Moana

Moana
Location
India
Birthday
March 16
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A writer who has to write JAVA code for a living but dreams of someday reaching the elysium where letters would be all that she would need to exist.

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JANUARY 27, 2009 8:55AM

A diary entry ( 1/27/2009)

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This post is different. It is improptu. All my earlier posts have been deliberate. The subjects are decided, then I write out the stuff in a MS Word document. Posting is the final step. This one is the second one I am typing in directly. The first one being my first post ( which doesn't exist anymore).

I have no clear subject in mind. This is more like a diary entry.

So let me see, my throat is all itchy, I feeling like stuffing a fork inside my throat and scratching all the bacteria to death. My nose is running, I have to stop typing to wipe my nose every two lines. I have got the common cold and am craving some hot soup.

I had my hair cut over the weekend. It was of middling length before and now I can hardly tie it in a ponytail. I HATE hair on my face and tickling the spot just below my ears, and now I am seriously considering murdering the haitdresser for catching me in a moment of temporary insanity and convincing me to chop off my tresses to ridiculous lengths.

I changed my profile picture today because I cannot bear to see the glorious ponytail in my old avatar. 

My parents had been considering two serious marriage proposals for me over the past few weeks. None of them worked out, the hororscopes didn't match. I only had their profiles on a matrimonial site to go by. The first one was lean and only 4 inches taller than me. Now I would prefer my guy to be taller than that. He had nice smile though.

The other one was a little on the heavier side and that did not bother me one bit. After all my biggest dread is of growing bigger than my husband at a later stage. He had a fancy degree and a huge pay to his name and though I am ashamed to say it, that did carry some weight with me.

Well none of them worked out and I am actually glad. I realized I am too much in love with the happy-go-lucky lifestyle I lead now to commit myself to being responsible in the near future. This gives me a few more precious months to continue being the irresponsible spoilt baby that I am.

My mother's uterus removal surgery is scheduled for next Tuesday. It took her two years to get over her surgery-phobia. I am fervently praying she gets the courage to go through with this. She is not seriously ill or something. She's completely normal in all respects excepting the fact that her uterus has been descending ( I am lousy with medical technical terminoligies).

Its been raining cats and dogs since the afternoon today, that means a real cold night.  After weeks of soaring temperatures, the sudden drop of the mercury is playing havoc with my immune system. Going by the number of sneezes and coughs I can hear in my bay, I am not the only one affected. Misery loves company.

So that's it for now. Good night ( its 7:23 p.m. here) . Take care while I go in pursuit of some hot soup. 

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Diary update:

When I started to post here, I had no profile picture and had deliberately chosen a western sounding name ( Moana is a Hawaiin name meaning the sea). I was under the impression that my "Indian-ness" may prevent you (primarily) western-folk from including me in this exclusive club.

Slowly the Indian in me started to come out. I stopped using westernised  names for the characters in my posts. Then I declared my location in my bio. I posted my picture for my avatar. Finally I declared my nationality in comments on other blogs. 

My latest profile picture is another acknowledgement of the inclusive nature if this club where I have not come across a single instance of discrimination on the basis of nationality and cultural differences.

Each of my posts on Indian subjects ( outsourcing, terrorism, arranged marriages) have been recognized and appreciated.

Thanks for having me over. A big hug to all. 

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I hope your mother's surgery goes well and that you feel better! What kind of soup is the cure for the common cold in India? Here it is chicken.
We prepare a very spicy and dilute soup here in South India called "rasam".

It actually burns it's way down your system, but it spreads a great warmth inside. It's got pepper, garlic, bay leaves, tamarind/tomato and corriander powder in it.
Nice impromptu!

Your new pic is nice.

It seems if I overthink my work it gets well, boring. There's something to be said for being spontaneous.
I like this post, Moana. It's spontaneous and fun, even as it touches on subjects that aren't much fun like your mother's surgery and your cold. I've had a soup called "rasam" here and though it's probably not the same as yours it is just the right thing for burning out that cold virus. A handful of jalapeno peppers does it for me!
Very nice piece. I especially liked the diary update part. Your acknowledgment of your "Indianness" and its inclusion in your posts gives you a wholeness and authenticity and your distinctive voice, which is what makes your posts such a pleasure to read.

P. S. I've found OS to be a very accepting, inclusive place as well. An occasional nutcase may crop up in the comments. Ignore or delete and keep on posting.

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I'm so glad that you've slowly but surely decided to embrace your ethnicity on here, Moana. I'm not sure how it is where others live but there is a large Indian population near me and I don't think of any of them as being "different" or undesirable in any way. In fact, they seem just as much "American" as the rest of us living here, melting pot that we are. I appreciate learning about different cultures and meeting new people, wherever they're from. Let your light shine, girl!

P. S. Please ignore the poor grammar in this comment. I have an appointment and don't have the time to consider more appropriate wording. I couldn't leave without sending you some love, though!
I refuse to believe that you are either spoiled or a baby ;) You seem thoughtful, respectful, and mature to me.

I would think that Indian spices would be very good for relieving the misery of a cold. I find that spicy food helps me when I am stuffy. Of course, here in the Deep South, we use a lot of peppers and garlic and bay leaves in our cooking, so it is just another couple of steps to your rasam soup!

