Living the Bi Life

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Max the Communist

Max the Communist
Location
Chicago, Illinois, USA
Birthday
January 17
Bio
"Her beauty served a mob of terror whose one mission is to destroy." Yeah, that's me alright. I am a writer, actor, activist. That means I've worked in the hospitality and retail industries. Before you ask for fries with that, prepare yourself for political, economic, social, and sexual liberation. Not a total commie. I just marvel at the inflammatory red-baiting language--so much like queer-baiting, it's scaaary. I will be your downfall yet, America. Until then, I go for universal healthcare and making friends with anarchists, hippies, fellow-travelers, philosophers, actors, and other troublemakers. And, of course, da queers. So I'm pinko. Does that make me more Canadian than anything else? How queer are they in Canukistan? And can they put me up for the night--you know, just in case? In other words, just your typical OS blogger.

I'll get back into the swing of things writing for this blog.  

In the meantime, a million thanks to Wayne Bryant of the BIACT-L listserv for bisexual activists, who alerted us all to an 86 year-old veteran's testimony for marriage equality in Maine.  People like this make me proud to… Read full post »

Editor’s Pick
OCTOBER 20, 2009 9:57PM

Wherein I Blame Mom for My Bisexuality

 the mom tattoo

Even though you've been dead for a while, Mom, there's something we've got to have out, here and now.  

I've caught up to research that finally reveals the true cause of my bisexuality.  And guess what?  It's all your fault.  

That's right.  Last year, repRead full post »

Many thanks to Ed from Chicago Bi/Queer Meetup for alerting us all to this condom ad, now showing on MTV.

 
Makes me wish I was young.    Read full post »
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OCTOBER 1, 2009 3:48PM

Illinois Steps Up to Same-sex Marriage Equality

 

 IL state seal

It's official.  Equality Illinois announced today that a bill was introduced in the Illinois State Senate to legalize same-sex marriage.  State Senator Heather Steans of the 7th District introduced the bill.  A companion bill, HB178, was introduced into… Read full post »

I am liking GLAAD more and more.  Soon, it will be a life-long love affair. Not that I didn't like them or anything before--just not really hooked on their work until they really started including bisexuals in their content, not just their mission statement.  Funny how that w… Read full post »

SEPTEMBER 29, 2009 3:41PM

For Robin, Etta James to soothe the soul.

 
I felt real apprehension,  posting this in dedication to Robin Sneed, because the words are so raw in melancholy.  But sometimes, the deep, deep blues are exactly what you need to hear.  
 
I first heard this late one night after I had taken a whole two years… Read full post »

let me introduce myself 

To whom it may concern at the Memphis Gay and Lesbian Community Center,


First, as a bisexual woman and long-time activist for LGBTQ rights, let me express my sorrow and outrage at the hate crime vandalism that your organization has just endured.  You intended for the Memphis queerRead full post »
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SEPTEMBER 23, 2009 7:28PM

MIKA Comes Out, Just In Time for Celebrate Bisexuality Day

 

MIKA on a heart bed 

Pop star MIKA (aka Michael Holbrook Penniman) has just come out bisexual in the Dutch Gay and Night magazine.  Or rather, he is pretty much a "no labels" kind of guy, but will settle for bisexual, if you have to call him anything--a stance that's quite st… Read full post »

SEPTEMBER 16, 2009 6:32PM

Bisexual Chauvinism

 adam and eve and carol? 
Adam and Eve and Carol and Bob and Alice ? 

