Midnight in Paris has become a hit, on its way to becoming his highest grossing film ever. Which reminds me of another film that he made long ago, and my possible connection.

But let me first give youRead full post »

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JUNE 13, 2011 9:30AM

Daddy Played the Ponies

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I never really understood my father. Daddy was a “professional gambler,” if betting daily on greyhounds and thoroughbreds could be considered a profession rather than an addiction. His mornings were spent at the desk in mRead full post »

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JUNE 9, 2011 2:11PM

The Book of Mormon/My Look at Mormons

 

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This Sunday, The Book of Mormon is a shoo-in to win the Tony award for best musical. I was just in NYC and if I had wanted to see the sold-out musical-comedy I could have purchased a scalped ticket for a thousand or so smackeroos. (I/Read full post »

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MAY 18, 2011 8:31AM

The Reality of Meeting Ramona

 

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No, we're not holding hands, we're just relaxing.  Ramona Singer looks surprised -- did she just see Jill Zarin?

 

 

 

I've been addicted to The Real Housewives series for several years now, but this year the meanness and vitriol seem to have gone wild. I just/Read full post »

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APRIL 26, 2011 3:21PM

12 Undiscovered Messages from The Donald!

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Dear Mommy,
Camp is fine. I am the best swimmer they ever had at camp. Next week I will move on from the dogpaddle. I played Bozo the clown at the camp show and got the most claps. Please send more money. I need… Read full post »
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APRIL 22, 2011 7:19AM

Poignant Return to the World's Most Beautiful Easter Garden

 

 

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One of my last vacations with my husband Chaim Stern, not long before he died of cancer ten years ago, was an April trip which included the Keukenhof gardens outside of Amsterdam.

This April, 2011, two weeks before Easter, I returned to these fabled gardens, walking along… Read full post »

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APRIL 18, 2011 9:28AM

Chocolate, Swans, Flowers, Canals & More: Belgian Spring!

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Spring continues to warm the top half of the world, including the European country of Belgium. (My alternative headline was: Brussels Sprouts!) And on a recent April trip I took lots of photos of… Read full post »
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APRIL 12, 2011 8:15AM

The Man Who Demanded "Bread"

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One summer many years ago, when I was traveling with my husband and two small sons through Scandinavia, we overnighted in a campground outside of Stockholm.

Our Volkswagen camper’s top was popped up and my two little boys were still snoringRead full post »

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MARCH 29, 2011 11:07AM

Tchotchke Memories

Years of poking about the world have rewarded me with precious items, and yes, tchotchkes (inexpensive "collectibles" in Yiddish, but hard to translate). I've grown to cherish most of them -- beyond the material to the memory.

And I can't imagine discarding them.

So many memories, through the years,… Read full post »