MARY T. KELLY

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Family, marital, and individual psychotherapist. Mother to four who no longer need my services but still enjoy my love as I do theirs. This is a good thing. I specialize in stepfamily dynamics and difficult transitions. I try to write from the heart with a sense of vulnerability, humor and a frank look at myself. Art shown: "Four Pots" by Lindsey Leavell

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APRIL 20, 2009 8:41AM

4/20: Boulder's Pot Puffing Gathering

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 4/20

4/20, CU

(4/20, 2008...University of Colorado Campus just BEFORE 4:20)

Living in a college town definitely has its advantages for a number of reasons.  One of them is that the University is always hosting various events…political, cultural, academic, and musical just to name a few.

Living in a college town and being surrounded by kids in their late teens and 20's keeps you in perpetual age denial. 

The University of Colorado, Boulder also has the unique distinction of being the reluctant home to the largest gathering of people IN THE WORLD who celebrate the many benefits and uses of marijuana on the infamous day of 4/20.

4/20 you ask?  Surely you jest.  You never heard of 4/20?  Perhaps the reason I know about 4/20 is a by-product of raising 4 children in Boulder, Colorado.  When I moved here 25 years ago, I thought a joint was a sleazy bar.

It still took me years to learn about 4/20 and who else better to learn about it from than from my oldest teenage son?  One day, one of my son’s friends made some kind of crack about 4/20.  My alert mother ears perked up when this reference to “4/20” was accompanied with bursts of laughter and guffaws from the pimply adolescent males.

“Brent, what are you guys laughing about?  What does 4/20 mean?”

That brought more fits of hysteria and boys clutching their stomachs as they bent over in laughter.  Now that I think of it, it really wasn’t THAT funny.

“Mom.  Let me explain it to you,” my oldest said in earnest.  He went on to tell me that he had read in a magazine, "High Times" that the term 4/20 originated in 1971 at San Rafael High School (California, duh) because of a group of about a dozen pot-smoking students.  The term was shorthand for the time of day the group would meet to partake in their daily ritual of lighting up.

“How could this be?”  I thought to myself.  After all, I graduated from Marin Catholic High School in 1972, a scant 10 minute drive to San Rafael High and I had never heard of this 4/20 stuff.

I’m such a late bloomer.  And wait a minute…why does MY SON know all about this?

After being informed of what this decadent and illegal gateway to eventual heroin addiction and death 4/20 meant, I proceeded to give my son and his friends the JUST SAY NO talk about drugs.  They all insist to this day that they do not remember this talk. 

Year after year I read about the Pot-Puffing Gathering at CU.  It was almost as famous as the annul Naked Pumpkin Run. 

Last year I decided to be open minded (it wasn’t the first time I assure you).  It was a beautiful April day and my husband and I rode our bikes down the Boulder Creek Path to the campus.  We met some other good friends and soon found ourselves smack in the middle of TEN THOUSAND people, people of all ages, but mostly college age…well really, we did kind of stick out like sore thumbs…like those college kids were looking at us very suspiciously, like we might be some kind of NARCs or undercover agents.

The years previously, the school had developed a bad rep among the students.  The sprinklers would be turned on in the fields the students were gathered in.  This may have dampened their ability to smoke, but not their spirits.  Things got uglier when the University offered to pay any student $50 if they could identify any of the depraved students with the smoke coming out of their silly grinned mouths.  The authorities had taken hundreds of pictures of the offenders.  And the jaw dropping fact…kids ratted on other kids.

Last year the school and local police decided to chill out and they adopted a mellow approach.  They were going to leave the crowd alone.

Last year, I stood in amazement looking at the crowd of over 10,000 people peacefully smashed together in one medium sized field, shoulder to shoulder, beach balls playfully flying about like the wafts of smoke that hovered protectively above the carefree crowd.

4/20, CU AFTER

(4/20, 2008...University of Colorado, Boulder right AT 4:20)

There were no fights, no broken beer bottles.  There was no screaming, no anger, no rants, no riots.  There were no DUI’s, no black outs, no injuries. 

I took in the large crowd, a crowd that came off more as a huge family reunion with the exception being that everyone there actually seemed to like each other.

The anti-drug ad that screamed DOPE MAKES YOU A DOPE seemed suddenly silly to me.  Laughable in fact. 

Before that day, I never really knew what the expression “contact high” meant.

This year, the marijuana enthusiasts really got organized and the weekend was filled with workshops that brought in doctors, researchers and legal experts from all over the country to discuss the benefits of this organic yet persistently and illogically demonized plant. 

Today we will once again get on our bikes on a 65-degree April day and join the expected 10,000 celebrants, once again the largest group of people in the U.S. to assemble together to protest the many restrictive and punitive laws throughout the country and at the same time enjoy the benefits of a plant that’s gotten a bum rap from those ignorant, afraid and/or in bed with the pharmaceutical companies.

