Dear citizens of Open Salon and the Internets beyond: Aloha Kakahiaka and Mornin’ Y’all from Catnlion on the Right; Oahusurfer on the Left.
Neither of us go in for extremism or ideologues, in fact, we have a great deal in common, as do the majority of this great nation. We agree that a Patriot supports discussing all issues from all sides, and that everyone has something of substance to contribute to the USA's national conversation!
This posting is the first in a series meant to engender candid and honest discussion on OS between folks of all leanings. While we have planned this over the holidays for 2011, the events of recent days have made its importance, and its urgency, all too clear.
We encourage all comers and all comments from anywhere on the spectrum. As one of the purposes is to encourage civility, we ask that respect, manners and civil tone be evident when additional points are made to this “Point : Counter Point” format.
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E Komo Mai – Welcome, to the “Cat and Oahu Talk Left, Right and Race” series, Post Number One, The Introductions –
The Participants:
Catnlion
Male– Elon, NC
Age– 53
Children– 9
Grandchildren– 5
Early Life–
Rich Creek, VA. This is a small town in the country which is commonly known for being the location of the resort where the movie Dirty Dancing was filmed.
My mother and step mother were both teachers. My father was self-employed. He also served as the city manager for some local communities. The family was always involved in the local Republican party. As a child I remember our Congressman being at our house playing bridge. My wife recently found a box of childhood stuff my mother kept. In it was an autographed menu from the Capital Hill dining room where we ate.
Interests/Hobbies/Activities–
Small game hunting, fishing. In the past loved to scuba dive.
Formal Education–
High School Diploma
Some College with a Business Major
Real Education (Work Experience)–
Mainly the restaurant business. I've owned/operated several quick serve restaurants. I've also owned a retail business which went online in 1995 and is still operating as an online only business. I also owned an accounting and tax practice. I'm currently in trucking as an owner/operator running in all 48 states and I'm leased to one of the top 50 trucking/3PL companies in the country.
Ideology–
Fiscally Conservative, Socially Moderate. I still have some 70's free love beliefs.
Religion–
Raised Episcopalian, Acolyte. Now a believer who does not attend a formal service.
Military Background & Experience–
The family military experience goes way back. The family history showed that there were members serving on both sides during the American Civil War. During WWII our father was very badly wounded during a land mine explosion. He spent many years thinking he was the only survivor of the explosion. After several decades he found out there were actually two who survived.
I served from 77 to 85 in the Air Force working mainly in emergency rooms and flying Aeromedical Evacuation.
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Oahusurfer:
Male– Papakolea, Honolulu, Hawaii
Age– 50’s
Children– 2
Born– Wailuku, Maui, Hawaii
Early Life–
Hawaii, Southern California, US South
Interests/Hobbies/Activities–
Surfing, Diving, Sailing, Pro & Collegiate Sports, Technology, Software
Formal Education–
High School Diploma
University Bachelors Degree
Real Education (Work Experience)–
4 Years Longshoremen’s Union (Docks), 2 Years Teamsters (Driver), various jobs in surf towns and others around the world, Civilian Government Employee, Private Tech Employee.
Ideology–
Fiscally Conservative, Socially Liberal
Religion–
Hawaiian Pantheon
Military Background & Experience–
Great-Great Paternal Grandfather for Hawaiian Monarchy v. US; Great-Great Maternal Uncle for US v. Hawaii, Great-Grandfather WWI, Grandfathers WWII, Father Korea, I protested Viet Nam– then became a Civilian Worker at Pearl Harbor Naval Station, my 2 Kids have 5 Tours of Iraq and Afghanistan between them.
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Point (Oahu):
Stop, look at, and listen to the life of anyone you don’t understand and you will quickly see that good people are the same everywhere- we are only one race, the human race.
A race that currently finds itself determining our future in a web of communications full of debate and adjunct name calling, much of which is initiated by Frank Luntz’s firm, The Word Doctors, and funded by US billionaires, a prominent Australian and many Saudis.
