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Redstocking Grandma

Redstocking Grandma
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July 17
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My name is Mary Joan Koch. The Redstockings were a NYC radical feminist group in the late 60s and early 70s. I have five grandchildren, 5, 3 1/2, 3 1/2, 2, and 1. Becoming a grandma has rekindled my radical feminism. I speak for the children.

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MARCH 27, 2010 9:43AM

Cure for Invisibility--Lady in Red

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 1958, Age 13
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1963, Age 18
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 1971, Age 26, Just Before I Started Columbia Law School

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 1973, 6 months Pregnant. My radiation physicst husband and I were a successful genetic experiment. When we met, he was carrying Sagan's Intelligent Life in the Universe. I was carrying Kafka's Metamorphosis.

 

Red has always been my favorite color. My first tricycle was red. My blogs use red on the header and sidefar. I have always wanted a red living room, but only managed to have one after my first marriage ended and my three older girls had left home. My red living room makes me happy.

 

When I met my first and second husbands I was wearing a red dress. I wore red for my second wedding. I love wearing red hats. My favorite shoes ever were a pair of red suede boots. Last winter I was thrilled to find long over-the-thigh socks at Target. I hate shopoping, but it takes little time  if you are looking for red, either in a thrift shop or a department store. Some years true red is only available at Land's End.

At job interviews with a man, I have worn red and gotten hired; with a woman, anything but red is the rule. My favorite coat is a bright red fleece jacket I inherited from my mom when she died 4 years ago. When I wear it, I feel her arms around me. When I meet someone in Manhattan, I am easy to find--straight silver hair wearing red.

 

It's sad how few New Yorkers wear red. An average city block might have 15 different red objects (not counting traffic lights or taillights). But I have walked as many as 8 blocks before encountering anyone actually wearing red. All New Yorkers should wear red every September 11.

 

When I enter a room where I don't know anybody, I start talking to people wearing red. Long ago, I decided to talk to any child I meet who is wearing red. Almost always the color choice is their idea, not their parents. No one seems to wear red by accident. I always compliment strangers who are wearing red. I am realizing we are a secret revolutionary cell:) I am thrilled the my baby and toddler granddaughters wear red. I gush extravagantly over all babies wearing red in NYC.

 

 How much red do you have in your wardrobe? To what extent does color determine your clothes choices?

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I think red looks good on you.
My face tends to get red so I'm not sure I'd be a good candidate for wearing red. I seem to have lots of blue shirts.
Red looks terrible on me so I have hardly anything that's red, and wear it only reluctantly. Pink however always gets me compliments. For general visibility, I usually wear something that's bright lime green which shows up nicely against the black I and every other New Yorker wear constantly.

I love that 1963 dress! And you're adorable in your 13 year old beach picture!
am puzzled by people who don't have an answer when asked about their favorite color. One of my daughters had a purple phase for about 2 to 5 when she always wanted to wear purple. Fortunately she had very indulgent aunts and grandmas. Then she suddenly stopped wearing purple. Today she wears lots of red.

ladyfarmerjed, my mom's favorite color was blue. I do like blue.
ixxidust, my mom made me the red dress and the same one in blue. Until she went back to college, she made most of my clothes, though I wore uniforms to school everyday. I mourn the lost art of sewing. It isn't dead. Walmart, for example, usually has an excellent selection of fabrics and sewing essentials.

I think pink and lime green look terrific with black. I almost always wear my red with black or white.

Looking at me at 13, I perfectly understand that my brothers 10 years younger and 13 years younger often confused me with their mother.

CrazeCzar, I love orange, but don't think it looks good on me. I want a picture.
I can wear and look good in certain reds. But blue is my all time favorite color royal blue is my bestest color! I like you in red. You found your color early and knew it. Pretty cool!
as a child, my tricycle, favorite bed linen, 'office furniture,' and favorite pair of mary janes were all red. red was my favorite color until shock chased it from my bosom. i saw a school mate stabbed to death for his bicycle; the white shirt of his school uniform dyed a disgusting red. that was it for my passion with red...well until adulthood where i have a stunning red coat, a to die for pair of red pumps (they dont go together.) as for favorite colors, i dont have any...maybe black...but now i just love colors...period.


enjoyed reading you and seeing the photographs.

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Never knew this much about the color red. The only thing I have with a lot of red in it is my bank account.
Cranky, what colors do you wear or don't you think about it? Have your choices changed?

