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NOVEMBER 13, 2008 10:46AM

The Hearts of Children

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 Yesterday I spent my morning making fry bread and chili for the first meeting of the High School Native American Club that I advise. I will do this all winter, every Wednesday and approach it as an act of prayer.

My mind was much occupied with the Lakota people who have suffered through an early and devastating South Dakotan blizzard. 600 electrical poles down at the beginning of what promises to be a punishing winter. Koakuma's excellent posts on the plight of these ones educates us and offers us an opportunity to help through donations to the One Spirit organization—a native-run nonprofit organization which helps natives.

Before the meeting, I searched the Internet to find high schools on Pine Ridge Reservation and found two.

Red Cloud High School is a private Catholic school which survives 90% on donations. Crazy Horse High School is a grossly underfunded public school. I spoke to the children about the Pine Ridge Reservation as being the most impoverished place in America. These are the horrifying 2000 U.S. census statistics I gave them which have worsened over the past eight years:

* 80% unemployment,

* 49% live below the Federal poverty level,.

* Adolescent suicide is four times the national average,.

* Many have no electricity, telephone, running water, or sewer. Many families use wood stoves to heat their homes,.

* Shortest life expectancies of any group in the Western Hemisphere:

47 years for males and in the low 50s for females,.

* The infant mortality rate is five times the United States national average.

My Mayan girl, whom I have known since she was a second grader, still calls me “Mrs. Stephanie” even as a senior without any embarrassment at all, and I love her for that and her great character. After I had talked about these ones, she asked me a question.

“Mrs. Stephanie, why are they so poor?”

Pine Ridge Reservation 

I looked around at the children's faces, and I remembered why I had not relinquished this club when I quit my job at the school to return to graduate school. Besides the fact that no staff member stepped forward in a top-down system of clubs where the staff decides the club offerings and not the students, I knew that no one would run it like I do. Schools abhor any kind of “political” content, fearing angry parents at school board meetings. No one else is going to tell them stories which they never hear in U.S. history classes. No one else is going to tell them about the Sand Creek Massacre. Further, I trust the intelligence of children. I trust the hearts of children.

I validated their question by saying that it indeed does seem wrong that the people who once owned the continent now own nothing. I told them the history of how the government ( a scant eight years after signing the Fort Laramie treaty) had taken the sacred Black Hills when gold was discovered there and how the Lakota people had never accepted the money offered to them. They felt that you could not buy and sell the sacred. I spoke of how native individuals my age had been forcibly removed from their homes and sent to boarding schools where their hair was cut and their languages forbidden. This is not ancient history. I spoke of assimilation and the Melting Pot and how this has been used for cultural genocide.

They are leaning towards adopting Crazy Horse High School. One girl remarked that she would love to go to a school with that name. Then I knew I had the right kids.

Over this year, we will learn about the Lakota people and particularly Pine Ridge Reservation. The school newspaper will do a story on us which I will bring to the attention of our local press. We have a fundraiser request in to sell fry bread and chili which for me as cook will constitute a novena. We will send money. We will send blankets.

Most of all, we will send them the hearts of our children.

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They need those blankets and when the electric is back up, they really need the heaters. I have seen penny campaigns do great things from schools. A heater that will save a family hundreds of dollars the first winter it is used can be bought through One Spirit for fifty dollars.

One Spirit gets a huge discount from the maker and they deliver the heaters to the neediest families. Once the blizzard crisis is over, the heaters are very important.

They need some press right now. I am not much of a writer, but I am thinking I should write a letter to my newspaper asking for blankets for Pine Ridge.
I hope the Obama administration will be serious about the Native American issues and positions they provided on the Obama website. I gave money to One Spirit today and will try to do it again next month.
I sent money to One Spirit when the original post with the paintings went up and do a little more. It is shameful how the native americans are treated. Reparations is considered a "dirty" word, but we took land. Casinos are not enough.

Please write updates on the club's interactions with Crazy Horse High.

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Such an important piece, here. It saddens me to look around this fair land of ours and to realize what was once theirs, taken, brutally away, erasing much of the culture and origins of this country. Continued help and donations in this effort is essential.
My wife does a lot of work with tribes in the Tacoma area. This is a nation of people that never have gotten a fair shot in this country. We need to fix that. Great post.
Wonderful, needed work you are doing. Underreported with all our other problems. The photo is haunting.
Thank you. The generosity and expressed sentiments on Koakuma's post and mine are overwhelming.

LT, I will make sure to let you all know how my kids do with this project. They are a great group of kids!

I understand that the detailed position papers on Obama's site (including an extensive one on indigenous issues) have been deleted and will be replaced with his positions as he researches and brings his solutions to these issues. I expect everything.
Thank you, o'stephanie, for sharing this. I think sometimes it's easy to forget about our Native people. I spend so much time worrying about poverty issues in Chicago, that I neglect poverty issues in the rest of the country. I am going to make a contribution to One Spirit.
I just tried to donate through PayPal from reading Koakuma's post (before I saw yours) and something is messed up with their link in PayPal. I will send a check instead, though. Thank you (and Koakuma, too) for bringing this overlooked need to our attention.
Thank you for this post and for your work and generosity...
Yes, Lea, isn't her little scuffed up face beautiful? And her eyes...

Thanks, Lisa, for alerting us to the problem with Paypal on the One Spirit site. I emailed them and I think Koakuma is calling them so hopefully it will be fixed soon.

Thanks to everyone who sent a donation to these ones. Too numerous on my post and Koakuma's to list...

Thank your wife for me, Roger! Urban natives have just as hard a time off-reservation as on in many ways--not the least of which is being isolated from their communities.
Thank you so much for this post and for your dedication. Go forth, do good. That's our family motto. I will donate to One Spirit in your honor.
This so matters. Thank you, O'steph.