Mr. Luntz, poller/politico extraordinaire, spends much of his time with small town folks and white suburb dwellers, conducting focus groups to determine which words to doctor, that is, which words will stoke fear and/or hate into a people who are worried and scared.
Luntz and The Word Doctors operate an extensive international service, finding the key hot words in each local dialect, then using them to influence elections from Ireland to Australia by crafting disprovable terminology, such as their classic- “Government Takeover,” and their latest- “Job Killing.”
A bunch of wealthy protectionists and sick propaganda artists selling everyone down the river for cash; here We the People find ourselves today, together, now more than ever.
The Internet, and now this web, given to us by the military but perfected by anti-war hippies, and that part is beautiful, has given us venues to discus this, including OS.
How can a country filled with coastal cosmopolitans and good, hard working folks in the middle, who get more sophisticated all the time, come together and buck off this same old divide and conquer strategy that puppet masters have used on us all for centuries?
This OS debate is about, “How can We the People come together against manipulation?” All comers are encouraged to weigh in. Engaged salon behavior is encouraged, constructive criticism and appropriate manners are expected … walk in others' shoes.
Aloha, Oahusurfer
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Counter Point (Cat):
My friend, Oahusurfer, grew up in a world that I as a child could only dream of. A land of sun, sand and surf. A life that I saw through the movies and of course Hawaii Five-O. My world is best expressed in songs such as John Denver's Country Roads (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MWzeInQaUk4 ) and Hank Williams Jr's A Country Boy Will Survive (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I4s0nzsU1Wg ).
Oahusurfer is right about so many things, but he only sees part of the story, he doesn't go far enough to get to the beginning. As the late great Paul Harvey was famous for saying, I'm here to tell you “the rest of the story”- which is how we will come together.
Spin. As I read this website I have to say that I sometimes get dizzy from reading the spin that is put on subjects. It's not new. It didn't start with Frank Luntz and The Word Doctors. In the forward to his book, Spin This, All The Ways We Don't Tell The Truth, Bill Press wrote in the introduction “There is no good definition of spin. It's easier to say what it's not than what it is: It's not the truth. Neither is it a lie. Spin lies somewhere in between: almost telling the truth, but not quite; bending the truth to make things look as good-- or as bad-- as possible; painting things in the best possible-- or worst possible—light.” I also opine that spin started with Adam and Eve.
The internet is a great place. It's free, until recently, of lots of government rules that limit our ability to read all sides. Oahusurfer sees Frank Luntz and rich people, I see Glenn Beck and Spookie Dude. Neither is the truth, neither is a lie.
Who here is willing to stop the top from spinning and read what is actually written on it?
Best Regards, Catnlion
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What do you think will best serve the dialog of the country? A Salon by definition is a place for discussion, not argumentation. All OSers are invited to suggest ideas for future posts, Lets Get Together for 2011 and beyond People!


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I am reminded of the Civil War. King Cotton stoked the fires of racism and anti-Yankee hysteria and secession-fever, in order to preserve their economic interests and prevent the gvt from regulating these.
In the 1960s, white southern political and economic interests also stoked the fires of division and discord, to prevent integration and the destruction of Jim Crow. The militarists who supported the Vietnam War engaged in de-humanizing the anti-war activists and attacked them.
We do need unity and brotherhood. The olive branch must always be extended to our fellow countrymen. But what should we do if they exchange these olive branches with clenched fists?
I can only hope it goes well here.
I encourage everyone to post. I don't know what I hate worse, a closed mind or a closed mouth. A closed mind never learns anything new while a closed mouth doesn't vent what is really going on in the mind allowing things to build like a pressure cooker until they explode.
I understand the intent of word manipulation. I understand that those who hold the cash and influence are best served when we are divided; that much of political "discourse" is intended as a distraction to keep the rank and file's minds occupied with extraneous BS while they are continually marginalized.
At this point I see very little difference between D's and R's, red and blue. I think more and more people recognize that both serve the same masters, and that those masters are not we the people.
Is this the kind of 'discussion' you're looking for?
