I'd planned on going fishing this past weekend but wound up instead in Council Grove, Kansas, at a Native American dance exhibition held by the Kaw Nation. It was a great time, fun was had by all, and to make a long story short, I'm now engaged to a beautiful Indian princess. I'll get to that shortly, but first some background.
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The Kanza Indians, also known as the Kaw or Konza or Kansas, call themselves the People of the South Wind, or simply the Wind People. They're a Dhegiha Siouan tribe, closely related to the Osage, Omaha, Ponca and Quapaw, all of whom moved west with the Kanza from the Ohio Valley sometime in the 17th century.

"The Surround" by George Catlin
By the time the first French trappers and traders came into the territories beyond the Missouri River, the Kanza were thriving there in the wooded creek valleys and tallgrass prairies, a beautiful, rich land half earth and half sky. At that time they were nearly 2,000 strong and were a force to be reckoned with in the region. They brought with them from the east a tradition of growing corn and beans and squash, but more important to their way of life were the limitless herds of bison which roamed the plains. Each summer they'd migrate west for the annual bison hunt, then return to their villages in northeastern Kansas for the winter.

A prairie horizon on what used to be Kanza land.
By the early 19th century the Kanza were under mounting pressure from white settlement, and their territory was steadily whittled away, from 20,000,000 acres to 2,000,000 acres to a 256,000 acre reservation centered on Council Grove. The tribe's numbers underwent a sharp decline during this period due to smallpox, starvation, and other factors. By the time the last of their lands were stripped away and they were forced to move to Indian Territory (Oklahoma) in 1873, there were only 500 or so left to make the journey. In their new home the population continued to decline, and by 1888 they numbered less than 200. It was assumed by many observers that the Kanza would soon be extinct, but after their nadir in the late 1800s their numbers stabilized and began to rise. Today there are over 3,000 registered members of the Kaw Nation, many of whom maintain a strong connection to traditional ways.
Which is why I wound up in Council Grove this weekend. I've been to a couple of the annual Kanza dances there, held at the old Kaw Indian Mission, and they're always a great time. This year was no exception.
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A couple of Kanza men. I'm assuming they're Kanza anyway, though people from other tribes were also present. Many of these guys are large, imposing figures; I can imagine the dismay a Pawnee or other enemy might have experienced back in the day as a band of Kaw warriors came over the hill, looking to count coup and worse.

Luther Pepper, a member of the executive council of the Kaw Nation. Mr. Pepper gave a moving prayer before the dancing began.

Elegance in brass bells.

One of the younger participants. The first night's dancing was mainly for the women and kids; the following night featured the men.

Not everyone was in tribal dress, but everyone was included in the fun.

The singers/drummers during a break between dances. The drums are the backbone of the pow wow, and these men never missed a beat.

More elegance.

Color and motion.
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Relaxing after the pow wow. As you can see in this pic, I'm eating for two these days.
After the dancing was over we wound up on the verandah of the Cottage House Hotel, enjoying a few beers and a cool breeze after the scorching heat of the day. It turned out that most of the hotel was booked by Kanza who'd driven up from Oklahoma to take part in the pow wow, and in short order we were having a fascinating conversation with several Kaw women who were also enjoying the evening air. We talked for hours about history and politics and family and pretty much everything else, and I learned how to properly tan a bison hide - it turns out that deer brains are the key. Rarely have I met such warm, down to earth people, and rarely have I laughed so much. These Kanza ladies, in addition to being beautiful and smart and outgoing, laughed and joked as naturally as breathing, and nothing was off limits for their sense of humor. Not only did they make fun of each other (and me) mercilessly, but anyone passing by on the street or the sidewalk was a potential target for harassment, including bikers and Indians and cowboys and people out partying after the bar on Main Street had closed. At one point, as some local teens piled into a pickup truck, including a girl being made to ride in the truck bed, my new friends yelled out "Hey sister, don't let 'em make you ride back there, yank one of them boys out and get in front!" She did too. Not long after, a cop parked across the street and got out of his car, doing something or other in the alley, and to my alarm even he received a chorus of catcalls and wolf whistles. Every time I expressed concern at these events, I was told I didn't need to worry, I was their token white boy and they'd protect me no matter what happened.
Anyway, somehow during the course of the evening I wound up engaged to one of my charming and lovely Kanza friends. I'll call her Little C and leave it at that; it wouldn't be seemly to divulge her identity 'til after the nuptials. The marriage isn't official until I return with a ring costing a minimum of seventy dollars, which I surmise is what two ponies or nine blankets cost in olden times. As you may imagine I'm pretty jazzed about it, though also a little concerned. I'll keep you up to date as the situation develops.

