“Ultimately…women must be involved in the peace process not only because they suffer disproportionately, or because they have previously been excluded, but because their contribution to the world is invaluable.” –Felicity Hall and Mikele Aboitiz, Women for Afghan Women.
The United State’s misadventure into Afghanistan has been described as a “feminist mission”, typifying the Afghan women as passive damsels in distress and the United States as a knight errant. Nothing could be further from the truth both in the rescue scenario of the Bush administration and in the perceived helplessness of the women themselves.
When the Taliban seized power, the Afghan women did what women caught in war have always done—take care of the children and their communities. With the support of their Afghan men, these brave women went underground, providing schools for all children in their own homes at great personal risk, helping the war traumatized and the displaced. Further, these women prepared themselves for public life so that, when the loya jirga convened, they were able to press for language in the Afghan constitution enshrining women’s rights as human rights and claim more parliamentary seats than any Western nation. How did this remarkable transformation from powerlessness to ascendency occur? More importantly, how did this grand effort fail?
Globally, women’s potentially phenomenal agency for peace and reconstruction is recognized on the highest level with the adoption of Security Council Resolution 1325 on Women, Peace and Security (October 31, 2000) which reaffirms “the important role of women in the prevention and resolution of conflicts and peace-building, and stressing the importance of their equal participation and full involvement in all efforts for the maintenance and promotion of peace and security, and the need to increase their role in decision-making with regard to conflict prevention and resolution.” International organizations (The European Women’s Lobby, Equality Now, V-Day, The Center for Strategic Initiatives of Women, The Feminist Majority, the Secretary-General’s Gender Advisor, and UNIFEM) supported and empowered the Afghan women to build their own capacity to press for change. Driven by the recognition that the immediate post-conflict period represented a window of opportunity to remake the torn fabric of society into something new and grand, gender mainstreaming was posited as the best method to accomplish peace and reconstruction.
Not well known is the fact that when the United States invaded Afghanistan, only Kabul was occupied by a mere 5,000 troops under NATO. The vast majority of the country, where 85 percent of the Afghan women live, was controlled by the warlords who received handsome monthly stipends from the United States to retain their draconian hold on the country. These warlords were well known to military and diplomatic United States’ organizations from our past involvement in the Afghan/Soviet Union war, and it was natural to reestablish a relationship with these fellow warriors. What this meant to the Afghan populace is demonstrated by the July 2003 Human Rights Watch report, “Killing You is a Very Easy Thing for Us”, which described in chilling detail a continuation of the Taliban’s ideal of the most draconian interpretation of Shari’a law. Lacking basic security, Afghan women still pressed their case for peace in the face of death threats and assassinations.
When the loya jirga convened, delegate Malalai Joya (who has rightfully been called the bravest woman in Afghanistan) courageously stood to denounce the inclusion of the warlords in the assembly, blaming them for the continuing violence and disruption of society. Under shouted death threats, Joya was taken under the safekeeping of the United Nations. Joya has not been silenced evidenced by her suspension from the Afghanistan parliament in 2007 on the grounds that she had insulted fellow representatives in a television interview.
Sima Wali, the outspoken Director of the Refugee Women in Development (RefWID) organization, described being “singled out” by extremists and targeted for her advocacy of women’s right to be included in the redevelopment of their country. Wali called for increased security, identifying it as the “precursor to reconstruction”, further stating that “women need to feel safe and secure to participate in the political process, [for] young girls to go to school, and [for] the Ministry of Women’s Affairs [to effect] building and staffing of the women’s centers in the provinces.” Security was never effected despite a joint Department of Army and Center for Strategic Studies Afghanistan reconstruction plan which identified security as the number one priority for success. The withdrawal of resources from the Afghanistan theater to the Iraqi theater placed security in the hands of the warlords and out of reach for the Afghan people.
