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Mary Ann Sorrentino

Mary Ann Sorrentino
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Mary Ann is a columnist for the Keene (NH) Sentinel, the Providence Phoenix and other newspapers and has appeared on Salon.com She was an Associated Press Award-winning radio talk host for 13 years and the Executive Director of Planned Parenthood of RI 1977-1987. Her most recent book, ABORTION - The A Word (Gadd Books) is available on line and in major bookstores.

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MAY 13, 2010 2:43PM

Sex, Sexism and Violence: When they SOLD!

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Vintage ads from the legitimate" press that spoke  (and speak) for themselves...(In case you thought that "Basic Family Values" were stronger 50 or 60 years ago.)

youth sexy 

 husband spanking

Adsthatj 

cuter 

wives are for 

woman on rug jpg 

Xmas gifts 

compute 

And the absolute worst....

kill women 

 

In some ways, maybe we HAVE come a long way, after all!

(  for  another perspective on these ads and others, that appeared on 5/11, please go to http://open.salon.com/blog/sheilatgtg55  )

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Way to put tongue firmly in cheek and illustrate the "reality" of "Madmen" and in just a few words convey how much things have changed--for the better, I might add.
I don't get it. What's wrong with these ads? (I'm kidding...just kidding..sheesh!)

Seriously, pretty amazing when you steop backa moment and think about the m,essage that is cultuarally supported through ads like these from the good 'ol days.
PS; I flunked speelling today.
Those are horrible and hilarous...and horrible!
Didn't I see this on OS a couple of days ago? Or was it just a dream?
WOW. And I was most likely alive when most of those were published. Just like I was alive when African American citizens had to drink out of a different water fountain. Tongue in cheek, but it does point out that at least some progress has been realized. It is hard for me to imagine a society in which these would be deemed acceptable. So folks, in 50 years from now, what will posted on a blog (if such still exist) from today's culture, that will be looked at by the earths denizens in the same way we look at these? Efforts toward immigration reform? resistance to healthcare reform? tv advertising for prescription drugs? our drug laws themselves? our current obsession with the cult of personality? In other words, to expand upon Walter's comment, how much and what will change in the next 50 years? And will it be for the better?

Thanks for another great one Mary Ann!
The Love's Baby Soft ad is so inappropriate by today's standards, yet I remember when it came out. Thanks for this! Rated.
Ah, Love's Baby Soft. All you have to do is say those three words and I'm transported back to the 70's and that smell, and this song: Wear Your Love Like Heaven
Thanks to everyone... Larry..if this appeared elsewhere, I honestly did NOT see it and if that happened I want to defer immediately to the otiginal poster...I just saw these today in an email sent to me by a friend...It got Editor Pick(ed) so I'd assume they would know if it's appeared already on OS...Let me know if I've unknowingly re-posted someone else's thought....thanks

PS - After seeing this ad, Kathy, I wouldn't be able to think of a beautiful fragrance or song because, frankly, the ad with the Jonbenet Ramsey look-alike makes me too sick to my stomach
The only one I remember is the Love's Baby Soft. They are all pretty gross._r
Love's Baby Soft..not allowed in our house it attracts the boogeyman. Grandpa used to write strongly worded letters to advertisers about these types of ads. He did not approve of ads that made women look stupid!
rated
Glad this turned out to be funny, 'cause the top ad actually turned my stomach. **wanders off to have glass of wine to calm down**
Larry is right AGAIN...Sheila posted something about these ads 2 days ago...I have written to apologize to her (I missed her post on 5/11)

Here's a link to what she had to say about these ads...with respect and apologies

http://open.salon.com/blog/sheilatgtg55
What the heck was that last one about? A guy was going to kill a woman over a postage meter? That didn't even make sense.
These are all from an e-mail that is currently making the rounds, which is probably why both you and Sheila have the same ones.

By the way, am I the only one here who wore Love's Baby Soft? By 70's standards, that wasn't a particularly sexist ad. It was more an updated take on the Northern Tissue girls.
oculanervosa- I agree it's stupid and doesn't make sense...besides, how many men on the market for postage meters got it? It wasn't even good advertising.
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All the tweeners were using Love's Baby Soft when I was that age. It's not just sexism being sold, it's girls as sexual objects.
That first image is disturbing on many levels, starting with the Jon-Benet Ramsey level!