I love hearing and reading positive things about bisexuality and seeing positive images of bisexual, pansexual, and fluid sexuality people.  Sheela Lambert's coverage of the recent MTV Video Music Awards is a zany bi-lapaloozaRead full post »

 transcending boundaries logo

 The 6th Transcending Boundaries Conference is taking place November 20-22, 2009 in Worcester, Massachusetts, for bisexual/pansexual, trans/genderqueer, intersex, and polyamorous people and our allies . . . "to foster community, provide safe space, educate ourselves, andRead full post »

AUGUST 31, 2009 1:02AM

Late Sunday Night Comics

buju banton 

Chicago's Gay Liberation Network has been leading a campaign since early August to get Live Nation and other concert promoters to cancel Buju Banton concerts because the performer calls for killing lesbians and gay men in the lyrics of his songs.  So far, their work has reaped some… Read full post »

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AUGUST 28, 2009 3:56PM

BiCon 2010 and Why You Should Go To a Bi Conference.

 bisexual brits marching

The bisexual Brits are bringing it.  An early announcement has been made about the 28th BiCon UK merging with the 10th International Conference on Bisexuality, happening in the UK, August 26-30, 2010--though specific venues are still to be announced-- "welcoming activists, academi… Read full post »

chuck bass

If reports are true, my favorite guilty pleasure, Gossip Girl, in its upcoming season, will finally act out the bisexuality of it's ultimate bad boy, Chuck Bass (Ed Westwick).  In the novels upon which the CW television series is based, Chuck Bass is unabashedly bisexual,/… Read full post »

AUGUST 26, 2009 10:28PM

Sending Out the Love

Sometimes, you just gotta send out the love to a particular individual who needs it.  Some of us have heard from John E. Moore, MD, and some of us haven't.  But this post is crafted especially for him.  Hope it brings a secret smile to your day, John.

 

dermot black and white

 

dermot in bedRead full post »

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AUGUST 24, 2009 3:38PM

Bisexuals Are on the Right's Radar (or Is It Gaydar?)

 americans who poop on the truth

No sooner had news gone out about the 2009 Bi Health Summit, but the religious right was on it like white on rice.  

The website Americans for Truth About Homosexuality, run by Peter LaBarbera, absolutely misquoted and distorted the information brought out at the 2009 Bi Health Su… Read full post »

 
what traditional marriage really means 
 

 that bi health logo again

I look at things through an activist lens.  Give me facts, give me info, but above all, give me ideas on what to do next.  By the end of the Bi Health Summit, the last hour and a half of programming, you could feel the brain death.  Everyone was… Read full post »

 bi Health logo

It was a pleasure to be able to hear Wendy Bostwick and Grady Garner's presentations at the Bi Health Summit once again during the first day of the LGBTI Health Summit, since it allowed for more discussion from those attending and the presenters did not have speed through their… Read full post »

Two teachers at an Anoka-Hennipin high school in Minneapolis so subjected a student, Alex Merritt, to biphobic, transphobic and homophic harassment, he had to change to another school 25 miles away.  Now the school district has settled with his family to the tune of $25, 000.  But the high… Read full post »

 task force bi health report
 
Amy André, Julie Ebin, Marshall Miller, and Leona Bessonova put together the 2007 National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Bisexual Health Report, which every bi/pan/queer person should read and get into the hands of healthcare professionals.  Your own doctor may need t/… Read full post »

In spite of the overwhelmingly negative information reported regarding health disparities for bisexual men and women, the 2009 Bi Health Summit was groundbreaking, insightful, and well-facilitated.  Researchers, sexual health educators, and policy makers provided important information for activi… Read full post »

AUGUST 11, 2009 9:33PM

Bisexual Conferences Update

bisexual health summit logo
 
The 2009 Bi Health Summit is fast upon us.  Taking place Friday, August 14, at the Chicago Hilton and Towers, the summit is the second of its kind in North America and is tied to the larger LGBTI Health Summit, which continues on through Tuesday. 
 
Ahhh.  When Fox News wants to whip up a hairy fuss, they know just what to whippit.  Sex, art, queers.  Nudity.  Public funding.  You can hear thousands of small town Republicans screaming, "My taxpayer dollars are going for this?" and hundreds of right-wing politicos ru/… Read full post »

Every three days, somewhere in the world, a transgendered person is murdered.  Every three days.  

Brazil may be the most dangerous country in the world for transgenders, but the good ol' USA is second.  (We're number two.  We're number two.)

I thought violence against transg… Read full post »