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Where's the Mojitos? I have the guac!

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February 03
Quaker buddhist, kinda quirky, loves cooking and knitting and movies. Dr Who fan, Scandinavian-aquarian and cat lover. Would love to be paid to travel around the world and write about local healing cultures. While eating and drinking and dancing. One day I will have a health cruise in the fjords.


It's that special time of the week again when we gather round our LED fire places and throw some kindling on the Yule Log!  Except this is no ordinary week, it is the week before Festivus!  What a better time than come together and collectively grieve the year of 2013!  … Read full post »

DECEMBER 7, 2013 7:23PM

Stopping by OS on a Snowy Evening

Whose posts these are, I think I know

Her blog is in the village, though

She will not see me stopping here,

To read her posts and fill with hope


My little cat must think it queer

To read without a sound in ear

The tv’s off, the ipod’s dimmed,… Read full post »

NOVEMBER 28, 2013 8:18PM

Black Death Friday

Angel rolled over and patted his girlfriend on the shoulder,

"I don't think we should go, I am feeling kind of bad."

"Nonsense, you just ate too much again.  It will be good for you, sweat off that second piece of pie."  Maria was scooting out of bed, crossing the room… Read full post »

NOVEMBER 27, 2013 11:58AM

Eating for Enlightenment

There are, stricktly speaking, no enlightened people, there is only enlightened activity. 

-Shunryu Suzuki 


It's that special time of year when food takes on a whole new section of the national consciousness.  Holiday eating. Depending on your religion, your level of comm… Read full post »

NOVEMBER 18, 2013 2:33PM

Enduring Love, for the Moment

The object of meditation in Vipassana is the breath.  There are reasons for this.  One, everyone who is meditating or trying to meditate breathes.  If you aren't breathing, and you aren't conscious, meditation is not likely in the forefront of your ... priorities.  So, everyone ha… Read full post »

Editor’s Pick
NOVEMBER 15, 2013 2:54PM

Latenight Valentine Fauxrotica: Vincent

"Today's the day!" Eliza exclaimed, turning over the just delivered envelope in her hands.  Thick padding, silver paper, sealed and embossed.  Emotrix Industries.  "Today's the day, Vincent," she called again, turning her head back over her shoulder to catch his attention.  He was… Read full post »

NOVEMBER 7, 2013 11:34PM

Get Your Karma OFF My LAWN!

I belong to a Thursday night book club, it meets twice monthly, and it is essentially a Buddhish book club.  We sit, we reflect on the book we are currently sharing (about dharma, karma, buddhism), we sit some more, we have an open discussion about the book or something else in… Read full post »

NOVEMBER 6, 2013 1:58PM

Live to Work.... Work to Live

I caught a bit end of a BBC documentary the other night on some of Scotland's small islands in the Shetland Island archipelago- Foula and FairIsle.  If you have spent any time here, or Scandinavia, or just visited extensively through documentary and movie, you will often ask yourself why people… Read full post »

Part of Insight Meditation, or Vipassana, is being aware in the present moment without thinking or judging.  Our naturally busy mind is always quick to think think think, plan plan plan, judge judge judge.  Some folks get stuck in worry worry worry, others in sorrow sorrow sorrow.  I t… Read full post »

OCTOBER 23, 2013 1:11PM

Opening up and closing down

The fall change has brought in a new whiff of self awareness.   I am always a little more introspective in the fall, a little more prone to melancholy and seclusion.  This year, different in how it shows itself.  Always, it comes these first few weeks of October.  Always, the ligh… Read full post »

OCTOBER 21, 2013 1:50AM

Disposable People

I spent most of my weekend at a buddhist retreat, Vipassana, in silence with a large group of "strangers".  I have sat with many of these strangers before, at different sits, another retreat, another gathering.  I liked that I knew the faces of more than half the people there, and that… Read full post »

OCTOBER 12, 2013 5:23PM

But I Vaaaaaant to be Alone

I feel like I have been surrounded by a lot of angry women lately.  Some of this is the nature of my work, which is primarily weight loss and hormone balancing or replacement.  Most of my patients are women, and lots of these women are angry, fat, hot, tired and mostly… Read full post »

An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. 

