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Rev. Dr. Monte Canfield

Rev. Dr. Monte Canfield
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Rev. Dr. Monte Canfield
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Retired Protestant Pastor and Theologian, jointly credentialed in the United Church of Christ and the Moravian Church. Education: BA, MA, M.Div, Thd. Public Service: NY State Office of Executive Development, Management Intern; Federal Exec. Branch: Executive Office of the President, Budget Examiner, Bureau of the Budget; Interior, Director of Energy and Minerals, Bureau of Land Management; Non Profit: Ford Foundation, Deputy Director, Energy Policy Project; Congressional: Director, Office of Special Projects; Director, Division of Energy and Materials, General Accounting Office; Private industry: Vice President, Grow Group, Inc.; Chief Executive Officer, US Paint; Owner, the Energy Center, St. Louis. Christian service: Pastor, First Congregational UCC, Ottawa, Illinois; Pastor, St. Paul's UCC, Port Washington, Ohio; Pastor, Moravian Church, Gnadenhutten, Ohio.

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MAY 28, 2010 3:56PM

Memorial Day: Take Time to Remember

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Bath National Cemetery, New York
 
Bath, NY, National Cemetery


Note: This is an edited version of a post about Memorial Day that I posted here last year. It is based on a Memorial Day address I gave in 2005 at the Dover, Ohio Memorial Day observance.

Not enough people will read this or the other Memorial Day tribute posts.  Most will be out enjoying a "three day holiday weekend."  And I intend to do the same.   But my prayer is that at some point in this weekend we will all stop, find a quiet place, and lift a prayer of gratitude for those who made the supreme sacrifice so that we can have three day weekends knowing that we still hold our liberty as one of the highest values of this nation.  

Men and women have fought and died believing that they were serving a cause far greater than themselves.  Some have died in wars where the enemy was clear and they knew exactly who  they were fighting and why. They knew that the people of this nation declared them to be "good" wars, wars against evil.  Others have fought in wars that were not worth their sacrifice.

But we must distinguish between the morality of a war, or the lack of it, and the men and women who fight believing they are doing it for us, and for our children and our children's children.  And so we should honor all who gave of themselves, their blood, and, too often, their very lives. All those we honor this day.


When I was a child we called this time Decoration Day. And we used to pick flowers and carry them to the cemetery in town and lay them on the graves of soldiers from the town who were honored on that day.  But the custom of honoring those who have fallen in war began long before I was a child.  It began in the Southern states immediately after the Civil War when people decorated the graves of fallen Confederate soldiers.  

In 1868, General John Logan, who was then commander of the Grand Army of the Republic, named May 30, the date of discharge of the last Union soldier following the Civil War, as a day to decorate the graves of Union soldiers as well.  Later the graves of all soldiers, sailors, and marines were so honored regardless of what war they  fought in, or whether or not they died in combat. The date was moved from May 30 to the last Monday in May several years ago.

What we need to remember now is that, for almost a century and a half, throughout this nation, we have dedicated this time to the memory of all those who have fallen in the defense of this nation, regardless of the branch of military in which they served.  

And, in more recent years, we have also taken this time to remember not only those lost in battle, but also those of our own loved ones and friends who have gone from us by accident, through tragedy, or in the normal course of life.

I am sure that many of us, and others throughout this great nation, are this day remembering the great loss of life that we suffered on September 11, 2001, and the 5000 plus American service personnel who have since lost their lives in Iraq and Afghanistan these last long eight years.

For longer than anyone alive can remember, we have honored our dead by celebrating this special time.  Remembering is the key to Memorial Day. Memorial Day is about is remembering.  We all know too well how easy it is to forget, to take for granted, or to deliberately close our minds to the hardships and sacrifices which are sometimes difficult and painful to recall.  

But there are some things we must remember.  For without memory, without the history and tradition of remembrance, we cannot know the price which has been paid for our freedom.  Without remembrance, we cannot know the debt that we shall always owe to those who made the ultimate sacrifice for us, sacrifices made when many of us were yet unborn.

