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OEsheepdog
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March 12
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Director of Change
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Change is good...that's what I keep telling my colleagues. It's difficult and hard. It's challenging and rewarding. It's fraught with peril. It needs to be done...yesterday!

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JUNE 12, 2009 2:17PM

What OS has done to me. What has OS for done for me?

Rate: 61 Flag

I realized that I missed Haiku Thursday yesterday. I'm sure there were dozens, if not hundreds, of OS readers who were gleeful I didn't post a Haiku.

OS has been a virtual corner wateringhole for me for almost 6 months. Like the TV series Cheers, ...where everybody knows your name, I stop by and comment with the regulars.

It dosen't make a difference if it's JK Brady in Toronto, Trig Palin in Kansas, Vac in Alaska, Kind of Blue in Tenneessee, Natalie B in Australia, or Cartouche in Florida,  I can read their posts and comment on them instanteously. Don't be offended if I didn't list you. The list is just too long.

I guess I take that for granted now. OS has made the world a smaller place for me. Who knew that I could become a virtual favorite of someone who has never seen my face. They could be from anywhere. I was amazed when Kerry Lauerman held a birthday celebration of sorts in New York and I went to meet some OSers in the flesh. Would I go to  a Facebook or Linked-In event? Nope.

Would the OSers in real life be different than their virtual personas? Not really, in fact they were pretty much as I thought they would be.

So when I log in to OS I get to see the work of hundreds of talented people. Some of them, many of them come to see what I've written.

It's very humbling for me. To get and hear feedback from people whose work you enjoy and respect.

You don't get this very frequently in your workplace. You may get it from a family member or an intimate relationship, but I find from those I read, and from my own experience, it doesn't happen very often in the real world.

I get it every time I come here. So please let me take a moment and say thank you for what you bring here every day.  I learn a lot from each of you, and I am grateful that you come here occasionally to see what I have to say.

This 21st Century virtual world has its pitfalls, but not in this part of the virtual world. To all of you, Rated. 

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What a nice post! I agree with you completely. And rated!
OES, between your personality and your writing, you make it easy.
agreed. now if everyone could just play nice, it would be perfect.
I've just learned that as a Texan, I have a manly, if thin chest, and damn it, I'll be offended if I want to for being left out.
Don't forget what You've Done for OS! We value your heart and skill as well.
--rated--
Yes, and yes, and yes. On all points in this, we agree. And OES - thanks for being your Sheepy self. You were one of the first to comment on my little blog home, and well, dammit, I've liked you ever since.
Fascinating, isn't it. OS makes other blog sites seem quite cheesy and annoying. And it's all becasue of the people here.
You are the one I want to thank at the moment!
Best wishes to you!
Nicely put and timely as well.
I feel the same way. It's like having a bunch of really cool penpals...sorta. From my very first post, I felt the comradrie. (Did I spell that correctly? OS needs spellcheck.) I love you guys!
... and may I thank you!
bluesurly -- Generally most people here are nice.

Ardee -- thanks.

Stim -- What gracious thing to say.

smithery -- thank you

Stellaa -- no gripe zone, I like that.

Lorraine -- People forget common courtesy sometimes, the avatars are an insulator.

M -- you have a manly thin chest? That seriously deflates the image I have of you. I can count the number of Jewish Texan women I know on one finger.

Mothership -- That's very kind thing to say. Thanks for saying it to me.

Owl -- the pleasure is all mine.

Boomer Bob -- you are correct sir.

Gary -- you're welcome.

grif -- thanks, man.
Signed with kisses.
Right back at you, OESheepdog!
I agree completely here. All the little avatars come with a memory for me. I love OS. It is just like friends, but with a difference. Some posts are hard and challenging to read and digest. But still fun and a fine place to hang out.
Highly rated, indeed.
You're a gentledog and a scholar.
Total agreement. This has been a wonderful place with wonderful people, and I hope that it is here for a long time to come.
Vac -- (gasp) who knew?

Deborah -- Forgot to include Hawaii, thanks.

Mission -- thanks.

Sheldon -- Two of out three ain't bad.

Larry -- You would think now that you've got a bridge to PEI and don't have to take the ferry anymore, it would take the edge of all that hostility. But then it makes it easier for all the outsiders to get there.
Back atcha.

I thoroughly enjoy my time here, reading as much as I can possibly handle in the time I have. It is the people here who make it enjoyable though (of which I number you, doggie) and I am constantly thanking Barry for inviting me in. Oh, and of course thanks to Kerry and Joan and Thomas and the whole darn crew for giving us a sandbox and letting us bring our pails and shovels.
Hey, hey, hey. What 'bout me, man??

I shall strike you with my ever popular wet noodles...thanks to our ever loving Tink!!

But don't fret, baby.

You're one kool kat!!

:)
BBE -- A little courtesy WON'T kill you. Trust me on that one.

Gwendolyn -- thanks

ocular -- thanks

Chuck -- You are the epitome of courtesy, dignity and respect at OS.
OE, an longtime watcher of Texan Affairs here on the OS used that description of us, and made no exception for sex. I was surprised too.
Agree. This place is terrific, in large part because of people like you, Sheep. I haven't found anything even close. Nirvana for writers. Supportive and responsive and mentoring.
I've enjoyed what I've seen of your work OES.
Sentiments expressed in this post were nice to see as well.
Rated.
Not only do I know your name, thanks to that party, I know your gender. Back at you, OE.
One of the many things I love about you, Sheepy is that you have a never ending supply of unconditional love that you share so generously with so many, including me. You are one of the many (hundreds of) reasons I come to OS, sit and stay. And one never has to beg to get a kind word out of you. It just comes naturally. You are one of the nicest people that I have never had the pleasure or honor to meet in the flesh but I am sure there is no invisible fence surrounding you. xoxo
I always thought the eyes were working fine underneath all that fur.
What grif said--same goes for me.
I've only been around OS for a short time, but this post reflects my feelings as well--y'all are so kind!
:-)
Oh!
::whew::
For a minute there I thought you were breaking up with us.
Don't you ever quit us, (((OE))).
F*ckin'-A, Dawg! OS is the best virtual wateringhole in the Intertubal galaxy, Exhibit A being you and the folks who stop in here to raise their vritual toasts. Keep them dogs barkin', eh?
Oh so was this the smarm they were talking about? ;-) I agree. This place is da super-coolest. I am constantly humbled by the level of writing going on here and wish I had more time to read.
What Lea and Lonnie and basically everybody else said. Cheers it is! NORM!!
Dog! Love ya man........
I rated this until I found out I was Cliff Claven...