Living in Boulder has not only helped me stay in age denial, but now I’m afraid, it’s hippified me.

Peace out.

 

 Alfred E. Neuman  

What Me Worry? 

 UPDATE:  PICTURES FROM 4/20/09

I just got back from from the annual event that has gained a reputation all over the world.  Here's more pictures (I hope you all like them because I sacrificed a lot to get them). 

Bode 

 (Bode also known as Wet Painter.  He ran an unsuccessful bid for President of the United States, 2008.)

4/20/09--Before

(4/20/09:  Norlin Field, CU campus right before 4:20)

CU after

(4/20/09:  Norlin Field, CU campus right after 4:20) 

Aerial view of CU

(Aerial view of CU 4/20/09)

 UPDATE FOR 4/20/2010 

Due to the state wide legislation of medical marijuana, this large event is slated to be even larger this year, with an expectation of up to 15,000 people in attendance.

The weather should be mild, reaching a Mile high of 68 degrees and the hope of many is that the police will continue to allow this event peacefully and mellowly.  And why not?  No harm, no foul.

 

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Proving it is never too late to become cooler.
Ha! I can't tell you the last time I saw Alfred. Good to see him again. :-D

RE: smoking pot. Well, no comment. I think that contact high reaches us a couple of days later, depending on the jet stream. ;-D

Thumbed. Faaaaaaaaaaaaaar out, man.
Very cool Mary. Ann Arbor had the Hemp Fest on April 4th but I am sure it didn't attract 10,000 people or so. However that is the day pot became legalized for medical use. Now if I can only find a prescribing doctor...
rated for your open mind and hippie heart
smoke 'em if ya got 'em. happy 4/20 mary!
Mary, does this mean you'll be smoking a blunt today? :-D
Rated
Happy 420 MTK. I've never understood the vehemence of the anti marijauna laws. They have their origins in racist sentiments and in the simple fact that Harry Anslingers alcohol agents were about to lose their jobs with the repeal of prohibition. I think that the abject hatred felt by the government for those trouble making hippes comes into play as well. The use of cannabis for pleasure can be traced to the Sumerians. They would throw hemp on to heated rocks and "bathe" in the smoke.

How much money has been wasted in an effort to stop it's use? How many prison cells are filled with people who did little more than possess a smal amount of cannabis? How much property has been unlawfully seized in its name?

I don't promote the use of marijauna by teens and children. I can't find a single arguement that justfies the continued prohibition.
Make sure you bring munchies with you.
Boy, between 4/20 and the nude, pumpkin-head race I'd say you live in a pretty impressive place, Mary!
I think I have a contact buzz all the way down here in the Springs. Great post as always!
Very cool story Mary, thanks.
Right on. I think this is tremendous and wonderful. When will we just make this stuff LEGAL?!?

Stay mellow.
I was trying to remember back to 4/20/72 when I lived in Boulder...but either I was working or my memory escapes me. Bummer.

Have a groovy day!
4/20 has gone mainstream after last night's "Family Guy" episode titled..."Episode 420" on Fox. I laughed so much, I was crying. Really, it was the show, man. I swear. For real. That was some good shit last night. What was I saying? Oh well, never mind. Gotta go make a PB&J.
Hi Mary, When I rated your post it jumped from 6 thumbs to 12! Not bad!
My brother was prescribed marijuana for his extreme pain and it worked quite well for him. I could use some right now!;-)
Smoke 'em if you got 'em!
Cool....I like that after stumbling onto this event last year you chose to participate this year.
contact high, hmmmm?
yeah, righhhhhht....
Don't Bogart that Rocky Mountain High. Yep, I'm kinda high, too, this morning. A beautiful cool central TX mornin'...
Rated & Cheers!
and you even know what a narc is. could you be hipper, er hippier, i mean, more hip? welcome to the dark side.
For a fuller explanation of how marijuana was demonized and how it became illegal. please read my Editor's Pick and cover featured post, Romancing the Stoned
When the laws are finally changed, INDUSTRIAL HEMP will be the big deal -- industrial applications that will challenge petroleum, chemical and pharmaceutical corporations. Archival paper without use of hazardous chemicals? Cheap food? Cheap biomass? Durable fiber? Paint? Fuel? Plastics? Kindly find time to read "The Emperor Wears No Clothes" by Jack Herer. Anslinger's prohibition on dope was a stupid idea from the word go. It's a freaking PLANT.

