Oh geez. I hope my kids don't read this. I really don't. They're good about reading my stuff but it's usually with a little prodding and a bribe from me involving George Washington and Abraham Lincoln.
Even though this post is not about ME, they will hate the fact that I've written anything that has to do with SEX. They've made it clear, "Mom, don't send us any links to yours posts that have SEX in them. We hate it when you do that!"
I did not raise them to be so uptight (yet there were those years they were forced to go to Sunday School and Christian camps where vows of chastity were "strongly encouraged" and rejection of any of their ideas was followed with immediate shunning).
They should be happy they're not Anderson Cooper whose mother, Gloria Vanderbilt, forced him to read her memoir which was inclusive of all kinds of sexual trysts and affairs after the death of this father. Anderson hated reading that book!
Well, this is a post about sex and sex for women. Sorry kids! Your mother is a sexual human being and if she weren't, you wouldn't be here! If this traumatizes you, get some therapy or get over it!
Now where was I? Ah yes...the mysterious secretive G-Spot!
Well, I'm here to tell you that yes Virginia, there is a G-spot!
Despite these ill-informed women who seem to doubt this important fact:
I see it as my civic duty to share with the masses this wonderful G-spot that every woman has. Fine, it may be a little elusive, but this is the good news...Women, you can find this spot on your own...you are not dependent on the man or woman in your life should you have them, or the Rabbit (which by the way, should you have one, and you should, could help you find it lickety split!). This is something you can do all on your own.
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(The Rabbit, a short cut)
But really, let your fingers do the walking and you'll be shuddering with joy and ecstasy in no time.
(Oh yeah, let your fingers do the walking...)
So, how did I become such an expert on the G-spot you ask? Well, I have a really good friend, let's call her "Debbie". Several years ago, Debbie had first learned about the G-spot when reading a Cosmopolitan magazine while standing in line at the grocery story while one of her toddlers was having a a full-on tantrum. The little spit was lying on the cold linoleum floor stomping his feet and screaming in red-faced protest over a denied and what he was sure was essential to his survival, Tootsie Roll. He looked like an upside down crab.
Debbie wisely ignored him, despite the looks of judgement and condescension by the other shoppers in line, the shoppers who were shaking their heads in disgust that a Cosmo would take precedence over the clearly unmet needs of the helpless darling on the ground.
My friend had found herself in a bit of a marital rut, having been married for over 12 years where the relationship had become a little too familiar, a little too predictable...a little too yawn yawn.
After reading the intriguing article about the mysterious and elusive G-spot, Debbie felt a flicker of hope and desire. Stuffing the groceries and the still furious child into her car, she drove home in a rush to call her husband to tell him they were getting away for a much needed weekend alone. She didn't know how she would bring this up, her ulterior motive being determined to find this Gush-A-Lot Spot, especially since she couldn't bring herself to actually purchase the salacious seducer of the magazine and couldn't remember the exact details of the G-spot location.
Her husband was eagerly responsive to the suggestion of a night away from kids and cares. Off they went to a nice resort and a suggestion by my friend that they "spice things up". After a nice predictable "nod their heads a lot, sip sip wine, uh huh, yeah you already told me that story, nod heads, sip sip more wine, yeah, uh huh, yup know about that time too, sip sip" dinner, they retired to their room.
Hmmmm...what to do, what to do. HEY! There's a Playboy Channel with different selections for only $9.99! Let's watch one, Debbie sly suggested.
Hmmmm...different categories...there's "Playboy Myths: Hot Tubs Kill Sperm"...no, don't need that....her husband's vasectomy took care of that. There's, "Playboy Myth: Blue Balls"...uggggh, a turn-off from the get go.
Oh, what's this? "Playboy's Instructions on How To Find the G-Spot." That looks good. And spicy, definitely spicy.
Debbie was secretly delighted and dumbstruck at her good luck...a video on how to find the G-spot! The Universe was looking after her!
