Mia NM
- Location
- Los Angeles, California, United States
- Birthday
- December 31
- Bio
- A lactose intolerant who loves eating cheese, a native Angeleno but also a nomad. Mixed, forgetful, upbeat, prone to existential crisis. Lover of words, tea, mix CDs, and the ocean. Enjoys sneaking shout-outs into pieces, cooking with varied results, collecting life anecdotes. Can't escape thinking about race, love, and mortality. Also, the birthday field is broken-- I'm a cancer. I write for the Rafu Shimpo and Discover Nikkei.
MY RECENT POSTS
- Moody Leaves and Old-World
Grandmothers
April 05, 2011 04:09PM - Ching Chong Ling Long and a
Tsunami Deserved?
March 15, 2011 02:42AM - Crusted Coffee Cups and
Post-It Graves: On Writer's
Block
March 07, 2011 02:12AM - Wrinkled, Sexy, and Hard of
Hearing
February 22, 2011 01:54PM - Like Light Through Rice Paper
January 11, 2011 12:35PM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “Alysa - Thanks for
always giving me so much
encouragement and
sort of
taking me u…”
March 15, 2011 02:12PM - “I loved this! Good luck
with the rest of
the
translation!”
February 25, 2011 11:05AM - “Kate - I really thought
I'd added you as a favorite as
soon
as I saw that you
wer…”
February 22, 2011 02:18PM - “Thank you both for your
comments and for
reading!
Alysa- I
love your gravy
story,…”
February 22, 2011 02:06PM - “Great post! I wish my
mother had taken a page from
your
book.”
October 13, 2010 02:27PM
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Moody Leaves and Old-World Grandmothers
In the Japanese American National Museum Store lives a five-generation family of teas, dressed in colorful labels, snuggling tin-to-tin on the shelf they call home. This flavorful family is the realization of Retail Director Maria Kwong’s more-than-a-decade-long dream to bring custom tea to the… Read full post »
Ching Chong Ling Long and a Tsunami Deserved?
*Update 3/16* If you watch just one Alexandra Wallace response video, make it this music video by Jimmy Wong

In one weekend, a video posted by UCLA student Alexandra Wallace exploded all over YouTube, spurring responses in only a matter of hours, ranging from public service announcement-ty… Read full post »
Crusted Coffee Cups and Post-It Graves: On Writer's Block
Writing, as it works out for me, involves a lot of time staring at blank space—the lined emptiness of notebook pages, or more often dauntingly white Word documents and input fields. In these moments, writing is more struggle than pleasure.
One afternoon, a writer friend and I both had assignmen… Read full post »
Wrinkled, Sexy, and Hard of Hearing
Adult film sensation Hideo Yutani of Paul Kikuchi’s most recent play, Wrinkles, isn’t what comes to mind when anyone imagines a porn star.
Under his stage name, Yutani has managed to make it in one of the most lucrative brands of fetish pornography in Japan. His “acting… Read full post »
Like Light Through Rice Paper
When I was little, my mom used to make osechi ryori, the set of traditional good luck Japanese foods, for us at New Year’s. I remember tiered serving dishes, sweet kuromame black beans, and little inch-long fish covered in a sticky glaze with their eyes still in place. By the time… Read full post »
Funeral
One of my great aunts died this week. She was in her late 80s, an age that another of our elderly family friends once called something that translates like "an age you can't complain about dying at," and she had been sick for almost as long as I can remember. To… Read full post »
The Average Life of Daruma
This is my daruma.
For those who've never seen one of these guys before, they're Japanese dolls made of papier mache and named for Bodhidharma, the founder of Zen Buddhism (dharma --> daruma... get it?).
The story of the daruma doll in a nutshell is that it's an object of… Read full post »
The Writer Lives Downstairs
I always knew I wanted to be a writer. Before I could read Ramona Quimby books on my own, or even before I could write sentences, it's something I remember always being able to declare confidently. My parents used to read to me at night and, in love with books, I… Read full post »
It's Only Racist If You're White
Last summer, I took a trip to visit a friend at her college, a college best known as one of the country's biggest party schools, no matter how many statistics about program rankings and Nobel laureate faculty members my (brilliant journalist) friend lists to defend its honor.
By the end… Read full post »
My mother is Japanese from Osaka; my father, American from a small town in Western Oregon. There's a word for people like me, used especially on the West Coast and popularized in recent years, maybe most notably by artist Kip Fulbeck:
Hapa.
From the Hawaiian phrase "hapa haole" ("half white"), the… Read full post »
Third Culture Kids: between Figueroa and James Taylor
I remember having a conversation about names with someone I'd just met during my freshman orientation at Middlebury four years ago. This guy and I both had long, four-part names, and when I told him mine, I got this response: "Mine are better, because
… Read full post »
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