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JANUARY 10, 2010 9:20AM

"86-year-old Doesn't Freeze to Death"

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"We build a circle of care around the diverse elders of the East Side, keeping them safe and healthy in their homes."

This is the mission statement  of the non-profit where I am the director.  Don't be impressed by the title -- I direct myself and one other paid staff.  The rest of the worker bees are volunteers, and they're essential to our ability to provide a range of services to elders on the East Side of of St Paul.

Many of the volunteers live in the neighborhood that is our service area.  This  fits  the concept that the planners had in mind when they came up with the idea of programs like ours nearly 30 years ago. The Living-At-Home/Block Nurse program model got its start because neighbors had the idea of helping neighbors.  A group of women  having coffee wondered what they might do so their neighbors who were getting older could stay in their homes and not have to move into nursing homes.  Most older people want to remain  in their houses and neighborhoods,  and since it's much less costly than nursing homes, it saves tax dollars. 

As a non-profit we rely on grants and with grants comes reporting. We have to show that we're "accountable" and prove "measurable outcomes" and send in reports by certain deadlines.  I'm reminded of what my sister, a hospital nurse, once said -- "I can either do great patient care during my shift or I can do all the paperwork they want with the i's dotted and t's crossed, but I can't do both."  The paperwork seems excessive sometimes, especially at the end of a quarter when I spend hours making sure data is entered and reports are sent.  I'd rather be spending time with the elders or planning events that benefit them more directly.

Sometimes a crisis happens and we need to interrupt our reporting  or skip a meeting to help persons in need of our services, as happened last Tuesday.  When I got to work there was a message on the voicemail from Ed, a long-time client,  that he had left at 6:05 AM.  

"This is Ed _____.   My house is stone cold. I can't find the manual to the furnace, and I don't know what to do. The only place I can be warm enough is in bed under the covers. I'm desperate and I don't know what to do. Please have Bonnie call me."

Ed is an 86-year- old widower who lives alone in a house not far from our office.  He has a history of heart problems and has some memory loss and sometimes gets  confused. His two sons live in other states.  In the past year Ed had to give up  driving so our staff and volunteers take him to doctor appointments and help him with shopping.   

Bonnie, a retired Public Health Nurse who volunteers with our program, visits Ed once a week to set up his medications and check his blood pressure.  I called her, and told her about the message, and asked her if the house had been cold the day before when she was there. She said it wasn't bad,  but a little drafty, and she had talked to Ed about wearing long underwear during spells like the frigid blast that we're experiencing in Minnesota.  Bonnie also confirmed that Ed's housekeeper, Patricia, (who our program recruited for him) would be there that day, since Tuesdays and Fridays are the days Patricia helps him with chores and cooking. 

The next call was from Patricia. She reported that Ed's house was very cold, and that he seemed disoriented, and where she could usually get him to talk to her and come around to making sense, he wasn't.  She wanted to know if she should call 911.  I said that if there wasn't an immediate crisis, she should wait until I  called Bonnie back, which I did.

Bonnie lives two blocks from Ed and was there in minutes.  She discovered that Ed had turned his furnace off the night before, because he was concerned about "the cost of his heat bill, and not having enough to pay for it."  (Ed has sufficient funds to pay his bills.)  Bonnie turned the furnace on, took Ed's vital signs, and persuaded him to eat breakfast take his morning pills.  Pretty soon he was starting to be oriented and he even acknowledged that turning the furnace off was a "bad choice" for him to have made.  Bonnie  reinforced that he shouldn't do this again, and especially not during cold snaps like the one we've been having since the day after Christmas.  

Bonnie called  to let me know that Ed  was going to be fine.  I went back to reporting how many visits we made, rides we gave, and caregivers we talked to in the previous three months. But it occurred to me that what I'd really like to show is what DOESN'T happen because of what we do.  How many people DON'T suffer strokes or heart attacks because Bonnie makes the suggestion that they talk to their doctor about their blood pressure after seeing them at the monthly blood pressure clinics?  How many adult children DON'T have to take a half day off work to take their parent or aunt to a doctor appointment because our volunteers are available?  How many trips to the ER are avoided because someone is available to check, assess and resassure someone in a situation like this one?   It's  hard to document what DOESN'T happen -- but it was pretty easy to imagine what might have happened if we hadn't been there for Ed. 

" 86-year-old man found frozen to death. " Because we were there, this wasn't a news story on Wednesday.  And he didn't have to make an unnecessary trip to the ER or deal with frozen pipes breaking, either.