Being the conscientious and responsible people they were, my friend and her husband watched the informative video with their full concentration, the video that was complete with directions and instructions. And, despite the annoyingly perfect looking models, the Playboy Channel provided an important and vital public service message for Debbie and her husband that fateful night.
They dutifully followed the directions to a T and found out that X marked the spot! Sweet Jesus! Their sex life was never in a rut again, at least not in the bad way.
(The green dot means Go Girl Go!)
The women on the View were joking and saying that the G-spot was like the Loch Ness Monster. It was no surprise to me that Elizabeth Hasselbeck couldn't find it, but Whoopee? Really? Seriously? Silly women. This G-spot is no Big Foot I can tell you that. If Debbie and any of her friends that she subsequently shared her great find with can find it, anyone can!
Since I'm in a generous mood (I'm just so happy for my friend!), you can check out this information
link, or you can buy this through
Amazon and get this:
(The author's name is Cathy Winks? Winks? Is this a trick? I hope she's not related to Sarah Palin!)
And don't even think it! I've already applied for my G-Spot Locator iphone application! The money will come pouring in...I won't even have to bribe my children anymore...they will have long since disowned me.
*All characters appearing in this work, especially the author, are fictitious. Any resemblance to real persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental.
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As a woman of disproportionately vast sexual experience with TNTC others and with self, I have to confess that the only time the dreaded g-spot area became remotely fun was when I had a yeast infection and the scratching felt really good. TMI? You know I have issues!
In any event, I'm not convinced it is a universal excitable area for all women. For some, perhaps, but not this woman. Luckily I have other thrills.
cartouche: Is this part of your 30 minutes?
buffy: Hey, why not? I'm expecting PM's from some excited women...and men.
Lea: Thank you to a woman who knows the true meaning of exploration!
teendoc: Yes, my concern in writing this is that there are some who won't find this spot, for various reasons. But many don't even know about it or how to find it, and it's something worth at least exploring. Your yeast infection/scratching had me laughing so much. What woman who's had a yeast infection doesn't know about that!
mtmao: Yeah, baby...have fun.
The wife will be very pleased with your post tonight, Mary! Well, at least I hope she will be. If I can't find the damn thing it'll turn more into a PAP, I suppose.....
This story reminds me of a favorite film – Robin Hood: Men in Tights – with Cary Elwes, Richard Lewis & Mel Brooks. Seems Robin’s father gave him a key when he was just a wee little lad… telling Robin that the key would open heaven…. Years later after many a battle with the Sheriff of Rottingham… Robin wins the hand of Maid Marian… that happened to wear a chastity belt. Yep, you guessed it… the key opened Marian’s chastity belt… and they lived happily ever after… stimulating her g-spot!
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"(The green dot means Go Girl Go!) "---- THAT CRACKED ME UP!
I don't have a g-spot but after this posting I wish I had had one!!
I don't know how it is with all women, but in my experience, guys, you might want to put a towel under her first. I was fortunate in that my lover knew well her g-spot and showed me exactly where and how she like to be stroked. It helped her if I put one hand flat on her "lower belly" and pressed gently.
@Walter Blevins: If you are tongue tied in this situation, then you have a far longer tongue than I.
My wife says the G-Spot is definitely for real. We've found this technique that give a simultaneous G-spot and clitoral orgasm.
I think the fact that she's speechless for 10 minutes after is a good sign. It's a lot of work for a little quiet time though.
Joseph: You're in good company with Beo..finally some male perspectives! Very funny too and you make an important point...this can be a very fine line indeed!
Gwendolyn: Yes, I can be a bad influence from time to time :)
Thinkingman: Yup, this certainly can be a place to learn a ton!
Roger: Oh, but think of her homecoming!
OEsheepdog: :)
Gwool: Thanks for reading and apparently agreeing.
