There are times when I get accused of bragging. I tell people it ain't bragging if you done it. There was a time in my life where I did it a lot. I am definitely not counting the times I was by myself either.
According to surveys the average male has seven female sexual partners during their lifetime. The other night I sat down and counted mine. The first was when I lost my virginity at age sixteen. There seemed to be a long time between my first and second time.
I spent a lot of "quality" time by myself if you know what I mean.
Then things changed dramatically. By the time I was 23, I had six more partners. At 28, I had eight more. At 40 I had fifteen more. I never went searching for it, they always found me.
I'm not what you call attractive. I'm quite average. But I am a good listener and I have empathy.
I found if you listen you can learn a lot. I also found if you asked what your partner liked and responded to them, they would reciprocate.
It still is happening. A conversation starts, and the conversation ultimately leads to the ultimate climax.
I sometimes wonder when it will end. I hope the end won't be anticlimactic.


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AFTER ALL, I WAS ALL ALONE!
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Joan -- Yeah that's what I thought.
Lois -- that is even lost in translation.
Jon -- Rodney: My wife loves to talk to me while she's making love. Just last week she called me from the Holiday Inn.
Good one Sheepie...
Here I thought you were the luckiest man on earth, and the most empathetic.
rated with love
HUGGGGGGGGG
Mission -- Gullible is not in the dictionary. Good to see you.
RP -- I am empathetic, that is not fiction. Not that it got me anything.
John -- It's nice to dream isn't it?
Oh sorry. . .gotta go. Jennifer Aniston gets cranky when I spend too much time in front of the computer. . . .
I found if you listen you can learn a lot. I also found if you asked what your partner liked and responded to them, they would reciprocate.
Doesn't sound like fiction to me. Every book I've read on the subject, every podcast and web posting has all said the same thing: the key to success in any kind of relationship is communication.
Con C. and most venerated gonorrhea vets?
They recommend 'Bag Balm' salve since 1899.
You can buy 'Bag Balm' at reputable law offices.
Gads.
I spent more (sexless) time fun since blogging.
Ya can't help but catch lice and legal fees. Fleas.
Lol. R
Actually, you got it right: Empathy and observation (listening) do the trick. Now go find those damn sheep that wondered off while you were, uh, "listening"! ;)
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Perhaps this might make an interesting Open Call? ;-)
"the right hand doesn't know what the left hand is doing"
oh well...sometimes those random thoughts just pop into my head.
and now I won't be able to get rid of it.