(J/k of course. All kudos to OS and the community it breeds)
What a lovely post! Yes, the spirit of community at OS is extraordinary. It does not surprise me that the people you met at the party were similar to their personas. This is a special corner of the virtual world. All the best to you!
Zuma -- you are one of those people

Bill -- Thanks man.

Luis -- Thanks for not resorting to violence with macaroni.

M -- Interesting what people's perceptions are.

Lea -- that's a very kind thing to say to me. Thanks.

aka -- thanks for the shout out on my writing.

deb -- thanks very much.

cartouche -- You are a kind and thoughtful member of the human race.

stacey -- the eyes always work.

spotted_mind -- thank you

incandescent -- I'm sure we'd think you were one of the brightest bulbs in the room.

dharma -- No not going anwhere. ;)

Lonnie -- I hope this cheered you up.

Juli -- I always feel like I'm missing someone's really good work.

Sally -- you're a menschette! Which is a mixed metaphor and compliment.

Trig -- Backatcha

Harry -- I always saw you as Frasier Crane with the same level of intellect.

Steve -- Did you notice no corporate sponsors...thanks
Despite some of the occasional disruptions that happen in OS, I agree with you. I find it to be a wonderful community with thoughtful people, yourself included.
Right back at ya.
Nailed it! What you say is why this place is so addictive. I've been fortunate enough to meet a few of my favorite OSers face to face and you are so right when you say they are pretty much exactly the personality you expected them to be. Great Post and the feeling is mutual there, Sheepy!
You have been a loyal supporter of mine since I joined a few months ago. Always the supportive and kind word, like nearly everyone I meet here. It's an amazing, wonderful site.

Thank you for helping to make this such a wonderful place to call "home".
Mary -- I have a lot of respect for you as a person and a writer. Thanks.

Noahvose -- Thanks

Michael -- Addictive isn't a strong enough description.

Buffy -- You are too kind. Thanks.
Just dropped by to leave you a smooch.
I see it as like a miracle! You're welcome and I feel the same.
This is definitely addictive -- Open Salon, the opiate of the masochists (all writers are masochists).
I love this place, for reasons that include you! My blood's been boiling a bit of late, but I'm always here and connecting with all of you good folks, even if I keep quiet when upset.
"Open Salon, the opiate of the masochists (all writers are masochists)."

Love it, Tom!
I like Stella's phrase "no griping zone". This is post is a welcome relief from so much vitriol and sadness lately on OS.

OS has been good for me personally, to interact with such talented, intelligent and decent people. I've avoided being embroiled in the much discussed ugliness of late.
Susanne --good to hear from you.

Kathy -- I hear ya.

Janie -- you're a real cynic for Canadian. Ha!

Tom -- interesting take but good analogy

Leslie -- thanks

Suzn -- Every place has controversy. The no gripe zone is a cool place to be

HJ -- Thanks
A gentledog and scholar; i like that wonderhorse.
What a nice post this is, and so true.
Don -- Thanks very much.

Latethink -- Appreciate what you said

L&P -- I so happy you're enjoying the egg creams. Even happier you can get the syrup locally. Thanks for the kind words.
I cannot agree with you more. It is really great to get feedback from people who have nothing to gain or lose by being honest. I think sometimes in the workplace there's just too many politics shaping people's perspectives. And, of course in one's personal life parents, friends, etc. are going to tell you what they think you want to hear for the most part. They do it in the name of love, which is wonderful, but doesn't really provide an often needed reality check. Anyway--I think it's great that you got to meet some fellow OSers and that they were how you'd imagined. It is a wonderful community and I feel very fortunate to be in such company (that of course includes you OEsheepdog)!
Hey OeSheepy, back at ya!
Rated & Cheers!
I agree completely. So it's OK? I worry sometimes that it's a sad reflection on my paltry life. That doesn't mean I'm going to stop coming here, though.
Nice post OE! It's very true -- so would NOT have gone to a Linked-in or FB party in NY - or anywhere for that matter. OS is a special place with all these people i know well or just a little. people i read always or from time to time when i can. lately i've been working ridiculous hours and have little time to read and even less to post, and i miss everyone! here's to you -- rated :)
Lovely post! Right back atcha, you big hairy guy!
The internet really *IS* an amazing phenomenon. It has radically altered what has to be done for me to complete research assignments. It has huge plusses and huge minuses. You have written about the upside.
Susan -- Thanks for your comments. I agree with you how this OS is so different from the work place.

Bubba -- cheers to you.

Hells Bells -- It's OK. Besides one person's "paltry life" is another's fantasy life.

Cindy -- I appreciate you getting this since your are one of the people I met. thanks.

silk -- woof!

Lisa -- You're very welcome!
~Leaves the sheepdog a bone~
Geoff -- Thanks for the comment and the rated.

Tink -- What are you doing up at this hour? Don't you ever sleep?
I can't speak for the rest of these folks, but in real life I'm MUCH more of a shit head.