Renatta, of course your schoolmate's stabbing would kill your love for red. I too love color--red living room, sage green bedroom, blue bathroom, yellow kitchen. People on Long Island wear bright colors much more frequently than New Yorkers.

Why do you think New Yorkers always wear black?
lunchlady, I love the color royal blue. I don't have it in my wardrobe, though, probably because my mom owned the color.
I remember being asked my favorite color when I was a kid & saying "Red, of course. It's the most beautiful!" As an adult I went through a green phase, and a yellow but orange is my definite favorite now, as anyone walking into my living room can tell.
Red looks awful on me. I only wear it on Spirit Days at school, because red and black are our colors. :)
Red is great. It is harder to find. I remember as a kid that you couldn't buy black to wear in Nebraska. Now it's hard to find navy blue (I think it was in style 1 season in the last 20). At work, I try to wear at least one "color" when I wear red. I object to several women at the desk all wearing black from head to toe--the "crows" look. Black is easy to find and people think it's slimming. I think that women are afraid of being noticed negatively, so they stick to black, but end up with mourning. My current wardrobe has almost no prints--so I can match up nearly anything with anything else. I wear novelty socks as my "Kiddy" identity.
nolalibrarian, for 8 years I wore a school uniform consisting of a forest green jumper and a yellow nylon blouse that I washed out every night. My high school uniform was a much uglier navy blue jumper and a white blouse. Those 12 years have rather poisoned my relationship with navy blue. I love the black and red combination.

Caroline, when I lived in Manhattan I had a lovely orange kitchen.

Despairing of my tomboyish ways, my mother sent me to a charm class when I was 13. I was told I could wear any color but khaki and mustard. The good thing about white/silver hair is that, unlike blonde, it does't change what colors look good on me.

Sweetfeet, I seldom see people wearing red that doesn't suit them. Maybe women just don't grab a red shirt out of their closet without thinking about it.

I too don't like prints, though I have two 14 year old wool tartan skirts that I love.
Oh, I'll have to post a photo of my bedroom: dark red striped walls with red velvet curtains. Black floors, black trim around the window and doors. Surprisingly, it works--rather New Orleans boudoir, but oddly peaceful, too. It's the room where my second baby was born!

ps--love the dress in your 18-yr-old pic! I love to wear red, too.
Ginny, I need to see that picture of your bedroom. My imagination can't possibly do justice to it.
I love red! I have several red items of clothing - including a pair of red jeans - that I absolutely love. I am still looking for the perfect red coat, I know what I want, I just can't find it in my size. If I had to pick a favorite color to wear, I would probably say red. Or orange. Or yellow. I love vibrant jewel tones.
I must have that dress in your 18-year-old picture.

I have a bright red trench coat. (And a khaki one as well. They have lots of pockets and make people respect me when they have no real reason for doing so.) And I usually wear red lipstick now that I found a brand that stays on through almost anything. (Maybelline Superstay.)

I was, as a child, forced to be the "Autumn" model for my mother and her friends' "Color Me Beautiful" seminars. I was apparently the only female they could find with olive skin and dark eyes--nearly everyone in our community was German, so blue-eyed blondes abounded. Never mind that I was only four and had no interest in sitting still for this. However, I did enjoy the bribes, so I did it.

According to that, I look the best in olive green and mustard yellow and harvest gold and look horrible in navy. Whatever. I wear a lot of dark brown, but navy blue does make me look like I have TB.
You look great in red. I'm glad I have the coloring to wear red because it's still my favorite color. (And its telling how you only got your red room when your first marriage ended...and you got to please yourself.) If I see you on the street I will give our secret revolutionary cell signal. So you'll know it's me.
As a red-headed child in the '50s, I was told I could never, EVER wear red. I was convinced there must be a law on the books stating that. My older brown-haired sister could wear any color she liked, and often it was red -- which drove me wild with envy. As a young teenager I was obsessed with the thought that I couldn't wear red; every piece of clothing I wanted was red, it seemed, and I had to choose among the dregs of navy blue, brown and green. Now that I am very much older I still can't bring myself to wear red, even though my hair has long-since faded and is mixed with gray. Ancient strictures die hard! Just as well -- my favorite color is green these days . . .
Love the read but your husband's facial hair and that tie.............wow! Hope all is well.
My daughters find their father's 70s fashion choices hysterically funny.