Wildflowers at the Allegawaho Memorial Heritage Park a few miles south of Council Grove. On the hill in the distance you can see the Monument to the Unknown Kanza Warrior. It was built by locals in the 1920s after rains exposed the burial site of a Kaw chief near by, complete with his weapons and his horse. The remains were re-interred in the stone spire as a memorial to the people who gave our state and many of its cities and streams their names. The land around the monument, which includes the old Kaw agency building, ruins of stone huts built for the tribe by the federal government, and other points of interest, was purchased by the Kaw Nation in 2000 and now includes a two mile loop hiking trail, with other developments in the works.


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Seriously, great post. Tink Picked!!!!!
Sorry.
~wanders away~
But don't say that to a sailor from Oregon, you'll be wedded and in that bad, naughty way that most states don't see as legal(aka two men no kissy kissy!!!)
~hugs to the bride to be~ ~handshakes and pats on the butt to the groom in the tradition of the Gonzo Hippa Wa Tribe, I am a card carrying member of~
~slips nana 70 bucks~ Go buy the ring damnit, it's the best offer I've seen you get since I've know ya(damn, almost 2 years!! Where has the time gone!! What do you mean, up my nose? Oooooh....yeah...teeheehee!!!)
Why wasn't I invited?
No matter... important thing is I HAVE A NEW SISTER!!!
Here's a post you should read. Very important and quite related...
http://open.salon.com/blog/painting_the_stars/2010/06/19/a_call_to_help_heal_the_gulf
Color and motion, More elegance, the photos are so alive they take my breath away. A wonderful way to start my day, thanks.
r~
Be careful with that engagement, you might have bitten off more than she can chew.
Nice pics by the way! I like the blurred slow shutter speed color in motion one espeically.
You did very well, nanatehay, very well indeed.
Pow-Wows are great to go to, the people you photo'ed are beautiful, nice post!
That's because almost all of the Native American women I've met put up with 0% shit from their husbands. I can't wait until she beats you ass like a drum the first time you start acting like a dick weasel.
Hmmmm.... can you PM me her phone number? I thing Bleeding Dick Weasel would be a wonderful new NA name for you! I'm sure she'll agree once we chat a little bit!
Glad you had such a good time. Wish I'd been there!
Hawe'! Witobeta, yali!
[my apologies to the Kanza/Kaw for butchering your language]
There is nothing like an outdoor venue for this sort of dancing and drumming. The beat of that big old drum swells up from the ground into a person's body--a sacred feeling then occurs. I miss it!!!
I'm glad you had such a good time. And do keep us posted on any further developments!!!
Very much Rated!
......"Concerned" about the engagement... Heehee!
And you are Who? And you're asking Why? And I give a shit Because?
Oh, I get it now! You want to join the Shrill Bitch Club! Sorry, but you'll have to take that up with Nana, he's the Membership Chairweasel.
I'm sure he appreciates you standing up for him, though. He's pretty a'scared of me!
Amy, J Lynne is my sister, she's a little protective but well, she's my sister and I love her for it.
And Jay, it's OK, Amy calls me names and I call her names and it's all good, that's how we bond. She's even going to be part of the wedding; I'm going to let her hold my ponies, which is a great honor, especially considering she's an Iowegian.
JstKaws, I was moved to tears at the beauty of it myself, especially at the ceremony wherein I received my Kaw name and instruction in the art of noodling.
There may be a slight hitch though. Little C has read this and it turns out that the $70 I quoted here for the ring is grossly inadequate and the whole thing needs to be renegotiated. I thought it sounded too good to be true, but I'm willing to go as high as $93 dollars and to throw in some power tools, a book of coupons and a new rod and reel for D.
many english language names for tribes turn out to mean 'enemy' in the language of their neighbors, humans everywhere have enemies. at least the native americans kept it at a practical level, marking boundaries and thinning out the numbers of impetuous young men.
