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Change is good...that's what I keep telling my colleagues. It's difficult and hard. It's challenging and rewarding. It's fraught with peril. It needs to be done...yesterday!

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FEBRUARY 26, 2009 11:03PM

Dear OS, I can only find hope for the future.

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A rant about change and optimism. 

This is not the best of times right now. For many it is the worst of times. I am grateful that the majority of the American people woke up and started to take back control of our country last November. When I think of the alternative,  President John McCain,  I know if he was elected I would be enveloped in a miasma of hopelessness, despair and desperation. Because nothing would have changed, we'd be stuck exactly where we have been for the most of the last 30 years. And thing would be worse, much worse than they are right now.

This is a scary time for many of us. There is uncertainty and there is ambiguity. Change is coming for all us. For many, this change is perceived as worse than what we have.

I am wired differently from many of you. You've probably picked up on that from some of my posts that you've read. Or from my profile and my profession. I like change. I see where change succeeds. I see where change has made a positive difference in people's lives. Actually, we all have. Some changes are less visible than others and we don't see any effect until an unforseen event happens.

When I got my driver's license in 1971, cars didn't have airbags or anti-lock brakes. An airbag prevented me from having a serious injury 8 years ago. That change was good.

It might be hard for some of you to imagine a time when families only had one telephone. A land line, with a rotary dial. If you were calling and no one was home, the phone would ring and ring and ring. Or you might call and get a busy signal, which meant that someone was home and they were talking on the phone, and you'd have to call back later.

Well, answering machines, and call waiting, and cell phones made their way into our homes and on our persons.

There was a best selling book when I was in high school, called Future Shock written by a guy named Toffler. He wrote that in the future everyone would have a computer in their homes. I thought when I read this why would I want a computer? I just want a really good turntable, pre-amp, amp, tuner and speakers for my LPs.

While I still don't own an mp3 player, I see value in them. I'm just waiting for the price to come down.

Ok, so I hope you can appreciate that change is good. Now, why am I so optimistic about the future?

The United States has been really, really good at responding to a crisis.   The mobilization of the country in World War II, the space race in the 1960s to get a man on the moon before 1970 are a couple of good examples. When we focus and have a sense of purpose and commitment, we can change and we can succeed.

With the exception of some political leaders and media pundits, it's clear to the rest of us that we're in a crisis right now. Who knows what our world will look like in 10 years? The pace of change is greater than time in our existence on this planet. We can reverse the poor decisions that have been made, and begin to move down a path that will get us where we need to be.  I have confidence in everyone who posts at OS, even folks who I disagree with, because there are good people in this virtual community. Our real community is not much different than the virtual one here. Because I read your stories, about the real people in your lives that make difference. I read your words, hear your voices, admire and respect your talent and intellect. I know I am not alone.

I'm also 53 years old. I'm not quite read to cash in my chips.  Actually as a result of the recent economic collapse, I have no chips to cash in.

I need to get some chips, maybe some dip, too. I have another 50 or so years I'd like to live. That living starts right now. It won't be easy and it probably will require sacrifice and hard work. I can't afford to be anything but optimistic. People are depending on me to help them work through change.  Anyone care to join me?

 

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I'd like some chips too, and dip!! I'll join ya!! :)

Rated!! Change! Change! Change! Ooooh, I got a quarter! :)
optimism is good, some of us need it in spite of what we have or what we're going through. good post.
Change is great and being optimistic opens many doors. I have always been an optimistic person. "Living starts right now. It won't be easy and it probably will require sacrifice and hard work." AMEN!!

Thank you for a wonderful post..
I don't know what else to do anyway!
This is the best piece that I've read all night. Nothing like a big ole dose of Optimism..

I'm right there with you. Thank you.
Right behind ya sheepdog...I'm with anyone that uses the word MIASMA. Good to hear words of hope. I HOPE you are right,
and I think deep down that you are. Thank you
Oh boy, I love this. If I truly thought there was no hope for anything to get better, I'd go out and shoot myself. Amen about last November. I hate to think what would be happening right now with a president McCain and Shudder, VP Palin in charge. It would all be rearranging the deck chairs. We can make things better so long as we believe they can get better. Rated. and wish I could rate it about fifty more times.
thank you!!! i'm on a news fast for a while. i too have no chips to cash in. please don't give the chips and dip to tink. please give them to me. you are funny and wise and i love your optimism. i'm so grateful for this post. love lvoe love
This was a post that made me feel as if I knew you, very open, very sweet, so thank you. Let's all have some chips and dip, my faves. I too am looking forward to change.
Excellent! I agree completely.
Bump this back for the morning drive crowd.
We're a lot alike SD. I don't mind change, I embrace it when it's for the best. I am also the last person to buy the latest technology, after the price goes down. iPods, I skipped plasma screen TV's and bought an LCD which has a superior picture just before Christmas at about half what I would have a few years back.

