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Max the Communist

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"Her beauty served a mob of terror whose one mission is to destroy." Yeah, that's me alright. I am a writer, actor, activist. That means I've worked in the hospitality and retail industries. Before you ask for fries with that, prepare yourself for political, economic, social, and sexual liberation. Not a total commie. I just marvel at the inflammatory red-baiting language--so much like queer-baiting, it's scaaary. I will be your downfall yet, America. Until then, I go for universal healthcare and making friends with anarchists, hippies, fellow-travelers, philosophers, actors, and other troublemakers. And, of course, da queers. So I'm pinko. Does that make me more Canadian than anything else? How queer are they in Canukistan? And can they put me up for the night--you know, just in case? In other words, just your typical OS blogger.

AUGUST 20, 2009 6:37PM

Homophobic Teachers Harass Student, School Loses $25,000

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Two teachers at an Anoka-Hennipin high school in Minneapolis so subjected a student, Alex Merritt, to biphobic, transphobic and homophic harassment, he had to change to another school 25 miles away.  Now the school district has settled with his family to the tune of $25, 000.  But the high cost of homophobia may not make any impression on the teachers who were hardly disciplined for their actions.  

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Merritt said that the continuous harassment from his teachers encouraged taunting from other students, which escalated to death threats.  He received anonymous notes stating, "Shut up, you queer," and "I'm going to kill you, you queer."

Diane Cleveland, his social studies teacher, would taunt Merritt in front of his classmates during class, saying that his "fence swings both ways," while Walter Filson, his teacher in law enforcement, would tell the class that Merritt "enjoys wearing women's clothes."

Merritt said he had Cleveland's class before lunch, and Filson's class afterwards.  If Cleveland made fun of him for something, he said, she told Filson about it at lunch.  Merritt would be teased for the same thing in a new class after lunch.  
 
"I told Ms. Cleveland that I wanted to do a report on Ben Franklin, and she said, 'Why?  Do you have a thing for older men?' " he said.  "Then I sat in Mr. Filson's class, and he called me 'Mr. Ben Franklin' and said, 'What do you have for these older men that Ms. Cleveland told me about?'  "  
 
So, Alex Merritt and his family had to suffer from Cleveland and Filson's mistreatment and the taxpayers of Minneapolis had to pony up for their bad behavior.  What did Filson and Cleveland have to make up in class? 
 
A little slap on the wrist for Cleveland--two days unpaid suspension and an unfinished assignment to work on "a social studies curriculum development and reflecting on equality and diversity in the classroom."  As far as is known, Filson's gotten a free ride.   
 
Oh, there was their half-hearted apology to the parents.   
 
It's doubtful that things will be "all better now" for the Anoka-Hennipin school district.   They had rejected the help of OutFront Minnesota to train their staff in conjunction with the district's revised policy on promoting LGBT tolerance and inclusion.   
 
According to Associate Superintendent Michelle Langanfeld, "There are so many advocacy groups out there that you could have one for every social concern there is . . . What we've tried to do is create policy around a neutral stance, focusing on respect, appreciation of diversity, responsibility, integrity, and compassion." 
 
How's that workin' for ya, Michelle?  Is it going to take another settlement over, say, racism or religious beliefs to induce you to reconsider?  Suppose Filson gets it into his noggin to go off on the little faggots in his law enforcement class again?   Let's hope your school district has money to burn.   
 
Finally, Alex Merritt is straight.  It's been a tough lesson on homophobia to learn, but he seems to have passed with flying colors: "I'm not the first kid this has happened to.  I feel bad for the kid who was homosexual in that class, seeing that I was belittled . . . If kids feel like this is what they're going through, at work, at school, at the house, you've got to tell somebody."   
 
Why aren't you teaching the adults, Alex?  Oh, well, throw a little Ben Franklin at them: 
 
"The only thing more expensive than education is ignorance." 
 
"Being ignorant is not so much a shame, as being unwilling to learn."
 
"We are all born ignorant, but one must work hard to remain stupid."
 
"Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficult still, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment." 
 
"Tell me and I forget.  Teach me and I remember.  Involve me and I learn."   
 
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In my state I saw this on a daily basis with students who were just a little bit different than anyone else. When I brought it to the attention of the school district, nothing happened here either. This kind of behavior makes me so mad I can't see straight. Teachers without tolerance should be fired on the spot.
$25,000 is a pittance. Next time it ought to be $250,000 for the school and another $250,000 for the teachers. Wanna bet everyone would shut up real quick?
@Eh Vah--I don't understand how the school district could countenance this egregiously unprofessional behavior. A kid wants to do a report on Ben Franklin and homophobia is what he gets? Damn!
This is really unbelievable; I wonder if there is any nuance that is missing from the report. Good teachers joke a lot with kids, and their comments could probably often be taken out of context. But this sounds outrageous and discriminatory. The kid himself would surely recognize if he was the target of the joke rather than an affectionate participant, and it sounds like that's what happened. You're right that it's just wrong for the taxpayers to fork up so much and the offenders so little.
WOW! I'm stunned it wasn't more than $25K. I guess because it's Minnesota? Really?

