I awoke this morning with an old, old song in my head. It was one I hadn't heard or thought of since I was a child. My parents loved to sing it together on our frequent drives in the car, our favorite family recreation. Their singing of it together was my first experience with harmony in person, watching people meld their voices into one that became larger and more magical than either of theirs alone.
Both had good, albeit untrained, singing voices. My mom's clear, confident soprano fit comfortably with my dad's baritone. He, the one who would start the song, sang the melody. Within a bar or two my mom joined him, her voice three notes up the scale, synchronizing perfectly in a duet that filled the car with a heavenly sound that never failed to smother whatever bickering my sister and I were orchestrating in the back seat.
They had a repertoire. The numbers that come immediately to mind include Wait 'til the Sun Shines, Nellie and You are My Sunshine. They loved warm, romantic. They loved the songs of Sigmund Romberg. Deep in My Heart, Dear from The Student Prince, is one. Toora Loora Loora, one of my dad's favorites. The Ink Spots, oh my. You Tell Me Your Dream, I'll Tell You Mine. We had the 78 rpm record – I can still hear the introductory scratches on this much played platter.
My sister and I preferred the more playful tunes -- She'll be Coming 'Round the Mountain and Oh, Susanna -- and Mom would join us in those while Dad rested his vocal cords. Whatever the combination of voices, we comprised a rolling vocal ensemble, minus the thumping bass drum of today's vehicular concerts. And ours were not urban events. Besides ourselves, we entertained critters along the country roads who happened to be near when we passed by.
Many of these songs have remained buried in my distant memory until just now, and they seem to be bubbling up with an effervescence that stings the eyes while stretching smiles in my morning grump face. The song in my head sparked the little revival I'm celebrating here. I have no idea why it appeared when it did. I've been dreaming a lot lately, but mostly in little unremembered snippets. No dream segued into this song. It was just there. I'm thinking maybe reading over the past few days Annie Nichols's beautifully thoughtful and poignant reflections on the recent passing of her mother, enriched with loving memories from her own childhood, might have stirred my own memory pool. I'm not complaining.
The song? When I Grow Too Old to Dream, a 1934 chestnut by Sigmund Romberg, with Oscar Hammerstein lyrics. A Google search this morning turned up 7,890 videos of performance of this song. We had the record, I'm sure, but I can't tell you which artist it featured. My mom loved the song Charmaine, by Gordon Jenkins and his orchestra. If we had that record, Dream was on the flip side, but it was only a piano solo. Wiki says the most popular early recording was the one featuring Gracie Fields singing the lyrics. I tried to embed both here, but OS didn't cooperate.
Doesn't matter. I can assure you none of the performances on YouTube comes close to the one my mom and dad would sing on our drives along the country roads of central Wisconsin back in the day.
The one in my heart.
We have been gay, going our way
Life has been beautiful, we have been young
After you've gone life will go on
Your love will live in my heart
And so let us part
And when I grow too old to dream
That kiss will live in my heart
And when I grow too old to dream
Your love will live in my heart
Oh, your love will live in my heart


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My mom would always sing I See The Moon, as we went to collect dad from the train each night. :)
Loved this one, Matt.
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Now for several nights I burps.
Bad lyrics will be Nigh Mares.
I be dreaming I sing Hoarse.
No one dreams of Wild Sex.
I dream I wake in Barn Stall.
If I listen To The Guthrie's-
For days my brain's Crazy.
I mean Good Crazy Tunes.
No one listens to Politico.
I dream they Big Baboon.
Nobody believes. Boobs.
They still at Ma's Paps.
I dream they suck Pigs.
Pap-Teat of Bob Cats?
Big Fools Dream Asses.
I try to be Respectful?
I honestly do. Dream.
Life becomes a Dream.
Share with ` B. Obama.
Michelle is a Fine Baby.
I dream She Grab Ears.
Michelle claps the Best.
I Dream Michelle Cook.
She Cook Dream Soups.
Michelle O. Entrances.
Memories..
HUGGGGGGGGGG
Thanks for a wonderful post. Wishing you a million beautiful dreams. We are never to old for wishes and never to old to dream.
to the correct too (s).... have to learn to slow down.
You wrote. Yknow, about floating…
I get uplifted by music.
I guess it is kinda sacred. As u say:
“ remained buried in my distant memory
until just now,
and they seem to be bubbling up with an effervescence
that stings the eyes
while stretching smiles in my morning grump face.”
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I have also noticed an alarming upsurge of childhood stuff recently too.
Dad’s signature whistle.
Mom never sang.
Dad would sit there at Holiday season, like a maestro, arms waving to the Christmas music. And when that deeper than the Dark Forest voice started accompanying, my God…hit a deep spot down in the soul he gave me.
The manly soul. A singing soul.
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He woulda loved this one, and he woulda said,
“Ahhhhhhhhhh, dear Eleanor , this song reminds me of you!”
“George? Shush. Oh. Alright. What???” Mom
“ah
When I grow too old to dream
I'll have you to remember
When I grow too old to dream
Your love will live in my heart “
~
That shit came true.
Wonderful post Matty :).
Rated for clearly never too old ;).
The best line remains the one with the melting voices of your parents and then all four of you.
Thank you.
~R~
It's beautiful here in Hampton Roads, Virginia, today -- cool, colorful and with a ghostly fog hovering everywhere this morning. I expect at any moment our mile-long lane from the highway to morph into the haunted Sleepy Hollow road down which at any moment will serve up a screeching of off-pitch fiddles and thunder of hooves before allowing a glimpse of the mighty steed of legend charging by, shooting flames from its eyes, huffing steam through its distended nostrils and carrying a black-cloaked rider with a large pumpkin for a head. Wait...is that the screech of off-pitch fiddles I hear? Nah, too early. Tonite, after a bottle of Angry Orchard cider...
I would love to think that my hubby and I sound like this when we sing in the car on west central WI roads...but my kids would probably say we sound more like the Griswolds in the Vacation movies.
This post had all of the elements that a reader could want - reminiscent, visual, and layered...I really enjoyed this ~
R
what a sweet post. thank you for sharing. hugs to you.
Nilesite, for some reason my dad loved the old Irish songs, too, and he hadn't a drop of the emerald blood in him.
So I picked Shiral, toritto and this gem of yours. And I am so happy I did. Of all the stuff you've written that I like---I like this one just a little bit more.
Really great piece Matt.
the war rages,
the choir sings
until there is
absolute silence
~R~
"When I grow to old to dream
I'll have you to dismember
When I grow to old to dream
I'll eat your liver and heart"