Military Missions

Military Missions
Location
Lexington, Kentucky, USA
Birthday
October 31
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Founder
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Military Missions Inc
Bio
I have what I consider to be the best job on the planet. I run Military Missions Inc, a nonprofit organization which supports military, veterans, and their families. I did not set out to start an organization, I simply did what came naturally when my son joined the US Marine Corps in 2004. I followed my mother’s heart. Previously, I taught school for 20 years (12 in public and private elementary schools, 8 in home education) and I have logged in countless hours as room mother, team mother, and parent volunteer. What started out as a mother sending care packages to her son has turned into a fast-growing nonprofit that keeps me busy 14 hours a day; and I love every minute of it! In addition to supporting our troops with care packages, providing support for their families here on the home front and getting involved with the veteran community, I’ve also been learning a lot about how our military functions and how to get some action out of our lawmakers. When I mailed the first care package six years ago, I had no idea that I would become an advocate for Wounded Warriors and Veterans suffering with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and Traumatic Brain Injury, the invisible wounds of war, but it’s obvious that God knew it all along. It is my honor and privilege to support those who have been willing to stand in the gap for my freedom. I figure this is the least I can do to say thanks. Felled Not was born out of efforts to help our combat veterans suffering with PTSD and TBI. Felled Not! No warrior shall be felled by invisible wounds.

FEBRUARY 16, 2011 11:25PM

It's finally time to tell the truth

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Can I report the truth without anyone having to know it was me?

Carl Prine, a staff writer for the Pittsburg Tribune-Review, has recently published a number of articles on Wounded Warrior care.  In addition to the series of articles on the subject, the Pittsburg Tribune Review has made available a number of reports from the Office of Wounded Warrior Care and Transition Policy.  The WWCTP made several visits to various military treatment facilities which provide medical care for our troops.  (Click here to read the articles and reports.)

When it comes to my attention that reporters are not only interested in reporting on what is really going on in these Wounded Warrior units, but that they will research every angle and present the problems from several viewpoints, I am more thrilled.  I can promise you that Mr. Prine is definitely onto something and I certainly hope he will continue to dig for information.  Up to this point, most of the focus of this series has been on issues within the Army.  I can guarantee that there is a plenty of interesting information about the Marine Corps which needs to be brought to the attention of the American people, or at the very least, the families of the Marines who are now Wounded Warriors. 

There are many truths in these articles written by Mr. Prine. How do I know?  Because the story is eerily familiar. I’ve stood by and watched as more than one Marine has entered Wounded Warrior Battalion-East, Camp Lejeune, NC, (WWBN-E) in hopes of getting proper medical care so they could return to their units and get on with their military careers.  Unfortunately, many find out that they are stuck in a place where there seems to be no way out and no road to recovery.

Don’t you find it the least bit strange that Lt. Gen. Eric Schoomaker felt compelled to write a letter to be published in the Trib to inform all of us that the Trib’s Wounded Warrior series has “grossly misrepresented the Army’s commitment and success in caring for wounded”?  This speaks volumes to me.  Why didn’t he just make his comments as the series was being written?  Apparently, he was given more than a dozen opportunities to be interviewed, which he declined.

I’ve listened to Lt. Gen. Schoomaker defend the Warrior Transition Units.  He never fails to bring up the supposed 91% of soldiers who say they are satisfied with their care at the WTU.  The part he doesn’t ever mention is how the surveys are conducted.  In all likelihood, he has no idea himself.  To better understand this remark, I will refer you to one of my previous blog entries, Are We Entitled to Our Own Opinion?

If you don’t know someone on the inside, particularly one who suffers from TBI or PTSD, you may not have the full story.  I’ve been studying this issue for 27 months.  I’ve lived the nightmare having a family member trapped inside one of these units.

I am well aware that there are many hard working and dedicated caregivers doing their best to help our wounded troops, but I am also aware that there are many who are mistreating our troops and must then cover their butts to be sure they can continue to climb the leadership ladder of success.