Personally I believe that dope's magical quality of stripping away years and decades of programming and you-will-behave type chemicals like fluoride in the water is why it's STILL illegal. What kind of despotic government wants a bunch of enlightened sheep wandering around?!
Alfred Newman looks that way
'Cause he smokes reefer every day
And if you dare to take a toke
You'll end up looking like that bloke

This announcement provided by the American Tobacco Company
Bet the area restaurants have a great afternoon ....after this peaceful get-together! Happy 4/20 and this was a great (and educational) piece. Remember.....breathe deeply!
Nice :) I'm not a (pot) smoker usually, but I just don't understand how it hasn't been legalized yet. As you said: no violence, blackouts, DUIs, injuries. Have fun! My brother went to school in Boulder and I'm sure he attended this in the past.
Nice post but I am still reeling from the fact that you graduated from high school in 1972 and never smoked pot. I mean. Really? Really? Really? Or are you just saying that for your kids' benefit. Anyway, welcome to the mountain of the enlightened.:)

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Thanks, Mary - this is another bit of Boulder that I never knew about despite having family there!

I keep wondering if weed will get legalized because the tobacco co's will put pressure on for it to happen, so they can replace all the cigarette smokers they've lost with pot smokers. they already have all the structure in place to manufacture and sell smoking sticks, after all (and, legend has it, various names copyrighted in case pot is legalized).
I feel Woodstock a-coming... Love & Peace!
For many years now, 4:20pm has been 'tea' time in my cloistered apartments in Old Hollywood.
BBE: I love that it's never too late to be cool. Thanks for reading and commenting.

Bill S: Don't you just love Alfred? I used to love MAD magazine. I think I probably still would. I think the contact high should be reaching you soon...enjoy!

ladyfarmerjed: I think prescribing doctors aren't hard to find. I can't emphasize enough the importance of medical marijuana. It has been extremely beneficial to those suffering with cancer, chemo, chronic pain and MS just to name a few. Mental health is another fair argument. Thanks for commenting.

Lonnie: I'll be thinking of you when I'm at CU today. Happy 4/20 to you too.

JK: There's been a lot of discussion about that in the mainstream media as well as on the OS site. I think the cost benefits would be enormous. And yes, it's been time to take down the wall for the past 70 years.

Kind of Blue: Are you calling me blunt? I always try for directness with gentleness!

bobbot: Anslinger is singly handedly reponsible for much of the racism that was perpetuated with the use of marijuana and it's ridiculous. Being a parent of teenagers who are no longer, it's not that I promoted the use of marijuana. But I was a realistic parent. Parents need to be realistic and remember their own youths. I always told my children that if they were going to experiment, please have it be with marijuana. Alcohol use among teenagers scares me to death for good reason. I never read a story where a car full of teenagers were killed in a accident where the driver was stoned.

trig: High 5 right back at you!

cartouche: Dinner on the Pearl Street Mall will be shortly after 4:20! Maybe we'll go to famous Top Chef's Hosea's restaurant and really enjoy ourselves :)

Lea: Yes, Boulder is never a boring town to live in. Never.

Sheldon: Yeah, feel the love and the contact buzz. Why do I have a feeling Colorado Springs doesn't have this kind of gathering?

reefersmoke: Thank you and thank you for your excellent posts that haven't gotten much visibility. Here's one I really enjoyed:
http://open.salon.com/blog/reefersmoke/2009/04/13/allen_st_pierre

odetteroulette: I think all of Boulder will be very mellow today. Thanks for reading and commenting.

BuffyW: Well there may be a very plausible explanation as to why it escapes you!

Joe: Your comment was very very funny. And now I will definitely see if I can check out that Family Guy episode. It sounds like something that shouldn't be missed! How was the PB&J so early in the morning?

junk1: Your brother is a prime example for the need of this very medicinal plant. I heard an amazing story of where an adult son persuaded his father to try medicinal marijuana for a month. His father suffered from MS and had lost most of his vision and was unable to drive. True story: The father tried it daily for a month and got his eyesight and his driver's license back. Now that is newsworthy!

NoisyNora: I'm a people person and its hard for me to resist a gathering that is known world wide for its uniqueness and passion.

Brian B...yeah, just call me a Bill Clinton wannabe!

irritatedmother: Hey, you might try this as a mother coping skill :)

Texas Bubba: Would never be possessive about the Rocky Mountain High...never. A beautiful morning right back at you.

Cap'n: Welcome to the dark side...I love it. If I knew in my born again Christian days that I was going to be going to these kinds of events in mid-life (ha), I would never have believed it.

wayne gallant: I'm on it as soon as I finish making comments here. Thanks for pointing me in that direction.

Gordon: The possibilities are limitless, but you're right. What would the pharmaceuticals do? What would commercial industry do? It's a crime on the part of the government. Thanks for reading and commenting.

Tom: A poem about Alfred Newman! I love it. Your humor always includes a lot of intelligence and good common sense. Thank you!

Fabflamingo: Pearl Street Mall will be hopping and I'll be one of their patrons. Breathe deeply...I'll try to remember that :)

George Sand: The politics involved in this, the fear, the assumptions, the myth that marijuana is a gateway drug, the money, many reasons it is not legalized and none of them valid.