Trig- no one needs to be nice, simply professional ... anyone here who wants to be a serous writer and even get published some day needs to know what the adults are looking for ...
Aloha Kakou
I think you may have hit on a couple ideas. First we all get caught up is a "war of mass distraction". It even a noted selling technique, put something in the offer that will make them blow their lid so they over look the item you are really trying to slide by them.
For the last couple years the Democrats have held all the cards. Not to many years ago it was the Republicans. Now it's split. I wish I had the time and research material to determine what the country did during periods of one party rule and when thing were evenly split and nobody could really dominate the other side.
Jim K
Great idea, something like Big Brother and Big Sisters ...
bobbot, my sentiments exactly.
I would point out that for all the vitriol on the web there is much, much outreach and good, and that's the tone we are trying to set here ...
I believe one place to start is to train ourselves to state our opinions without attacking and negatively labeling anyone who sees things from a different perspective.
Words such as bleeding hearts, fucktard, Repugnicans, socialists, etc. are not useful to people who regard themselves as writers with something worth reading to say. Most of us are intelligent enough to say what we have to say without resorting to those kinds of words. For myself, I am far more impressed by, and therefore likely to consider, a well-articulated point of view without villification.
What strikes me about the profiles you each posted here is that you both describe yourselves and fiscally conservative and socially otherwise. And yet, you are viewed by some, I guess, as being on opposite ends of the issues. Imagine that.
Lezlie
It was interesting to read the bios of both you and Catalion and see the different worlds you both come from, yet have been able to find some common ground.
I am a little older than both of you and probably can closer relate to CataLion's background than your own but I have discovered, over the years, that it is better to listen to both sides before making up my mind on any issue.
I look forward to further discussion here and will be watching with interest and commenting when I think I have something constructive to add.
Exactly ... I would point out that what most writers on OS feel is the ultimate success here, to make the cover not of OS, but of Mama Salon.com, requires much of what you state.
In a "Real Salon" you are rated by your work, not you ability to insult.
Disclaimer- I have been guilty of denigration of ideas here, and nobody, nobody, listens once you have put them on defense ... that is also human nature, as alluded to by Jim and Torman.
Rw points out we may have to deal with hostility, but, we are big boys and old time Bruce Lee fans who don't scare by clenched fists.
IMUA (Onward)
(For you see, I speak about politics only rarely, and about American politics even less; though I am declared an American by virtue of a paper, I cannot claim to belong; and I am instead staring in a chasm, not quite sure if I am looking up or down.)
There are allusions made about things that are happening in the mainland of which I know almost nothing about, for, in terms of politics, my island is a world in its own, with little attention paid to the rest of the world, a very island-ish/outlandish atttitude to sport.
That said, as Lezlie's comment so aptly demonstrates, the bar must be raised in posts that seek to discuss culture and politics, not because it would land you on the cover of salon but just because.
Those who resort to boorish discourse indeed have very poor vocabulary and their thought processes should be found suspect.
Oahusurfer: did you know Oliver Mitzukami? He was a dear friend of my husbands and lived in Papakolea. How 'bout Barron Makalino? peace out.
I realize that I'm the "outsider" here. That few people here agree with me and my views. That is why I come here. I want to know what everybody else thinks and learn about things that are not, for a lack of a better term, normal, in my social circle. For that I'm often attacked. Not my views, not my facts, just me.
On the other hand I've made some friends here. Some I've met and one, that if it doesn't hurry up and get warmer here, I'm going to meet very soon. (Surfer, make the spare bed)
I also have to say that I've learned some things. One person more than others and I wished I lived closer to her to be off line friends as well. I've, if not changed, have moderated some of my views. I'm man enough to admit when I make a mistake.
I think one reason people can't find anything more in common with someone other than human is they don't look. There are very few people in this world where I can't find something I like about them, even if we still have our differences.
Oahusurfer, you're Bruce Lee, I'm Steven Seagal. Mine's a better actor, your's is a better fighter.
