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JULY 3, 2009 4:59PM

Baby Bird in my Bra (with peek inside)

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safe and snug

 

Daughter brought me a nestling that had fallen 35 feet from its nest to the horse arena. Impossible to return to the nest, these nestlings usually keep the barn cats fat. Except for this one.  Judging by the mother that dive bombed the rescuer, it is a starling.  And, judging by the sparse feathers, it is less than two weeks old which is excellent because they imprint between one and two weeks of age.

 

Note Einstein-like side wisps on head 

 

I’ve found that an old sports bra makes a great first foster nest and allows me to go about my business on the 15 minute feeding schedule that baby birds demand.  In only a few days, however, it outgrew my bra and then it went into a ventilated box with a good lid to keep it from my jealous dachshund and Daughter’s cats.

The white stuff is the covering from her new feathers

 

Because of the feeding schedule, I took my nestling to school. The professors were very accommodating. In fact, the professor for my Life Span and Family Issues class was charmed (herself a bird person) and used my little bird as an example of developing trust. (The nestling would peep whenever it heard my voice in class.)

Are you my mother?
 

 An insectivore, it eats dampened dry high protein cat food mixed with a little applesauce and hard boiled egg which I feed to it with tweezers (my makeshift beak).  A fledgling now, it has the run of my bedroom and is learning to fly. It roosts at night on my open closet door and, at first light, flies down to greet me for the day to my delight. It will pry with its beak into my hair to see if I am hiding any yummy bugs.  It snuggles under my chin and generally makes me happy.

 

She feels safe here
 

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Thanks, JK.
This is never easy. It is imprionted on me now. Lots of accommodations to make as I do like them to fly free. Wish me luck on weaning.
Was that "the breast of the story"? :-D
You're such a sweet hearted person.
Rated
Kind,
You made me snort my corn chip...
oh, very sweet! What a good mom you are, even if you don't have a beak and feathers....
Thanks, Silkstone,
My wispy hair seems to be accepted in lieu of feathers. It is beginning to pry my mouth open now because it has noticed me eating stuff. Baby birds are intense.
AND look at all the baby bird ads! Who'da thought?
I'm in awe that you got him/her to live. Very very cool Stephanie!
Thanks, Hy!
Starlings are very successful at evolution. Made of strong stuff. Read a paper where starlings put aromatic herbs (yarrow, queen anns lace) in their nests to up their babies' immune system.
Steph, This is just too cool! Baby birds that end up on the ground don't usually last very long. Glad your daughter was on her toes. This is awesome. You will do updates, won't you?
Oh How adorable.. It is so cute.. Thanks for sharing the little guy with us. Good luck with raising it.
Hi Michael,
Yes, I will update. Want to get some pictures of bathing but it is an active process--throws water out at least six feet.
Yeah, its kinda cute. Feathers feel so nice up against my neck.
hyblaean- Julie was kind enough to alert us to this post. We’re so grateful you and the nestling found each other, Stephanie! If you haven’t already found it, Starling Talk is a wonderful reference for all things starling. Your fledgling looks just a day or two older than ours were when we found them over three years ago. Franny and Zooey have been members of our family ever since. If you ever have any questions about starling parenting, please feel free to PM us. We’ve learned quite a lot in these years and have a bird rescue expert friend who can answer any questions we can’t.

Thanks for lovingly welcoming this dear creature into your life!

( m&m )
Stephanie, a very heart warming story and I'm glad to see that little friend is doing so well. In the past I have taken care of some orphaned kittens who would love to invite your friend over for lunch, but that is one OS get together that would be better not to have, I would say. Have a Happy 4th!
I'd be terrified trying to save it. Too gentle? Too rough? Enough food? Too much? More warmth or less?

I know that's normal for mothers to feel about baby people, but your chick is not a mammal. I'm not very good with non-mammals. It's devastating to try so hard and then lose them. I'm impressed.

Lovely story.
Fireyes!
Thanks for coming for a peak at my newest baby.
M&M,

How nice to have starlingites right here on OS! I have indeed found starlingtalk and am learning quite a lot. I've taken the course in rehabing and have done it for awhile but always learn alot from the birds themselves.
I first became interested when I read Arnie the Darling Starling and have always wanted one of these smart little critters.
I had an English Sparrow named Percy for awhile and I loved her so much. She would nest in the hollow of my elbow when I typed.
So cool!
Awww! We watched four baby robins grow up in our lilac bush outside the kitchen window. Fortunately, my son didn't knock them out when he was roughly pruning the tree (right before we discovered them). They jumped out behind our backs and we saw only one at a time after that, hopping around the yard. Kind of dicey 'cause we have cats!
I am glad there are people in the world who can do things like that.
Designator,
Thanks for the good wishes! You have a happy fourth as well! Yes, with my daughter's three cats, it might not seem like the best place. However, they are outdoors all the time now. The doxie is pretty good with all other animals but am not trusting her yet.
Leslie,
You are so right. A lot depends upon thier age. My sparrow was very young but managed to pull through. This one was almost 2 weeks. One other one Daughter brought home did not last the day.