Lisa Solod Warren: Believe me, I was the ONLY person in my high school that neither drank or smoked weed. The reasons for that are many...mostly boring I'm afraid.

Silkstone: Not sure about what the stand is on the part of the tobacco companies. Others more educated in this area will be the ones to say. I wouldn't be surprised about the names being copyrighted now.

New Blog: Thanks so much for your comment. I do vaguely remember that story of the pot dealer. It's a small town really. Right now there is a publicly visible case about a student who had gone through all the legal hoops to get a medical marijuana prescription. A neighbor complained about his plants and they were confiscated at gun point. This is highly disturbing. Have a good mellow day today and thanks so much for your comment.

screamin mama: Oh, yes, I hope there's lots of music!

Harry: I may have to do that, only in deference to your small request.

BBE: Thanks for adding me on. I truly appreciate it. I had read and rated that post and I appreciate the addition. As for the EP...I really would love anything on this subject to get as much publicity as possible. Especially this event given that it is the largest event of its type IN THE WORLD.
Monsieur: I'm so happy that your "tea time" is not restricted only to the actual date of 4/20. It only adds to my firm conviction that you are the most refined of gentlemen.
Smoke 'em if you got 'em, Mary.

Just discovered this 4/20 thingy today....and I live in a college town. Rutgers has more of its university here in Piscataway than in New Brunswick.

Glad things are moving in the direction they are on pot. 'Bout time we finally grow up.
Looks like a hell of a lot more fun and educational than the Tea Parties of last week.
Yay for 4/20! I do love the pot-smoking part of this day here in CO. No arguments from me. BTW, I love the photo with the cloud above it.
Great article,

Yes the young ones keep us young or remind us how old we are getting.

I think Hempfest in Seattle is the largest. Which drew over 310,000 people last year. But, 15,000 people is a respectable turnout. Also, 4/20 was also a statement that has become about user responsibility. The idea is that you do not get high until after work or school not all day long. It is sort of a self regulating statement about marijuana use.

There is also confusion between industrial hemp and marijuana although both are illegal to cultivate and are in the plant genus family they are two totally different plants. You could smoke hemp, if you are up to smoking a few ounces at a time because it contains almost no THC. Hemp is to marijuana is like heroin is to poppy seed muffins.

Canada and China are becoming major growers and producers of hemp. Industrial hemp is a great source of fiber for rope, cloth, and paper. Seeds and oil are high (no pun intended) in essential oils and protein, it is almost a perfect food. Oil can be used for bio fuel as well as for paint and plastics.

Hemp production in the US is primarily blocked by the DEA because they claim it would make marijuana detection impossible. Because of this American farmers are not allowed to grow a plant that has 9 times the tinsel strength of cotton.

One acre of hemp replaces 4 acres of woodlands for paper fiber and is renewable each year, compared to 30 years for wood. It is estimated that 60% of all pesticides used in agribusiness are for cotton growing. Hemp requires no pesticides or fertilizer.

So if you want the ultimate time at this year's festival wear hemp clothing, and eat a salad with hemp oil dressing after you get your annual contact high. Tune in, peace out,and dick Nixon before he dicks you. Because the world needs old hippies.
When I went to Ole Miss for undergrad, I walked out of the student union into a huge crowd. I sat down on the steps and waited to figure out what it was all about. It was a Canibus (spelling?) meeting to legalize marijuana (or at least hemp). Unfortunately, someone took a picture of the crowd on the steps, including me, and put it on the front cover of the paper (of which my mom had subscribed to, in order to keep up with my college). Yeah...that went over well.

Good for you for going and for continuing to challenge your assumptions.
Yawn. Marijuana. Go ahead and smoke it if you like. I'm a grownup now, and I'm so past that.

Medical MJ is a different matter. Legalize it NOW.

Gordon W, WTF are you talking about with the fluoride comment? Where I grew up they didn't put fluoride in the water because nature already did the job, and we're the least you-will-behave bunch of people you will ever meet.

Silkstone, in the UK lots of names like "Afghan Black" and "Lebanese Red" are copyrighted. However one may inquire as to whether a name is copyrighted, but they won't disclose who holds the copyright. Everyone always assumes it's the tobacco companies.
Some very funny stuff. From gateway drugs to Alfred E. Newman – you covered it all. And pretty amazing pic of the ganja cloud! That’s one big hit.

Obviously the time for legalization is upon us. Not that I’m interested in getting high (never was a smoker/drinker type), but it’s too bad the most common way to use pot is to smoke it – inhaling smoke of pretty much any kind is fairly bad for your respiratory system. I’ve heard that vaporizers are another, healthier way. Don’t know much about it, but I suppose if Marijuana was legalized, all the alternative ways to use it might see the light of day.
I spent 2 years at CU in the early-80's ( had to leave due to too much ski time and not enough school time). The day my parents put me on the plane for my first semester, the cover of Time called Boulder the cocaine capital of the US. Glad to see something more productive has taken over. I do love that town!
Age denial and hippified. Is that a rationalization for being an aging hippy?

