Maria Stuart

Maria Stuart
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Maria Stuart is an award-winning journalist, freelance writer and Internet entrepreneur. She lives in Michigan with her husband, their nearly teenage son, and Ted, the hyper labradoodle who keeps her from sitting at the computer too long. You can check out her website at mariastuart.com or TheLivingstonPost.com. Follow @mariastuart on Twitter.

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Salon.com
Editor’s Pick
OCTOBER 11, 2010 12:58PM

Days like this are a gift to the unemployed

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Fall1Days like today are the gods’ gift to the unemployed, for it is on days like this — days rich with light, color and texture — that those of us struggling in the wake of joblessness give thanks.

Days like this don’t come around often, and that we are able to bask in them is a gift, no matter how fleeting.

TahitiI worked for years in a tiny office with no windows, my constant view the rear ends rushing past my door, heading to a meeting or the restroom. I had a Gauguin print of a Tahitian scene hanging in that little office. “My window,” I’d explain to anyone who admired it.

That print transported me to a place that looks and feels an awful lot like this very moment.

So I am enjoying this day, this moment, these amazing fall colors, entertained by my favorite Elvis Costello tunes, airing out the house, giving thanks all the while both for what I had and that I no longer have it.

Fall3Days like this remind me of the joy of sitting on my postage-stamp of a deck, sun on skin, butt in chair, feet on rail, fingers on laptop, thankful for wi-fi. It’s as if I won the lottery, with the big prize being the privilege of sopping up this day like a slice of crusty bread on the bottom of a salad bowl. Days like this make me forget how difficult life is after an unexpected financial body blow; they’re the vacations not taken, the new shoes not bought.

Days like this don’t come around very often, and that I was able to spend a little time with my mother, a little time trying to make some money, a little time pondering and writing and breathing in the beauty of this Indian summer makes me feel both humble and thankful.

Days like this make me consider flipping my former employer a mental middle finger, but I can’t, really, because days like these make me happy that it’s my butt in this chair on this deck.

There will be plenty time to worry about bills and making money, but for this moment, that I have this day, this beautiful October day, fills me completely.

 

 

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Got to love the fall days. When you're employed, you definitely don't get to enjoy them!!

Rated.
AMEN! the universe knows when to give us a break, I think. How I would love it if I had a seasonal kick in the ass; instead, my A/C is running and I'm still feeling the lethargy of summer and too hot days. Sooo glad you have a crisp sunshiny autumn day to enjoy Maria! An attitude of gratitude is a wonderful thing.
I enjoy days like this, too. However, I just got a panicked call from a friend who went from being unemployed for eight months to a job for a month and now back to joblessness. He needed my soothing and advice.

I spent hours submitting resumes over the weekend only to learn that half of them were scams (thanks to the e-mail inbox piled high with spam). All I have to enjoy are days like today. (R)
Love your attitude. I agree.
Thanks for sharing your positive attitude. R.
It's a blessing to see the beauty around us and be grateful for what we have. Thank you for sharing your sentiments and spreading a bit of the sunshine and the refreshing breeze. I used to teach in "modern" classrooms without windows but a/c systems. ~R
Right there with ya, babe. Only I sat at a postage stamp sized table in the Time Warner center in NYC, not a beautiful deck in the foliage. But, you know, the sentiment was the same. (r)
I absolutely agree. I was unemployed for a long time, spent 6 weeks in a temp job from hell, and was freed again last week, just in time for a week (or more) of glorious weather. This is the best gift I could have. Spent time in the garden earlier. Just got back from a bike ride. Sometimes the simple gifts truly are the best.
Great timing with this post--just as the Nobel committee awards a prize to economists who, safely tenured themselves, have come to (among other things that I don't mean to belittle) the epiphany that unemployment benefits allow some unemployed people to stay that way just a little longer than they might if they were too hungry to enjoy a beautiful day.
Love the colors, love the attitude. Well done.
Time or money. Money or time. It always seems to be that way. Enjoy your day Howell! (Walled Lake)
Before you get too comfortable...You better get those leaves raked up or they will kill the grass.


Nice post.

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It does look like that Gauguin. Nice.
I love this! I love the imagery of the "mental middle finger" to your employer and metaphor of sopping up the day "like a piece of crusty bread at the bottom of a salad bowl". And I love that you are thankful that it's your butt in that chair on that deck. Hope your boss gets his or hers! I know what it's like. I am in the very same boat.
I have learned to appreciate the simple things in life as a result of being unemployed/underemployed. This post sums all that up marvelously.
I have learned to appreciate the simple things in life as a result of being unemployed/underemployed. This post sums all that up marvelously.
a great way to spend some time, Maria!
I sat in my swing today and just let the world go by. The fall is beautiful weather and a beautiful view and reading posts like this. It brightened up my day!
Lovely post...
The high unemployment rate does take the sting out of the social stigma of not having a job.
Just like the boomers. There are a lot of us.
You're all making me jealous ...
Another unemployed woman totally agrees.
Good for you...making lemonade. The photographs are breathtaking!
Love it! I've been looking for work for almost a year and think similar thoughts when I get to enjoy these beautiful fall days in Denver at a local coffee shop. I wouldn't be otherwise and I am grateful! Keep writing...
Days like this are for the luck who are no longer tied to the black and gret suites, the whie ties and the everpresent brief cases, cell phone constantly interrupting to the point you simply don't see whats thebeauty preenting itself lik peackok beuaty, literally laid out befor ou eyes to see if we by take the time to see. When I became unemployed, i worried to death, as most do, but then I began seeing lfe's wondrous treasures, even here in the desert as I didthe next days, I will die with memories of honey bees on my hand, lixards in my palms, astounding sunsets few get to see. I've seen the entire Western Untied States inclding the Rockye Mountains and the San Juans in Pugeout Sound, Mendocin, all of the gitna redwood forests, Mt Lassen State Park, Yosemite, Redwoods National forst, the Rocky Mountains., the rain forests of teh Pacific Northwest and even the eruption of Mt St Hellens.

Hell with being employed. Employees die sad, lonely poitnless lives. Not for me!!
Funny, I just took last weekend off. I went for a long walk in the park, and through the beautiful village by the lake. The leaves hadn't hit their peak yet, but they were getting there. I counted squirrels and threw them a few peanuts in the warm sun - it was a great, long walk. I'll do it again until the fall is over. The rest of the world can go rot for those few hours a week. These days come only a short time a year, how many years do I have ahead of me?
I love the two fall photos...both yours and Gaugins. I'm not unemployed yet, but it is coming and I think I'll keep the positive attitude. It serves us well.
Jesus! Let's give this another try without Ambien - that stuff really screws your mind around.

Yes indeed! Days like this are for the lucky who are no longer tied to the black and grey suites, the ties, the brief cases, cell phones, a life completely consumed by corporate tunnel vision blocking the beauty of the world presenting itself like a peacock, literally laid out before our eyes.

When I became unemployed, I worried incessantly, as do most, but then I began seeing life's wondrous treasures, even here in the desert. I will die with memories of honey bees on my hand, lizards in my palms, astounding sunsets few witness because their minds are obsessed with the job.

I've seen the entire Western United States and have marveled at the Rocky Mountains, the San Juan Islands, the forests of giant redwoods, Mt Lassen, Yosemite, Redwoods National Forest and even the eruption of Mt St Helens; yet, while marveling at these incredible sites, my mind was back at home worrying about the massive mess piling up on my desk. No time to truly capture and enjoy the wonders around me.

I find employment to be a hindrance to life now.
Great writing. And love the photos. As a fellow unemployed journalist, I found special meaning in your post. Many thanks.