I beg to differ with Lt. Gen. Schoomaker on who is doing a disservice to the American people.  I believe we should give that credit to those who continue to sweep the obvious problems under the rug.

Vietnam veteran and former Deputy Undersecretary of Defense, Noel Koch, was picked by the Obama administration to investigate and alleviate problems in the Wounded Warrior units.  After compiling and presenting the information discovered, Koch was asked to resign or be fired.

According to the Trib’s article, Documents show Army’s disservice to broken soldiers, when Koch’s report was presented, Under Secretary of Defense for Personnel and Readiness, Clifford L. Stanley, simply said, " ‘Wow,’ and then gave him a cryptic warning: ‘He (Stanley) did not address me (Koch) by name, but he did look directly at me and said the following: 'It is important to be careful what is put in written reports. These can affect people's careers.' "

This sounds more than a little familiar.  I was told by WWBN-E leadership, more than once, when I was desperately trying to get some help for my son, that the Marines about whom I had made complaints were good men.  I was told that bringing any such accusation to light would greatly affect their careers, therefore, there was simply no way leadership could move forward.  Leadership went to great lengths to discourage me, but I fought back with the help of Congressman Walter Jones (NC), and I wait anxiously for the results of the DoD Inspector General’s assessment which was conducted last fall.  Results were projected to be released in January, therefore, we could soon have access to the report.

What is even more interesting for me to discover is that when Mr. Koch visited WWBN-E back in October of 2009, I heard about his visit while the man was literally standing in the battalion.  I’ve got the inside scoop on the inside scoop and I just figured it out!  I’ve seen Mr. Koch’s name countless times in the media, but it wasn’t until I read the report, Wounded – Bragg Lejeune (Ft. Bragg, Camp Lejeune), attached to the Trib’s series that I put it all together.  Imagine my delight when I looked back through my arsenal of notes and found Mr. Koch's name in my documentation.   If only I had not been so naive and gullible back then.  Maybe I would have called Mr. Koch.  I had access to his contact information and was too scared to dial the number.  Back then, it was impossible to figure out who could be trusted and I wasn’t far enough along in the courage building process to pick up the phone.  Now that I have come to this realization, I have to admit, I’m even more upset about Mr. Koch’s forced resignation.  He was trying to get to the truth and was abruptly stopped.  How different might things have been if he had been allowed to do his job?

 

Fear

 

I want to thank Carl Prine and the Pittsburgh Tribune Review for publishing this series.  It empowers me to come out from the hiding place where fear always takes me and tell my story.  I can only hope that other families will read his series and come to the same decision.  We have got to speak up and do something to help our from the hiding place where fear always takes me and tell my story.  I can only hope that other families will read his series and come to the same decision.  We have got to speak up and do something to help our wounded warriors, and we have to do it now.  While Lt Gen Schoomaker and his staff are “working on the rest” there are troops committing suicide and dying in their sleep as a result of the drug cocktails they have been prescribed.

 

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Unfortunately, you can get the truth out but you can't make people care.
Sadly, you are right. No one cares until the problem is sitting on their front porch. It won't be long before there will be thousands of us dealing with this.
It seems like the truth is always a double edged sword...and yet, in the end, truth always wins. Thank you for your continued service to our beloved military. My son just recently returned from Qatar and now my nephew is headed for Afghanistan for the first time.
Bob-AFett I appreciate your honesty. We can't all wear the uniform but we can all do our part to serve. Without family members and supportive friends giving much to support our military, they would likely be ineffective. Don't be so hard on yourself. You are obviously passionate and patriotic about supporting the military, and your family has certainly done its part because of the continued service since WWI. I am definitely with you on the bumper stickers. So many think they can just slap it on their car and they are finished doing their part. Our slogan at Military Missions is "Beyond the Yellow Ribbon" for exactly that reason. I'm glad to hear you are helping some of our veterans out with VA issues. They need outside support since they will never get enough of it within the VA.
Patricia, I'm so glad to hear that your son has returned. We would love to add your nephew to our mailing list for care packages. Go to www.military-missions.org/addahero.htm if you would like to add him. You are right about the double-edged sword. For every good thing that can be accomplished, there is always an accompanying crisis. Those in opposition will fight to the end....but as you said, the truth always wins in the end and that is what I am going to have to count on to get through this situation. Thanks for your kind words.
Stories like yours make me sad and mad and glad. Sad and mad because I know from personal experience that these patients' minds and bodies aren't receiving quantitive care and treatment. Glad because I'll always support the military and families who've helped them after they've made sacrifices civilians won't ever make.