I noticed the comment at the end about pharma. What have they got to do with it?

And yes, it has its benefits.
Frank: Wow, just discovered it and you live in a college town? Hard to imagine but I've gotten this feedback from others in college towns. Maybe Boulder is really more enlightened :). Yes, things are slowly moving in the right direction. Thanks for your comment.

Smithery: Agreed!

AshKW: There really hasn't been any argument has there on this post? Telling of the overwhelming support Coloradans give this issue. Now we just need to change their minds on gay marriage. Yes, I love the photo too. That cloud of smoke was intense and am sure will be again shortly.

M Todd: I was hoping you would chime in and add your more than .02. Is Seattle's Hempfest actually on 4/20? If so, I would not make a good investigative reporter. This was what I was told at the conference yesterday. Thank you for all the information of hemp and its products. One attorney on one of the panels said that the justice system is always the last system to change. The change needs to come first where marijuana isn't so demonized so that DEA doesn't get their pants all in a wad. The science in support of marijuana is overwhelming. I hope that our grandchildren will be stupefied that this was ever such a prohibitive issue. Thank you so much for contributing.

Noahvose: Well that was your lucky day! Maybe it was a sign. Poor Mom...Thanks so much for reading and commenting.

Just Cathy: A fun fellow OSer referred to this as the "Cookie Monster". I love cookies!

GeeBee: Now I don't think we need to assume that adults who smoke/ingest weed are not grown ups. Having said that, the medical marijuana issue should be a no-brainer ASAP. People are suffering. The social stigma needs to change as well. Thanks for your comment.

David: Thanks for your reasonable response. The lungs can be affected adversely by smoking over time. But there are plenty of ways to ingest marijuana such as tinctures (many of these are helpful to cancer patients without the feeling of being "stoned"), cookies, or brownies. The vaporizers are extremely helpful as well (I learned ALL of this because of the workshop I attended at CU yesterday).

mamoore: I had 2 babies when we moved here in 1983. I'm so glad I hadn't seen that Time cover magazine. Cocaine is a whole another story! Boulder is a great town...come visit some time!
I knew I loved Boulder! Why didn't I pick today to visit???
Geoff: An aging hippy would be one who was actually a hippie in the 60's which I clearly was not as I was TOO young. As for the pharmaceutical companies, volumes could be written. But to give you an example, what would mass use of medical marijuana do to all the pharmaceuticals that make pain pills. What would happen to Vicodin and Percocet? They have made a synthetic pharmaceutical drug to help with the nauseousness that accompanies chemotherapy. It contains THC but again, is synthetic and the effects are not nearly as effective as the pure and organic substance straight from the plant. (I learned that yesterday as well.)

cberg: There's always next year!
Bong hits for all my friends! Happy 4/20 OS (:
Great post, Mary. I almost missed this. Even though I haven't smoked pot on any kind of regular basis in over twenty years it seems ridiculous to have ordinary folks in prison over pot charges. I believe that 40% are in on drug charges. They are not the same person when they get out. Many are hardened and have no resemblance to their prior selves. I've witnessed this first hand. It is sickening.
Let the people decide what is best for them. Not the government.
Hail to 4/20 and CU!!! WooHoo!
Point taken on the THC and Pharma. Aging hippy? They were around through the 1970s, then boomers discovered money, Mich Light started the chant, "Who. Says. You can't have it all?" and the 80s age of excess glorified greed with Gordon Gekko as its poster child and the laid back stoners were mocked for their paltry portfolios.

Well now we all got paltry portfolios while the rules players have ulcers and short term memory loss and the hippies have short term memory loss.

So it begs the question who had more fun losing their minds if they are both going to be living hand to mouth in the depends years ...
I'm a coming to visit you Mary Mary...it's been a while. I've been hanging out with my gay son--the sweet good one--and his wonderful lover--in their villa in Belagio. I heard you were pregnant again. Is that true???
tea and symphony: Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

Michael: No worries, I wouldn't have let you miss it. Thanks for your comment and I'm in total agreement. It was a beautiful day today. Great to stop working a little early, getting on my bike with my husband and spend time outside. I can't resist a large crowd.

Gwool: I think there may be a very hysterical post in your latest comment...go for it!

Viciousbaglady: I've missed you so! And there you are, all lah de dah, hanging out with your wonderful son and his partner in Italy. You must have some stories! Hey, does your son love my favorite American Idol contestant Adam Lambert? Do you love Adam Lambert? But being all sophisticated and European now, you probably don't know who I'm talking about. As for my pregnancy, I was waiting for a more appropriate time to let everyone know. But since you let the cat out of the bag...well, you heard right, what can I say. It's the damn phermones of these college kids all around me.
love the update pics! thank you so much for reporting to us! I'd really like to think that these young people could have aserious impact on this ridiculous issue.
I am always so totally there, and here, in spirit.