The rest make me feel like I've gotten lost in a some sort of time warp. I am grateful for all of my foremothers who fought for freedom I enjoy as a woman today.
What is really interesting to me is that yours is an editors pick and mine was first, it just proves to me that people who are habitually chosen for the front page have an advantage. As to posting this and apologizing to me, no worries. I don't expect people to automatically read or know about my work even if I do try and let people become aware of my work by sending them a quick email when I post. This was not anything that I personally found and put together, it was indeed an email making its way around the world and I stated that in my brief introduction. Have a good weekend.
I've seen most of these before, but not that Love's Baby Soft one. As someone else mentioned, that one really is extra creepy. It looks like an ad for a child porn network or something.
Maybe we've come a long way, I don't know. I don't think advertisements today are much better. The messages are a bit less overt. But times have not changed all that much. In a certain sense, some of these are more artistic and honest. I know I am going to have 1970s and 1980s era Feminists throwing cyber daggers for saying this.

Personally, I LOVED Love's Baby Soft when I was a girl and it was because of the ads. I felt cute and sexy and feminine. And I had forgotten completely all about it until seeing your post. Thanks for the reminder.
p.s. Loves Baby Soft Ads ran in Teen and Seventeen Magazine. They were marketed toward teenage girls who were becoming aware of their sexuality. I know I am going out on a limb here but I am not sure they were so bad. I don't think they oppressed me or hurt me. I always dated age-appropriate boys and I graduated from High School a virgin. We just kissed a lot. And I think this was pretty typical for early 80s teens.
This is why I love Mad Men. I'm obsessed with this kind of thing. There is something wrong with me. Horrified, but obsessed.
wow, I need a shower...these ads make me feel dirty
Perfectly creepy and wonderful at the same time. I mean - do we REALLY think we've come a "long way" since this? We just don't say it/do it as overtly, that's all. We've learned to cover our asses.

Great collection. Keep 'em coming!
Mary Ann,
People say that advertising reflects the mores of the time, that they wouldn't do it if it didn't work, etc.
I really don't think we've come that far at all in fifty years, in terms of what this people will do for a dollar.
I look around at the billboards and buses and all I see are semi-naked women selling everything from cars to ice-cream.
My feeling is that in some ways we've regressed, even.
Call me cranky. At least the use of children has ... no, strike that.

ps Kathy, thanks for planting a Donovan loop in my tired brain today :-)
Some people are wondering whether Shiela or I should have used more attribution on these ads etc. Shiela has already said clearly, and I agree, there was no way to know where each and/or all the ads came from...plus they are decades old.

Perhaps some legal mind can educate us all on the whole "public domain" issue. I would be grateful if that happened. Thanks.

(If I read the section below correctly, the lawyers are saying that anything created prior to 1978 would be protected by copyright for 28 year and (if it were renewed) 28 more. This mean if these ads were from 1950, for example, the public domain kicked around 2006 - IF THEIR ORIGINAL COPYRIGHTS WERE RENEWED.)
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from: http://www.medialawyer.com/lec-copy.htm

WORKS FOR HIRE
• A. The author usually owns the copyright automatically, unless he, or she was paid by a third party and prepared the work as a work for hire, in which case, the employer owns the copyright.
1. The authors of a collaborative work own its copyright jointly.
• B. Fair Use: The fair use doctrine allows for copying without permission for such purposes as criticism, commentary, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, and research.
1. Four main factors for determining whether Fair Use exception is available:
A. The purpose of the use (whether the copying is intended for commercial, or non-profit purposes).
B. The nature of the original (whether it was published, or unpublished, is one consideration here).
C. The amount and importance of the portion used in relation to the original work as a whole.
D. The impact of the use on the original work's commercial value.

