Volunteer Community Relations was easily the best part of my recent year-long tour in Afghanistan. Tomorrow, as I return to my old job, my VCR friends at Camp Eggers will gather for the weekly sort. Kabul is twelve-and-a-half hours ahead of California, so it will be an almost perfect overlap. Each Monday I used to take my Leatherman and open packages sent from friends and family back home. My friends and I gathered the gently-used clothing and sorted them into piles: Men’s Summer, Women’s Winter. Babies. Toddlers.
If we had a mission scheduled, we filled large garbage bags for families: blankets, clothing, shoes, and toys for a man, woman, a boy and girl or two. When the security situation permitted we’d bring these bags, along with rice, beans, flour, and cooking oil, to Afghan refugees living in IDP (internally displaced person) camps. During the winter, volunteers chipped in to buy coal for the refugees. We also visited orphanages, hospitals, and schools.
All of us had personal reasons for doing these missions. Some people had jobs that made them fobbits by nature, and they wanted to see more of Afghanistan than the limits of our base. Others wanted a chance to play with children. I did it to keep my sanity. And to see whether it was possible to do the Chicken Dance in full battle rattle in ninety-degree heat. For the record: yes, it is.
Here’s a note I wrote about an April mission. The photos are from different missions during my time there and aren’t related to the narrative.
Today we brought food, blankets and clothes to a different Kuchi camp. This one had 65 families. The Kuchi are a nomadic group of Pashtun people who have come to the city with their animals. To set foot in one of their camps is to step back in time—try a couple of hundred years. They treat their women particularly badly. The men in our group were cautioned not to approach the women or take their photos.
The children were even more aggressive than the ones we met at the last camp we visited. Anything we did not want to lose had to either stay in the car or go into pockets that couldn’t be reached by hands that helped themselves. I slipped my cell phone out of its holder into an inside pocket. This precaution was a bit of a nuisance, because I was in the front seat and had a couple of phone calls from the first chalk asking us to delay our departure. I had to dig under my body armor and fish my phone out before it stopped ringing.
We arrived without incident. Kate and Sonja headed into the camp. My cargo pockets were stuffed with candy. I was less interested in handing it out to children. There were probably a hundred of them running around, some of them rich kids who live in the nearby high-rise buildings. Instead, I offered mints to the women. I only wanted to say hello. At least half of them are pregnant, nursing, or both. One of the women had a couple of small bottles of lotion or shower gel, which were very much coveted. I remembered the last camp, where the women fighting over the little hotel sewing kits somebody was handing out.
I was taking pictures of the tents and animals. As the children approached me and tried to climb into my pockets, I took pictures and handed out candy sparingly. I managed to make my treats last until I came to the goats roped together, when I got frisked by children. “Boro! Boro khana!” (“Go! “Go home!”) As always, bigger children ripped the candy out of the hands of the little ones who couldn’t defend themselves. I had to physically remove hands from my pockets. What I was most concerned about was the kids getting too close to my weapons.
We were followed back to our vehicles. A swarm of people moved across the road and, despite our orders to back off and go away, they stayed with us. One of the rookies took out a couple of fistfuls of candy and threw it into the crowd. Not only was it rude (Afghans throw things to dogs), it nearly started a riot. Had I known who did this I would have pulled him aside for a little wall-to-wall counseling. And then I would have kicked his ass.
Even though I’m home now, VCR’s work continues. As glad as I am to be back with my family, part of me wishes that I could suit up one more time and join Juan, Tom, Brian, Kathy, Heather, and the people who have stepped up for those of us who have redeployed for one more mission.
Feel free to comment on or rate this post. Better yet, please clean out your closets and send a box or two to my military and civilian friends at the Pool House. They’ll see to it that your donations get to the people who need them.
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For those looking to donate dollars that can be amplified on the economy, an option is Operation Dreamseed which is an organization founded by a CPT who served in Afghanistan. Dreamseed focuses on education.
While I was over there (just got back two weeks ago) I signed my embedded training team up for Give to the Troops. They sent donations to us and were incredibly generous.
Some of our other teams have signed up through www.anysoldier.com and other organizations that support troops deployed downrange.
The soldiers and sailors are not evil warmongers. They are doing their duty and often help out the local community as much as they can. H-P's photos and post demonstrate that amply.
I'll round up a box for your team, H-P. I'm sure they'll put it to good use. Please post a specific list of the things most valued or useful.
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What never fails to surprise me is how many people are unaware of the community service work that military and civilian men and women in forward deployed areas do in their "free" time. We didn't have much of it at Eggers, since most of us typically work six-day weeks (many of my colleagues worked more). The humanitarian missions happen when work and security conditions permit.
VCR is not the only military volunteer effort in theater. There are others, and I encourage my colleagues who currently work or have worked with similar efforts to share their stories and, more importantly, their photos.
thank you for your service.
I hope your family member comes back safe and sane. Rest assured that the most interesting stuff of any deployment probably won't see mainstream media.
It's not where you go, it's the people who go with you that matter the most.
Thank you. Working with VCR was one of the things that kept me sane during my deployment.
Glad you enjoyed the photos. Winter is coming soon and the refugees will appreciate the donations that the VCR volunteers will deliver.
Thank you!