A rant about change and optimism.
This is not the best of times right now. For many it is the worst of times. I am grateful that the majority of the American people woke up and started to take back control of our country last November. When I think of the alternative, President John McCain, I know if he was elected I would be enveloped in a miasma of hopelessness, despair and desperation. Because nothing would have changed, we'd be stuck exactly where we have been for the most of the last 30 years. And thing would be worse, much worse than they are right now.
This is a scary time for many of us. There is uncertainty and there is ambiguity. Change is coming for all us. For many, this change is perceived as worse than what we have.
I am wired differently from many of you. You've probably picked up on that from some of my posts that you've read. Or from my profile and my profession. I like change. I see where change succeeds. I see where change has made a positive difference in people's lives. Actually, we all have. Some changes are less visible than others and we don't see any effect until an unforseen event happens.
When I got my driver's license in 1971, cars didn't have airbags or anti-lock brakes. An airbag prevented me from having a serious injury 8 years ago. That change was good.
It might be hard for some of you to imagine a time when families only had one telephone. A land line, with a rotary dial. If you were calling and no one was home, the phone would ring and ring and ring. Or you might call and get a busy signal, which meant that someone was home and they were talking on the phone, and you'd have to call back later.
Well, answering machines, and call waiting, and cell phones made their way into our homes and on our persons.
There was a best selling book when I was in high school, called Future Shock written by a guy named Toffler. He wrote that in the future everyone would have a computer in their homes. I thought when I read this why would I want a computer? I just want a really good turntable, pre-amp, amp, tuner and speakers for my LPs.
While I still don't own an mp3 player, I see value in them. I'm just waiting for the price to come down.
Ok, so I hope you can appreciate that change is good. Now, why am I so optimistic about the future?
The United States has been really, really good at responding to a crisis. The mobilization of the country in World War II, the space race in the 1960s to get a man on the moon before 1970 are a couple of good examples. When we focus and have a sense of purpose and commitment, we can change and we can succeed.
With the exception of some political leaders and media pundits, it's clear to the rest of us that we're in a crisis right now. Who knows what our world will look like in 10 years? The pace of change is greater than time in our existence on this planet. We can reverse the poor decisions that have been made, and begin to move down a path that will get us where we need to be. I have confidence in everyone who posts at OS, even folks who I disagree with, because there are good people in this virtual community. Our real community is not much different than the virtual one here. Because I read your stories, about the real people in your lives that make difference. I read your words, hear your voices, admire and respect your talent and intellect. I know I am not alone.
I'm also 53 years old. I'm not quite read to cash in my chips. Actually as a result of the recent economic collapse, I have no chips to cash in.
I need to get some chips, maybe some dip, too. I have another 50 or so years I'd like to live. That living starts right now. It won't be easy and it probably will require sacrifice and hard work. I can't afford to be anything but optimistic. People are depending on me to help them work through change. Anyone care to join me?


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Rated!! Change! Change! Change! Ooooh, I got a quarter! :)
Thank you for a wonderful post..
I'm right there with you. Thank you.
and I think deep down that you are. Thank you
I am working on the optimism thing. We'll just ride it out together bro.
Change IS good. It's FEAR of change that keeps most people paralyzed. How can I help you I'm there! Rated.
I love the details in your post... and you can count me in. I'll bring my homemade salsa dip.
Change moves people forward, keeps them sharp, makes them learn the new, discards the weak and those unwilling to explore possibilities.
Sometimes change fails, so what. My mantra: It's better to fail trying something new than to waste away living in the old.
"It might be hard for some of you to imagine a time when families only had one telephone. A land line, with a rotary dial." changes in your and my lives have ben profound. It sounds as though we're not separated by too many years at all, I was born in 1952 and I think, unless you were like my daughter who at damned near 21 still doesn't want a driver's license, were probably born somewhere around 1955.