Also, the Fair Use provision may also apply to OS (or Youtube etc.) use of copyrighted materials for commentary that no one makes money from.
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V.COPYRIGHT DURATION
• A. Copyrights are not eternal. When a copyright expires, the work falls into the public domain, and anyone is free to use it without permission.
• B. Any work created on, or after January 1, 1978, is automatically protected by copyright from the moment it was created.
1. For these works, the copyright expires 50 years after the author's death.
2. Works created as work for hire, and as pseudonymous and anonymous works are protected for 75 years from date of publication, or 100 years from the date of their creation, whichever is shorter.
3. Works created before, but not published, or registered until after 1978, receive the same protection as works created on, or after that date.
4. Works created and published, and registered before 1978, and were still under copyright protection on that date, are now copyrighted for a total of 75 years from the date they were created, published, or registered.
5. Works that fall under the old copyright law prior to January 1, 1978, were entitled to an initial 28 years of protection, and an additional renewal right for an additional 28 years of protection. Some works fell into the public domain because they were not renewed for a second 28 year term.
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Again, I am NOT an attorney and I am not interpreting the above...but I am asking for and hoping some attorney(s) who DO know about this stuff will enlighten us.

Thanks.
feminists that argue that women are still exploited & have made little tangible progress should meditate on these images.
these ads aren't bad. no one died. no cute little girls got churned into dog meat.

explaining collateral damage as 'in america's national interest,' that's bad. that's your genuine evil, in fact.
I have seen the Love's Baby Soft ads, but never that one- that just says straight out right- it is okay to be a pervert.
The rest of the add, I had never seen before, and now I can understand my mother, and all my aunts complaining that they didn't like to look at the adds. Now I know why.. They all just say hey, beat your wife, girl friend, and treat her like a door mat, or even shit under your shoes.
It is very sickening to think that companies actually sexual discrimination, perverted sex with young girls, and violence and mistreatment of your wife, girl friend.
Have we come a long way, I would say in some ways yes, in some ways now.

Very thought provoking post. And very insightful. Thank you very much for this post..
No, Kathy, I wore Love's Baby Soft, too. But the larger question is: if this is an email that has been going around AND these ads were already discussed on OS earlier, then WHY is it an EP? Isn't anyone 1) doing his/her homework and 2) choosing to highlight things here that are, in the least, original? Sigh...........
oh the good old days!

rated only once but that's only because one is all they'll give me.
@ Kim Gamble: I agree we have regressed in many areas with regard to advertising. I.E. Compare Beer Commercials during major sporting events today to cigarette and alcohol commercials from 30 years ago. Ummmm..... not so much better picture of female sexuality, I don't think. I really think there is something honest and artistic about many of these ads.

Also -- it is NOT taboo at all today to use young kids in sexual ads. Have you seen the Hollister ads? I did a story for which I interviewed the company about their clothing ads about six years ago for a paper newspaper (you know, back in the olden days). Hollister (or is it Holister? I don't go to the Mall much) uses 12 and 13 year old models in their commercials for teenager jeans. They want to market their size 0 to 13 jeans to the super skinny girls. No normal sized kid could wear the clothing, no kidding -- not the jeans anyway. I am 5' 10" and at the time I did the story I was 140 pounds, a thin (for my height) size 8 (mind you, I am a size 12-14 today). The young salesman wanted to sell me on the jeans. I could not fit in the largest size, the 13s.... ummm..... Something's just wrong with that picture. This is how Hollister is. It may be one of the WORST at using child models to sell sex and eating disorders. But it is certainly not the only one.

Again, let's remember the Loves Baby Soft Ads were selling products to girls who were the same age as that model -- girls who were going out on their first dates and -- GADS!!! KISSING AND MAKING OUT WITH BOYS WHO THOUGHT THEY WERE SEXY!!!

Ummm.... bring on the Loves Baby Soft commercials. I think they're much healthier than the Hollister/Holister (?) ads.


AND AT Lisa with regard to the Big Issue of this getting an EP and the other similar one not getting an EP:

No disrespect to Sheila, who I think is a dear person and a fine writer (incidentally, I am hardly on OS these days so I didn't even see hers. I only see about 5 percent of any of my "favorites" work these days), but I don't think it is "an issue" at all that this post received an EP and Sheila's did not.

Congratulations to Mary for distilling the e-mail that has been going around into a very topical post for a specific audience that has been interested in Boobquake and other issues of feminism, sexism, etc... Sheila's post had a bunch of other stuff in it that was interesting but not related. So, Mary's post is better, I think, in that it is specific and topical. I have to say the editors did good with this pick.