And don't bogart that joint, my dear Mary.

Rated cause you're so great.
Ah yes. I've heard tell of these sinful Boulderites. haha. Didn't CU take pictures a couple of years ago, post them online, and offer $50 per identification? Maybe that was somewhere else. Either way, great post. Looks like a lot of fun. Wish I'd been!

(also, apologies for not adding you sooner. dunno how that happened. situation: rectified)
Marykelly,

This is a wonderful telling of an exceptional day. I suspect that if it
wasn't for Madison and Boulder that Spiro Agnew would be emperor. First there is a mountain then there is no mountain then there is, it's been said, it still sings. 2009 and I 've yet to spell
kaliedoscope ... xylephone ... why don't these keyboards have little
peace signs?
I noticed:`
Mary Kelly has a birthday party on October 22.
You and J. Hart may scream from stiff joints?
VAMC psychologist say:`Take sore joint cure?
Rx # ? She say:`Folk need to stay out of joints.
Read blogs 24- hours per day & for joint pain?
shush. salon's a barroom joint? yikes. protest?

Ya get a stratosphere?
a fast hookup contacts?
a go to:`Dunkin' Donuts.
Eat butter bran muffins.
Mary Kelly is so cute too.
We have a same birthday!
Jeer, cheers, get Ya GED!
Mary,

I think Hempfest in Seattle is its own animal. NORML is involved, but I think it started with local support in 92. It is now a major tourist attraction for Seattle. I think it is the largest festival in the world not sponsored by a beer company. Just kidding about the beer company.

Yes, industrial hemp is being held up by DEA because of the insane marijuana policies of Ashcroft and Bush on marijuana. Obama does not seem to be doing any better. Of course what the DEA does not say about their billion dollar plant eradication program is 90% of the plants destroyed are ditch weed (left over hemp from the WWII) and is growing wild throughout the Midwest. The reason it is growing wild is no one smokes it.

Canada which has national medical marijuana and is farther down the road towards decriminalizing marijuana has not had a problem with their hemp industry. China has also become a major grower and supplier. But, the DEA is sure it would be a problem.

It's all about the money. When you combine the DEA, local police, alcohol, pharmaceutical, and agrichemical business as losers with the decrimilization of marijuana you see a very big financial incentive to demonize pot.

I think in your own state the biggest voices in opposition for the state marijuana legalization law last year was a local beer and wine wholesaler. No conflict of interest there.
the hovering cloud is precious!!
The term 420 has been in use for a lot longer than your son's hs years. Back in college I heard the term too - it was attributed to the police scanner code used for marijuana busts - but this turned out to be an urban legend. Still curious how 420 came about.

Love the haze!
fantastic! thank you for the great sacrifices and risks you undertook in order to entertain us. :)

rated
That cloud if smoke is impressive. Wish I were there.
You gotta love Boulder. It is on our list of places to retire, but not because of 420, because of the liberal live-and-let-live-attitudes (my husband lived in Fort Collins for years, and my niece and nephew still live there).

I've been thinking about your post for a few days, and weighing whether I should comment or not. I probably shouldn't, considering the comments I've seen here, but what the hell.

I grew up in Oregon in the 70s and knew plenty of pot smokers. Alcohol was pretty much a non existent issue. For most of my early life, possession of under an ounce was not criminalized.

However, I was never a pot smoker maybe because I knew so many pot smokers, and the one thing that characterized them all was that they became more and more doltish overtime. They might have been peaceful, but they were so out of it and basically unmotivated in every sphere of their lives, except maybe the sphere that motivated them to go and buy more pot. Many of those same folks still smoke, and have declined even further, which seems almost impossible.

So, I don't buy the innocuousness of weed.

denese
Fab: Thanks for coming back. I think there will only be progress on this issue from this point on, especially given the attitudes and beliefs of the college age students. I'm hopeful.

Dakini: I had to ask a college student what "bogart the joint" meant...someone else had said that. So now that I know what that means, all I can say to you is no worries! Thanks for the comment my kindred spirit.