Especially the colour&motion pic.
I just loved it all - what a great time. Thanks.
Now congratulations are surely in order, will you be living in a teepee? Are you going to start saving all your deer brains now?
After you are married will you be able to build your own casino? How does that casino thing work?
Oh, and just in case the ante is upped there are many here on OS who will send you money and/or jewels if you need it.
One more question, I've heard that there is a secret and possible painful ceremony you must undergo prior to marriage to a Native American lady. I've heard all of your pubic hairs will be permanently removed and there's something about a frenulum tattoo performed with arrowhead by peyote smoking shaman. Check with the chief about this. Sounds dangerous.
congratulations
I hope, way past and beyond all hope, that the young People today continue to take back their heritage, pretty much everything else has been taken away from them :(.
I'm jealous Nana!
And I want to see pictures ;).
Rated for a continuing stream of memories..
Kim, I experienced a similar effect as I watched the dancing. It was beautiful to be there, even just as a spectator.
Ablonde, I'm Googling frenum now; I hope it's not as awkward and disturbing as you make it sound here:(
Seer, thanks, and you're right; everyone should attend an event like this if they never have. Regarding the younger folk, I was struck by how many of them participated fully in the dancing and other events; if what I saw was any indicator traditional ways are in little danger of dying out anytime soon. That's due in large part to the large number of Kanza, including the wonderful people I met, who see the value of keeping the traditions and old knowledge alive. I was told that at the tribal gathering in Oklahoma last year a young man (I met him Friday night and he was a great guy, a really good person) gave away ponies as part of a coming of age ceremony, the first time such an event was held since 1938.
$70 bucks, huh? Hope you can swing it.
Ablonde's right, there are a WHOLE bunch of people that will chip in money to see your ass get married. TRUST ME on that one, dude! Bwahahahahahaha!
Hell, I've even picked out this beautiful 'ol strap-on for your wedding present. The thing is HUGE! Your will wife love using it, but I'm not too sure how it will sit with you... not that you will be ABLE to sit once she gets done!
Just kidding. I love the pics. 'Specially the prairie one - just beautiful.
If you're wearing shorts to the wedding, you may want to try some fake tan. Meow.
Thanks for reading Keka, and I'm glad you enjoyed this.
Meow me no meows Natalie. By the end of summer my legs will be tan as tan can be. Now my frenum is a different matter....
Sounds like a time..!
Come on, dude! Be a man!
Cera, thanks for visiting my blog! It would be great if more people were interested in this sort of thing wouldn't it?
Montana, leave off with fishing for gossip. What happens in Council Grove stays in Council Grove:\
Mynameise, as soon as a date is set (and that's contingent on Little C's requirements really, I don't want to get hurt) I'll do a mass mailing of invitations to everyone on my friends list; I'm putting you there now in fact. Thank you for reading!
Steph, na-na-teh-hay is Navajo for "He who lost his credit cards and don't give a fuck." My new Kanza name is less flattering but that's the Kaw way and I've learned to accept it.
And Amy, we'll see who's a wuss when I dance my dance of triumph and virility after I'm wed. Pffft.
Aren't you curious about where the ink comes from? Perhaps you already know. It's important! You will be responsible for gathering this material as well, all part of the process.
Pffft, yourself! We'll see you dancing alright... just like Pinocchio once the WOMAN (aka your soon to be Master) gets hold of your strings (or ass and/or freshly tattooed frenulum)!
BTW, Nana, is that really you singing this sing???
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7Y0I91rubg
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My friend was one of the few men to escape alcoholism and get into colllege. He planned to get his degree and go back. I heard he did, and he was honored by the tribe. Love this post Nana and thank you.
