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Monte Canfield

Monte Canfield
Location
Newcomerstown, Ohio, USA
Birthday
December 28
Title
Rev. Dr. Monte Canfield
Bio
Retired Protestant Pastor and Theologian, jointly credentialed in the United Church of Christ and the Moravian Church. Education: BA, MA, M.Div, Thd. Public Service: NY State Office of Executive Development; Federal Exec. Branch: Executive Office of the President, BOB; Interior, BLM; Non Profit: Ford Foundation, Energy Policy Project; Congressional: General Accounting Office; Private industry: Grow Group, Inc.; US Paint; Owner, the Energy Center, St. Louis. Christian service: Pastor, First Congregational UCC, Ottawa, Illinois; Pastor, St. Paul's UCC, Port Washington, Ohio; Pastor, Moravian Church, Gnadenhutten, Ohio.

JANUARY 12, 2009 8:50PM

A Reflection: Can We Learn to Receive as a Little Child?

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Can We Learn to Receive as a Little Child?

Note: This is a Christian reflection. The examples are decidedly Christian.  But I believe the principles expressed here are universally applicable.  Ideas relating to the opposition to the abuse of power, the responsibility of stewardship, the necessity of care giving and the necessity of care for the planet and all the creatures dependent on it for life, and, finally, the call for humility are not confined to any single religion or to any humanist philosophy.  These ideas reflect the highest virtues held by the best thinkers through the centuries.   They represent essential components of the best ideals that humanity can conceive.

Psalm 8 is a short psalm that begins and ends: “O Lord, our Sovereign, how majestic is your name in all the earth.”  In the middle of the psalm, the psalmist notes, “What are human beings that you are mindful of them, mortals – that you care for them?”

It is a good question.  A question that should make us stop and take notice of our own relative insignificance in the cosmos. It should remind us to be humble, to be thankful for a gracious God who, in spite of our insignificance, has chosen to love us, to value us, to care for us; and, to reckon us to be righteous, all the while knowing that, at our very best, we are all sinners.

But most of the time, such a question does not cause us to think or to stop the destruction we inflict on each other and on this fragile blue sphere we call “ours.”  One of the reasons we do not feel humble is that, for almost 3000 years people of faith have focused on, and wholly misinterpreted, the next verses of the psalm. 

Those verses read, “Yet you have made them a little lower than God, and crowned them with glory and honor.  You have given them dominion over the works of your hands.  You have put all things under their feet!”

Yes, that is a true translation of the psalm, but the traditional sense in which those two sentences have been understood has twisted the meaning to be exactly the opposite of the intention of the psalmist.  We have acted as though we deserved this honor; as though we earned the right to do whatever we liked to the other creatures of the earth, to the earth itself, and to our fellow human beings.  

After all are we not but “a little less than God?”  Do we not have “dominion” over the earth and all that is upon it?  Are not, in fact, “all things under our feet?” regardless of the brutality that implies?  Is that not so?  Of course it is.  We have the power to do any and all of it.

And in our arrogant blindness, humankind has forgotten the beginning of the psalm: “O Lord, our Sovereign, how majestic is your name in all the earth.”  And we have forgotten the clear intent of the psalmist, who praises God, not mankind: You have made them,” “You have crowned them,” “You have given them,” “You have put all things under their feet.”

Just who is this “you?”  You is God.  You is not us!  God gave us this glory.  God gave us this power.  God gave us this dominion.


And to what purpose did God give us this place in the Kingdom, these powers capable of good or evil?  God gave us this power to be God’s stewards, care takers, lovers, nurturers, workers in the vineyards, safe keepers of the world and all that is in it, on it and over it. 

Never did God intend for us to be owners, abusers, haters, despoilers, plunderers – of anything – of plants, of animals, of the soil, the water, the air – or, of other people.  We are to care for, to love and to nurture, all of God’s creation, all of those things and people who have been rendered helpless because some of us decided to put them “under our feet!”

It may shock us to realize this, but we are only tenants and stewards during our time on this lovely blue, green, white and brown spot in the universe we call Earth.  Even all that we say we “own” is merely “on loan,” from God. Whatever power we possess, for good or for evil, is on loan to us from the One who made us. 

And God expects us to use that power to enhance and preserve his/her goals for this world.  And that should humble us. Our status here is tenuous at best; our time here is painfully short. It is a less than a blink in the eye of time, an easily missed inconsequential micro dot in the pixels of the universe, unless, of course, we use our lives to carry out our care taking stewardship responsibilities as the stewards of God’s world.
 