Peace and kisses all.... I loved this post and the commentary that followed/ is following...
Again, I think one goal of OS (as I see it) -- people who write thinking about and reacting to what other writers have written-- is being accomplished here. So thanks to all of you who are participating in such a thoughtful way.
Extremely weird - it makes me wonder how our culture will look in a few years - probably just as bizarre and exploitative!
Rated.
I think the only thing that alarms me more than these ads are the people who have commented that they don't see a problem with them...
Namely Marly makes a good point...and also raises the question : how did we get from how Sex. Sexism and Violence were (and are) a sales tool to a discussion of how people smelled years ago and copyright questions that seem to be mute??
Yes, we have come a long way. Now, there are mountains of sexist advertisements demeaning men instead of women.

Way to get rid of problems, feminists!
A few of those would work well as art in BDSM clubs nowadays.
How about the one of the little girl's pants being tugged off by the little dog.
That was around for years.
It was about some sun tan lotion.
In today's world in which parents are not even allowed to take pics of their kids unless they're totally covered and still risk arrest, it would not be allowed.
Some of the ads in the story are repulsive while others such as the one I mentioned were actually innocent other than by today's hysterically overdone standards.
"feminists that argue that women are still exploited & have made little tangible progress should meditate on these images."

I think, rather, that men (and some women) who think that sexism and exploitation does not still exist need to meditate on these images and remember that as late as the 70's feminist were considered radical--that there was a trivialization of the movement from those who claimed that there was nothing going on wrong in the world. Yes, we've come a long way--look at the pics! Tell me, look through a magazine and tell me you can't find examples of advertisements that might shock OS readers 50 yrs from now--assuming OS will exist in 50 yrs, of course. If you can't locate any, let me know. I can pull of a fist full in as many minutes.
Phil-
For the record, the use of images/copy demeaning men is equally offensive (like the shower ad included in the post.) In this instance, the overwheling majority of the ads depicted women as sex object and disposable *even "killable") ones at that.

And ghost writer is correct, this still goes on because sex always sells. But today we have a shot at enough public outrage and legal recourse to either raise the Mad Men's consciousness or at least scare the hell out of ad idiots who persist.
This is a reminder for when you hear complaints how bad women are treated today. The ad is correct: "You've come a long way baby." Bet you don't hear that much anymore. "Does She or Doesn't She? Only her hairdresser knows for sure." Snicker! Snicker! Back to the days when Bras and Draft Cards were burned. before the "Sexual Revolution", when Girls were told Sex is "Revolting."
Mary Ann, I was enjoying your blog. This post has left me thoroughly pissed. And look at all the men who have commented!! :)
I'm very pleased that we're all not like that any more, and that these ad piss us off. It shows we've actually evolved somewhat and are less unworthy than we used to be.

But I'm curious, just what is the Pitney-Bowes ad about? I mean, how do you juxtapose murder with postage? That's just weird.
My guess is that, in those days, she was the (competent) secretary who figured out how to run the new gizmo and he's the bumbling boss who has no idea how the thing works....or, she bought it without approval from purchasing and he's pissed...Either way, you're right, it is weird and stupid too,
The ads you present represent women as sub-humans. In their infinite Christian, "civilized" superiority, white men labeled Native-Americans "sub-human", also. Male violence pervades American society and all of western civilization. And to say that Islamic nations are much worse does not excuse other male violence in the least. The use of violence always reduces men to barbarism and the lowest level of human functioning.

