Lea Lane
- Location
- Florida, USA
- Birthday
- August 26
- Title
- freelance writer/editor
- Bio
- “I’ve discovered the secret of life,” Kay Thompson, the eccentric entertainer and “Eloise” author, once said. “A lot of hard work, a lot of sense of humor, a lot of joy and a lot of tra-la-la!”
And that's been my life: As a travel writer for over 30 years, I've been around the block (more like around the world), and I write true stories about interesting people and places.
I've lived an unconventional life in conventional trappings. Been a corporate VP, worked with foster kids, acted in an Indie ("Nurse 1"), was on Jeopardy!.
I've been managing editor of a travel publication, written for the Times, and authored books. OS is my home, but I also blog on The Huffington Post, and I've contributed (mostly anonymously) to everything from encyclopedias to guidebooks.
Married young, divorced late; married late, widowed early, I dated lots in-between -- and survived a scary illness. After being happily, peacefully solo for many years, I'm now happily married again.
I founded and still edit www.sololady.com, a lifestyle Website for single women. I'm truly grateful for each precious day, each well-earned wrinkle, my family, my cat. Truth, laughter, friendship, late love. And this blog -- on this wonderful site!
MY RECENT POSTS
- A Sad Parallel: Reflecting on
the Suicide of Mary Kennedy
May 17, 2012 11:26PM - Wild Hair on Wild Hatch: A
Sassoon Moment
May 09, 2012 10:38PM - Two Dog Years
April 18, 2012 03:04PM - Bits & Pieces
March 28, 2012 02:56PM - Bandstand & The Headband
April 19, 2012 08:34AM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “The tone is authentic
and the scene sad. But real.
So
real.”
9:38PM - “I remember that term
started a dozen years or so,
ago. Like
"baby
bump"…”
1:52PM - “How wonderful this is,
Deborah. I felt I was there:
the time,
the heat, the
viewp…”
1:43PM - “Audabon has nothing on
you. Lovely!!”
1:14PM - “Was so touched by this
video, and you put it into
even
greater context. As
anothe…”
1:13PM
Lea Lane's Links
- LINKS
- -MY SON'S MEMOIR, THE ZEROES, Now in Paperback
- -CLICK HERE TO AID FAMINE VICTIMS IN SOMOLIA
- -MY WEBSITE FOR SOLO WOMEN
- Favorite THINGS posts
- -A-Z Travel Tips
- -My Last Meals
- -Poem:This Golden Moment
- -Scars
- -Eating Blind
- -I'm a Mad Men Gal
- -The Anniversary I'll Never Forget
- -My Son Lost His Shirt and Found The Zeroes!
- -10 Books in a Blink
- -How Unrelated Symptoms Saved My Life
- -Yeats/Torture
- -Is Empathy a Pejorative?
- -Media Vultures on Death Watch
- -Has America Jumped the Shark?
- -Why I Stay Here
- -A White-Knuckle Landing
- -15 ways to Cut Back
- -Birth & Death: The Circle of Life
- -Fear of Flying & My Near Misses
- -Waiting for the Blood Test
- -When a Post Goes Viral
- -25 Things About Me
- -I Don't Celebrate Christmas
- -A Scary Dream
- -Racing at 150 mph!
- -Quarantined on Thanksgiving
- -Musings, 3 am
- -Remembering Racism
- -Problems with August
- -Losing a Dream, Losing a House
- Favorite FUN posts
- -Why My Cat Sits Joins Us at Dinner
- -Five Ways to Keep Mad Men
- -The Weirdest Meat I Ever Ate
- -"Independents" Day!
- -Real Lessons from The Real Housewives
- -Another Husband for a Minute
- -Joan Walsh, Where are You?
- -Monkey Business!
- -10 Unexpected Bonuses from Health Reform
- -About My Bidet
- -What Happened in Vegas?
- -No Sex & 9 Other Ways to Spring Ahead
- -To Suzy: It's Over
- -Valentine Poem for Sweetie
- -Why Bill Maher is Angry
- -iPuke? iPeek?
- -The Embarrassing Things in My Purse
- -Resolutions I Will NOT Make
- -Ode to My Tweezers
- -Ode to a Groundhog
- -My Reality TV Addiction
- -I Got Published in the New Yorker
- -Broccoli Obama
- -101 Words: He Never Calls, He Never Writes
- -I'm Not Who You Think I Am
- Favorite PEOPLE posts
- -The Reality of Ramona
- -Happy First Anniversary, Love
- -Messages from the Donald
- -The Bellman With Tourettes
- -Elvis Trivia
- -The Woman Who Slept with Rohairmoo
- -Chelsea Clinton & Moi
- -What Fay Vincent Told Me about Steinbrenner
- -Why I Didn't Love Daddy
- -A Play Connects to Famous People I've Known
- -Remembering Rue McClanahan
- -My Son Just Married Me!