REMEMBERING. The word is so common that we sometimes forget what it means.  "RE -membering" literally means to put the members back together, to gather together what has otherwise been torn apart.  We can’t do that physically in this life, for we must wait for God to provide that miracle for us and for our lost loved ones and comrades who have gone before us. But, until then we can RE-member them in our minds, and most of all, in our hearts.  

Remembering is what separates us from those who don’t care, from those who are so caught up in their own importance that they have no time to think of others.  Remembering is what separates us from those who are sure that what they have is what they alone have earned, and who believe that they owe no debts to anyone, past or present.

We who will bow our heads in a silent prayer or simply in remembrance on Memorial Day know better.  We know that we owe our liberty, our freedom, to all those who died for the right for us to live as free people in a free land.

On this day I put away my arguments about the evil done in the last Administration and the lack of seeming purpose by the present Administration to do something to set that right. There will be many future days for me to continue that fight. Today is not one of them. Today we should be more unified than we ever are, a day when there is no right or left, no Democrat or Republican, no insiders or outsiders, but only Americans.  Americans remembering.  

Remembering separates us from the cold and unthinking, from those who would pay no allegiance to anyone but themselves, and who would give no honor to those who died believing that the values of this nation were worth fighting for, and, if necessary, dying for.

Patriotism is a battered concept today.  For too long it was defined as those who supported the regime in power. That is changing but it will take time to replace allegiance to party with allegiance to country. In too many places in this nation we argue over even what basic human values and virtues are.
 
This should not really surprise us. It should not surprise us -- even though it should dismay us -- that our dead are not honored as they should be.

Community Memorial Day services are not widely attended these days. We have other things to do, or, as in my case, my health will not allow me to spend that kind of time in the heat.

But that is no justification for me not to remember. I can still think about the sacrifices made. I can still say a prayer in thanksgiving for that long line of those who put their lives on the line for me and my family, even though I know not their names, no did they know mine.  But I know that many of them paid the ultimate sacrifice for the ideal that we all might be free.


For the last several days, families across America have been preparing for their Memorial Day weekend. And that is fine. I have too. I doubt that any of the honored dead for whom Memorial Day was established would begrudge American families the opportunity to have some quality time together, for people to relax and enjoy themselves.
 
But we must not forget what this time is really about. This is a time in which we, as a community, as a nation, gather together in groups as small as a family, or a couple newly in love looking for some time to just be together. We can gather in groups small and large, and while gathered, or even while alone, remember.

On this day we pause to remember that there are essential lessons to be learned, and re-learned; lessons for young and old alike: to remember and appreciate the blessings of freedom; to recognize the enormity of the sacrifice that has been made for us, and to pay honor and respect to those who gave everything on behalf of our common good. This day reminds us of what we can achieve when we pull together as one nation, respecting each other in spite of our differences.

And this day reminds us as well of our duty to honor not only those we lost in freedom's cause, but also, through our thoughts and our actions, to remember the service men and women who came back home from our wars, and are now our veterans.  It is a day to remember, as well, the families of those who lost loved ones, and the families of those lost for whom there has never been a final accounting.

We must remember as well those who are putting their lives on the line for us in far off wars in Afghanistan and Iraq, wars that we may not individually support, wars that I do not personally support. But our service men and women are there. They are in harms way.  And we, you and I, are not. That too is worth remembering. 
There really are answers for those who think that this time is just like any other- except that we get a "long weekend"; to those who pause not an instant in their pursuit of their personal pleasures. We say “No. You are wrong” to those who say that there is nothing worth remembering, no one worth honoring, no country worth saving.

This is not the time to lift my grievances, or for me to complain about how so much of what this nation does in the political and economic spheres makes little sense, about all the things we write about so passionately, about all that is "wrong" with America.  

This is a time when I have something more important to do; a time when we look back and remember the shoulders upon which we stand as we look forward to what we hope will be a new and brighter day for this nation. There are those who will say, "Why bother?" Its past history, isn't it?"  "Its time to move on, to look to the future, isn't it?"

To them we say, perhaps we will do what you suggest tomorrow.  But, for today, we say that we remember. We remember. And we are thankful. And we will never forget the sacrifices made for us. Never. We shall remember.

And we shall teach our children, and our children’s children, of the great privilege and honor of being Americans, and of the great sacrifices that have been made for us. 

