Alzheimer's-Mom My Hero

My Mom has Alzheimer's

Mom My Hero

Mom My Hero
Location
New York, New York, United States
Birthday
July 12
Bio
My mom has Alzheimer's. Out of her suffering with this disease she has inspired me to write "our"story. It is about our relationship that has blossomed into a true love "affair". Growing up I had wished for someone else to be my mother and today I would never trade her for any other mom in the world. She shows such strength and courage. Mom has become my best friend. Each and every day she touches my heart. I'd love to share our story with you and what living with Alzheimer's for my mom and our family is all about.

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MAY 29, 2012 9:28AM

So Sweet and Tender

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By Lisa Hirsch


SO SWEET AND TENDER

Since my last visit my mom has been asking me almost everyday when I will be coming to see her. The truth is that I will not be returning for at least three to four months. Yet I do not share these thoughts… Read full post »

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By Lisa Hirsch

 

INTERVIEWING MY MOM WITH ALZHEIMER'S

 

"Mom, what does it feel like not to be able to remember something"? She answered, "it's not always so bad not to remember everything". Wow, I thought as she spoke these words. Several years ago I had presented a similar… Read full post »

MAY 14, 2012 9:56AM

The Distance Between Us

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By Lisa Hirsch

THE DISTANCE BETWEEN US

 

It's amazing to me that three days before my visit to see my mom, she asked me each time that I called, when would I be coming to visit. I knew in my heart that embedded somewhere in her memory she knew… Read full post »

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MAY 7, 2012 9:51AM

Does My Mom With Alzheimer's Know It's Mother Day?

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By Lisa Hirsch

DOES MY MOM WITH ALZHEIMER'S KNOW IT'S MOTHERS DAY ?

 

I'll be off to see my mom on Wednesday for Mother's Day. My flight leaves New York early in the morning. As I prepare myself for my trip I get flashes of all different memories and… Read full post »

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By Lisa Hirsch

 

IN MOM"S WORLD - DO I LAUGH OR CRY ?

 

This week in every conversation that I shared with my mom, who has Alzheimer's, I found many joyous and upbeat moments. That is until today.

 

The week started with my mom and myself being… Read full post »

APRIL 9, 2012 9:51AM

Like A Miracle

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By Lisa Hirsch

LIKE A MIRACLE

 

I have heard that Alzheimer's can come and go. Actually it never really disappears yet there can be moments and even a day where speaking to my mom, she almost seems not to have any form of dementia. Okay maybe I am exaggerating… Read full post »

APRIL 2, 2012 9:42AM

Feelings of My Mom

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By Lisa Hirsch

 

FEELINGS OF MY MOM

 

This week I had committed to volunteering at a nursing home that was filled on one floor with dementia patients. I questioned myself why I was doing this, and thought of cancelling. My thoughts of course were about my mom who… Read full post »

MARCH 26, 2012 9:34AM

Vanilla Fudge Sundae

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By Lisa Hirsch

VANILLA FUDGE SUNDAE

 

My mom has become a real sweetie. Maybe as sweet as vanilla fudge ice cream. Lately she has had glimpses of her memory back. First she heard someone being called Arthur on a television show and mom said to Elaine her caregiver, "… Read full post »

MARCH 19, 2012 9:35AM

Is This A Dream or A Nightmare

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By Lisa Hirsch

IS THIS A DREAM OR A NIGHTMARE ?

 

 

 

On Saturday around 10:30 in the morning I received a phone call from Elaine my mom’s caregiver. Elaine phoned to tell me that since she could not reach my brother she would like permission to take… Read full post »
MARCH 12, 2012 9:43AM

Little Things Can Mean Alot

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By Lisa Hirsch

 

LITTLE THINGS CAN MEAN ALOT

 

My mom grew up with a love of books . In the summers her parents took her to the country where she would spend hours reading under a tree. I remember as a child, how my mom delighted in sharing… Read full post »

MARCH 5, 2012 9:03AM

Those Special Moments

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By Lisa Hirsch

 

 

THOSE SPECIAL MOMENTS

 

My mom has really been doing great the last couple of weeks. Will it last? Who knows, and for how long? It doesn't really matter. I just hold on tightly to all the love that she fills my heart with, and… Read full post »

FEBRUARY 27, 2012 9:44AM

My Very Special Mom

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By Lisa Hirsch

MY VERY SPECIAL MOM

 

I just booked a flight to see my mom on Mother’s Day weekend (May 2012). I realize that it is still several months away, yet I seem to get excited and thrilled about visiting my mom. I am going to phone her… Read full post »
FEBRUARY 20, 2012 3:17PM