George: Forget it was Foodie Tuesday...this can be the dessert. Will have to resee Robin Hood: Men in Tights...how could I have missed that ending???
Barbara: You could come back with an update!
Walter: You tongue-tied? This has to be a first.
lierene: That is exactly how I intended this post to be: a public service announcement.
Zbitch: Oh I knew you would love this one! Two peas in a pod.
bobbot: Hey I feel embarrassed reading your comment!
TheObsoleteMan: Loved the joke and will try to remember it. And thanks for your additional recommendations...a great contribution to this public service tidbit.
Cap'n: Apparently you did not read my very important Disclaimer at the end. And that's all I have to say about this...oh yeah, you sound like a considerate husband.
bobbot and Cap'n: Get a room.
Steve: Why am I not surprised you have an upcoming post about the R spot. Please don't wait too long.
The S spot or weekend Spa spot (especially great for women with pre-school children)
The OG spot as in Oh Gee I forgot to take out the trash let me do that right now
The R spot as in reservation to a nice restaurant spot after entertaining out-of-town in laws
The J spot or jewelery spot always a hit
The B spot as in week at the beach spot
The T spot as in take her side when she disagrees with your mother
There are many more spots and I have found if you hit some of these other spots it makes finding the G-spot so much better.
Seriously though, this post was too funny. I actually had to pinch myself when I watched your clip of The View and found myself laughing at a joke made by Hasslebeck.
rated... XXX
Thanks for the info I completely concur.
rated for open sexuality
patricia: No.
Dr. Spudman: Apparently, you've been watching way too much of the HBO series Hung!
Rated G for G spot.
Yes.
Affirmatively, YES.
:p
by the way there are different sex positions that can really bring it out more readily.
seriously, there was an article in playboy web site not too long ago about "hot conservative women worthy of sex" or something like that. I dont recall if hasselbeck was in it. but she shoulda been.
but i've never, ever, felt shy about asking for directions.
Mungular: Yes, I take my honorary stresbos seriously and am anxiously awaiting my next assignment. It's been a long time! Yes, I had to worry about myself when I laughed at one of Hasslebeck's jokes too. Maybe there's hope!
Brian B: Vaguely remember...I'm hoping you're have more opportunities in the future.
ladyfarmerjed: I did not alert my children to this post, did not put it on my Facebook page, so I think I'm safe. But if they read it, #1, it was about Debbie, not me, and 2, they can just get over it! They are all young adults...but some things never change and no kid ever wants to think about their parents and sex in the same sentence! Thanks so much for reading.
O'Really: I'm sure Dr. Spudman will accept your PM. Your remark about the man in your life should be a cast member for Lost was very very funny.
LadyMiko: Yeah! A fun weekend is in story for you!
Phaedo: True true about different strokes for different folks, and this would be no exception. Great Vibrations is a wonderful online store for "adult material" and has a wide selection of vibrators, etc. Thanks for pointing that out and trying to mess with the ad guys.
knightwriter: Maybe if Elizabeth Hasselback would find her G-spot, she could mellow out a little, perhaps a lot. She just gets so worked up sometimes...
the squirrel: Well you must have found it once for Wife-Asaurus to be in the family way...but then again, maybe you and Michael Jackson have something in common!
Susan: Liked your rating. Yes, wouldn't it be great if sex stores were being mobbed instead of Presidents trying to describe a health care system that could be beneficial to so many others? America, get your priorities straight!
Silkstone: I'm glad you reiterated this. I did mention the same thing in a paragraph at the beginning of the post. One of the beauties of the G-spot...it can just be between you and you.
Roger: I'm not making this up. Every year at the all girl's school of 250 girls, a physician would come in for 5 days to teach us sex education. He was a wonderful man, full of humor and grace and he was "real". And, his name was literally Dr. Clap. We Catholic girls made up a lot of jokes about that one.
bahHMMblog: It is perplexing to me that this is even a controversy among sex experts, etc. But then again, I'm of the belief if I can do something, accomplish something, find something, persist in something, it can pretty much be done. I'm not all that unusual. Thanks for the comment.
annette: Do you think your kids have even heard of the G-spot? Hey, different strokes for different folks, but I'd encourage you to give it another go. Why not?
grif: I'm glad I was able to offer something that caught your attention.
