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JUNE 5, 2009 2:18AM

My Neighbor Ate My Cat

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J'adore Afrique. How do you summarize two years into one page? When I learned I had secured a place in the Community Health and HIV/AIDS Prevention Program with the United States Peace Corps and they called to tell me I would be leaving in September for a French speaking country in West Africa, I screamed with excitement. It was a dream come true.

We, volunteers, all have different reasons for joining. Honestly, most of us are running away from something. A decent majority are sincerely interested in the program they are entering and think the twenty-seven months they spend in service will help to achieve greater success in future endeavors. I fell somewhere in between. Having lived overseas before, I was aching to live once more in a French speaking country. Switzerland was too expensive to do on my own dime and I figured two years working as a health agent would help me to transition into a job in health communications upon my return stateside. Peace Corps West Africa was the perfect solution.

I never imagined how close I would become to a country and customs so foreign from my own. I never imagined how many similarities I would find that would forever endear me to these people.

Each picture in the slide show above has it's own story that would take pages to explain. In the group photo at the beginning of the video, where we all have our tongues sticking out, the white pill is an anti-malaria pill. Some of us took it every day; some of us took it once a week. We all had to take it for the two plus years we were in service. Admitting to not taking the pill meant getting medically separated (i.e. kicked out).

The cat was indeed eaten by my neighbor. The cat's name was Moose and he had already killed most of the mice in my house so I didn't complain too much when I came home and saw his flea collar (thanks mom) lying on the dirt. My neighbor joked about eating him for weeks.

In some of the photos the men are painted or wearing grass hats and feathers and shells. They only dress like this for ceremonies - funerals, coming of age ceremonies, weddings, etc. It's like trying to describe the reason we wear white dresses with wreaths in our hair for first communion or why we invite clowns to birthday parties.

Yes, I sat in the same seat as the driver during several taxi rides. Their purpose is to collect as much money as possible - no matter how loaded down their used vehicle is. When they stop for gas they shake the car to try and fit more inside. David, my now husband, who came to visit me for six weeks after he graduated college, laughed every time. You would think that the concept of liquid automatically filling the space it inhabits would be self-explanatory. And yes, that is a goat tied to the back of the taxi van. His position is preferable to the chickens tied up at your feet for a 6-hour ride.

The other pictures show off the traditional dress, the strange diseases, my sweet Peace Corps issued Trek mountain bike, the beautiful landscape, the wildlife (mainly monkeys and lizards) and the amazing people. Dancing is a big deal in Africa. So is cotton as it is one of the few cash crops.

And yes, Virginia, Timbuktu does exist. Just ask the camel.

The picture with tons of tin roofs, all rusted, was the local market in my regional capital. It was full of riches my village could not afford. Vegetables, for instance.

You get used to eating pounded yams in gumbo sauce. You come to crave it. I lived without water or electricity and slept under a mosquito net unless it was dry season and then I slept under the stars whenever possible. I read more books in two years than I had in the decade previous. I introduced girls’ soccer to my village and tire swings to my neighbors. They taught me about compassion, patience, and true understanding.

Most importantly, I made some really, really good friends - African and American. Friends who would go to the end of the earth for you. Of course, some of them go there voluntarily anyway ( :




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Please welcome guest blogger and my lovely daughter, Paige. This is her story and these are her pictures and yes, I added the music correctly this time!!
Great story about the adventure of a lifetime! I enjoyed the slideshow very much. Thanks to Paige for an interesting read and for having spent two years of her life so devoted to others.
Chocolate, Thanks for stopping by! I believe that Obama will be in Ghana soon, the country right next to Togo. The pictures of the slave castle in the video are in Ghana. I am looking forward to see what happens. China is very involved in this area of the world.
Great story Paige, this is the work more Americans should embrace. When I get a chance to travel alone and actually meet the local people, I am always delighted to find that we're more alike than different.

MAWB- you must be very proud of your daughter, I know I would be.

Rated.
great story paige!
I want to thankyou for these wonderful pics here Paige. They are great. Looks like an adventure of a lifetime to me. You must have had fun doing this and making friends.
I enjoyed this very much, both for Paige's dedication and courage and for her writing. The taxi ride description was especially colorful. I loved the kids on the cotton and the colorful clothes. Thank you for representing Americans so well.
Paige your mom loves you very and I can see why. great story.
What wonderful smiles! They cheered me up. Thanks, Paige, for going there, and thanks, MAWB, for sharing this with us. What a wonderful daughter you have raised!
Thank you to Paige and MiddleAgedWoman - this is fabulous and you have lived a dream of mine - to work in a French-speaking country doing good works (rather than just sitting around in cafes in Paris, consuming French wines, which would be also a "good work" of a sort...). Wonderful piece. You both should be proud.
Great slide show. Lovely young woman. Thank you for your service. The world is a better place for yours and others efforts.
Welcome Paige! Great post!!!
Paige
Thank you for putting into words your experience. The slide show and the accompanying music adds flavor; your compassion for others and the work you did makes your journey eternal.
Lois
way cool and very much appreciated!
MAWB, you have made my day! This should be an EP, if there ever was one. I am going to try to digg this. It's rated and needs to be blog call girled to the moon!

Your daughter is so bright and lovely, and condolences on the eaten cat.
Thank you all! Yes, she should be a good writer, she graduated from from the "J" school as she calls it, at Mizzou. She hasn't been writing as of late and I want her to keep her fingers wet. (after all, I did spend all that money on out-of-state tuition!!)

Glad you enjoyed the slide show, that was my contribution!!
THIS is just magnificent and should be sent to the Peace Corps for them to use as a recruitment post/video. Everything you write about Paige makes me feel that same call to do something significant than can make a difference and enrich many lives, including my own. Beautiful photos, wonderful music and you have a great mom in MAWB! Highly rated.
Cartouche, the Peace Corps has many older and retired people too. I don't think I have the stamina for a two year stint, and apparently several young people don't either. Not all make it to the end, which is sad because if I am correct, they will never be able to hold a government job again. It's like a "less than honorable" discharge from the army. Living away from home in a hut can't be easy! But, hey.... it can't be all bad either.
Wow! What a great opportunity!

Hello, Paige. Please, I hope you will continue to write of your experiences. I know you have many more stories in you just like that other wonderful writer, your mother!
How marvelous. Many thanks to Paige for sharing.