Fermented rattlesnake blood.
Careful not to get any venom mixed in, could be dangerous considering the location of the tattoo, gangrene would be highly dangerous - not to mention tragic. At the least a mishap could ruin the honeymoon.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-LD5zU8dG3w
Gary, I'm not even Native American except for a touch from generations ago, but I love having coyotes around too. Where I grew up we heard them most nights even if we rarely saw them, but in the city about the best I get is the woodchuck I saw in my back yard the other day or an occasional possum. It doesn't even come close.
No worries Ablonde, there's an indigenous treatment for gangrene involving willow bark, spider's silk, and hot coals. Or at least there is now, though its efficacy remains to be seen.
I'll even buy Cap'n that monkey he's always wanted for the ceremonies.
Can't be a real Native American wedding without a pirate and his monkey proceeding down the real bison rug bought from some fellow in India!!!!!
~tears~ I'll even fly in Natalie from that prison country she lives in, the one that forces her to make chips in a broken pot!! NEW POT FOR NATALIE TOO!! For everybody!!!
~more tears~
~runs off to continue making the deal~
Real soon, there'll be a graphic/banner saying, I GOT MOLESTED BY TINKERERTINK69...I MEAN...TINK PICKED!!! It'll be beautiful!!!!
Ablonde, I'm just afraid there won't be enough rattlesnake ink; I have a freakishly large frenulum.
Tink, thanks for the molestation, er, I mean the Tink Pick! And yes, we need to take up a collection to send Natalie cooking ware that doesn't spontaneously burst into flames.
CelebUBlog, updates will be posted on a regular basis as the situation warrants. I may be out of touch for several days though; I can't marry into the tribe 'til I know what my totem animal is, so I'm setting off on my Vision Quest tomorrow.
Thanks for the congrats Aim. There has been some disturbing imagery in this thread, but that seems to always happen:(
I'm still thinking about all the great people I met last weekend. One of the coolest things about the Kanza was their strong sense of identity, and their closeness to each other, along with their willingness to welcome others into the circle. They seem to treat each other like family regardless of if they're related, and to live their lives with a stronger sense of community and belonging than you ordinarily see these days. It's a beautiful thing.
I'm saving for a toaster oven...a good one...Black and Decker, and wondering why this is not an...oh forget it: here's one of these:
Zumapick!
Zumapick!"
The editor's are holding out until he posts a picture of Megan Fox tattooed on his frenulum... by Dr. Amy... while dress like Lady Gaga...
"Tell General Howard I know his heart. What he told me before, I have it in my heart. I am tired of fighting. Our chiefs are killed; Looking Glass is dead, Too-hul-hul-sote is dead. The old men are all dead. It is the young men who say yes or no. He who led on the young men is dead. It is cold, and we have no blankets; the little children are freezing to death. My people, some of them, have run away to the hills, and have no blankets, no food. No one knows where they are—perhaps freezing to death. I want to have time to look for my children, and see how many of them I can find. Maybe I shall find them among the dead. Hear me, my chiefs! I am tired; my heart is sick and sad. From where the sun now stands, I will fight no more forever."
Thank you Zuma! Yes, household appliances are acceptable gifts, as is fishing gear and any applicable medications for my frenulum.
Amy, if the good Doctor dressed like Lady Gaga it would be a crime against nature. The very thought makes my libido curl up like a spider on a hot skillet.
good luck with the nuptials thing, man. go as high as possible on the ring, tho. may help down the road, y'know. (r)
Loved the photos and vid. I'm curious what they judge the dancing on. Everybody seemed to be doing the same thing very gracefully.
Sirenita, someone who can keep cops and rednecks at bay is definitely a keeper as far as I'm concerned.
Thanks Mark!
Oh yeah, congrats on the engagement. :)