Kellylark: Well, we see eye to eye on this for sure! And, yes, different partner's could make a difference. And again, the beauty of this is that it is not dependent on anything other than yourself when it gets right down to it.
wakingupslowly: Well, it sounds like there's one thing that's worked where you won't be wakingupslowly!
vzn: You'd have to discuss that with Elizabeth Hasselbeck's husband and she just went through childhood. TIming might be off!
Lonnie: Doesn't surprise me that A Renaissance man such as yourself and it comes as no shock that you are not shy about learning. Duh! Thanks for reading and commenting! Hope your birthday was wonderful.
Michael: Nothing worthwhile comes easily does it. Happy adventuring!
MTodd: Ah, the S spot. I never really did get the S spot ever. Couldn't relate to so women and their seeming obsession with shoes. Strangely, when I quit drinking over 3 years ago, I suddenly had an urge to shop for and buy SHOES. (It's often said that when we give up one addiction, we replace it with another.) I love shoes! I still don't own a lot of pairs but Michael Kors is my passion.
I think there's a little truth to this, when you find out that the vagina expands significantly in size when a woman's aroused. Kind of re-arranges the furniture a bit.
also, my personal opinion, I think the g-spot is usually/probably stimulated during normal sex, just not so "directly". various techniques/positions can increase the stimulation and yes, probably the intensity of the orgasm, from what I can tell.
Ill let the males in on a secret position. you have to be limber. if you put your knees/shins to your sides, shins resting on bed right below womans torso in bed, knees bent, under her upraised knees, and sit/hover over the woman kind of froglike with your legs.. & thrust.. that seems to be pretty stimulating for the g-spot. also as you move/arch your back backwards, it will increase.
http://open.salon.com/blog/theobsoleteman/2009/08/13/dirty_haiku_thursday_fun_with_dick_and_jane
Silkstone: I liked this, "kind of rearranges the furniture a little bit". And I like that for some this fun spot is a bit elusive from time to time. Nothing should be taken for granted.
veteranschmetean: Hey, you are a regular Dr. Ruth for men. There could be a new profession in there for you. Thanks for your comment!
m.a.h.: That is hysterical and soooooo LA!
Owl: Exactly right back at ya!
Darryl Ross: What was surprising to me about the View video was that there wasn't one woman in the group who expressed knowledge of this, and downright skepticism. Not even Joy? And the one woman who practices celibacy? Even with herself? I cannot watch a show where women are seemingly that self-ignorant.
McGarrett: What a clever suggestion! You do know that Just Cathy and I are sisters...we both seemed to be a little outside of the box the morning we wrote our posts!
psychomama: You'll have to get my G-spot iphone application for the exact coordinates! Details coming soon!
vzn: Another Dr. Ruth! I think there's a regular column here. And you're right...Dr. Graftenberg got the credit for "discovering" the spot, but I bet it was a woman who told him about it! I hope some males read your comment...sounds like you've got some good ideas.
TheObsoleteMan: I read and enjoyed, even though I'm under 55!
Cartouche is right, "the man who finds the g-spot unlocks the magic kingdom."
Ingredients:
One fryer (cut into 8 pieces)
2-cups buttermilk
flour
salt and pepper
Butter (real butter)
Veg. Shortening (Crisco)
Instructions
Cut Chicken into 8 pieces
Put chicken in bowl and marinate in buttermilk overnight or at least 8 hours.
Place flour, salt and pepper to taste (some add red pepper or other spices) in pie pan or shallow dish and dredge each piece of chicken in flour mixture.
