Ephemeral Anhedonia
LuxeCalmeVolupté
- Location
- Orange County, California, Generika
- Birthday
- December 06
- Title
- Research Development Officer
- Company
- One of my favorite musicals
- Bio
- Canadian-born, SF-NY-SF-OC ping-pong existence since '89, married to an ex-Communist, find middle-age confusing and aggravating thus far, vigilant, sanguine, annoyed/bemused by local non-children who remain obsessed with Disneyland, subsisting on the paltry scraps (property, income) that the plague of Baby Boomer locust swarms has left behind for Gen X. Despite all that, loving life on occasion. Couldn't live away from the ocean. Jonesing for good writing.
MY RECENT POSTS
- I want to know the way out of
San Jose (pace Dionne)
August 04, 2009 04:26AM - Remember when...
April 18, 2009 10:45AM - The Gay List: Who's In, Who's
Out & Who Cares
April 14, 2009 11:26PM - 25 things at 43
December 31, 2008 12:41AM - Hurling my flip-flops at
SFGate
December 16, 2008 10:35AM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “your postings with
succulents are heavenly (from
a NoCal
gardener who is
soaking…”
January 25, 2010 12:21AM - “Why are you not an op-ed
columnist instead of MoDo?? I
share
your rage and
frustr…”
August 12, 2009 03:39AM - “Hi RSA, it is nice to be
back. Due to my newly
employed
status I have less
time…”
August 04, 2009 11:11AM - “you're forgetting the
costs of all those
paper-pushers,
shufflers,
generators (=…”
August 04, 2009 04:04AM - “it WILL be demolished
and rebuilt just in time to
connect
with the second
avenue…”
August 04, 2009 03:50AM
LuxeCalmeVolupté's Links
- New list
- Go Fug Yourself
- Garden Rant
- Digby
- Towleroad
I want to know the way out of San Jose (pace Dionne)
my husband and I pretend now that we live in "North L.A." (sans the culture and fashion sense) rather than the bay area, having peregrinated a mere 50 miles down the peninsula to the self-styled "Capital of Silicon Valley". The Mercury News breathlessly follows the exploits of the local superstars… Read full post »
Remember when...
• we used NCSA Mosaic to access the Internet?
• we had to mark punch cards in our high school computer science class to have the mainframe process the programs we had written in Basic?
• we had to stay up every night to watch "Roots" on television because VCRs, DVRs… Read full post »
The Gay List: Who's In, Who's Out & Who Cares
Just my own musings on where we are right now.
IN
Kathy Griffin
Joel McHale
Rachel Maddow
Iowa & Vermont
Rick & Steve
RuPaul's Drag Race
Marriage Equality
Francois Sagat
Portland
Rosie's brother
Craigslist M4M
Croatians & their Balkan brethren
OUT
Perez Hilton
The "Ano… Read full post »
25 things at 43
1. I have always thought that my feet are particularly well formed.
2. I have a pierced tragus, and often forget about it until someone asks "Did that hurt"?
3. I have absolutely no desire to own a pet or watch nature shows, since biology is a job to me and… Read full post »
Hurling my flip-flops at SFGate
Citizens of Northern California (and resident aliens like myself), do we not deserve better from our local media outlets?
Here is a sample of recent "headlines" culled from the SFGate website, the online presence of the San Francisco Chronicle newspaper, where we fogbound denizens have to search for… Read full post »
Let's retire the word 'czar' from our government.
Car czar, climate czar..... how lame and unimaginative is the MSM punditocracy anyway?
First of all, the correct transliteration of the leader of the Russian Empire is TSAR, not czar. Just like we no longer write Peking or Bombay, we should no longer employ the word czar. In f… Read full post »
Mad Men - I lived it

Courtesy of my former next-door neighbor M., with whom I just recently reconnected courtesy of Facebook (all the 30- and 40-somethings are doing it now, dontcha know).
My mother stands in the middle with her fabulous late-60's hairdo, holding my younger brother. I am… Read full post »
Tropical Travelogue: Fairchild Garden, Coral Gables, FL
We are here for a week of surf and sun, courtesy of the high holy days (no, we are not Jewish but my sister-in-law works for a Jewish college in Brooklyn and has most of the week off). As a break from the bronzed latin beauties of South Beach, hubby and… Read full post »
SF - love it, hate it, or both?
( aka Bicoastal Bitchiness, or how I learned to stop pissing and moaning and just put on some goddamned fleece)
12 things I love about San Francisco
• The weather - it never goes above 75°F and never goes below 60°F, and if you find a place out of the fog… Read full post »
Nobel week - an insider's perspective
Several years ago in early October, my phone rang at an ungodly hour of the morning, well before my usual waking hour of 8 am. When this happens, we all assume the worst. Who died? Why a wrong number so EARLY? I picked up the phone and with my groggy, phlegmy… Read full post »
BayArts #3: Richard Goode plays Bach, Chopin and Schubert
Even though my last arts review on OS was met with near deafening silence, I press on, undaunted. Since I plan to keep posting reviews of performances I happen to attend in the upcoming months, I will henceforth group all these reviews under the title BayArts [previous posts edited to reflect… Read full post »
BayArts #2: "Die Tote Stadt" at SF Opera
Since my last arts post was met with a few favorable comments, I'm charging ahead with tonight's offering from the local opera house (and besides, what are we all going to talk about on Nov. 5 when Gov. Palin is shipped back to her frozen wasteland?).
This is a rarely performed… Read full post »
BayArts #1: Mark Morris's "Romeo and Juliet" in Berkeley
I haven't seen much in the way of arts reviews or commentary on this site, so I thought I'd put it out there and see if anyone's interested. Also, please comment if you saw this performance in Berkeley or elsewhere.
The hubby and I attended Friday night's performance in Zellerbach Hall.… Read full post »
DILFlicious OS
OK, challenged by a certain OSer who shall remain nameless (you know who you are) to walk my talk, I submit the following list of members who definitely get the nod from the DILF/PDILF Outreach Squad:
- Jon Henner (it must be the tattoo)
- Colin Bane (the sexy scruff and… Read full post »
On blogging by a newbie
After lurking here on OS for a few weeks, I feel honor-bound to commence my own blog after posting my first comment tonight. I have found the expected mix of insightful folks, annoying trolls and wallowing navel-gazers thus far, but thanks to some earlier posts on the subject I now feel… Read full post »
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