- -Rick Died & I Was There for Him
- -For Nathan, Who Was only Two
- -Unexpected Lovers at Passover
- -Six Degrees of Separation
- -Porn King, Coke Prez, Murderer
- -My 2000 NYT Interview
- -My Man in Rio
- -You Caught Me, I'm in Love
- -Dumped By Answering Machine
- -My Best Friend Ended Her Life at 37
- -to lea at 17
- -Phyllis Schlafly Drooled on Me
- -Best in Show? Not This Lover
- -The Man Who Met Einstein
- -The Sahalis: Symbol of a Decade?
- -To My Sister, On a Big Birthday
- -My Birthday/Blogiversary
- -Mad Men: When My Bosses Were My Lovers
- -Julia (and Other Famed Chefs)
- -A Nice Jewish Girl Named for a Racetrack
- -A Conehead at the Fair: A Summer Tale
- -Anne Frank Would Have Been 80
- -Did I Really Just Tell You That?
- -Becoming Invisible
- -Elizabeth Edwards, Joan Rivers: Two Moms
- -My Surprising Talk With a Naked Actor
- -Why I'm Alone
- -Kate Winslet and Other (Drama) Queens
- -My Valentine Lover, 2006
- -My Life in 100 Words
- -One Snowy Dud, One Sexy Stud
- -My Gender Bender, Victor-Victoria Cruise
- -How I Wound Up in Claus Von Bulow's Apartment
- -To Odetta
- -My Late-in-Life Love
- -An Ugly Duckling OS Tale
- -To My Neighbor Hillary
- -OJ: You're Finally Juiced
- -On Being Single
- -Wisdom from a Hooker
- -The Seeing-Eye man
- -Two Weddings and a Funeral
- -Ted Kennedy's Brave Fight, and My Husband's
- -Dinner with Hill and Bill
- -The Abuser
- Favorite PLACES posts
- -Four-Part Antarctica Series
- -Keukenhof garden, Amsterdam
- -Belgian Spring
- -Mugged in Stockholm
- -A Life Along I-95
- -A Magic Invite to Firenze
- -On New Zealand's Milford sound
- -Honeymoon Blip on the Black Sea
- -Eat, Pray, Scratch in Bali
- -Americana: Mohonk Then & Now
- -Scary Journey on the Norwegian Ferry
- -The World's Most Colorful Neighborhood
- -The Magical Slot Canyon
- -The Other Ground Zero
- -India Life Lessons
- -Wild Dogs in Romania
- -Flutterbies in the Amazon, & Leo
- -Blue Lights in Barcelona
- -Crossing the Atlantic
- -Two Faraway Thanksgivings, & What I Learned
- -Sabrina's Walk of Remembrance in NYC
- -South Beach: Hot & Cool
- -Watching Greenland Melt
- -Carnaval in Colombia
- -Alone on a Cliff
- -An Irish Ramble
- -Dramatic Polar Photos
- -Argentina: Penguins, Penguins, Penguins!
- -New York's High Line
Reactions from The World
Emails are coming in from all over the world, celebrating this election. Here is a sampling from hundreds sent to the Caucus Section of The New York Times. Original syntax and spelling makes them even more wonderful. Read ‘em and weep –or smile.
Warmest, sincerest congratulations to Barac… Read full post »
Like many of us, I'm sharing this historic night with family and friends and I have high hopes that it will become a celebration.
So, a couple of tips.You may have some, too:
-- Have cameras and video ready to go.
-- Put out a buffet… Read full post »
(Lea's) Quiz About My Love Life --Updated with ANSWERS
I‘ve written some loving tributes to my late husband on OS. But I also have been a single woman for many years between my first and second marriages, and after.
Inspired by Dorinda’s recent game, o’steph’s coming out as a naturist, and the sexy posts that have… Read full post »
(Lea's) Quiz About My Love Life
I‘ve written some loving tributes to my late husband on OS. But I also have been a single woman for many years between my first and second marriages, and after.
Inspired by Dorinda’s recent game, o’stephanie’s coming out as a naturist, and the sexy posts that have… Read full post »The Headless Neighbor
For many years I lived in rural Pocantico, Hills New York, near the home of Washington Irving, the author of The Legend of Sleepy Hollow. Irving is buried in the cemetery near my house along with members of the Van Tassel family. Remember the fictional Katrina Van Tassel?
We were… Read full post »
In 2000, 537 Florida votes changed history, and we’ve suffered mightily since. That’s why it’s crucial to get out every vote possible next Tuesday, and not forget about the cohort that numbers over a quarter of the electorate: single women.
Before the Pennsylvania primary CNN commen… Read full post »
A Cutback Game to Help Keep You Occupied Till Tuesday
Like most of us, I’m trying to find ways to cut back with a bit of cheer in this volatile financial situation. So here are some money-saving suggestions while my 401k fluctuates from bad to worse to bad, and the cable pundits drone on.
