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Redstocking Grandma

Redstocking Grandma
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Baldwin, New York,
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July 17
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My name is Mary Joan Koch. The Redstockings were a NYC radical feminist group in the late 60s and early 70s. I have five grandchildren, 5, 3 1/2, 3 1/2, 2, and 1. Becoming a grandma has rekindled my radical feminism. I speak for the children.

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JANUARY 10, 2010 4:18PM

Growing Book Worms

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MJReading46_1
Momreading

 1951

In my baby book my mom wrote: "A book worm--she loved all books. At 2 years her favorites were Dumbo, Children's Garden of VersesAlice in Wonderland. Was always eager for Cinderella, Goldilocks, etc." My parents read to us every single night. I left home for college when my youngest brother was 5, and they were still reading. They tended to pick books of interest to the older children, so the younger ones were exposed to Winnie the PoohThe Jungle Books, Alice in WonderlandThe Wind in ththe Willows, etc. at an early age. When they visited my first daughter Emma the day she was born,they  brought her three picture books.

 

My mom and dad were consummate book worms. Our local library was a tiny volunteer operation in an old church. They took us to the Hempstead Library, three miles away. We were each allowed to take out as many books as we could carry; once I managed 20. My first library card seemed magical. I vividly remember my awe when I realized that card was a passport to the entire world. Wherever I have been in the world, libraries are home. Jorge Luis Borges wrote, "I have always imagined that Paradise will be a kind of library."

MJreadVanessa

  1974 

mollywhuppie
1985

Three-year-old Molly's kitten-holding technique was not optimal in 1985. She assured me she could talk to animals, and I absolutely believed her. Reading to toddlers and preschoolers is one of life's supreme pleasures. It is the natural follow-up to breastfeeding. Preschoolers who are read to realize that reading aloud is a wonderful way to nurture someone. I recall my daughter Jane's saying to her doll, "Don't cry baby. Mommy will read to you." I always read aloud to the older girls when I was nursing the baby.

 

Since birth my grandson's mom and dad   have read to him everyday. He enjoys the same books his mother and aunts did--Mother Goose, Dr. SeussFrog and ToadMake Way for Ducklings, Corduroy, Peter Rabbit, Mike Mulligan and His Steam Shovel, Runaway Bunny, Where the Wild Things Are. His attention span outlasts our voices. Sometims he will sit on the floor by himself with a pile of books, "I read."

 

We all follow my parents' example and introduce books to babies from birth.

 

natemothergoose

 May 2007

 

Maggiereading

September 2008

elenafrog

May 2009  

annabel

September 2009

At my daughters' insistence I kept all of their books. This year the three new mothers have gone through the whole collection bargaining for their favorites--Willian Steig, Leo Lionni, Don Freeman, Russell Hoban, Maurice Sendak, Arnold Lobel. Those they lost to theirs sister, they requested for  Christmas. I can't convey the joy of reading to my grandchildren the books my daughters loved. This video of Grandma Andy and Michael says it more eloquently than any words.

 

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My dad and my first husband were wonderful photographers. I am doing well with my digital camera. I inherited all my grandma's and my parents' pictures. When I had to be in the same room with my mom to prevent her from doing something reckless and falling, I scanned thousands of the family slides and pictures.
Lovely! We read many of these books to our kids and are looking forward to doing the same with grandkids. Frog and Toad rule!
I love the joy in that video. I read to my girls, too, & they are big big readers, as are the grandkids. There is nothing like reading to a little one & hearing them say, "Again!" or having them run up to you, book in hand, wanting to hear the stories. I still remember the smell of our local library from when I was a child. It was heaven.
AtHomePilgrim, I never get tired of Frog and Toad. I have many interesting conversations with people of all ages whether they consider themselves a frog or a toad.Reading to children seems to be the obvious continuation to breastfeeding them when they were babies.
This gave me chill bumps. What's better than a family that reads?!

I especially enjoyed seeing "Frog and Toad" again. Most people look at me like I am crazy when I remark how much I loved those two characters.
thanks for those pics of all these beautiful babies... makes me feel good to see those little lives taking shape
AHHHHHHH! A fellow bookworm! I LOVE IT!! My parents read to me and now to my sons ... and we have thousands of books (literally) in our house. My kids have been introduced to bookstores and libraries since they were in the womb and we all read together. I just love love this!!

I have pictures of the boys being on my dad's lap (just this past Thanksgiving) being read to and my husband reads to them at breakfast. Now they're starting to read on their own but I am still reading to them ... it's our favorite part of the day. I just love this post!!!

Don't you ever get the feeling sometimes there's never enough time to read? :o)
I treasure my Weekly Reader edition of "Frog and Toad" & read it to my girls. Another Lobel gem is "Miss Suzy." Love your comment about the transition from breastfeeding to reading - it's so true.
I loved this, especially your title. William Steig is great-- my kids love Sylvester and the Magic Pebble, and it took me a while to figure out he also authored Shrek. I also saved many of my books from childhood, and my parents brought them along on at least three moves around the country. It was a great joy to give them to my kids.
Awwww.

I think that reading to your children is one of the very best things a parent can do. Even my dad read to us.
Linda, I first discovered Steig as a cartoonist. I have all of his picture books. My 3 mother daughters agreed they should stay here as a complete collection and all of them asked for some for Christmas.
Just wonderful and so TRUE!!! You are an inspiration. Reading to the kid is something that men can do and if they do it, they'll like it. My husband read to my first son every night for seven or eight years. I was in charge of providing the books, but not reading.