Despite international calls for the inclusion of women, little was done to accomplish the participation of Afghan women. Reconstruction money flowed in well-rutted male channels. NATO’s only nod to the SC 1325 call to “…take into account gender considerations and the rights of women, including through consultation with local and international women’s groups” was to establish a two-person office which dealt only with women in service to NATO, not those Afghan women who should be served.
Dr. Sima Samar, President of the Afghan Human Rights Commission and the former minister of the Afghanistan Women’s Affairs, wrote a letter to the United States State Department requesting that the United States ratify the 1979 United Nations international Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination Against Women (CEDAW). The CEDAW is one of the most widely embraced of all international treaties with more than 90 percent of member states participating. The United States is the only developed nation that has signed but not ratified this treaty, placing the United States in the company of Somalia. In her request, Samar wrote: “I cannot overstate to you how important it will be for me and other Afghan women if you do take this step. We will then be able to tell our countrymen that the United States, where women already have full legal rights, has just seen the need to ratify this treaty. This treaty will then truly be the international measure of the rights that any country should guarantee to its women.” This request was met with silence.
Explicit in the United States’ reasons for invading Afghanistan was the rescue of the Afghan women from the cruelest form of extremists’ misrepresentation of Shari’a law. This promise remains unfulfilled. When women like Malalai Joya, Sima Wali, and Sima Samar continue to lay their lives on the line, how can we turn away?

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on the same general topic, there's a really good book that i recommend to anyone reading this. it's called The Punishment Of Virtue, and it's by an ex-NPR journalist whose name I can't recall. she went over there to cover the U.S. anti-Taliban campaign after 9/11 and has basically never left the country since. i believe she's still in kandahar right now, living in the poorer neighborhoods and doing what good she can there. she's probably one of the bravest people i've ever heard of.
MaryT,
I am humbled by these women. Can you imagine what the world would look like if they were allowed into the public sphere in a real way?
The quotes from Sima Wali are from email correspondence with me. I was actually afraid to google these women for fear that they were long since killed by extremists. Thank god, they are still alive and still fighting the good fight. They so much deserve support.
Thank for for your illuminating, and vitally needed article. We can only hope that scores of voices will be added those of yours and Joanne Jacobs.
Patriarchal societies empowered by religious bigotry and extremist zeal are very much foundational to the plight of women that you’ve described.
I often remind my daughter that her gender did not receive the vote until 1920 in our own country.
Thank you so much for the needed reminder that none of us - male or female - should ever willingly turn a blind eye or a deaf ear to desperate struggles of these you’ve remembered here.
Thanks for telling me about Sarah Chaye's book. It is amazing to me when people undergo such transformations and throw their lives into the service of others with passion and love. Often, they can work miracles.
I hope right along with you. Afghanistan is such a difficult nation--really a collection of separate sheikdoms run by these warlords who love living in war. If Bush et al. had taken good advice when they went in, the outcome might have been different from what we see now. Bush did not believe in planning. It wa such a grave error to transfer to Iraq.
UK,
Moms fighting for their kids. What could be stronger?
Paris,
I wish they could be destroyed too but feel that we will always have them with us. The trick is to get them out of power.
Yes, the Arab world will never be able to develop well unless it lets the other (better) half into public life. Women have so much to gain from peace and so much to lose in war.
Dennis,
I love getting your comments which are so much like wonderful formal letters.
Joanne Jacobs has written some wonderful posts on this topic so I was finally prompted to add my voice to hers. Have a bad cold so just wanted to plug in a movie.
Let us hope that Obama can retrieve some of this. It is so very late in the game.
Michael,
Yes, it is depressing that I did not need to update a thing. In the original 10,000 word article I am very critical of Bush and was asked to soften my words. I declined and they published it anyway.
Kudos to you for being strong and standing up to be heard.
Impressive women. Like the women who stood up and demanded equal rights here in America, but risk having acid thrown in their faces.
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Excellent piece, Stephanie.
Thanks, I really appreciate your compliment.