Party lines, dial-up phone numers with alpha characters as prefixes (I can still remember my phone number from Shawnee, Oklahoma in the 1950s - BR50631, BR for Broadway. Never could figure out why Broadway). Muscle cars (god, I loved those), paisley shirts with fruit loops, black and white TV, hand drawn characters on commercials, parents listening to John Philips Suza (god, I grew tired of that shit), "Duck and Cover," severe racism, and on and on..... All of those things many people don't even have a memory of, because they were born with the changes people like you and I brought about.
Unfortunately, the most momentous task ever is at hand, changing a country failing faster than a lemonade stand in the dead of winter. If people can't change, they need to move aside, and that definitely appplies to the moronic politicians who can't see beyond their old-fashioned myopic needs and goals. They need to fade away. Perhaps, as president Obama believes, changes may not always work. BUT one thing is for certain: Nothing will get better without change and it's simply not possible to go that direction. The United States will become a "third-world country" if that option is chosen.
Wonderful post, OE. Thank you for the reminder that change and success aren't separable concepts. RATED for change
We voted for Obama. We understood things were shitty. We knew what he would do because he told us. Now we need to let him try. We need to support change. We need to get behind things that should have been done 15 years ago. I am hopeful, too. Really, WHAT other way is there to be? We can sit around and be depressed or we can use what time we have left on this earth to be hopeful and positive and work towards good and positive things.
Dowd writes just like 99% of the politicians she so loves to rant about speek - incoherent, rambling, nothing concrete (can't have concrete ideas if you're attempting to play like mushy jello in order to appeal to as many as possible), full of shit and product of poor information.
Time for a change -
http://open.salon.com/blog/oesheepdog/2009/02/26/dear_os_i_can_only_find_hope_for_the_future
Tink -- You gotta have a sense of humor during these times. thanks for bringing yours along.
bbd -- Optimism is just as congtagious as pessimism and despair. It a better alternative too.
Bark -- you're not barking up the wrong tree.
FR -- I know it's not the best of times for you right now, but you turned a corner yesterday. Your world is probably a little brighter today. You're welcome.
Susanne -- like, ya think?
Jane -- You can't give up hope, ever.
Thanks Larry, I friended you, too!
Thanks for your kindness. It's always helpful to take some Brie with you on the long journeys. It makes the trip more pleasant.
Trig, I'm glad I didn't say enveloped in the Miata, but anyway, thanks.
Shiral, wha you wrote meant a lot to me.
JK -- thank you empress of New York and future ruler of the Canadien states of America. It's an honour!
Latethink -- Thanks for enjoying my post. We can only look forward and not back.
Stellaa -- We're off on a new adventure, But we're doing it together. We all need to hold hands as we cross the street.
Bill Beck -- Glad you got my back, dude.
Blue -- Somehow I knew you'd be here, man.
Geoff -- With you, blue and Bill Beck, ain't no one stoppin' us now!
Cartouche -- you are the sister I always wanted but never had. Thanks!
Dharma -- thanks, Salsa dip from the southwest bring it on!
Bob -- thanks man...good to have you along.
Lisa -- I knew you would be here too. thank you.
Lisa Kern -- the optimism comes out in your posts.
Liza -- comments from a New Yorker cartoonist! I have to pinch myself, and on Bob Eckstein's birthday, too!
ocl -- climb aboard.
bubba -- it's good to have a Texas PI around.
Jim -- Thanks very much.
Great post.
rated for beautifully said!
This place is generally good for hope though. The dirtbag level is relatively low for online.
Dawg, just how cheap do you want 'em? You can get some for less than twenty dollars these days.
Like you said it been many years since change was good and I really don't like change it means I have to learn something new and remember it. But if you have a good teacher it can be a wonderful thing.
I hope I go to the head of the class... LOL
I have some hope. It gets buried quickly but it keeps rising to the top. Hope floats, right?
Optimism is all I have. Very nice piece, OEsh...
(BTW, I'm old enough that not only do I remember rotary phones and busy signals but we actually had a party line when I was growing up....)