- Benjamin Franklin 

I am for universal, socialized medicine.  I have seen the difference living in two continents on the impact it makes on the quality of life for any person.  I have… Read full post »

If you can't stand the heat, stay out of Phoenix.  Or the kitchen.  

During a little roustabout chat, Another Steve S  made a sly reference that I was not familiar with.  He referred to another member of the chat as a "prairie muffin" and this led to my unfortunate use o… Read full post »

SEPTEMBER 25, 2013 11:47PM

Child of Two Alcoholics, Daughter of PTSD

When I was 12, my mother entered rehab for the first time.  Among the dozens of other adjustments, including having just moved into a new community, I faced the beginning of my adolescent years without a mother.  Eventually, she returned, but it was years before we lived together again. &nb… Read full post »

SEPTEMBER 22, 2013 1:43PM

How we are, and how we want to be

"How  much exercise do you do?"

  • I used to exercise a lot.  
  • Not much lately.
  • Not as much as I should.
  • None, that is why I am here
"How much water do you drink? This is 16oz or about 1/2 liter, how many of these.  Of just water."… Read full post »
SEPTEMBER 16, 2013 1:53PM

The Perfection Delusion

There is no perfect way.  

We plan and scheme, we imagine, it always begins with "If only...."

If only I was a better than I am now, life would be perfect.  If only you were a better person, we wouldn't have these problems.  If only they would do something about… Read full post »

SEPTEMBER 10, 2013 3:35PM

How could it be any other way?

I have started an 8 week course in "Mindful Living".  The course is to help people who suffer from chronic anxiety and depression learn better tools for managing their moods and stressors.  The negative voice, the inner critic, the "loop" of self destructive thoughts are lessened as we lear… Read full post »

While the murder of over a million Syrians in an extended internal civil war has gone by noted but unmoving to most of Americans, the recent attack with nerve agent sarin has suddenly been the key to bring us to "The Red Line".  It has become the talking point, with two… Read full post »

It's your life. And it's your money.  People are worried about what will happen if/when Obamacare kicks in.  There are lots of other changes afoot in the medical world- required EMR (electronic medical records) for offices of a certain size or anyone taking Medicare/Medicaid, and similar; I… Read full post »

Editor’s Pick
AUGUST 26, 2013 10:02PM

Sluts are empowered women, go Miley!

It turns out that the most important thing that happened this weekend was not that 1000s of Syrians have been poisoned with chemical weapons.  It was Miley Cyrus dance performance at the VMAs.  

Seriously, we're reporting on that?  Wow.  

I grew up with the idea that feminism mean… Read full post »

AUGUST 20, 2013 10:14PM

No more third wheel

I am one of those women who maintains her friendships even when totally into a relationship.  It may be a good quality, as most of my friendships have lasted longer than my relationships.  There have been ups, downs, trying times along the way.  Not all men are equally good at having… Read full post »

I have lived in Arizona for just over 13 years now, having moved here from Copenhagen, Denmark.  The two places couldn't be much more diametrically opposed- with a strange exception.  In both places, there is a strong emphasis on personal freedom.  However, their expression can come at… Read full post »

I have signed up for an 8 week class in mindful living.  You'd think, from what I write here, I think I know all about that.  However, there is a whole level of training in Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction, where if you are a professional you can go get training.  I… Read full post »

AUGUST 13, 2013 12:20PM


Naturally, now that you are here, you are wondering, what is Oryoki talking about?  Has the country been taken over by swirling legs and implants, and a lot of overlong hair extensions?

I was thinking today about how we have come to that special place in the public lexicon where we… Read full post »