Lea Lane
- Location
- Florida, USA
- Birthday
- August 26
- Title
- freelance writer/editor
- Bio
- “I’ve discovered the secret of life,” Kay Thompson, the eccentric entertainer and “Eloise” author, once said. “A lot of hard work, a lot of sense of humor, a lot of joy and a lot of tra-la-la!”
And that's been my life: As a travel writer for over 30 years, I've been around the block (more like around the world), and I write true stories about interesting people and places.
I've lived an unconventional life in conventional trappings. Been a corporate VP, worked with foster kids, acted in an Indie ("Nurse 1"), was on Jeopardy!.
I've been managing editor of a travel publication, written for the Times, and authored books. OS is my home, but I also blog on The Huffington Post, and I've contributed (mostly anonymously) to everything from encyclopedias to guidebooks.
Married young, divorced late; married late, widowed early, I dated lots in-between -- and survived a scary illness. After being happily, peacefully solo for many years, I'm now happily married again.
I founded and still edit www.sololady.com, a lifestyle Website for single women. I'm truly grateful for each precious day, each well-earned wrinkle, my family, my cat. Truth, laughter, friendship, late love. And this blog -- on this wonderful site!
MY RECENT POSTS
- A Valentine to Older Love &
Romance
February 08, 2012 01:18PM - My Legendary Doppelgänger
February 12, 2012 03:29PM - Returning to Israel, 40 Years
Later (Photos)
January 27, 2012 06:23PM - On a Sister Ship of the Costa
Concordia -- A Year Ago
January 16, 2012 03:50PM - 360-degree Views: Storms &
Reflections
January 09, 2012 03:29PM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “Love you back, AJ. Just
from what I've read following
you
here and on FB, you
hav…”
8:00PM - “Joan, really nice
overview of Lincoln Rd. in all
its
Brito-ness. We should get
to…”
7:56PM - “Coming late to this, but
the undercurrent of this piece
is
the beauty of true
lov…”
7:27PM - “I think the women buy
into the rhetoric, if not the
actions.
They are
conditioned…”
7:16PM - “I can still smell the
chocolatey air in Hershey PA.
Chocolate
is one of life's
mi…”
7:12PM
Lea Lane's Links
- LINKS
- -MY SON'S MEMOIR, THE ZEROES, Now in Paperback
- -CLICK HERE TO AID FAMINE VICTIMS IN SOMOLIA
- -MY WEBSITE FOR SOLO WOMEN
- Favorite THINGS posts
- -A-Z Travel Tips
- -My Last Meals
- -Poem:This Golden Moment
- -Scars
- -Eating Blind
- -I'm a Mad Men Gal
- -The Anniversary I'll Never Forget
- -My Son Lost His Shirt and Found The Zeroes!
- -10 Books in a Blink
- -How Unrelated Symptoms Saved My Life
- -Yeats/Torture
- -Is Empathy a Pejorative?
- -Media Vultures on Death Watch
- -Has America Jumped the Shark?
- -Why I Stay Here
- -A White-Knuckle Landing
- -15 ways to Cut Back
- -Birth & Death: The Circle of Life
- -Fear of Flying & My Near Misses
- -Waiting for the Blood Test
- -When a Post Goes Viral
- -25 Things About Me
- -I Don't Celebrate Christmas
- -A Scary Dream
- -Racing at 150 mph!
- -Quarantined on Thanksgiving
- -Musings, 3 am
- -Remembering Racism
- -Problems with August
- -Losing a Dream, Losing a House
- Favorite FUN posts
- -Why My Cat Sits Joins Us at Dinner
- -Five Ways to Keep Mad Men
- -The Weirdest Meat I Ever Ate
- -"Independents" Day!
- -Real Lessons from The Real Housewives
- -Another Husband for a Minute
- -Joan Walsh, Where are You?
- -Monkey Business!
- -10 Unexpected Bonuses from Health Reform
- -About My Bidet
- -What Happened in Vegas?
- -No Sex & 9 Other Ways to Spring Ahead
- -To Suzy: It's Over
- -Valentine Poem for Sweetie
- -Why Bill Maher is Angry
- -iPuke? iPeek?
- -The Embarrassing Things in My Purse
- -Resolutions I Will NOT Make
- -Ode to My Tweezers
- -Ode to a Groundhog
- -My Reality TV Addiction
- -I Got Published in the New Yorker
- -Broccoli Obama
- -101 Words: He Never Calls, He Never Writes
- -I'm Not Who You Think I Am
- Favorite PEOPLE posts
- -The Reality of Ramona
- -Happy First Anniversary, Love
- -Messages from the Donald
- -The Bellman With Tourettes
- -Elvis Trivia
- -The Woman Who Slept with Rohairmoo
- -Chelsea Clinton & Moi
- -What Fay Vincent Told Me about Steinbrenner
- -Why I Didn't Love Daddy
- -A Play Connects to Famous People I've Known
- -Remembering Rue McClanahan
- -My Son Just Married Me!
- -Rick Died & I Was There for Him
- -For Nathan, Who Was only Two
- -Unexpected Lovers at Passover
- -Six Degrees of Separation
- -Porn King, Coke Prez, Murderer
- -My 2000 NYT Interview
- -My Man in Rio
- -You Caught Me, I'm in Love
- -Dumped By Answering Machine
- -My Best Friend Ended Her Life at 37
- -to lea at 17
- -Phyllis Schlafly Drooled on Me
- -Best in Show? Not This Lover
- -The Man Who Met Einstein
- -The Sahalis: Symbol of a Decade?
- -To My Sister, On a Big Birthday
- -My Birthday/Blogiversary
- -Mad Men: When My Bosses Were My Lovers
- -Julia (and Other Famed Chefs)
- -A Nice Jewish Girl Named for a Racetrack
- -A Conehead at the Fair: A Summer Tale
- -Anne Frank Would Have Been 80
- -Did I Really Just Tell You That?
- -Becoming Invisible
- -Elizabeth Edwards, Joan Rivers: Two Moms
- -My Surprising Talk With a Naked Actor
- -Why I'm Alone
- -Kate Winslet and Other (Drama) Queens
- -My Valentine Lover, 2006
- -My Life in 100 Words
- -One Snowy Dud, One Sexy Stud
- -My Gender Bender, Victor-Victoria Cruise
- -How I Wound Up in Claus Von Bulow's Apartment
- -To Odetta
- -My Late-in-Life Love
- -An Ugly Duckling OS Tale
- -To My Neighbor Hillary
- -OJ: You're Finally Juiced
- -On Being Single
- -Wisdom from a Hooker
- -The Seeing-Eye man
- -Two Weddings and a Funeral
- -Ted Kennedy's Brave Fight, and My Husband's
- -Dinner with Hill and Bill
- -The Abuser
- Favorite PLACES posts
- -Four-Part Antarctica Series
- -Keukenhof garden, Amsterdam
- -Belgian Spring
- -Mugged in Stockholm
- -A Life Along I-95
- -A Magic Invite to Firenze
- -On New Zealand's Milford sound
- -Honeymoon Blip on the Black Sea
- -Eat, Pray, Scratch in Bali
- -Americana: Mohonk Then & Now
- -Scary Journey on the Norwegian Ferry
- -The World's Most Colorful Neighborhood
- -The Magical Slot Canyon
- -The Other Ground Zero
- -India Life Lessons
- -Wild Dogs in Romania
- -Flutterbies in the Amazon, & Leo
- -Blue Lights in Barcelona
- -Crossing the Atlantic
- -Two Faraway Thanksgivings, & What I Learned
- -Sabrina's Walk of Remembrance in NYC
- -South Beach: Hot & Cool
- -Watching Greenland Melt
- -Carnaval in Colombia
- -Alone on a Cliff
- -An Irish Ramble
- -Dramatic Polar Photos
- -Argentina: Penguins, Penguins, Penguins!
- -New York's High Line
Hundreds of Scars