I am very happy that you feel comfortable just being yourself here. As Smithbarney says, most of the people here are very happy to include all sorts of folks in their lives--online and probably offline, too. I'm happy to have "met" you here!
Moana (please insert 'real name'), thank you for a glimpse into your daily life and thoughts. I cannot get used to the idea of my parents hunting husbands for me--it's just so alien. I hope you'll continue to blog about the process. Maybe what you're hoping for? What's the best case scenario? What's the worst case?

I love that you're writing with us. Thank you again.
I would also love to hear more about the husband-seeking process. I agree with Verbal Remedy that it seems alien, but I am interested to learn more. (My parents probably would have done a better job picking a husband than I did!)

And the rasam soup sounds good. Got a recipe?
Here here. Viva la cultural differences. Only by understanding our differences do we find the real texture available to us here. I love the fact that our friends here are not limited by geographical proximity or the same old cultural norms.

However, I frown on your discrimination against short men. (Completely serious!) (OK, maybe not so much.)

Since you changed your avatar, I almost did not recognize you. Great job lady.
Hey, Moana: lovely post. I really enjoy your writing style, in any mode. You always have interesting things to say. Best wishes for your mother and for you in health. Thanks for writing.
It’s a surprise to hear you only slowly revealed your ‘Indian-ness’. I first ‘saw’ you after your comment on one of my posts, and I became specifically drawn to your posts because of your culture – well, that and your writing. So glad you’re breaking down all the walls.

And your avatar picture. My wife has one from the same series, I think. Radha and Krishna, right? It’s the one with the large white heart behind them. Though I really haven’t looked into it, I’ve never quite understood where all the similar art styles come from, the ones depicting the same gods, goddesses and legendary people. Is there ever an artist attributed to any of them? They’re all so lovely.
Great post! I love the randomness(well you've read my stuff, I think I've only done one or two in Word and edited it!! :) ) as it shows the real you, the unedited. I'm glad you are showing us the Indianess. The whole concept of arranged marriages is one of those things most of us in the States couldn't do, cause, well, my parents are pretty different in their views anyways, I could just imagine the bride they would choose!

Awesome post! And here's hoping your cold leaves you unharmed! I've been fighting different varieties this season, one goes away, another takes it place. Stupid cold!! :(
Sometimes the pages just need some ink to give them purpose. Thanks for the insight into who you are. junk1 rated
Moana, you must do this more often! Not that I'd fault any of your earlier posts -- just that this was so spontaneous, funny and what word am I grasping for here? Immediate! I really enjoyed it. I'm glad, also, that you're feeling more at ease here. You quite literally had me at "Hello" some time ago. The new avatar is lovely, though I'll miss that ponytail (and I suspect so will you). The hair will grow back. Keep thinking of that whenever you head out to kill the hairdresser. :)
Gayle : Spontaneous is fun, in fact much more fun than serious posts. I am going to do this more often.

Coyote : Rasam is the answer to all flu blues. I like mine with lot sof pepper and tamarind.

Smithbarney : Thanks for recommending this post for people's pick.
Being true to oneself is very liberating and that shows in the writing.

Lisa : Thanks so much for your love and ypur time.

Susan : Thanks for the compliment. You are right, our cuisines may be much more similar than we think. Thanks for meeting me here :)

VR : O sure, I promise you updates on the process as and when things happen. Right now there's nothing much to report. I have written about the whole system in one of my previous posts.

dogmom : I promise, I'll post the recipe as soon as possible. The problem is that its one of those things that mothers prepare almost mechanically, so getting a formal recipe will take some effort.

Harp : Sorry for the offence :) In my case I will most probably be marrying a relative stranger, so physical preferences will be the easier to go by. But if I was to marry the American way, height would not have been a factor.

Rick : Thanks so much for the kind words. And I will keep on writing till I am banned from this site.

JK : Thanks for the kind interest. Its a real pleasure to write about my world and your interest just augments it.

David : It is Krishna and Radha. I am no authority but I believe these paintings belong to the Rajasthani style of painting. I may be wrong. These are for the most part motifs for murals and temple paintings.
Tinkerertink : I hate the cold. Mainly because the common reaction to it is " Oh, its just a cold, it'll go away, don't be such a baby". I mean, its one of the most irritating diseases to suffer from and even when you suffer, people keep telling you its no big deal.

junk1 : Thanks for the comment. I loved the statement. Its so true.

AJCalhoun : I guess it will (sigh). But that hairdresser has lost my business for good (determined expression).
Keep being your Indian self Moana and I will try to keep being my English self! isn't it great to take the risk and find you are accepted? :)
trumpetmonkey : you bet....
I went more American in my profile picture because my original picture was of me in hijab; the street hijab, which I only wear on occasion in the Middle East. I was concerned that I'd be typed. I still have my concerns, but I'm glad you are so welcomed here.

I love your writing, and I added you so that I can get a better glimpse into your culture. I do identify with being"brown" and I have Indian blood mixed in there with the Arab!
Hi red_sea_rose, glad to know you share my experiences. I have yet to encounter any typing out here. Touch wood ;)

Welcome aboard!
Jane, I told you so...