I am working on the optimism thing. We'll just ride it out together bro.
Well played sheep thing. This one's shaping up a little differently than the others we've endured in our lifetime. (I'm 50, so I'm not too far behind you on that escalator to oblivion.) It's interesting, to be sure.
Someone once made an observation and said "the only constant about you is change", to which I replied, "and the problem with that is.....?"
Change IS good. It's FEAR of change that keeps most people paralyzed. How can I help you I'm there! Rated.
I love your positive attitude and perspective, OE. Change is, by it's nature, difficult and often upsetting to the many who were verrrry comfy the way things were.
I love the details in your post... and you can count me in. I'll bring my homemade salsa dip.
Change. I'm with you on this one OE. Change is the spice of life as far as I'm concerned. Hell, I like change so much, when I get bored, I change things that are working perfectly well, just to see the difference. Some of my employees who detest change have often saught counseling due to my nature, but what the hell, if they can't get out of their mindless, lazy rut, stay there, or seek the help they despararately need. But I and the rest of those who like to look into the future, change IS life.

Change moves people forward, keeps them sharp, makes them learn the new, discards the weak and those unwilling to explore possibilities.

Sometimes change fails, so what. My mantra: It's better to fail trying something new than to waste away living in the old.

"It might be hard for some of you to imagine a time when families only had one telephone. A land line, with a rotary dial." changes in your and my lives have ben profound. It sounds as though we're not separated by too many years at all, I was born in 1952 and I think, unless you were like my daughter who at damned near 21 still doesn't want a driver's license, were probably born somewhere around 1955.

Party lines, dial-up phone numers with alpha characters as prefixes (I can still remember my phone number from Shawnee, Oklahoma in the 1950s - BR50631, BR for Broadway. Never could figure out why Broadway). Muscle cars (god, I loved those), paisley shirts with fruit loops, black and white TV, hand drawn characters on commercials, parents listening to John Philips Suza (god, I grew tired of that shit), "Duck and Cover," severe racism, and on and on..... All of those things many people don't even have a memory of, because they were born with the changes people like you and I brought about.

Unfortunately, the most momentous task ever is at hand, changing a country failing faster than a lemonade stand in the dead of winter. If people can't change, they need to move aside, and that definitely appplies to the moronic politicians who can't see beyond their old-fashioned myopic needs and goals. They need to fade away. Perhaps, as president Obama believes, changes may not always work. BUT one thing is for certain: Nothing will get better without change and it's simply not possible to go that direction. The United States will become a "third-world country" if that option is chosen.

Wonderful post, OE. Thank you for the reminder that change and success aren't separable concepts. RATED for change
me!
We voted for Obama. We understood things were shitty. We knew what he would do because he told us. Now we need to let him try. We need to support change. We need to get behind things that should have been done 15 years ago. I am hopeful, too. Really, WHAT other way is there to be? We can sit around and be depressed or we can use what time we have left on this earth to be hopeful and positive and work towards good and positive things.
Yep yep. Right there with you.
Hip. Stick to your guns, dump that moronic journalist bitch and spend the buck fifty on something of value, say comic books, or bobbleheads for your car instead.

Dowd writes just like 99% of the politicians she so loves to rant about speek - incoherent, rambling, nothing concrete (can't have concrete ideas if you're attempting to play like mushy jello in order to appeal to as many as possible), full of shit and product of poor information.

Time for a change -

http://open.salon.com/blog/oesheepdog/2009/02/26/dear_os_i_can_only_find_hope_for_the_future
Sorry OE, copied your link to this to give to another OS member and inadvertently posted the comment for her post here. just too much change, god, I can't keep up :-)
Thank you for this. I am an optimistic person by nature, but lately my mother has decided that she needs to call me every single day to remind me how bad things are. As if I'm not aware. I know that things are bad, but that doesn't mean that I can't choose to believe that they will get better. After all, what are our options? All of us can't exactly leave and find a new planet to screw up. We're all going to be here, so we've no choice but to figure out how to fix things. Thankfully, Obama is at the helm currently. I would NOT have any shred of hope if McCain had been elected in November. The fact that he wasn't is worthy of plenty of gratitude!
Bursa and Ablonde -- thanks for joining me.