Princess Ruthie, My Hero

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By Lisa Hirsch

 

 

PRINCESS RUTHIE, MY HERO

 

3 Years Ago

 

I try to spell with my mom alot so I may keep her mind active and stimulated. Does this really help? I’m not really sure, although today in 2012, I continue to spell with her. I

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FEBRUARY 13, 2012 10:04AM

Coming Home- New York City

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By Lisa Hirsch

 

COMING HOME

 

Frank Sinatra sang about his home town New York City, and for my mom and dad this was their home where they were born and raised. My parents left and moved to Florida in 1987 just before my son Logan was born. I… Read full post »

FEBRUARY 6, 2012 9:26AM

A Day Filled With Sunshine

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By Lisa Hirsch

A DAY FILLED WITH SUNSHINE

 

Today was a really good day for my mom as were the last several days. My heart seems to go up and down with lightness and heaviness depending how my mom is doing each day. I know this has to be… Read full post »

JANUARY 30, 2012 9:38AM

My Best Budha Named Ruthie

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By Lisa Hirsch

MY BEST BUDHA NAMED RUTHIE

 

My mom came alive again today. Just several days after her return home from the hospital, mom is back. Except I know better now, and that is, that my mom will never really be back and yet she has moments of… Read full post »

JANUARY 23, 2012 9:15AM

Is My Cup Half Empty or Half Full ?

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By Lisa Hirsch

 

IS MY CUP HALF EMPTY OR HALF FULL ?

 

 

 

I have been walking around with a heavy heart ever since my mom was hallucinating and ended up in a hospital. This was my awakening that my mom was now ready to go into… Read full post »
JANUARY 17, 2012 9:21AM

Is This A Dream ?

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By Lisa Hirsch

 

IS THIS A DREAM?

 

 

 

Dreams are something that we all can relate to. I awoke today to a rather upsetting dream which I thought immediately of my mom. It was of a woman just lying in what looked like a hospital bed with

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JANUARY 9, 2012 10:00AM

Baby Boomer's & Me

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By Lisa Hirsch

 

 

BABY BOOMER'S & ME

 

On December 23rd 2011 at 7:45 in the morning I was getting ready to go for my yearly physical at my doctor’s office. As I washed and dried my face, brushed my teeth and continued to get dressed I

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JANUARY 3, 2012 10:26AM

Mom Do You Know What Year It Is?

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By Lisa Hirsch

MOM DO YOU KNOW WHAT YEAR IT IS ?

 

"Hi mom, I just wanted to wish you a Happy, Heatlhy New Year". Mom answered with "oh it's the New Year, what is the year"? "Mom it's now 2012 and you were born in the year 1924… Read full post »

DECEMBER 27, 2011 9:09AM

Potato Pancakes & Santa Claus

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By Lisa Hirsch

 

POTATO PANCAKES AND SANTA CLAUS

 

How special is special ? Yesterday when I spoke to mom and wished her a Happy Hanukkah she thanked me and I tried to explain the eight days of celebration, and how I wished that she could join us… Read full post »

DECEMBER 19, 2011 10:05AM

Feelings,Oh So Many Feelings

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By Lisa Hirsch

 

FEELINGS, OH SO MANY FEELINGS

 

"Mom, do you know your mother"? "No Lisa, I do not remember her". "Mom, who are you to me"? My mom then answered, "I am your good friend" and she gave me a kiss on the top of my head… Read full post »

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By Lisa Hirsch

 

 

OH WHAT A BEAUTIFUL MORNING, OH WHAT A BEAUTIFUL DAY

 

 

"Hi mom, I'll be coming to see you in five days". "Oh how great," mom says with a big cheerful sound in her voice. Are you bringing the children?" (I only have one… Read full post »

NOVEMBER 28, 2011 8:58AM

Life Still Goes On

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By Lisa Hirsch

LIFE STILL GOES ON

 

We all know how quickly our life goes by or at least we are suppose to. Do we takes some days and perhaps years for granted? Do we take our family, loved ones sometimes for granted? We all just celebrated another Thanksgiving… Read full post »

NOVEMBER 21, 2011 9:48AM

Joy & Celebration

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By Lisa Hirsch

 

 

JOY & CELEBRATION

 

Today's post is filled with much joy & celebration. Logan my son was born twenty four years ago on November 16th. I have been blessed with such a wonderful child who is both warm and sensitive.

My mom for the last… Read full post »