The main reason so few can accept the role of steward is that there never has been much humility in most of us.  Through the centuries most of humanity simply has not been willing to accept the humble status necessary to be God’s stewards. Jesus makes our self created problem quite clear in the Gospel of Mark.

"People were bringing little children to him in order that he might touch them; and the disciples spoke sternly to them.  But when Jesus saw this, he was indignant and said to them, "Let the little children come to me; do not stop them; for it is to such as these that the kingdom of God belongs.  Truly I tell you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God as a little child will never enter it."  And he took them up in his arms, laid his hands on them, and blessed them."

People were bringing little children to him, so that he might touch them, bless them.  And what did the disciples do?  They yelled at the parents, “Get those kids out of here!  Jesus is too important to waste his precious time on kids.”  And, no doubt they thought, “we” are too important to be slowed down by a bunch of parents and their insignificant children. “We” have work to do, a schedule to keep. 

But Jesus was furious with the disciples.  He scolded them: “Let the children come!  It is to such as these children that the Kingdom of God belongs!”  But he didn’t just let it go at that.  Rather, he used this event to teach them, to teach them about their place in the scheme of things, about their need for absolute humility, not arrogance.  He said, “Truly I tell you, whoever does not receive the Kingdom of God as a little child will never enter it!”

Perhaps that unnerved them a bit. But not much. The Bible doesn’t say, but very soon thereafter the disciples are back to their old tricks again, seeking power, seeking glory in Jesus’ shadow, arguing over who among them is “the greatest.”  I wish I could report that the scolding about the children changed them; but there is no evidence of that in the Bible.

Can it change us, this little event in the life of Christ?  What it is telling us is that while we may be just a “little less than God,” we had better recognize that we must use the power that God has given to us responsibly; that we must have an attitude of absolute humility; that we must be open, and trusting, and filled with awe over the grace of God; in other words, that we must become as little children.

I want to share with you one example of a child’s faith.  Let me tell you about a little boy I met when I was in seminary.  I don’t even remember his name.  But I will never forget his faith.

My first year at Eden Theological Seminary I was a 51 year old student pastor at a small Episcopal church in Edwardsville, Illinois.  One of my jobs there was to be the eucharistic minister that assists the rector, the Episcopalian name for pastor, at each Sunday communion service. 

The Episcopal church usually calls the Lord’s Supper, not Holy Communion but Holy Eucharist.  Eucharist means Thanksgiving in koine Greek. Most Episcopal churches have communion every Sunday, so, by the end of that school year I had good idea about what I was doing, and I knew what the rector wanted me to do during the serving of Communion.

In an Episcopal Church there is a railing around the chancel with soft cushions in front of it.  When the time to receive communion comes, the people file up to the rail and kneel.  They raise their hands, cupped together, to receive the bread first, usually in the form of a small round wafer.  Then they wait for the cup from which they take a tiny sip.  Most Sundays I served the wine because the rector traditionally serves the bread and blesses the smaller children who come forward with their parents to the rail but do not take communion.  On my last Sunday there, however, he gave me the honor of serving the bread and blessing the children.

The custom in that church was that the children could receive Holy Communion when the parents and the rector decided they were old enough to understand what it meant. A few of the younger children took communion; but most parents followed an older tradition and did not allow their children to take communion until after they were confirmed at age twelve.

Since it was my final Sunday at that church I was very reflective and feeling somewhat depressed as I realized that Sue and I would not be coming back to these people whom we had come to know and love.  I watched their faces, their eyes and their body language as I placed the bread in their hands and spoke to each person some words of faith, such as:  “This is the body of Christ, broken for you and for many for the forgiveness of sin.”  Yes.  I was really going to miss these people.

Even so, I noticed how disinterested and mechanical most of them seemed.  They went about the business of taking communion with great solemnity, but with little evidence that it really meant anything to them.  They did it every week and they seemed to be “just going through the motions,” doing what they always did, taking communion and moving quickly back to their seats.  A few knelt and prayed in thanksgiving after they returned, but most did not.  They just stared off into space, waiting for the last song and the benediction.  

Who knows what they were thinking about?  I loved them, but I felt badly for them, since I saw so little evidence that Holy Communion meant very much to them. But then I knew I was making assumptions about them from their body language, and being judgmental which was totally unfair. There was no way I could get into their heads to hear what they were thinking. And I knew this was my prejudice coming out because Holy Communion has always been one of those times when I feel the closest to Christ. I was irritated at my unwarranted and self righteous thoughts.