Pablo: So happy to see you here making a comment. I loved your 420 post...a great post for all to read about 420 (http://open.salon.com/blog/pablo_manriquez/2009/04/20/420). You are exactly right about CU being the university. This only took place several years ago, maybe only 2 years ago. Many pictures were posted of the students smoking. The University in conjunction with the Boulder police posted the pictures on the CU computer system and offered other students $50 to identify the students so they could prosecute. It was stunning how many students ratted on other students...despicable really. The University would also turn the sprinklers on during the 420 celebration making it difficult for the students to partake but it never dampened their spirits. Two strategies that ultimately bit CU in the butt. There was so much negative attention and backlash to their tactics that last year they decided to be "mellow" and not do a thing...a small amount of police presence and no students or anyone attending were ticketed. I'm happy to say that this year was the same. Everything went without a hitch. No one was hurt, injured, arrested. You couldn't have found a more pleasant group of 10,000 people anywhere. Thanks for your comment and for rectifying the situation :)

J Hart: Thanks for your comment...Boulder and Madison, two great college towns. And you're right...I need to talk to Steve Jobs about the peace sign thing on the computer keyboard. Great idea!

Arthur James: Hello dear birthday buddy. It is always a special day for me when you come by and grace me with your words. So special it already feels like my birthday! Thank you.

M Todd: Thank you so much for taking the time to further educate me and anyone else who reads the comments. I knew nothing about the hempfest in Seattle and now I do. China is interesting and someone to learn from. I agree that it is about money. I was able to hear from a young man who singlehandedly moved from the East Coast and figured that Denver laws could be change. He is responsible for the basic decriminalization of marijuana in Denver. Very bright intelligent man.

Gary: Isn't that aerial photo cool? It makes me laugh.

Sandra: Yes, Brent told me this story telling me it started in 1971. So I should have known about long before him. But I didn't partake in that world in college. I was going to bible studies instead. Lordy lordy! I may be a late bloomer, but I'm blooming nonetheless. Thanks for your comment.

Ablonde: Come next year! Hopefully it will be even bigger, or better yet, unnecessary. You can come anyway. Boulder is a great town.

Denese: I'm so glad you weighed in and I encourage you to move to Boulder some day. It's a great town as you know. I'm glad you voiced this opinion. It is a reminder that any substance that makes us feel good can become an addiction. Your friends from college sound like "classic pot heads". Because of the work I do, an addiction to weed can make one's life powerless and unmanageable, just as alcohol and harder drugs can do. What it is not, and this has been proven overwhelmingly with studies, is a gateway drug. But it can still hurt one's life in profound and harmful ways if it is used to excess. UC, Santa Barbara has a revolutionary program for dealing with students who have become too dependent on marijuana. It's about "harm reduction"...a new and powerful way to deal with any addiction. Thanks so much for bringing this up.

As for myself, I'm a person who stays away from anything that I depend too much on, except for my beloved once a day skinny cappuccino. I'm not giving that one up for anything!
Kelly: I'm sorry I skipped you! Thanks for reading and commenting and appreciating my very selfless act of time and personal sacrifice it took for me to do this. As W was fond of saying, "It was haaaaard, really haaaaaaaaard."
Mary,

On the other hand-- there's always an 'on the other hand'-- I had a dear bi-polar friend in Portland, post decriminalized pot, that killed himself because none of the prescribed and legal meds worked for him. Sigh. He needed it to survive. Mostly the pressure from a court system and an ex-wife that wouldn't give him custody of his children if he got high, I think, led to his demise.

I also have another friend in CA that smokes pot for depressive symptoms and anxiety. He grows his own via a doctor's prescription, instead of taking prescribed anti-depressants, because it works for him.

So, I feel like pot should be legalized but prescribed by a therapist/psychiatrist in order to use.

I feel like all of these kids in Boulder getting high as a past-time is a potential problem, and this 420 celebration,, seems therefore uninformed to me.

Maybe we'll look you up if we go on a retirement scouting trip.

denese
I'm sorry. I'm having trouble believing that in 1971 it took the San Rafael high school students until 4:20 PM to light their first joint of the day.

Thank goodness I went to Dunellen "High" in 1970, where we were DONE with our first joint by 3:30PM---if you don't count that one we smoked on the way to school.
You never fail to surprise me, Mary. What an informative, fun post.
You're the coolest, Mary. And you've always been the coolest, no matter how uncool you consider your past.
We can't legalize marijuana. That would lead to peaceful contemplation, conversation, and slow, satisfying sex.
denese: Thanks for coming back. Part of the 420 celebration is a political protest to the ridiculous punitive laws around the use of marijuana. This is a good thing for college students to be involved in. AND, I'm not as pragmatic as you. I survived 4 teenagers in Boulder who were exposed to all kinds of things. I'm not dumb and I know that experimentation is part of this age group especially. I preferred my children experiment with pot rather than alcohol. I've never heard of 6 kids being killed in a car that was driven by a stoned kid. Lucky me, my children did both.

m.a.h. You bring up an excellent point! They did something right. Just think, if you had been more active it would have been 330 instead of 420.

Lainey: I'm glad you enjoyed. That's just what it was...a little informative and a lot fun.

Rich: Thank you and thanks for reminding me that we can learn anything from our past that helps us today, cool and uncool.