Place coated chicken on plate (wire rack works best) in refrigerator for at least 30 minutes before frying. This lets the coating set up on the chicken.
Cooking:
In a heavy fry pan (cast iron is best) put equal parts of butter and shortening and bring to frying temp. (about 325) You can use an electric skillet with temperature control as well.
Depending on pan size the oil level should be about 1/8 to 1/4 inch in a 12 inch pan. When pan frying you do not want the chicken to be submerged because steam from chicken has to escape off the top. If the steam does not escape the coating may fall off the chicken. Or hang loosely and fall off when you take the first bite.
Start with thighs in the center of the pan and place the breasts, legs, and wings on the outside of the pan. That way all pieces will finish at the about the same time. Wings may finish a little sooner.
Cook until golden brown (10-12 minutes per side) turn chicken pieces and cook until done. Juices should run clear or you can check for an internal temp of 180 degrees. Place chicken on wire rack to drain. A rack works best and keeps the coating crispy on the down side. If you use a paper towel the coating could stick and the chicken on the paper towel side will get oily.
Note: when you pan fry there will be darker spots where chicken touched the pan this is because the flour caramelizes it is not burnt.
Enjoy
Further evidence of Bolder Boulder Mary!
What woman does not want to be tickled pink?
G/G spot sex ROCKS! (Plus you each have your own rabbit!)
M Todd: THANK YOU for this recipe. Haven't made fried chicken since I was a little girl standing side by side with my mother and using an electric skillet. Can't wait to make it and will let you know how it turns out. It looks finger lickin' good...perfect given the nature of this post!
Joe: Yup, that cartouche...can always depend on her to be right. As for Bolder Boulder, Debbie lives in Dallas!
Robin Sneed: Is this my next assignment???? I don't know, if you guys have been working on her for years...why would she listen to me? But I was very disappointed in her making fun of this wonderful little dot that packs a punch...I'll get right on it. Wonder if m.a.h. has any connections?
Skip Williamson: Another well educated man...a welcome addition to these comments and the great line, "what woman does not want to be tickled pink?". Thank you!
Safe_Bet: Now you have me curious about the first 4,853,507 reasons for being a lesbian. I must be missing out on something!
Harvey Gardner: Thanks for reading and joining in the fun yet educational discussion. The consensus seems loud and clear...OS is one great bunch of smart people!
Lisa: Yes, as I said, I was feeling very generous when I wrote this post!
Lalucas/Lisa: Thanks for reading! Hope you're doing great.
Did this conversation cause some kind of harm to Barbara Walters? I mean, Mary, if talking about it around your kids could cause a problem, what do you think it might have done to Barbara?
(On another note, just imagine Gilda Radner as Barbara having this discussion)
I've had sex with way too many women during my seventy years. My active se life began at the age of 11 + and has now virtually ended. (No good explanation. Too much, too routine (with any woman in any fantasy or play acting), lack of capacity to love fully, too many cigarettes (they are vasoconstictors--no not a snake--but if your veins aren't carrying sufficient blood your penis can't harden or at least that's how my doctors have esplained it to me.)
I stray. From serious research (written, interrogation by mouth, finger, toy and best of all conversation plus other forms of interrogation, I am satisfied that every woman has a G spot. However it is not necessarily possible to locate it in every woman. Inhibitions can ruin the search both attitudinally and physically. All the other interruptors can also ruin it. It might be less sensitive than someone else's. Think clitoris.
I hate to say this but it might be easier and more certain if a man look for it because tactile sensation is the best way of finding it. In using that method the man is neither inhibited nor physically (as transmitted by the brain) involved.
So keep looking and give more emphasis to the man's role (or your partner if she is a she). If it turns out to be sensitive you will have found something like nirvana from the looks I've seen on women's faces.
It was a few years later that I found it on my own. Joy to the world. Life has been nothing but bliss since that day. When a woman can have two types of orgasms at one time, the clouds part and the sun shine eternally. There is only one problem. Wanting to have sex all the time can be a bother. Now, I think I understand how testosterone pumping young men feel.
