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NOVEMBER 22, 2009 9:24PM

November 22, 1963 -- New York City Updated date

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At the northern tip of Manhattan Island is a neighborhood called Inwood. At the northwest end of the neighborhood is a park. Inwood Hill Park, the last vestige of woods on the island.

In that neighborhood in 1963, my classmates and I emerged from Public School 98. We were third graders in Mrs. Eisenberg's class. Mrs. Eisenberg, was probably 40, but from her grey hair, she seemed 60. She was perpetually stern, but all my teacher memories from that era where stern.

Mrs. Eisenberg also lived in the same apartment house as me. I was cursed.  As we emerged from the school, one of my friends, said the president was shot. In Dallas. My exposure to the news was when my dad brought home either the New York Post or the World-Telegram and Sun on his way home from work.

There was no internet, no cable news, and no cable TV. Just channels 2, 4, 5, 7, 9, 11 and 13. No VHF. We had a black and white TV. When I got home, channel 2 was on and my mother was watching Walter Cronkite describe the events in Dallas where Kennedy had been shot just a couple of hours before. 

She had been crying. I was scared, thinking that the Russians would now bomb us since we had no President. I didn't know Johnson had succeeded Kennedy.

It was raw grey day in New York, as it was for our nation.

We watched the TV constantly over the weekend, watching Jack Ruby shoot down Lee Harvey Oswald live. In black and white. A time etched forever in my mind. I was eight years old.

 

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We are of the same age, and north east of New York city, this boy realized that somehow life had changed on that day. ~R~
I think you meant November 22, 1963.
Wherever we were and whatever we remember, those of us who were old enough to remember will never forget that day, that week, and how it changed our view of the world.
I was in fifth grade, in a Catholic school. It was the most traumatic of days, that a boy of 11 could grasp. Thanks for your remembering.
Chuck -- How true

Ablonde -- Indeed I did. How embarrasing. I can't blame that typo on jet lag either.
I made the same mistake on my post today, too -- fortunately caught it before anybody said anything.
We were on the playground at recess in Upstate NY. My 4th grade teacher, also with white hair, called us all in early. We were pissed that recess was cut short, then we found out why. We were picked up early and I also remember being upset cause there were no cartoons on the weekend. I was 8, what did I know? Just about the same age as the girl on Mad Men, that show really brings the past alive.
I remember it, too. I was a pre-schooler and my mother was brushing my hair - she would have me stand on a chair when she did this. She heard the news on the radio. She said "I wonder if your father knows about this."
I too was in 3rd grade. I remember the day like it was yesterday. The nuns put the radio broadcast over the "public address system". Our teacher, Sister Mary Something (I can't believe I can't think of her name at this moment.) was crying. One of my classmates, Diane Voss, put her head on her little desk and sobbed. I remember being disturbed by Diane's reaction more than anything that I was hearing over the loud speaker. Thinking back, Diane must have been much more attuned to the world than I was at that young age.

I wonder how she's doing?
I wonder how our kids will remember 9/11 . . . much the same way, I suspect. In New York, of course, it would be all the more vivid.
it was a miserable week. I cried for days until the President's funeral. I wrote letters to Jackie and the children and received lovely handwritten notes in return. I was beside myself with grief and fear and confusion. How could this happen? How could someone kill the President? OUR President? Our beloved President Kennedy? It made no sense.
Sad day indeed, I was in 9th grade then. Teachers, kids, parents, were all crying. They even canceled school for a couple days. Thanks Older/Exasperated...RATED
At the time it happened, I was too young to be aware of what was happening on that date. I understand it until much later. For so many people I know who are at least a few years older than me, it changed their world.
I was 5 and had just had kidney surgery. I remember watching JFK's funeral on TV with mom in my hospital room. Caroline Kennedy is about my age and I identified with her. Mom told me (I don't remember) that I told my doctor that "My friend's daddy got shot."
I was a few miles north of you sheepdog in Riverdale and few years older, in 8th grade. Yes, the black & white TV and you had to actually get up to change the channel. But that was a scary time!
I was thirteen, home from school, watching tv and so I saw the first report. I have never felt more frightened, abandoned and alone ever.
I was in second grade. We heard it from the janitor who had a transistor radio and rushed to the principal's office to inform her. To this day, I remember vividly the nonstop black and white TV coverage (on our choice of 2 Boston channels), the somber drum cadence that moved the funeral cortege down the street and the sight of the black stallion, Blackjack with the symbolic reversed boots in the stirrups.
6th grade... televisions were brought in to every classroom.
I was in 8th grade and we were let out early. I went to a school in a neighborhood too far to walk and my mom wasn't home to get the call (no answering machines) to pick me up. I started walking home by myself, trying to process an abrupt change like that, one that affected everyone. Walking home, I couldn't make sense of it, but needed to be with my family, and that's why I was crying when mom finally found me. The only comparison I can think of is 9/11 when it seemed like time stopped and people came together.
Lea -- The century changed on that day.

bbd -- I think about all that came after, MLK, RFK, 9/11...the world became less innocent with each tragic event.

Raven -- The was much less live news, and less hyperbolic "analysis".

Wordhopper -- It was a scary time.

Brie -- Time for a facebook search for Diane? Thanks for sharing your experience.

Tia -- Two of the 9/11 highjackers flew out of Portland, Maine that morning. That community also has vivd memories of that day.

no frills -- Forty six years later, it still doesn't make any sense.

O/E -- Everything but the NFL was canceled that weekend.

bike -- It became a yard stick by which to measure one's life experience, in much the same way as an older generation remembers the death of FDR.

mg -- What an interesting view of the world.

trilogy -- I think my parents used me as their remote control.

Susanne -- You were not alone that weekend. A nation had the same feelings.

Coyote -- I remember those images too
Thanks for this, OE! I was in fourth grade and lived in Rye, N.Y. I posted a reminiscence of that day last Friday, if you want to check it out. It's one of those collective memory things. Powerful.
That is exactly what we all felt when we were kids - the Russians would now attack us. One kid said that we are sending special top secret agents to kill Khrushchev. I was 9.
Lois -- Wow they had TV in your school?

Ardee -- I think Boomer, Gen X and Gen Y did come together on 9/11 and they could finally "get" what we had been describing, yet at such a terrible cost.

Deborah -- I did go back and read your post. Thanks for your comments and for sharing your memories, too.

Duaneart -- Imagine the fear 8 and 9 year olds today have about "Muslims".