Man Talk Now: Good point as usual. What would people do then? They'd have nothing to complain about.
Hi Mary,

I don't want to take over your blog, but a cursory search turned up several recent studies on pot smoking and driving. Predictably, being high increases the risk of death from an accident by 2 to 3 times. It makes sense. DUI means driving under the influence, and that can be pot or alcohol.

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But where are the pumpkin heads?
Lea, HI! You know, I don't recall any pumpkin heads, but that doesn't mean they weren't there. Ha! Tomorrow is supposed to be huge because medical marijuana was approved in Colorado last year. They're predicting over 15,000 people and the weather looks good. Unfortunately, I'm working so I won't be able to toddle on down there.
I've been to a few of these events in Vancouver over the years, but of course, I didn't inhale. :)
"There were no fights, no broken beer bottles. There was no screaming, no anger, no rants, no riots. There were no DUI’s, no black outs, no injuries."

Yes the "4/20 friendly" crowd is a peaceful smiling bunch... Great photos, wish I'd been there. Thanks.
Posted on Twitter with attribution (of course) - thank you for sharing the lovely photos and writeup!

Your tinyurl in case you would like to reuse it is http://tinyurl.com/y73kkzq
Now emma, I know you only to be a truth teller, and I must say, this is the first time I'm having a slight doubt about what you're saying :)

l'Heure Bleue: Thanks for the comment. I updated the post. CU, Boulder is expecting up to 15,000 people this year. I expect it will be another peaceful and happy event.

Julianne: Thanks for the Twitter boost and the tiny url...I'll repost on Twitter as well. Glad you enjoyed.
That is awesome. Great article, fantastic photos. Love the personal touch to the story, Mary. Hope you had a blast.
It's so nice to know there are places where events like this don't become the Annual Cop Riot as is the tendency in College Park, MD, home to the rather flighty student body of UofM. Of course the participants are not all students by any means (why else would I know this?) and the baton-whacking doesn't seem as mean-spirited when one is already three sheets (or five leaves) to the wind. Speaking of wind I'm upwind of it today, so will have to drive down there, roll down the windows, risk being hosed or whacked, take a deep breath, go straight to jail, or some combo of the above. Wlliam Burroughs lives and he's riding with me. Great article! Rated (last year "I was stoned and I mised it").
found it.....I read this earlier today and meant to comment. Great story...and it just happens I will be going to the gathering in Toronto. It's right down the street from my office....thanks for keeping us entertained.
Gwendolyn: It was a blast! I felt so young :). A no go this year because I'm working, but that's okay. Hope you're continuing to enjoy your European trip!

AJ: Boulder used to not be so kind, and there are threats that they are not going to be so lenient this year. Party poopers! But a very high profile attorney has told all the students that if any of them get ticketed for possession, he'll represent them for free. Good for him. Take care to not get in too much trouble today. We all know those pot smoking types can be quite dangerous!

Gypsy Rose: Have fun in Toronto! I'd love to know how it goes.
Dangit, Imma come to Boulder for this next year.
Cap'n: I'm not there because I'm working but I checked the local paper on-line and they're giving out tickets. Pure silliness. But the field will soon be full of over 10,000 people and I'll look for the tell-tale sign of 420 in the sky. It will be here next year...it's not going away.
Hi Mary,
Just got back and all I can say is, "where is John Lennon?" On stage a band was singing, 'Give Peace a Chance' - just confirmed that potheads are peaceful people. It was so nice to see people gathering for this event without harm or foul but I bet the police officers were anticipating a brawl. Had they gone to a bar where someone was drinking, I'm sure they would have found one there.

Kudos to the organizers of 4-20 - great job!!!

Take care (by the way, I love your websites on marriage/remarriage). We have a common ground except unlike you, I'm not certified....but after reading your stuff, I'm thinking I should rethink this.

Ciao!!!
Who's bringing the brownies?

Really, this is completely cool.
Gypsy Rose: Your Toronto gathering sounds wonderful. I've yet to hear of a brawl arising from a large group of pot smokers. The police must have been disappointed! And thank you for your remarks about my marriage/remarriage site. Since remarriage with children is potentially insanity producing, I wasn't sure what "certifiable" you were referring to :). Thanks again for your comments.

sweetfeet: Oh people brought brownies, and cookies, and all sorts of goodies. The weather and CU security did dampen things a bit, but it was still a great turnout for a great event.
When Pot is legalized it will change the world in a good way.
Haha! I wish our world leaders would snuggle up to a bong once in a while. :-)
Ironically I, too, was schooled on the origin of 4/20 a couple of years ago by my son. His demeanor was so serious as if giving me a history lesson that I should have know. I know I am late but happy 4/20 everyone. Wonderful piece, Mary, rated.
I came across an article discussing about the health benefits of marijuana against cancer. It seems this plant has a lot more than meets the eye.