Tink -- You gotta have a sense of humor during these times. thanks for bringing yours along.

bbd -- Optimism is just as congtagious as pessimism and despair. It a better alternative too.

Bark -- you're not barking up the wrong tree.

FR -- I know it's not the best of times for you right now, but you turned a corner yesterday. Your world is probably a little brighter today. You're welcome.

Susanne -- like, ya think?

Jane -- You can't give up hope, ever.

Thanks Larry, I friended you, too!

Thanks for your kindness. It's always helpful to take some Brie with you on the long journeys. It makes the trip more pleasant.

Trig, I'm glad I didn't say enveloped in the Miata, but anyway, thanks.

Shiral, wha you wrote meant a lot to me.

JK -- thank you empress of New York and future ruler of the Canadien states of America. It's an honour!
Teddy -- Tink brought cold hard cash with him. Chips and dip should be on him. Thanks for you kind words, it means a lot to me.

Latethink -- Thanks for enjoying my post. We can only look forward and not back.

Stellaa -- We're off on a new adventure, But we're doing it together. We all need to hold hands as we cross the street.
Yes, I join you! It's a scary time, but a hopeful time.
Yep, sign me up for this bandwagon!
Yep, I'll throw in with ya. How about some salsa to go with them chips? Cheers!
Delia -- thanks.

Bill Beck -- Glad you got my back, dude.

Blue -- Somehow I knew you'd be here, man.

Geoff -- With you, blue and Bill Beck, ain't no one stoppin' us now!

Cartouche -- you are the sister I always wanted but never had. Thanks!

Dharma -- thanks, Salsa dip from the southwest bring it on!

Bob -- thanks man...good to have you along.

Lisa -- I knew you would be here too. thank you.
Optimism seems to be "catching" a little bit lately, like a benificent bug.. But it could easily be crushed by the pundits & polticians, that crowd. The people on tv. You say the virtual and real community are not much different.Well, this is just as real as the real world...instant thought exchanged across continents. How much realer can you get, telepathy?This is the engine of change. They...the people who need a problem, a crisis, dire times, etc, in order to "propogandize" us into an anxious state of confused thought, haven't really caught on yet. They're all about "image". Thsi place is about pure raw emotion and thought. This is ths place to strike with love bombs...rated...best, Jim
odette -- thanks for being here.

Lisa Kern -- the optimism comes out in your posts.

Liza -- comments from a New Yorker cartoonist! I have to pinch myself, and on Bob Eckstein's birthday, too!

ocl -- climb aboard.

bubba -- it's good to have a Texas PI around.

Jim -- Thanks very much.
I signed up in August, 1979, and remember when the clam dip in plastic containers and Ruffles with Ridges were introduced for direct application to the hips.

Great post.
I was starting to feel like the only one who held out hope for our future!

rated for beautifully said!
I'd like to be hopeful. Things could be much worse.

This place is generally good for hope though. The dirtbag level is relatively low for online.
While I still don't own an mp3 player, I see value in them. I'm just waiting for the price to come down.

Dawg, just how cheap do you want 'em? You can get some for less than twenty dollars these days.
Hope. I still have it, no optimism, but hope doesn't die easily.
Change IS good. It's FEAR of change that keeps most people paralyzed.

Like you said it been many years since change was good and I really don't like change it means I have to learn something new and remember it. But if you have a good teacher it can be a wonderful thing.

I hope I go to the head of the class... LOL
What a lovely, lovely post. Being a brimming pessimist, words like yours lighten my heart a little.

I have some hope. It gets buried quickly but it keeps rising to the top. Hope floats, right?
I love your post about change. My motto on my business card says "The nature of life is change." Simple, true, a duh, but something many of us resist. I love your positive attitude. Since I'm around your age, I am also looking forward to seeing how the second half of my life unfolds. Rated.
Darlin! If I am lucky, I've got maybe 20 years left. Maybe.
Optimism is all I have. Very nice piece, OEsh...
I just got to this post, and liked it a lot. I also am very excited about changes coming. It helps that almost everything Obama is promising to do sounds good to me, of course. And I also have shudders when I think of how I'd feel if McCain had been elected. We'd be starting the long slow slide to our country being completely bankrupt in every sense.

(BTW, I'm old enough that not only do I remember rotary phones and busy signals but we actually had a party line when I was growing up....)