But until men themselves do something about male violence toward women and children, women can only do so much. I feel like writing to the family of Yeardley Love and asking them if they are finally going to be the ones who start a movement against male violence which occurs every day, is reported every day, but no one EVER says what an EPIDEMIC it is!! Nor is the emotional instability of violent males ever discussed publicly. Of course, part of the reason is that it's women who are the hormonally unstable ones in a male-controlled society, which is just absolute crap!! Men do violence, kill, assault often because a woman wants a divorce or to break off a relationship. And for this she gets a brutal death, but women are the unstable ones??!!! HA!!!!
I especially thought the Bradley Group shower was enlightening! Very funny and scary! R
Letters are "CLOSED",re:"Spare me your Sex tapes"by Mary Elizabeth Williams] so I had to come her,wherever the word "sex" was being explored! If you wanted to be "Piously Spared" why did you choose to "judge" Danielle Staub rather ,the vulgar,illiterate words[NJ accent] TERESA GUIDICE'S updates as to her 'we have sex everday,sometimes twice" should have been written about instead! Those NJ "poor excuses for ITALIANS" so-called "Famiglia" talk about the "Narcissism",& at a new low,couldn't get low-er!! Soon to be bankrupt Teresa who told teresa to "go to work",must be high on the small from her own sexual overflow of info re:her "active sex life" which from anyone else would have sounded,ah,legit,but "this-MANZO MESS",the Bullying of,the many who are angered by the reputation having depicted Franklyn Lakes as a place where people like the Manzo's behaving badly Hypocrite,would have,should have been your premise rather than your attempt at trying to" express"oh so piously the antics of Danielle Staub,when you're not familiar w/ the show if you were,you'd not have attacked her w/ such "ease" because your story isn't any big revelation re:sex tapes! Did you instead have nothing better to add to this Open Salon? Take another better look at the devoid of characterre:the" Manzo Clan",class,integrity,humility,I could go on..their immorality,BULLY mentality,is not that of the Sicilian heritage I remember growing up,not in my Grandfather's house! Criminality seems to be forgotten here,you forgot the "Threatening facebook"message sent by the uneducated Ashley whose passive mother[daddy]Jacquline&Caroline's bro[cannot recall his name[as if it were inportant] This acceptance re:the "toast" caroline had at her dinner table saying "we shall never speak her name again"[double chin& frump "Matriarch"[uhum!},I say pay more-attention,to these everyday criminals,who host Fund raisers for their Cops then Caroline defending herself by saying innocently "I had nothing to do w. the ticket sales"BUT it was at your house! What do "ticket sales" have to do having the "cops "in "her"backyard? $1000$ a plate,while they sat around laughing at the tired ald sick expression "Lipstick"on a pig joke TERESA asked if Caroline would repeat it[for the audience]"you can put lipstick on a pig,it's still a pig" well PIGS are tortured everyday,& while they've been tagetted for being the dirty animal[when it's been a myth] is hardly an intellegent stimulating conversation,but again look at this bunch of" wanna be"pillars of the community? Danielle or anyone who wasn't from a convent would have had the same hell had they even spoken to them for a minute! Seems these wives have all had nothing but rich hubby's Dina's smug,conceited,stay at home whinning,re:"being there for her daughter,{while she wears that huge cross]an option many women do not have! Her boring,"laughing fests"[or FITS} of unsophisticated passifacation while indulging the stupid Teresa[calling Danielle a whore/SLASH/[saying SLASH after each remark..prostitute/Slas...This uneducated NJ gal& GIA,her daughter who "Rocked It"on the Cat Walk will be her last walk her actinginterview was so disturbing,waiting,as she sat amoungst the other mother's,she went on& on re:Gia can rememebr all her lines Gia knows this,that she's so perfect what's there Not to like" the woman looked at her as if to say,"my God shut up,stop this bragging"[she looked at TERESA as if she were crazy,,inside the casting director told her Gia would have to LOOSE that accent,Teresa said "No I don't want her to" but after offering that she'd"need" a{ speech]coach,she quicky thought for a minute,agreeing. Teresa "Thinks before she talks believe it",it proves it's better to not think,when one is devoid of elemental thought process this is the woman Dina admires[jaquline too]How "does" she do it,goes to the Mall,shopping,back to Mall while she's 8 mo's pregnant"Those 6inch heels,too!' I wish was as Carefree,Dina you are carefree of any financial struggles you've never taught your daughter how to make a bed! CARELESS is more like the description of Teresa GUIDICE{nyPost's latest[BRAVOTV MESSAGE BOARDS} re Section 5? Newark federal Court,appearance owing..Millions,like say,11 MIl but again does the exact amount matter when the salesgirls are having a party just thinking about it? I didn't even hear "thank you,she never picked up the mess her littlest daughter made the salesgirl had to..Watch the show you'll find more re:the discusting Motley Group,of sorry Italians {Milianeze,Bologna-eze?what ever region they're from,they disclosed the amount of donation money Danielle gave the "BRownstone" event[owned by Caroline's hubby[she told us "he put his Blood,sweat