When will we realize our veterans and their families deserve the best health care, the best education, when the best some of us can do is disrespect them for warring with others who've made it clear their missions are death, devastation, destruction of everything we Americans think are our freedoms...

Sweet land of liberty is akin utopia. It doesn't exist. Our country is slowly becoming the land of pilk and money. Pithy that.
First, thank you for posting this, I saved it to respond during the day in hopes of keeping it bubbling up to the top.

I suffer from the other PTSD, from childhood and such but I’ve lived in trapped in a hell in my mind since I was young, I can’t imagine what it would be like had I gone to war. I was a Marine and I can tell you I felt safest among the grunts. I wouldn’t trust most high ranking officers then, I trust them less now. It’s an internal and personal issue, I know there are good officers so this is my experience I’m describing.

“It empowers me to come out from the hiding place where fear always takes me and tell my story.” That line hit me like a ton of bricks, that’s what I’ve been doing with my own hell. I appreciate the way you are able to state these things as I’m not there yet. I’m now struggling with rage, where once I was a peaceful, gentle person.

The only way out of this is with the truth, I’m not going to hide in fear when I’m the injured party. I will stand behind you whenever I can, when I can’t someone else will be there. I can’t stop it, WE can stop it. I have a "big mouth."

Eric Schoomaker, Clifford L. Stanley, thank you for giving me those names and the titles they hold. What I can do is tell people who tell me our troops are being taken care of the truth. I do it matter of factly, as these are simply the facts of the matter. If they want to live with the truth and not care, then I will know who they really are. I also tell them the names of people who put shame us all by continuing to abuse the injured parties people. To me those men are cowards and should be ashamed of themselves, not our wounded people.

Personally, I don’t see them as wounded warriors, I see them as wounded human beings. My heart aches for the beating they and everyone in their families keep getting. It’s agonizing thinking about their children. If I don’t talk about it to people who say the wounded are being cared for, then I am as guilty as the perpetrators. I apologize for the times I didn’t speak out, I won’t let it happen again.

Thank you for this post, I see what it cost you and your family.
l’Heure Bleue, thank you for sharing your heart and for your willingness to stand up and fight. As well, thank you for your service in the USMC. It is going to take all of us to speak up and speak loudly. It will be an honor to serve alongside you in this battle for dignity, respect, and proper health care for all of our veterans suffering with PTSD and TBI.
Flower Child, I certainly agree with your logical answer to the problem. I’ve suggested that same thing countless times to military leadership. Every time I was always immediately greeted with the “accountability” factor and the fact that the “order and discipline of the unit” had to proceed any other actions or decisions. Essentially, each Marine is a commodity. He is 100% owned by the Corps. There is a fear that if the injured Marine were to be released to a health care facility run by civilians, the Marine might be forever sucked into the civilian world and be unable to again function in his military community. Basically, Marine leaders are control freaks who fear losing their precious investment. In their attempt to keep their injured Marines in the fold, they ultimately push them away. It’s like that old expression: If you love something, let it go..... The injured Marines would not want to run away if they could actually be released to a healing environment. My son was a lifer. He loved his job. He did NOT want to leave the Corps. After feeling like a POW for almost two years, he gave up and got out. Instead of fulfilling their promise to assist each warrior and his/her family or caregiver from the time they arrive at the hospital through their recovery and reintegration” they actively recruit people to stand in unemployment lines and collect disability checks while under the influence of prescription drug cocktails, compliments of the DoD and the VA. So sad.....
ms missions ... thanx for your continuing informative posts ...