You can make this a game by adding your… Read full post »
The Funniest Interactive Political Site I've Found
With all the tension and anxiety of this last week of the election, below is the funniest interactive political site I've found. It features Sarah Palin in the Oval Office ( a parody, of course). It's tweaked regularly. Just click around on it, and enjoy!
Musings, Friday, around 3 am
This is ridiculous. I’ve been tossing almost an hour now. Should I take part of a pill? No, I’ll turn on the TV with the sleep element. 30 minutes, no 60. Too loud. I don’t want to hear the words. Just the noise. Repeat of Larry King. Michael Moore is on.… Read full post »
In July, 2001, two weeks after I reserved a cabin on an island off the coast of New Brunswick Canada for a romantic getaway with my husband Chaim, he was diagnosed with an incurable brain tumor, and three months later, he was gone.
The next summer,… Read full post »
Remembering Racism as I Vote for Barack Obama
Today I signed and mailed my Florida absentee ballot for this historic election. Hard for me to believe, but my first presidential vote was for Lyndon Johnson, who later passed The Voting Rights Act at a time when blacks were frequently denied that right, let alone the possibility of… Read full post »
Why Hasn't McCain Mentioned Wright?--update
Hitchens Endorses Obama--Who's Next?
Christopher Hitchens, the brilliant, cynical commentator on American life and long-time Iraq war supporter has just written his endorsement on slate.com, by skewering McCain/Palin, especially Palin. In part:
The most insulting thing that a politician can do is to compel you to ask your… Read full post »
Now is the Time for a “Moochcation”
Whether you're a moocher or a moochee, (or both) chances are that you've participated in the mooching experience even before this financial crisis. It's normal to visit family or stay with friends. But with the desperation level climbing, the economic future volatile, and the holidays ahead, I sugges… Read full post »
What's Holding McCain Back on Wright?
I was struck by one man at a recent McCain rally in Wisconsin. “I am begging you, sir. I am begging you, ” he beseeched. His name, I found out, is James T. Harris, and he is an African-American radio host in Milwaukee. He was asking McCain to go… Read full post »
I was in a hotel room in Quebec Canada breaking up with the man I had been living with on and off for five years, and when that white Bronco came on the TV at the foot of our bed we stopped breaking up and stayed together through most of the… Read full post »
Obama (Alas) You’re No Jack Kennedy at Debating
Dusseldorf, Germany – Everyone here was talking about first presidential debate last night, but I was the only one in my group who I stayed up till three am to watch. I just had to see the debate. I slept a couple of hours before, and a couple after,… Read full post »
It’s National Singles Week (Sept 21-27), for those of us who are everything but married, who now comprise the majority of households, according to latest stats. Because we’re marrying later and living longer, many of us will spend most of our adult lives single. And if we outlive o… Read full post »
According to the Pahrump Valley Times, a legal brothel near Las Vegas called Angel's Ladies closed recently, perhaps because of the rising cost of gas.
Like most women, I'm programmed for intimacy and romance, and I usually empathize with the wife, having been one, twice.… Read full post »The Obama team is suddenly making a huge effort to gain women’s votes, but many die-hard Hillary supporters – dozens of my acquaintances -- remain bruised and confused. The fact that Palin is on the ticket when HRC wasn’t even vetted may turn out to have been… Read full post »
The Seeing-Eye Man and the Blind Chihuahua
I was visiting a donkey sanctuary in Aruba, and I saw a week-old donkey who couldn’t get up, and whose mother seemed disinterested. Chickens were pecking around in the dust, and a turquoise lizard scurried by. A tall man in a black tee-shirt, carrying a white rat, came closer. I/… Read full post »
When I was a kid my Aunt Hilda took me to Gettysburg, where thousands of Union and Confederate troops battled to bloody deaths. Try as I might to conjure up the awfulness and randomness and loss, to me it still looked like a field.
Not so the gentle ground near Shanksville,… Read full post »
Two Weddings and a Funeral
I’d rather be forced to read a dozen New York Times columns by Bill Kristol than go to a wedding alone. When the slow-dance music starts I usually head straight for the ladies room, or the door. And as for funerals, well, they’re obviously difficult for anybody. But the two weddings/… Read full post »
Ballsy Politics, and a Cautionary Tale
I know, I know: dismissing pit bull Sarah Palin and all her baggage seems like a -- excuse-the-expression -- no-brainer. But if you think dubious distinction, low expectations and lightweight cred in a Veep candidate matter much, just remember two elected vice presidents: Spiro Agnew and Dan Quayle.… Read full post »
With another school year starting, I think back to my least favorite first day in class, back in the 1950s when I was beginning seventh grade at Nautilus Junior High School in Miami Beach. Kids called it “Nauseous” because of the color of the facade, and the lousy lunch/… Read full post »
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