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On this blog: All words (other than identified quotations) © Sharon Nesbit-Davis, 2009-12, All rights reserved. *********************************** I am a blog writer at two sites: Rockford Register Star: Arts4All AND The Red Tent: The Movie ********************************** You can find me on Facebook: "The Mime Writes" Logo Design by Dianaani ********************************** I work as the Education & Community Engagement Director of a Regional Arts Council which means I beg "the deciders" to fund and support the arts for everyone, not just the rich. *********************************** I am also a mime. For those that hate mimes, I understand. But you'll never find me annoying people on the street, unless I'm living there. I'm a "concert mime" ...which means you have to buy a ticket. *********************************** I've been married to my one and only since 1976. Still happy. Still in love. Two kids, six grandkids. In college I became a Baha'i (a world religion whose main theme is unity). It keeps me relatively sane in a world gone mad.

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JANUARY 26, 2012 8:47AM

One Dang Lucky Girl

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My Brownie troop leader announced we were going to be famous. She may not have said those words, but that’s what I heard. Our picture was going to be in the newspaper to promote Girl Scout Cookie Sales. My mother told my relatives, and my grandfather said most people don't get in the paper until they die. "You are one dang lucky girl."

 

I didn’t tell anyone that this was just the beginning. Someday I would be in the newspaper every day. That happens when people are famous. 

 

It was ironic my first newspaper picture would be for girl scout cookies. I hated selling them. The other girls had parents who sold them to friends and neighbors and co-workers. My parents thought that was cheating.  For two weeks I lugged my carton of Girl Scout cookies around the neighborhood. I walked up to houses and hoped no one was home. After one knock, I counted to ten fast and left. Sometimes they opened the door and yelled for me to come back.

 

The night before the photo shoot my mother ironed my uniform and my father polished my Buster Brown® tie-oxfords. They were ugly, but they matched the uniform. The news office had men with suits, women in heels and lipstick, desks with piles of paper and typewriters, but no one was running and shouting like they did in the movies. We went into a small room and were told to sit on the floor and pretend we were having a meeting. Our leader brought a box of “Thin Mints” she had in her freezer and gave it to pretty, blonde Marcia. The photographer moved us around and put me next to her. It was the first time I ever sat close to Marcia. She smelled as clean as she looked.

 

After taking a couple group pictures the photographer said, “I want a picture of one girl by herself. Who wants to be a model?” Everyone looked at Marcia but she cringed and hid her face. I jumped up. “I’ll do it!” 

 

"OK. Take the cookies and stand by the wall." Having practiced poses in the mirror, I knew my best look was left profile, head slightly tilted and knee bent. I held the box of cookies on the crook of my arm and smiled over my shoulder.  He took that picture, but wanted one with me facing the camera, holding the box of cookies just below my chin. He said they would use the best one, but they didn’t. They used his.  His pose made me look like a little kid. My pose made me look alluring.

 

Neighbors, church people, and teachers gave the clipping to my parents and said I looked cute.  Kids who never talked to me said, “Saw your picture.”  My grandfather told me again how dang lucky I was.

 

That year I sold the most cookies in my troop. I pasted the clipping to my carton and held it up when someone opened the door after I knocked and rang the doorbell and waited. They looked at the clipping, then at me. “Hey! That’s you!” I turned my head slightly and smiled. Everyone bought at least one box and some asked me to come back with more. That’s what happens when you are famous. 

 

The next year a younger girl’s picture was in the paper with her chin resting on the cookies. She had dimples and curls. My mother only saved one of my clippings and mounted it in her don’t-dare-touch-if-you-value-your-life scrap book.  I returned to my former sales technique: knock once, count fast and run away. Those that did get to the door, did not remember me. “We bought from you last year? Are you sure?”

 

A few years ago I found the two glossy pictures in my mother’s photo album. The one printed in the newspaper was as I remembered: a freckled face little girl with big brown eyes. A mere child. The other one showed the same freckled face child, turned sideways flashing a crooked smile. There was nothing sexy about her, but she did look hopeful.

 

Fifty-two years later I still practice poses in the mirror, though now I laugh instead of dream. My best side isn't there anymore. But last night during dinner, my husband looked at me in a way that still makes me blush.  