I was broken out of my self generated conflict by the next family I moved to as I made my way from person to person handing out the host, the wafer that represented the body of Christ. There, in front of me was a little girl of about three, then her mother, her brother, a boy around six or seven, and then her father. 

I came to the little girl first and she shyly looked up at me.  I laid my hand on her head and then made the sign of the cross with my thumb on her forehead as I said, “Bless you, in the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit.” She gave me the hint of a smile and I moved down and gave the bread to the mother, “Remember that Christ died for you; and know that your sin is forgiven.”

Although it was not required, it was important to me that each person be spoken to individually while handing out the host or blessing the children with the sign of the cross.  To this day is still is.   I moved to the boy, preparing to reach out and lay my hand on his head.

He knelt there, small hands cupped together eagerly reaching up, arms stretched out toward me, a smile on his face that cannot be described with mere words, with a look in his eyes that spoke of complete love and trust.  I hesitated. 

The rector had said nothing to me about this family coming to him to discuss this child receiving communion.  I looked to the left to see in I could catch his eye, but he was at the far end of the rail serving the wine, essentially on  the other side of the church.  He had fallen behind me and I was stuck.  

I had been told in seminary that there would be what are called “pastoral moments” in the ministry.  These are moments that require you to make a decision that is important to a member or family in the parish with no way to turn to anyone or anything for advice. Well, this surely was one such moment. 

I looked down at the boy.  He still had that calm smile on his face, still reaching eagerly to receive the host.  I looked at his mother and then his father.  Both gave me quizzical looks but made no attempt to stop the boy. 

I leaned down to the boy so I could talk directly to him and asked, “Do you know what it means if I give you this bread.”  The smile never left his face, his hands continued to stretch out, waiting for the sacramental host, and he said, “Yes. It means that Jesus is feeding me.”

I looked at both parents.  The mother had tears forming in her eyes.  The father had a smile forming on his lips and both gave me a brief nod, “Yes.”  I placed a wafer in the boy’s cupped hands.  Slowly, after he received the bread, and treating it as if it were the most precious thing on earth, he put it in his mouth.  His smile came immediately back and, before he got up to leave the railing I heard him whisper, “Thank you, Jesus.”

Jesus says, “Truly I tell you, whoever does not receive the Kingdom of God as a little child will never enter it.” 

If we are, in fact, because of God’s grace, only a little lower than God; if we are crowned with glory and honor; if God has given us dominion over the works of God's hands; and if God has put all things under our feet, then can we learn to understand the responsibility inherent in that gift? Can we learn that we are to be stewards and care takers of each other, of others,  and of the world? 

In order to understand that we might first learn from a small lad in Edwardsville, Illinois, how to exhibit the humility to “… receive the Kingdom of God as a little child…”

Monte

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Ahh Monte, you sure know how to get to a fella on a Monday evening.
Beautiful...

rated
Much love to my friend.
Greg
I have read some very beautiful things in the Bible. What you have written here reminds me of something I caught on TV a few years ago, an hour long show featuring a woman who has a pretty famous ministry - her name is Joyce Meyer - she was talking about trusting that all our needs will be met each day. She recited the verse, "This is the day which the Lord hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it."

She then talked about simply doing our work, going about our business and being of service to others, and trusting the way a child trusts, that our needs will always be met one way or another. I really liked what she was saying - it meshes very nicely with my beliefs about manifesting, putting the request out to the Universe and then allowing it to come in.

She takes a very sensible and down-to-earth approach to what the Bible says, and her messages are always very positive, which appeals to me.

My teacher used to say something similar: "The Universe did not bring you this far, simply to drop you on your head. It's a matter of faith and trust, dear one."
nanatehay: thanks so much for coming by and reading.

Greg: thanks so much for your always supportive comments. And my love to you and that wonderful family of yours.

UK. Excellent comments, as usual. Thank you. I agree that there are many parallels between your beliefs and mine. We both believe that God can and does bless all, not just one group. We both believe that God can and will provide when asked, and Jesus constantly asks us to believe that. Even the Lord's Prayer says as much, my translation: And give us the bread we need for today.

And the manna in the desert for the wandering Israelites was God's provision for the needs of the day. When some lost faith and tried to hoard more than they needed God made the excess rot. I think that story is a beautiful metaphor for the fact that God does answer our requests by giving us what we need. That, of course, at times can be not exactly what we wanted.

Thanks folks.