But when it comes to abortion, homosexuality, religion and race? Let's just say the lines are clearly drawn between the forces on either side of those issues. Good luck with the kumbaya on that front.
http://open.salon.com/blog/trig_palin/2011/01/10/self_examination_just_what_am_i_politically_speaking
You are one perceptive 36 year old!
The whole point is the conflicts are constructs, go back hundreds of years, and are designed to keep people with the same needs and interests on separate sides, Divide and Conquer, thanks again Sun Tsu, the Royals had a long time to perfect this so it is tough to overcome, but far from impossible.
The fact is the Web is making this all happen much more quickly than we notice when caught up in our own little reality.
Aloha Sistah'
protested wars ...
Well. You have my ear.
I mean that I still have-
my two ears and gonads.
I'm amazed I got two legs.
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Good on you. Civil protest,
rational thought, listen too,
and mediate some sanity!
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My eldest son did a Taro Farm internship on the North Shore of Oahu. Ocean waves scare me. I was there in the late 90's, and this terrific grammar school Teacher on the shore put me up. It was memorable.
Rex Ann has a children's blog (She use to... wwwsurfdog ? Surf Dog goes everywhere with Rex. She visits the states, and brings my son Flowered Shirts.
Farmers tease him.
They are pretty.
I wear to bed.
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I took a course in Conflict Resolution with The Fellowship of Reconciliation.
I start a brawl.
I hear in courtrooms that where two Hawaiian Surfing Episcopalians meet in churches`
they bring a Fifth.
That's in the Arabic.
KJV Surfer Bib Bible?
Farmer Wine Bib Burp?
It's in Greek Bible chap?
verse E-Tutu- TIP Book?
Let me know Ya next Post?
The mainland need seagull!
David Price? Jug Gals flies.
Gads.
Night.
It's always 83 Temp in Paradise.
I knew a Vet Zen Archer in Oahu.
He sipped Tame Turkey Brews.
Bring some old Paradise to USA.
Thanks, Poet in Residence!
In my observation one of the things most destructive to true discourse and understanding is labeling. Many of the "discussions" on OS are little more than ad hominem attacks. People on the political right are often referred to as "bigots," "haters," "religious fanatics," "religious extremists," "wingnuts," and so on. In conservative venues the same thing happens, but with different labels: "DemocRats," "libtards," "socialists," "communists," etc.
The purpose of labeling is not to facilitate discussion but to prevent it. Once the label is applied, the person's views can be dismissed without any discussion or exchange of ideas.
It seems to me that a precondition of any serious and productive discourse has to be an agreement among all participants not to engage in labeling. As they say in soccer, "play the ball not the man." Another good rule of thumb is "disagree without being disagreeable."
As my father taught me, as a sales technique:
"Always admit the obvious. It's obvious anyway and you'll look like you have more integrity than if you don't."
Manipulation through honesty. Beats the Hell out of the alternative. If your facts don't support your cause well enough, why bother?
But hey, give it your best shot.
The word doctors and spin meisters have dissected our nation's people into various groups which war among each other. This is, I believe, why we no longer care for our fellow Americans. As resources are sucked into the 1% of us on top, we are jealous of each other.
I welcome this invitation to care for each other again. To dance rather than fight.
"Oahusurfer is right about so many things, but he only sees part of the story, he doesn't go far enough to get to the beginning. " Perhaps, that's why we need to have open discussion, so that we don't necessarily see the other part of the story, but more so how people's lives inform their experiences and why it is that we view the world as do. No one can see the whole story.
“How can We the People come together against manipulation?” Education and sharpening of critical thinking skills.
Just some thoughts.
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Please write an essay telling people how they can live and survive affordably in Polynesia, if they have to escape from North America.
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Love the younger you photo surfing. Super cool.
Oh, I rose an Alia - one of the old, old boards - behind a boat a few weeks ago. No fins, pretty much just a plank of board. Very challenging but fun.
[Hi anybody/everybody else who checks in here -- 'twould be lovely to hear from ALL of you!]
R [a year later :-( :-( ;-)]
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