 

My grandfather was right. I am one dang lucky girl. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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So hows come you didn't post that endearing photo here, freckle face?
Not sure where it is now. I've never been accused of being organized.
I hated selling cookies too - I was always the one who sold the least number of boxes - my mom and dad wouldn't cheat for me either - dang lucky girl -R
I loved this story as it reminded of my days in Girl Guides( what we call them in Canada). I could see you pose and it made me giggle. I guess that 15 minutes to fame comment is true.. sigh...
HUGGG
Happy Birthday and thanks for sharing such a special story. Loved the way your husband can make you blush, still.
Wonderful story and testament to the power of grown-up love. I'm looking forward to my box of thin mints this year.
You had the Buster Brown shoes? You were lucky. And it seems to have held. Great post.
Great story! Wish you still had the picture to share!
So cute! I love your synopsis: "It's not my best side anymore."
Happy 60th and I'd say 'many more', but wouldn't want to 'bless' you with more than you may be interested in. (I'm going for 80, personally). I think blushing often leads to other things so hope your husband's after dinner gift was more than a chilled Thin Mint!
May we all have a good side and always know how lucky we are.

A lovely essay.
Lovely story and amazing how our memories retain these special moments.

Oh and many happy returns. Have a birthday to remember.
'But last night during dinner, my husband looked at me in a way that still makes me blush'

Well there ya go ;).

Rated for dreaming awake.
Wonderful post, mimetalker. I'm with Matt, I want to see that photo.
I loved this how you end it is so freakin perfect :)
This was sweeter and more enjoyable than any Girl Scout cookie - even my beloved Samoas! :-)
love..."there was nothing sexy about her, but she did look hopeful."
I could go for a box of Thin Mints right now.
I was never a girl scout. I think we didn't have the money for the uniform and stuff. This is a sweet story with a sweet ending. Thanks.
This reminded me of Tatum O'Neal in Paper Moon, as a little girl con artist. How did you keep from gobbling the mints? There would have been crumbs all down my front in my picture.
I also hated selling girl scout cookies, but my photo never made the big time! Now that I'm on the other side of the pen, I love doing those kinds of stories. Such hope! Such promise! Such vitriol for the reporter who prints the "wrong" photo! Great story; thanks for sharing!
(You don't have a bad side.) I was waiting for the photo too; still have it? Loved this...happy EP! xo R
I was never a Girl Scout(Guide) but I did have my picture in the papers when I was twelve, so I know how special that feels.
I see that birthday greetings are due...since the day is almost over I hope you had a good one.
"My best side isn't there anymore." Mine, either. LOL! That line tickled me. I can just see you gazing into the mirror over your shoulder.

Lezlie
One year I sold the most cookies of my Girl Scout troop. My mother wanted to kill me when we had over 600 boxes of cookies stacked in our living room for distribution and chaos reigned when people didn't want to pay and orders were messed up. I ended up quitting Girl Scouts that year in righteous indignation when our troop leader donated all our cookie money to charity instead of taking us to Cedar Point Amusement Park for our annual trip. Why else would I have worked so hard for those sales? What 8 year old wants to help the community rather than ride roller coasters?
For me it's all about the shoes...I remember those shoes!! Buster Browns! I wanted a pair of "real" Busters so bad when I was a kid! Ruined me for life, I tell ya!
Oh, Mime, if after 52 years your husband looks at you in a way that still makes you blush, then you're not seeing you as you should.
And isn't that what really matters?
R♥
Priceless post, mime. "She smelled as clean as she looked" is spot(less) on. The whole paragraph about your posing for the solo shot is one laugh-provoking sentence after another.

And, yes, you are dang lucky. As are we.
I was a Girl Scout drop out myself. It was the uniform, just horrid.

Loved the story, now I want some cookies.
Ohhhhhh.....where's the picture? Please post it when you get it.
You got all that AND thin mints? Dang, girl! You are lucky!
I remember the picture VERY well... so I know it exists.

It's probable that I teased you about it--though that also meant that I admitted that it was a really cute picture. And it was--no wonder the editors chose that one... the "pixie" smile and huge brown eyes would just melt Quincian hearts.

The tease was probably along the lines that you wouldn't even have to open your mouth to sell cookies--the neighbors could NEVER refuse to buy from the poster child for GS cookies.
Thank you all for taking the time to stop in and comment. My goal is to get around and look at your blogs this week. I am going to search for the picture and when I find it I'll repost this. I'm grateful my brother confirmed there was one. Sometimes my memory recalls my imagination. ;-)
I totally wish that you had the photo to share with this. Great story.