dermaroller-plant.com
You see my smile on the left, and you read of the places I have visited. But there is more. Like all of us, scars on my body trace my life. They are a visual… Read full post »
The Woman Who Slept with Rohairmoo
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Everything about Gloria was oversized: her body, her ego, her bank account, but most of all, her appetite. She didn’t just eat two portions of everything. She sometimes ate two meals at one sitting.
Gloria was our twenty-something press… Read full post »
Honeymoon Blip on The Black Sea
As I write this post I’m on a riverboat somewhere between the Ukrainian towns of Nikopol and Nova Kachovka. (Got that?) And I have quite a little tale to tell.
I have no thyroid gland; part was removed in 1979 and the rest in 1991. I’m fine… Read full post »
My Quest in Italy: To See the Three Greatest Works of Art
Fun, Loss, Death, Love: A Life Along I-95

I realized the other day that the river of my life has been I-95, the highway that starts in Canada and ends thousands of miles later and a couple of minutes away from where I now live in Miami.
At night, from my condo's 22nd floor window,… Read full post »
Who Should Repent on Friday? (You Don't Have to Be Jewish)
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Failure to repent is much worse than sin. One may have sinned for but a moment, but may fail to repent of it moments without number. Chasidic saying, from the book, Day by Day by Chaim Stern
Which public figur
A Magic Invitation, When the World Cared. What Now?
Our own Nikki Stern offered a moving commentary for tolerance on the CBS Sunday Morning show, and she hoped for better understanding for the 10th anniversary of 9/11. But images over the weekend saw battling demonstrations against us and by us.
Nikki's commentary reminded… Read full post »

