Chuck A. Stetson

Chuck A. Stetson
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October 13
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writer, poet and humorist. i see things with my eyes closed; i experience those things with my eyes open.

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OCTOBER 21, 2009 1:39PM

Thoreau, Blind Owl and The Bear

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Good memories are precious things. Sometimes they come to us at the weirdest of times, but come they do, and when relived, a resettling of the consciousness is obtained. All last night and this morning, I’ve been grooving on such a memory.

…1968, I’m fourteen years old and hanging out with my obnoxious, schizophrenic cousin, Ricky. He’s eight months older than me, and because his father is a genius stock broker-investment-making-son of a bitch, Ricky lives a good life; everything he wants, he gets. This time it was electrical parts purchased from Radio Shack—he’s building an amplifier for what reason, I don’t remember. But I’m there in that rec room, watching, as I sip some Carling Black Label Beer procured from my uncle’s refrigerator. So much red cans of beer, intermixed with Gablinger’s Diet Beer— gifted to my uncle along with the Carling Black Label. I want to play my acoustic guitar, lying on the ping-pong table, but Ricky demands quiet as he channels his inner-Einstein and Oppenheimer. I knew not to complain, my mother said we Stetson’s had to deal with the disappointment that was life, but I hated being second class around my aunt, uncle and cousins. I hated that my mother was my aunt’s sister. I hated much back in 1968, but this is about a good memory….

My uncle’s office/den was built adjacent to the rec room. Earlier, he warned us that he was going to be doing some quick business with some recording company; he preferred we be outside or upstairs. I asked Ricky if we should leave, but my cousin didn’t want to be disturbed—his father could kiss his ass, which he often did. So, I finished my beer, picked up my guitar and tried fingering a B minor chord. Ricky again demands quiet; he needs silence in order to concentrate. Too late. My uncle and his business meeting were walking down the stairs: one business looking dude and two musicians: one large, loud bearded guy and a small shy looking guy wearing thick glasses. My uncle’s gregarious laugh echos through out the rec room. He introduces my cousin and I and then asks Ricky to join him in his office/den. Ricky’s demeanor changes: he laughs and cajoles me with promises of a quick return. I got back to trying to play a clean B minor chord. I really wanted to go home.

It wasn’t long before the large bearded musician dude broke from the meeting. He “hey’d” me and asked where the beer was. I began to tell him, but he opened up the foot locker-type freezer and discovered the treasure of Hood ice cream products — also given free to my uncle. “Hey Owl,” he yelled. “Owl…!”

The small musician dude with the thick glasses came out of the den, escaping my uncle’s bullshit. “You play?” he asks me.

“Owl,” the large bearded musician dude said holding up a bag of Dixie Cups and Chocolate Sundays.

The small musician dude with the thick glasses ignored the large bearded musician dude he called “Bear.”  He just stared at my acoustic Yamaha. “You like the blues?”

I didn’t answer him. I started playing Spirit in the Sky.

Memories sometimes get clouded. I don’t remember just what Owl said as he took my guitar, tuned it, and began playing. I do remember loving the way he played and sang that new song — a song, I would hear many times throughout my life. I do remember him telling me about an upcoming European tour — my uncle was helping to finance it — and this double album they [band] put together. He then spoke of Walden Pond and Thoreau, before reluctantly heading back into the meeting. I wish I paid more attention, or acted intelligent in some cool way. I knew nothing about Walden Pond, Thoreau or the name of their band, Canned Heat.  I just knew I wanted to learn how to play that new song, Going Up The Country.

… 2009, I wish I had a guitar as Alan Wilson’s soft voice again speaks to me from my speakers.  I’m going up the country, Babe don’t’ you wanna go? I’m going to someplace where I’ve never been before….

 

 

 

 

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sometimes remembering things is a good thing.
Nice piece, Chuck. Memories are strange things, difficult to capture. But a musician quoting Thoreau? Now there's an anomaly.
R
what a great story Chuck, and told in such an interesting way that I wanted it to be longer... do you still play?
John
Alan Wilson was a unique dude; he was really into the environment. It was the 60's and he was a Boston University grad.

Y Heron
I mostly play when teaching my niece.
Whoa! Canned Heat was a great band. Just think, if you would have acted "cool" you could have run away and became a roadie with the band. All those girls, so little time!
R~~
No way, you got to jam with Canned Heat? at least the heart of it.
no shit!

what a great story, and lucky you...what a memory!
scanner
whoa... I was jut commenting on your blog. See, not everything is learned in college. : )

Bob
true... and I even got a story about another band who was offered "The Letter" but they turned it down. Damn idiots... oh yes the lead singer is now my brother-in-law.
no frills
I shit not... I wish I could remember more of that encounter.
Nice memory. Bm as a barre chord in the 2nd position? That's a cramp waiting to happen. Well, not now. I remember John Mayall's Laurel Canyon album had some of those guys playing on it. Canned Heat was cool.
Stacey Youdin
Yes ... 2nd fret. I believe Mahall played on that double album. I think dr. John did too.
Loved Canned head! Nice memory and great piece. Rated.
Jeff Brawer
I too love their music. I would without this memory. Thank you for reading.
Oh. Wow.