You ROCK!
It exists, but like a Republican trying to find his/her ass with two hands, most guys can't find it.
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I'm not even a Woman, and I could've told you THAT!
Maybe I'm just the 'sensitive type' whose 'more attuned to my Lovers needs' than most, blah, blah, blah.
The REAL trick, ladies and gents, is the 'COMBO Titilations'; which, so I've discovered, seem to have 'different setting's' for different women. Gently clenching a nipple between the teeth and THEN hooking a finger up into the ol' G-spot; now that, fellas - when done properly - will get you (and her) a regular ol' proverbial 'earthquake 'o orgasm'!
Tim: How are you? We missed you at the OS get together. Anyway, Barbara Walters wasn't there that day. And as for causing harm, hopefully my kids will find this post all on their own so I don't have to tell them, because they could all benefit from it I'm sure (I have 2 sons and 2 daughters and they should all be so lucky). None of those women on the View knew about this...I don't get it...Gilda would have set them all straight!
Penrose: You are one wise woman! There's definite for both men and women when it comes to this G-spot--an equal opportunity employer. Thanks for your comment.
Leigh: Thanks for a great comment from a man with lots of experience. You do bring up a great point of the potential hurdle of "inhibition". Sex is not just a physical act, but an intellectual and emotional one as well. And sometimes, we can all be a little like Sybil and be in great conflict with the different parts of ourselves. Thanks for adding all your, well not so "hard earned" but valuable wisdom.
Sonya: Skepticism can be a real killjoy...glad you found your way past that hurdle. Babeland is another great resource and everything gets sent in brown paper bag wrapping! Thanks for your comment.
sassygal: You bring up an important point that I didn't include in my post and that is the concept of Female Ejaculation. This is not uncommon to have some kind of ejaculate in the form of liquid, how do I say this delicately, "spurt out" when the G-spot is stimulated. Many women are mortified and are fearful, like you were, that they have urinated. This fear is enough for some of them to never go to that spot again. This is a waste, and when they find out that they have not wet the bed, they can once again enjoy. My bottom line feeling is, who cares what it is. Pleasure is a good thing. Thanks for your great and honest sharing.
iamsam: Thank you iamsam! I really appreciate that!
Kind of Blue Honky: I'm not surprised your household is familiar, and the good thing is, while it's wonderful if women have a male partner in their lives and they can explore this together, all a woman really needs is herself and herself. Good husband you are!
Dennis: Yes, isn't half the fun the journey itself, not the destination?!
JimRinX: They should have you as a guest on The View. Not one of these women knew about this G-spot and I don't get it. And the one host, I don't know her name, but she said she is "celibate" and doesn't need to get distracted. WHY NOT? If she's not having any, can she at least have some with herself??? Self-pleasure is a good thing, and during these difficult financial times, it's damn cheap. Thanks for your comment.
my comedy take on this, in a much earlier piece about "being a 'ho in hell lay' was that my G-Spot is somewhere in Mexico having lunch with my Looks. they call me occasionally from the Yucutan Peninsula to say hi. love love lvoe and gratitude
1: The G spot is NOT green.
2: It is not actually round.
How did I clandestinely obtain this knowledge?
Well, since I'm a 70Y/O guy, it's a long(ago) story.
Now, I want you all to know that I am serious about what I am about to (sexually) relate to you and, I am NOT clitting, er, kidding.
When I was in my teens (and in a few teens who were girls), I was fortunate to happen to meat, sic, one of my friend's mothers for whom I was going to do a favor.
Now, I was only 15 and extremely happily vulnerable.
I was not toally innocent as I was a mastur at bating.
My penis did have his initial sexual experience when he was 12 & 1/2 Y/O.
You will remember that, at that age, the 1/2 is meaningful.
Well, friend's mother was a hottie and, so were her panties.