Believe it or not, there was an entire plan presented to Bush which laid out how to do reconstruction well. There is a termendous amount of best practices and experiences through the UN, so anyone with a brain can know these things. The Bush crew did not believe in planning and preferred to make their own decisions. They wasted so much of our money, shoveling it into their cronies pockets while these women were ignored.
Intelligence, I am hoping, will make a difference and present new solutions.
Keep writing. We all must keep pushing the envelope.
I agree that it has not mattered which party was in over the past 50 years (with the exception of Carter, if he had not been so weak).
However, I do hope you get surprised.
Afghan women are some of the most beautiful on the planet. I hope more can live sans burkas in our lifetimes.
Auwe
Yes, it brings back the horror of the emergence of the taliban. I was heartened by how the international organizations came to the women's aid. They forced nothing on the Afghan women--as if they could! Strong women!--but there was some friction because Western feminism has other issues than they do, and the Afghan women wanted them to know that they were able to fight oprecisely because of their men. Not all Arab/Islamic men are women-haters.
They are gorgeous. I remember one of my Saudi students who had the most glorious hair I have ever seen...soon to be covere. But then in this climate, it is their armor.
(BTW, Must say I have loved adding you as a friend. Your avatar really dressed up my page! Also reminds me to get back over and read your post on our HA president!)
Charlie,
It is well estabished that the inclusion of women is vital for peace and reconstruction. My next post.
I do remember those executions. We built teh stadium for them, for soccer, sublimating war, I suppose. When we complained, they said then we should have built two--one for sports, one for executions. And they were serious. Nuts.
I've recently made the acquaintance of a human geographer in the analog world, and my belief is this planet needs more of you!
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Human geography has served me well as a perspective. It is reality based and covers just about everything--politics, ecnomics, religion, society, etc. Have been planning to post on it... I am about 5 posts behind in what I want to do.
Thanks for coming by again, Oahu.
A famous quote in the struggle against Apartheid in South Africa is "strike a woman and you strike a rock".
Often the 'elders' in Afghanistan have very little knowledge of Islam and thus carry out their draconian ambitions in the name of Islam in order to legitimise what they are doing which actually has nothing to do with Islam.
Currently the Warlords who rule much of Afghanistan were installed by Bush and his cronies when they invaded Aghanistan to remove the Taliban. I have heard stories where women in Afghanistan have drowned themselves as an escape when they heard that a certain Warlord's unit was approaching their town knowing well that they would be brutally raped like so many before them. And this after 'liberation'! These same ruthless Warlords are being funded and armed by the United States as part of the War on Terror and on the Taliban with Hamid Karzai as the mascot president of a 'liberated' Afghanistan. In my opinion, the US led 'liberation' of Afghanistan merely put this unfortunate people from the frying pan into the fire....Then again it was never about liberation, women's rights or for that matter the war on Terrorism, the invasion was due to the United States securing Afghanistan to hopefully pipe oil/gas from Central Asia to the Indian ocean via Pakistan. The Taliban was once an ally of the United States until they decided to award the pipe-line project to a South American company instead. Few know that the installed President of Afghanistan, Hamid Karzai, was one an employee of Unocal, the same company that was originally in bed with the taliban to pie the Oil. Convenient is it not? These 'libearation' wars are not about liberating people, but about liberating oil and gas.....
And did you know that prior to September 11, the American government flew a Taliban delegation to the USA to sight see the States.....
Thank you, Bearded One, for this wonderful quote. These women are rocks, indeed. Globally, women and their children have suffered inordinately from war with no say at all. The only thing left for them is to stand even though they court death to do so.
Yes, those who have read about the Taliban are aware of the warm and cordial relationship they have with the US military. Fellow warriors.
Women are the answer.
Women are used, as per usual. Globally, women are "acted upon" from being an excuse for war to rape as a weapon of war to an obsession about what they are wearing (my particular flashpoint); but they never are "allowed" to be actors in their own right.
This must change if the world is to change.