Monte
You've outdone yourself, Monte! I have to keep this short, as I'm near to tears, again . . . but in a good way. :)

Hugs and soooo rated!
Miko, thanks for reading and your comment. The moment with that small boy was two years before I was ordained and yet it is one of the most moving and profound moments in my ministry. I finished handing out the host and blessing the children with a lump in my throat and hope in my heart.

That hope has never left me. I believe that the next generation has the ability to do things that we can only imagine if it turns to God and actually follows his direction better than we have in ours.

Monte
rated. Big time. If I could do it twice I would.
Thanks, Sean. Once is more than enough. Glad you got something out of it.

Monte
Monte, the test for communion readiness in my life was to be able to stand up and explain, to my grandmother's satisfaction, the meaning of communion. She was a tougher theologian than the ministers in my church. It became the sacrament of most importance to me and even now I feel a deep, emotional connection to every other person at Christ's table when I take communion.

As always, a thought-provoking gem.
"God gave us this power to be God’s stewards, care takers, lovers, nurturers, workers in the vineyards, safe keepers of the world and all that is in it, on it and over it."

Thank you Monte. Thanks for this reminder. The most beautiful moments in my life have been gifts from the children. Reminders that my job in this life is to be a servant. I have found that what fills me up, with the love and beauty of this world, are the moments when I truly give.
Grace is undeserved. A gift and nothing else. I choose to accept this gift. Always striving to be worthy (and many times falling short).
I give thanks that you are here. Your ministry, a gift.
Terrific story about a pastoral moment. Should be noted that these are not reserved for pastors. They are all around us, if we are paying attention. God trusts us.
A universal message, indeed.

"For the children and the flowers/Are my sisters and my brothers"

Rated for peck, peck, pecking away at my unbelief.
Monty,

As an Episcopalian I remember being like that boy in your church. So eager to be fed the body of Christ that I too might feel closer to God. I look back on it now and I realize just how much God protected and loved me, both then and today. Thank you my friend.
Thank you, COS, for the important reminder that many times the best and most insistent theologians, like your grandmother, do not have anything remotely like a formal education in the field.

In each church I have served there have been a small handful of members who "just get it." And those members work quietly in the background helping family members and friends to know the true meaning of the love of God for all of us, and what the rituals and sacraments of the church and intended to signify.

I too believe I never feel closer to God or to those who share in Communion with me than when communing with others at the Lord's table. I am always reminded that the word "communion" has the same root as community. I feel that sense of close community every time we share the bread and wine.

Thanks again, and God bless,

Monte
Thanks, gracielou.

We would all do well to watch children who have that innate ability to love and to understand some of the basic ideas of fairness and the need to be helpful to others.

In fact, I found that when children do mess up they inevitably know what they did wrong. My kids always knew what was the right thing to do when associating with other children. They often didn't do the right thing but, in the end, they understood what it would take to become the kind of adult that they matured to be.

You are so right that grace is a pure and simple gift available to all who will accept it. Too many through the centuries have interpreted it to be a license to do whatever they wanted to do, and others have believed that there is such a thing as "cheap grace," as though there is not responsibility that goes hand and hand with the acceptance of God's grace.

Thank you for your comments.

Monte
Rated.

As I'm sure you're aware, we believe in transubstantiation in the Catholic Church--that is, that the Eucharist is really the body and blood of Christ. There is, of course, no chemical or physical change in the wafer and wine at the moment of consecration, but a spiritual one.

Interestingly, although this is one of the most theologically contentious parts of Catholic doctrine, children generally have no problem with it. Their reasoning, though simple, is incredibly logical--if God could make the Universe, and turn Himself into a baby, certainly He could also turn himself into bread and wine. It's the adults that have a problem wrapping their minds around this.

It amuses me to see pictures from my First Communion--I was nothing like that angelic little boy you describe. In fact, in most of them I'm wearing a decidedly terrible resigned scowl that in no way matches the fancy hairdo and ruffly white dress and gloves and veil. I did NOT want to go through with taking Communion "for real." (We practiced in religion class with unconsecrated bread and wine so that none of us would spit out that pasty cardboard host and Mogen-David out of surprise.) I did not want to "have Jesus in me," because then I'd have to be good (or at least have a harder time justifying being bad), and I was not much interested in being good.

(Though I was only seven and thus too young to read them at the time, I think I would have appreciated where St. Augustine and Flannery O'Connor and Graham Greene were coming from when they wrote about grace...;).
Great comment, leeandra. Yes. About transubstantiation or Luther's consubstantiation or any other theology of the Eucharist, I am amazed at the angry fighting to "decide" which is somehow "true." Besides, it takes a bit of understanding of Aquinas and Augustine to get your head really wrapped around any of those arguments.