On this Memorial Day we will pledge to carry a simple message into the future. Our message is that there were, and that there still are, those who loved this country enough to fight and to die, if necessary, to preserve the American way of life.  That, my friends, we shall never forget.


May God bless each of us and our families, and may we always remember and give thanks for sacrifices made.

 
Monte

 

 

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It IS so important for us to teach our children and grand children the meaning of Memorial Day...past, present and future. Enjoyed this emmensely, Monte.
Thank you Monte - this IS what it's all about. Decoration Day I had forgotten all about that!
Yes! Memorial day is about lost soldiers and their loved ones and it is a good time to put all of our other issues and concerns away as we remember them.
Amen, Monte. Beautiful. I live in a retirement area, so we have many Vets that still care enough to remember why we get the extra day off. It isn't just the Indy 500, NASCAR and Budweiser that matter around here on Memorial Day. We still have annual parades and get togethers in the parks ,etc. It's good to know that people still care about these things.
At school I'm surrounded by many young men and women who have served recently and are making their way through school. I make sure that they at least know that I appreciate their service. Most Americans hardly realize we are still embroiled in wars on two fronts and the media doesn't exactly spend a lot of time pointing that out, but like you say, we can argue that another day. This day is for remembering.
I'm with Trilogy, I had forgotten that it was called decoration day. But now I remember little red paper poppies that people wore on their lapels.
Thanks for your comments, everybody. What is important to me is that, however we do it, we consciously honor those who have sacrificed.

Monte
Monte,

Thanks again for another insightful post. For too long I have felt these holidays are being forgotton for what they really meant - and mean.

OK - I never new it was called Decoration Day. But as another person commented and brought up the red peonies - I remember that. Why is that not done any more? hmmmmm just wondering. not expecting an answer to that question. But it just reminds me how these things have lost there meaning in our society.
Morganna, I think your question is important and the answer might be interesting to others.

The red poppies were artificial and sold by the veterans' organizations. The idea stems from the poem, "In Flanders field," re: WWI.

In Flanders Fields
By: Lieutenant Colonel John McCrae, MD (1872-1918)
Canadian Army

In Flanders Fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.
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The poem reflected the concern for the sacrifices of our dear neighbors to the north, and its beauty was such that the poem became hugely popular in the US.

Monte
"there is no justification not to remember"

Monte, this post is awesome. Thank you for putting such a thoughtful, touching reminder in your hearts and minds.
Monte, I have not celebrated Memorial Day since I was twenty-one. The previous two years had been spent in a faraway land and under fire and when I did come home I could not bring myself to any sort of celebration. I do, however remember. Every year, on Memorial weekend, I do not join in the cookouts and the parties, but instead I spend the weekend just remembering.

I remember the sights the sounds and the smells and I remember those friends I left there. I guess that is what the "holiday" is all about isn't it....remembering. This is a somber weekend for me as those memories are given free rein. Yes. I will remember.
This was absolutly perfect. I am being perfectly serious when I say this should be required reading for our nations youth.

I am surprised that you remember Decoration Day. Your age and wisdom lend to your words well.

Thank you very much for posting this. I am very pleased I made you a favorite. I had a feeling it would be a good thing and you have certainly not dissaponted.

Thank you again, good Sir.
I want to thank all of you who have commented for your compassionate and insightful comments.

Monte
Kinda like Christmas... we forget the reason for the season. Too many have fallen for naught. I agree with Bonnie Russell's comment. Skip the parade and fix the Veteran's hospitals. The politicians have completely forgotten who they serve.

Thanks for posting, my friend.
I have a Memorial Day post too:

http://open.salon.com/blog/susanne_freeborn/2010/05/28/for_bill_fix_with_love_42_memorial_days_later

Remembering isn't always easy, but our friends who served earned and deserve our attention.
it is like the end of the 300: remember me.
Monte, How could one not remember? Not put the members back together again? It is coming from the very soul of your being and I know we all have souls. Thanks for the post. Smile - Jali.
Thanks Monte for this.

oxo

Denese
There have been so many reading this repost, and your comments are so heart felt. I thank you all. And I am glad I decided to post it again. It is so gratifying to know that so many really do care.

Monte