When I was a child my Aunt Hilda took me to Gettysburg, Pennsylvania, where thousands of Union and Confederate troops battled to bloody deaths. Try as I might to conjure up the awfulness and randomness and loss, to me it still looked like a field.
Not so the
Eating Blind

Food is not just about taste, we know. But how much it depends on visual stimuli was a surprise to me. And so were a few other things I didn't expect and which I can't forget.
A couple of years ago I was in Zurich and… Read full post »
Why I'm Still On OS
This month I began my third year here on Open Salon. And sometimes, like this past week, it feels like I've been here forever!
A big, huggy thanks to those of you over the years who have taken the time to read, comment and rate me. And to share my experiences,… Read full post »
Taking a BIG Shower on New Zealand's Milford Sound

The Milford Sound on the western edge of the South Island of New Zealand, where mountains plunge to still water, offers some of the most magnificent scenery on earth.
But about half the time it rains. Pelting, sleety rain. And sometimes it pours. And sometimes, as in… Read full post »

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When traveling I'm often conflicted when offered local specialties. And the anecdote at the end of this post is a great example of why.
As a travel writer who’s eaten my way around, I’ve consumed local products that I’d never… Read full post »
The Shabbos Goy & Lots of Other Elvis Trivia

thepioneerwoman.com
Elvis died at Graceland, August 16, thirty-three years ago, at the age of 42. When I heard the news I was sitting with my mother in the sunroom of my house in Westchester County. I was unhappy in my first marriage. It was hot. New York was/… Read full post »
Here's the Link to My Son's Segment on Morning Joe
Update: My Son's Interview on "Morning Joe" Went Well


This will be funny. Hang in there.
As the film Eat, Pray, Love opens across the country next week, what’s already a worldwide club of solo women seeking fulfillment in Italy, India and Bali will increase even more, until you’d have to seek a settlement in the/… Read full post »
Thoughts on Writing About My Travels
at the Grand Canyon, on assignment
Especially in this time of dire economic hardships, people comment that they envy my travels and my “interesting” experiences. Yes, I focus on the positives and the fun things. And yes, there have been/… Read full post »

the bride, who didn't invite me
Chelsea, Chelsea, Chelsea. I know your guest list is whittled to only 400 or so lucky souls. I know that you aren't inviting many donors and celebs to your wedding. Not even the current occupant of your
… Read full post »
Mad Men, Season 4 arrives Sunday night, and like so many
of us I can hardly wait. When I watch that show (and when I read
Silkstone/Nell’s recap on Mondays), I get a powerful flash of
recognition.
For me, it’s not just the style and… Read full post »

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He drove me to the inn in Brewster where we always celebrated. A fire sputtered in the fireplace although it was summer. He ordered coquille St Jacque and tournedos Rossini. I did too. It was the meal we had ordered… Read full post »

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My sons grew up as major Yankee fans during the 1970s and 80s, when George Steinbrenner, who just died of a massive heart attack, was the colorful Yankee owner who captured the headlines.
As a single mom I often took them to… Read full post »
To My Son, Who Lost His Shirt, and Found The Zeroes

Dear Randall,
That weekend I spent with you, Jen and the girls in February, 2009 you were still reeling from the loss of your business, your dream, your job, your life savings. Your company… Read full post »
Let's Have "Independents" Day!-- July 3

Our great country honors just about everybody: couples on Valentine's Day, mothers, fathers, grandparents, secretaries. presidents, laborers. Even groundhogs.
How about a tribute to singles who live independently and who bear the burden of higher per-capita taxes, single supple… Read full post »
Americana: Mohonk Then and Now (and a comment about Greg)

reflections of Mohonk Mountain House, originating in 1869
This first week of July many of us will be writing about Americana and displaying images of our beautiful country.
Some of us just spent a weekend at one of the great old lodgings from the mid-nineteenth century, a… Read full post »
10 Disturbing Reasons Why I Didn't Love Daddy

He yelled all the time.
I don’t remember him talking. He would get emotional and pace up and down through the rooms, roaring away. This frightened me.
He was gone six months of the year.
He played the horses and dogs… Read full post »
Lea Lane's Favorites
Updates
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Unexpected Valentines
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One or Two Things You Should Know About Cupid
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Frank and Dweezil Zappa | Open Salon Rock Group
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As American as Apple - Part II
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Temporal Distortion: A Stunning New Time-Lapse by Randy Halverson
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a fool dreams
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Valentine’s Day the South Beach Way
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Women of GOP Land: What do you see in those men?

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