It is the same way with the miracles of Jesus. I have no clue how many of them actually happened or how many were metaphors of a greater truth or how many were really just mass psychosis, etc. But what I could never for the life of me figure out is how people who believe in the Incarnation and the Resurrection can argue that the miracles were not in the power of God to perform. The illogic of that baffles me to this day.

I love this: "I would have appreciated where St. Augustine and Flannery O'Connor and Graham Greene were coming from when they wrote about grace...;)."

Amen! Thanks for reading and commenting.

Monte
Took a peek at the length of this post and had to put it off until I had the time to get the full impact and not just gloss over it. I'm so glad I waited. Your understanding of the scriptures and the way you explain them so simply and eloquently makes me long for the next one.
we could all be more humble. Why is it so hard to do sometimes?
Out of the mouths of babes...and Doctors of Divinity. Thanks, Monte. I've started a nice little ritual of reading your posts before my evening constitution. Gives me something to chew on while I marvel at my own beautiful little corner of Creation.

I've had a few bones to pick with the God of Israel over the years, but maybe you'll bring me back into the fold.
Thanks, Mike. I'm glad that you took the time to read this the way it should be read.

I knew it was long compared to the typical "blog length" post, but I did not expect a large number of people to read it, and it is a "niche" post in the blogging world. But that is OK. So far it has had over a hundred hits and several very good comments. Which is pretty good for a post on Christianity and God.

I am not trying to convert anybody, just to use these reflections to talk about the God I worship. The God I worship is a far different Spirit than the God so many have been taught is the Christian God, and who have fallen away from the faith because of that teaching. Frankly, if I had been taught a lot of that BS I would have fallen away too. ;-)

Take care, friend.

Monte
Hi, Laurel. Isn't it nice to have a little corner of the world that is beautiful?

When we moved from flat northern Illinois 11 years ago to these beautiful northern Appalachian hills of east Ohio we felt that God really knew what he was doing sending us to a church here. We fell in love with this beautiful Tuscarawas Valley instantly and with the hills that surround us on all sides. We knew we would settle here almost as soon as we got here.

I have had my arguments with the God of Israel, especially as depicted in the Old Testament. I came to realize that my arguments were mostly with the people who taught me about God and not so much about God himself, although I still have a pretty long list of bones to pick with him, or her.

In any case, if you come back into the fold it will be because you need that closeness to God and not because of anything I do. I will promise to share with you over time the God I love and you can decide if you can love a God like that also.

Thanks for being such a faithful reader of my writing. It means a lot.

Monte
What a wonderful, inspiring post you have gifted to us here, Monte.
Your presence here is such a gift from God.
Your reflections are blessings and your faith childlike, like a child who is completely open , trusting, full of desire to learn and follow the example that is as vulnerable as it is loving. Your faith mirrors many here, within many religious faiths and ways of being.
Your spirit shines bright through your words and is seen and heard with open hearts and minds with much gratitude.
Thank you, Cathy. You are always so supportive that while it kind of embarrasses me I am always glad you feel so positive about my contributions to the great sense of faith and spirituality that flows through so many of our friends here in OS.

There are many ways we try to get to God and to try to have a positive relationship with him/her. I have spent much of my life trying to connect with, understand, trust and obey the God I know and love. That takes up a formidable amount of my time and leaves me with no time to spend analyzing or making judgments about the paths that others take.

I think that if I can make clear that fundamental truth about my approach to faith, spirituality and religion then more people will be willing to read about what I believe and why I believe it.

Thanks for commenting.

God bless,

Monte
Thank you for reading and commenting, Faith. I believe that this may be the first time you have visited my blog. I am delighted that you spent some time here and found what I have written in this post helpful to you.

Blessings and Peace,

Monte
monte, this is beautiful. a bit over my head because i know so little about the bible and Jesus is not a part of Judaism. i could really visualize you speaking from the pulpit and inspiring with your wisdom and kindness. yes, humility and children are key. thank you.
Teddy!! Thanks so much for reading this. Yes, it does get a bit heavy when I get into theological stuff. It gets heavy for me. I do appreciate your coming here and reading and commenting.

God bless,

Monte
monte - beautiful story.

I especially appreciate the notion of our being stewards of the earth - this is fitting whether you believe in one, many or no gods at all.

Lisa