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You do such awesome work, Steph. The way to change a nation is to change the children first.

Thumbed.
This really needs to be on our cover!!!!!!!!!!
This gives me pause. I need to learn more.

A fine article., Steph.

dean
Lisa Kern, the first time today I tried to donate to One Spirit through PayPal, it didn't work either. The second time, it worked. I found that when the PayPal window opened, I had to enter a dollar amount before even logging on with my PayPal password. Maybe the link has been fixed?
Gracielou,
I thank you for your family motto. Sounds like a post in the making to me!

Buckeyedoc,
Thanks for letting us knwo that the PayPal link seems to be working now!

Bill s-
"The way to change a nation is to change the children first." Ilove that.You have a real way with words. (btw, tag you're it over at Koakuma's lamp site!)
Buckeyedoc - Thanks for the info. I'm going to try PayPal again. That whole "quantity" thing is so odd!

Can someone please put this story on the cover? The message needs to get out there!
Just had to read this again.
You have to remember, though, Steph - that cuts both ways (think back to the Hitler Youth; because children are so malleable they can easily be led astray as well). But, kids tend to be more accepting of things than we adults do - they don't let preconceived notions get in the way.

BTW, tag to you now. Shelley and Pinky are about to get into some serious trouble, I think. :-D
This is beautiful and heartwrenching - thank you for reporting on this, and please post updates when you have them.
Thanks, Procopius and Cathy and Amyfuji and, of course, my John Walker. Thanks for your supportive comments.

Bill, I agree with you and I am a very persuasive person in the flesh also. But, this is a lone voice--mine--and the kids have chosen this because they seek understanding of other cultures. Altho American Indian based, we investigate indigenous peoples everywhere and attract ethic kids but also international students. You do remind me that I should say it is my opinion. I have met so many adults who know nothing of these things also. So thanks.

(BTW, you're killin' me over at Koakuma's lamp post!)
BTW, you're killin' me over at Koakuma's lamp post!

Well, thanks. But let's see how you follow the latest installment. :-D
Bill,
Done!
Go see!
How well do you know your Tom Robbins ?
(thank you, Lisa Kern, for bringing him into the story!)
This is hard to read and see. Thank you for writing a wonderful piece and compelling all of us to do something other than feel terrible. Rated!
O'stephanie,

It is refreshing to know we still have Americans like you.
How well do you know your Tom Robbins ?

As well as Google allows. :-D

Thanks for the appropriate and timely finish. I really have to try and get some more work done now. :-D
Just an update: I was able to donate through PayPal. Buckeyedoc is right: you need to put the amount in before you log in, and oddly, you need to put it in the first box. The second box will show "1", which is odd, but the dollar amount x "1" will equal your intended donation.
Kudos...A story near and dear to my heart. The forgotten people in America.
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MaryT,
Thanks, girl . For someone Freaky calls sweet and all, I sure pick some hard to look at topics sometimes...

UK,
sounds like some stories in there with your experiences at living close.

Siobhan,
Thanks, I will post later on how the kids do.

Thoth,
Thanks. I realize with your comment that I am not used to be called an American or feeling particularly patriotic. It was owned by others and now--its mine and yours. Just like the flag.
cool...
COME ON OS EDITORS:
We've had something like three stories about dog's that Obama doesn't even have, surely we can find room for something like this.
Not that I have anything against dogs.
all in all I'm in favor of dogs.
John, far be it from me to "judge" but I'm with you on that. I've seen some pretty incredible posts fall to the way side the past few days. Native-Americans are the most discriminated against group in American History. We need to honor that.
IMHO
Greg
John, I am in favor of dogs also. Got my little weiner dog myself.

I am so happy to be here at OS with the privilege to participate in OS in all its many facets, faces and fancies. I am content with my readership and enjoy others' writing. I remember chasing people with my stuff pre-OS. They would read it then say, "That's nice." and hand it back. Not here. Someone commented that they liked it when I posted about what I see about the kids. So here it is and I have appreciated everyone for dropping by. I will update while preserving privacy.

And thank you, Greg, for your comment. I have never been an editor so cannot know the many factors that weigh. I am happy as it is my highest rated posts to date after about three months here.

I'm happy to be here.
When it comes down to it, we are ALL from the same clan. I can't help with money but I can write letters to the editors and blogs.. emails.

Thanks for the post, Mrs. Stephanie.
If anyone is interested in lobbying for native rights, Friends National Committee on Legislation (FCNL) has a division dedicated to this, which you can check out here:

http://fcnl.org/nativeam/

On a bar to the right, you can sign up for native rights updates, which allow you to lobby congress on pertinent issues.

Great post. Paws up.
Thanks, Dogwoman, for the link. I certainly will check it out! Thanks for thinking of this. (My alert thingie does not work so occasionally i have to cruise through my posts for later comments--which are always appreciated!)

Koakuma has been absent for a bit but, before, he indicated to me that One Spirit had been able to raise over $2,000 which is wonderful.

My kids did indeed settle on Crazy Horse school. We need to run our fundraiser (fry bread tacos) through the new nutrician committee at school first. Should be a terrific year!
Hello, I just found your most touching post about the Lakota children. I am in the process of preparing a brochure for my cousin's project where she is encouraging people to make no-sew fringe fleece blankets to send to the Pine Ridge Reservation. She has already gotten a tremendous response from family and friends. She has talked to the director of the Friends of Pine Ridge organization and she was most helpful in her suggestions. The reason I am writing you is I wonder if you would mind if I used the image of the little child you have at the top of this post on my brochure. I would appreciate it so much and would treat it with the utmost respect. Thank you,
Judith Richards Shubert