One thing led me on to another and I soon submitted to her wiles, etc.
Damn, the ect was great.
Now, this was in the 1950's and, she was a shaven maven.
Well, Mommy Maven waited till I had finished(I learned to be this patient for my later lady friends) the faucet repair which I had been asked to do.
She appeared in shorts and a Tshirt.
Now, seeing a woman braless in the 50's was an extremely rare occurrence.
My friend happened to be away with his father from whom Mommy Maven was seperated so, there I was, all vulnerable and, shall we say, ready to be taken advantage of?
Well, one thing led me on to another and Mommy Maven gently led me down, down, down the road to perdition.
Mmmm, perdition is a fun place.
She taught me things which were not even hinted about in those days~~and nights.
I happened to be one of those fortunate kids who had a space between his front teeth.
MM was the first with the actual explanation of what that space was for.
Well, I really learned some things that afternoon and NEVER EVER forgot any of it.
Cutting to the chase, I learned that day what and where was this vastly unknown and unheard of G spot.
I also learned about this little sensitive person called Miss Clit.
This was before the days of womens' lib so, it was no "Ms".
Thanks to this wonderfully rare opportunity to learn something about a woman, I eventually enjoyed persoming oral sex with quite a few women, some of whom spoke other than English.
Must be why I am cunnilingual.
When I was in my 20's, I lost a couple of teeth playing hockey and had to get a partial.
I DEMANDED that the partial was made with the space between the front teeth.
About 10 years ago, it broke and I had to get a new partial.
The dentist said that they would close up the "spcae".
I informed him of the disastrous events which would befall him and his business if that happened as, there were STILL quite a few women who held that space in high regard and would show up at his office with clubs, birckbats and other weapons.
He immediately understood.
The partial came back with the space.
What was funny and made me proud was that, when I went back to pick up the partial, several of the women in his office were red faced and snickering.
Yes, I WAS proud.
So, here I am, an old guy who likes to watch what he eats;) and knows that when someone says "G spot", they are NOT calling their dog.
It's just a place for an active finger or two(3, 4, 5?) while I'm busy giving a lady a good tongue lashing.
All the above is true, albeit laced with humor and, laughing during sex is ALSO great.
Some day we need to have a discussion about "aferplay" and why it's so fun and what it leads to;)
As a guy, I have always preferred to have sexual intercourse after the woman has had at least one orgasm from foreplay. It's much more exciting that way. Although, I also read a Cosmo survey where women ranked "his orgasm" number two in importance and "her orgasm" about number 15, thanks ladies you're a generous bunch.
I remember years ago talking to some poor girl who didn't think orgasms existed either. The entire room of women all stopped, looked at her and as one said, "Oh honey no. You poor thing, no. Let's discuss."
I just linked to it from my sexuality blog integralsexuality.wordpress.com.
I'd love for you or your readers to visit.
Thanks for this. I'm getting truly concerned that the reality of women's sexuality is getting lost these days.
Theodora: Thanks for your comic take on the post...loved the joke. Erma Bombeck said, "If you can't fix it, laugh at it." Humor helps a lot!
XJS: Thanks for the corrections, the stories laced with good humor, yes, laughter is always a good thing...please do write a post about "afterplay" and share your wisdom and experience.
alsace man: Thanks for the book recommendation...sounds like I should look into it...for professional purposes only of course.
Bart: Another great comment from a man wo seems to appreciate the women in his life. Thanks for reading!
odetteroulette: I was surprised that Joy Behar didn't seem to know about this G-spot...4 out of the 4 women not knowing on the View? That show went even lower down the toilet for me. Glad that "poor girl" had some wise women to educate her! Thanks!
Rebecca: I share the same concern as you for a number of reasons. I will check out your site. Thanks for coming by and reading and commenting!
Jacqueline: Thanks for reading! Hey, if you know about this now, you are in for one great life of self-knowing!