We did our job. It doesn't make headlines, but it's good news all the same. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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I don't mind not making headlines for doing our job, but it would be nice to not have to spend so much time reporting when the real issue is what might happen if we didn't do it.
Seems like all that paperwork is setting up volunteer programs for failure -- I submitted an application to volunteer at our Food Bank about 10 days ago. Still haven't heard anything back. After reading this, I figure they're already buried in paperwork and just processing the applications for volunteers must be quite a task.

Thanks for the good news! Glad that old man will live another day in his own house. You're doing the "Christian" work that the fundamentalist christians I know -- people who complain about the state of our country -- would never think to do.
With a terrific headline like this, I hope your post gets more attention
Thank God you were there, and people like you giving that sort of selfless service for the elderly every day in this world. Thank God.
Good news, indeed. I am glad you shared this story.
Thanks, everyone for reading and commenting. I had a different job with the same program for three years, which involved more contact with the elders and less paperwork. That job ended due to funding cuts. In a perfect world I would do my old job at my current salary and be full-time v. 3/4 time which I am now. At least that's what I get paid for -- I work more than that.
Skeletnwmn, don't give up on the idea of volunteering with the Food Bank. Food shelf demand is way up and they need help. You're probably right about them being buried in paperwork and not getting to your application -- at this time of year non-profits have quarterly and annual reports to do.
Awesome! I love these stories.
We are a crazy society - always accounting for what we have done, which rarely showes what we have succeeded at. The numbers game irritates the stink out of me.
Thanks for seeing past the numbers.
Lisa, we do have some amazing volunteers, thank goddess. We couldn't function without them. Thanks for visiting and commenting.

...next, please, the numbers games makes me crazy, too. For the next report that's due I have numbers that make sense, but I'm not sure which column they should go into on the form. Thanks for stopping by!
I worked for non-profits and community colleges. To accomplish any of the good I was hoping to do seemed to always require a lot of bureaucracy crashing. Often my head was banging on a brick wall. But every so often it crumbled for the oddest of reasons, allowing a single ray of sunshine at a time. Hard not to get discouraged, but ultimately worth it. Kudos to you.
Before I moved my mother out to be with us in Arizona, she spent a summer without water. She had to go down several flights to the basement, load up buckets from the laundry room sink, and haul them back up to flush and such. The building was full of elders and people with disabilities, and when I arrived to begin packing her up for her trip West, I was incensed. I managed to get through to the mayor's office and get the water turned on--it was the landlord who hadn't been paying bills, not the tenants. But there was NO one to help them, and if I hadn't arrived to rescue my mother, I'm not sure what would've happened to the others.

Bless you for what you try to do. Despite it all.
Trish, thanks for your comment. You're so right about those rays of sunshine that remind us what it's really all about.

Keka, what happened in your mom's building is just wrong! It's hard to that could happen to people in this country for that long... especially when Wall Street CEO's who caused the financial meltdown continue to get millions in bonuses -- but that's a different post. So glad you got her out of there, and resolved the situation for the others in the building.
I've worked in healthcare for thirty years, and there are so many older people out there like this that show up after a crisis that you avoided. One person CAN make a difference. If I did not believe that, I don't think I could work in this fragmented awful system. R.
Believe it or not, I've wondered how the elderly manage up North in the cold and snow. I spent one winter in snow and barely coped. It's so heartening to know there are programs and people like yourself that look after the Block. What a wonderful GNS post, even if it's Saturday!
The community spirit in the USA needs a rebirth. Neighbors helping neighbors is what will keep us all strong & secure. Regrettably, our corporate culture and corporate media fight this concept as there is no profit in it for them, no fees to collect, no quarterly sales goals to meet and earn that million dollar bonus. Thank you for this article. It's given me an idea for my next post!
I remember this and how powerful the writing and the stories are. thanks for reminding me.
Neighbors helping neighbors is what saved my parents when the big ice storm hit in January of last year and knocked the power out almost everywhere. I live out of state. Their good neighbor went 3 times to their house to check on my parents - 90 and 83 yo - who had no heat to try to get them to go to the shelter. Finally he told them if they didn't go he was going to bring them to his house (yea, I know, why didn't he just do that anyway? oh, well) where he did have some at least (but I don't think he really had enough for them at their age). That finally got my dad to go (he's the one who'd been holding out) - mom had been wanting to go for a while! Sure would have hated for them to be that headline! Am so grateful for their neighbor!