Make that Far. Out.

One of my favourite songs from that era. From any era. What a story.
Wow, great story and memory. What John said about Thoreau. r
Yes, I totally get " grooving on such a memory ".
Thanks for sharing this one so vividly!
And good to know I wasn't the only 14 y.o. throwing back beers...
;-)
Lee
thank you.... From this experience I started getting into blues music.

Andy
I thought about not posting this, as memories sometimes become fantasy, but after discussing this with family, and researching Canned Heat for that september of 1968, I realized I wasn't dreaming that day.
spotted_mind
just remember to avoid Gablinger's !!!
Sweet story. I'm glad this memory stuck with you.
That's a pretty darn cool memory to have if you ask me!
Stim
thank you... with all the drugs and alcohol, I'm glad too.

Kirsty
Sometimes life can be really cool. That was one of those times.
I love Canned Heat!! Woodstock memories! Great story!
Lois
I so wish I went to Woodstock!!!
That is a great memory. I bought a guitar last year and have picked it up once. I'm afraid of failing miserably when I can't learn to play it.
What a great memory Chuck - you're right, sometimes remebering is a very good thing!
Ger
Most guitar players never really learned how to play.... : )

Melissa
rather these memories than the ones that cause pain....
Chuck,
I love this kind of thing. These are the kinds of writing prompts I give my students. Pick a song or a food and remember...
You do it so damn well.
I'm jealousing of your writing ability and standing back in admiration.
Lorraine
thank you... that's the kindest thing I've heard in sometime. Your students are very lucky to have you as a teacher. : )
Chuck, your writing is always so moving. It is wonderful to remember all the many stories and details of our lives. It adds to the richness and complexity of it. And you do it so well. Thank you.
marytkelly
I often write of the dark memories that haunt, writing of things that inspired me or made me happy, reeducate my spirit and need to appreciate life. Thank you for reading!
I’m going to someplace where I’ve never been before…

me too
LuluandPhoebe
I just wish I played more often!

Duaneart
I'll meet you somewhere in between.
six degrees of stimulation
Quite the memory to groove on!
Roy
Amen....

AtHomePilgrim
Groovin' is a good thing!
Umbrellakinesis
I love reliving the wild times via stories told to my kids — now adults. Somehow they relate. That makes me ponder their wild times. : )
Hey, I went to Woodstock...just last month.
Great story Chuck
Cool.. soon as you said Bear and described him Chuck I knew it was Canned Heat. Legends!
I can relate about the b-minor too, "playing it clean". I started playing around that age too and remember thinking that I would never be able to play the barre chords.
Memories are a great thing huh. It's part of what I love about OS. It makes me remember and explore my past.
trilogy
you've gone to where I want to go. : )

Trig
To sit in the presence of Alan Wilson picking at my cheap Yamaha was as close to that nirvana-feeling as I've ever been.
Yeah chuck, I bet... I was just taking a bath after a rain shortened work day, after I read this post that is, and sat in there thinking of the song you mentioned; 1;4;5 blues played high up on the neck of an acoustic probably no better than your Yamaha, that flute... fucking great, and these lines. "There's a brand new game and I wanna play". There WAS a brand new game then, and young people all over were playing it. And "We might even leave the USA". A sentiment no doubt inspired by the Viet Nam war and discontent with the status quo... which makes it apropos to these times we live in now to some degree. Except the kids nowadays either don't have the sense of adventure, or they've been effectively brainwashed and numbed down. Still... timeless.
Things go in cycles they say. Maybe bell bottoms, tie dyes and revolution will come back into fashion.
A good memory to remember..and a stroke with Canned Heat. This is the good stuff.
Damn Fine memory Chuck, anyone break out the Sterno? Mayall is one of my favorites, he loved 'em as do we ... 68 was one hell of a year for all of us mon! Thanx for the great share... RRR
scupper
thank you for reading.

Patrick
We didn't sip the sterno, but I did see Mayall in concert with Buddy Guy and Junior Brown. Extremely Rockin'
A Boston University shout out!!!! gotta love that. it's wicked coool. this is a great piece, chuck. i LOVE this. i'm with you about the good memories. you know i've been talking about the good and the not so good ones. oh, and Dixie cups!!! sorry, i'm missing new england badly. lveo love love and gratitude!
As Thoreau would say, "Simplicity. Simplicity. Simplicity." Maybe he was referring to a B minor chord on the guitar. Happy dreams and wishes!
Ah man when you said the name of the band I'll bet my neighbors jumped. I shouted! Man what a great story. I just loved this immensely.
Rated, rated, rated forever
Teddy
it's nice to relive Boston memories. My uncle lived in Wayland; I should've known about Walden Pond. xox

Steve
B minor is also cool blues chord.

Mike
us older hippies have some good memories, yes?
Chuck, I would love to have some memories like that one! If you think of some more please let us know!
Wow, it seems that although you didn´t want to be at your uncle´s house on that day, you were very lucky to be over there at the right time and with a guitar in your hands. Great memory.
Kisses,
Marcela