I'm just amazed it was allowed.

Guess it's my California showin'.
@Stephen--you're a man after my own heart. I don't want to wait for a "next time." I want PFLAG and GLSEN to march on that school and demand sensitivity training for all staff. And I want the students to organize LGBT groups in their own school.

It's too bad. I had always thought of Minneapolis/St.Paul as a sweet, easy going, relatively liberal city.
@Lainey--one of my favorite teachers, 9th grade algebra, Mr. Lee, would tease us often and called me a "river rat" since my family's house was close to the Missouri. But I never heard him say anything racial in class or slightly homophobic or derogatory to any student. And he was brilliant about conveying algebra to a bunch of students who didn't think it relevant.
@Connie--I wondered how $25,000 was arrived at, too.
Ridiculous. Another sad reminder of how far we still have to go as a species.
Exactly, Max. Kids know when the joke's on them versus affectionate teasing, which means that the teacher actually likes and respects them. What's especially heinous about this situation is the tandem, one-two punch. Two authorities ganging up on a kid! What jerks. Oh, and the parents and kid are right: it's true that a teacher's contempt for a student leaks to others. His peers feel "invited" to mistreat him too.
Those teachers would have been fired in a lot of places. For shame.
Wow, I can't imagine such behaviour from any of my teachers back in the 70s. Whatever would possess these people to bully this young man this way? And then collude on it to boot? Sometimes I feel so naive.
Twenty-five thousand dollars is not serious money. You might expect this amount for a nuisance suit. It's more than symbolic, but less than a serious deterrent.

Adults don't seem to understand that what they say about members of groups they dislike is interpreted by kids as permission to attack. Kids do not filter and fine-tune what they hear. They just take it in uncritically and learn to hate.
Some teachers are basically like the age group they teach--the worst of the age group they teach.
Since that male and female teacher liked to pass tidbits to each other during lunch, maybe he should have asked them if they were having an affair. I don't know if I agree with paying him so much as I like the idea of firing them, though. If we gave money to everyone that was discriminated against in the school system, sadly, we'd go broke.
P.S. I had a teacher in 9th grade who informed us that if you got AIDS from a transfusion like Arthur Ashe, then he felt sorry for you. If you were gay and had AIDS, he said, then you deserved to die.
I wish you could have heard how several of my teachers would bitch about Democrats. I mean it was basically like being taught by Ann Coulter. I just kept my mouth shut.
Thanks to everyone for commenting.

@Lainey--the very idea that these teachers did this so publicly, were a tag team when they executed it, and kept it up for most of the year till Alex had to leave is proof of abuse of power, not just a misunderstood, off-the-cuff remark. This guy was their target.

@emma--if you read the Star Tribune article, it says the superintendent that was there when this happened is gone (no indication of firing) and the new superintendent says the teachers' records of performance for years at the school justified not firing them over this one incident. I find it so hard to believe that these teachers did not play this game on other students in their long history. I bet if you just scratched beneath the surface . . .

@Sirenita--the more I think about it, the more I think the family should have gotten more.

@Delia--hmmm . . . an affair between the bully-teachers. Now there's a scandal to spread rumors about in retaliation. Seriously, I got so mad thinking about this last night, I wanted to slash their tires. Good thing I'm in Chicago. Oh, sorry about the AnnCoulter-style teachers--she's not only bigoted, she's as dumb as a box of rocks.

@incandescent--yeah, 40 or 50 and fired in this economy is no joke.

@Kellylark--oops! Almost missed you. Yeah, where is the professionalism? As the principal, I would have drilled them on their appalling transgression of their roles as teachers. A kid says he wants to do a report on Ben Franklin, you say, "Let's get you to the library, " or "Have you written a first draft yet?"

@aaroncynic--almost lost you in the shuffle, too. Our journey to Spock-like perfection is slow and torturous.
I found the story appalling as well, but I just came across this article and now I have my doubts:
http://www.twincities.com/allheadlines/ci_13331287?source=facebook&nclick_check=1
What do you think? I actually hope the teachers' claims are true, because a vengeful teenager is far less depressing than a couple of openly homophobic teachers.

Love your posts, btw -- really brilliant writing.
You helped me a lot indeed and reading this your article I have found many new and useful information about this subject.

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