Lainey,
Lucky! The vulnerable period is when the babies fledge. They land all over the place and too innocent for their own good. Many times when folks say they have been close to a wild bird it is because they are juveniles who don't know better!
Thank you, Harp. I am glad to be one of them. I've been promised that I will be a wild bird in my next life.
First - I knew this was yours, just from the title. Second, why are you wearing a top much less a sports bra?

Really cool, Steph.
this world of dew
is yes, a world of dew
and yet ...

- by Issa Kobayashi.
`
Sorrow:`On this earth, feelings beyond words- the saga of personal tragedy, and I share this haiku that was written after 'his' one month year old daughter died of smallpox. There were five others of his children who died.
Two wives died.
His house burnt.

Grief in our lives,
human condition,
all broken hearts,
transient as dew,
"and yet....," yes,
something deep
within us ... in
human's spirit
imperceptibly
wills to shout
or whispers,
"and yet ..."
There is actually baby bird "formula" that you can buy at good pet stores. Lots of bird fanciers hand raise the babies so that they will make better pets. I think it is lovely that you are hand raising the little fledgling, but in your bra? What about all the bird poop?
really sweet piece O'Steph!
We read Arnie the Darling Starling a couple of years after F&Z came into our lives. Arnie’s antics were hilariously familiar, and that book is an absolute delight. It was also fascinating seeing how different certain behaviors were—like how silent he was for so long, while Franny and Zooey started singing away with joyful abandon pretty early on. I wonder if having a sibling bird around makes a difference in how vocal they are.

Percy sounds like a darling, too. What a sweet image that is!

BTW, have you decided what to name your starling? Franny and Zooey were wondering :-)

( m&m )
You are so brave and generous. Totally impressed. Hero status.
Julie,
hahaha You know me! I actually took one of my baby birds in my sports bra to one of my nudist gatherings. It was all I wore and I walked around to everyone and pulled my top out and said, "Wanna see what I got?" We have an odd sense of humor.

Ablonde,
I actually have more room in my bra, I believe, than you may. I usually lay down a cloth as a "diaper". Because starlings are insectivores, they need a lot of protein and the cat food is actually the best thing.

Tim4Change,
Thanks for dropping by, my friend, and enjoying.

Stella,
I always treasure compliments from you as I know you really mean them. Thanks so much for being a friend.
Arthur James,
I have loved that Haiku by Issa for years. I have rarely read a better commentary on a Haiku than yours. Quite lovely and evanescent as the poem with many levels of meaning.
Thank you so much--it was a gift.
M&M,
Am still thinking about the name. All the other animals have names beginning with W--just started that way by chance and have continued it. Thought of Widget but then it is too close to Wiggers, the dog's nickname which would not set well at all.
I love the Salinger names! How long have you had them? I will go over to your site and see if you have blogged about them.
How cool is this! Hey o'steph... sounds like you're doing great. Just wanted to stop by and say hi, let you know it's frisbee season.

:^)
This should make for an interesting growing experience for both of you... It's as if both of you fell outa the same tree. :) Good job, saving the little one from certain death. Oughta be interesting when it's time for him to fledge. Keep us informed, please, and blessings from another bird person.
Oh, Lonbud... and how cool is that!? Is it gonna be a hot season? loveitloveitloveit
Thank you, dynomyte! I will update on his/her progress as we grow together.
Very cool. I've taken care of a couple of little guys like that. Feeding time is always fun.
Looking forward to hearing about little W—’s christening and future adventures :-)

“I love the Salinger names! How long have you had them?”

It’s been a little over three years now—every moment fascinating and delightful (except for the anxiety-inducing episodes, which all turned out happily, thank God).

“I will go over to your site and see if you have blogged about them.”

We’ve talked a bit about them at metaness (most recently the post before last), but I (Melissa) am actually hoping to start a separate blog in the next week or so specifically devoted to the running journal I’ve been keeping about them. We are in some disagreement about the title of the blog, so that’s the main holdup at this point :-) We’ll let you know once it’s up.

( m&m )
Good for you, Steph. That little bird got lucky when he found you and your daughter.
nice to see that old bra get put to such good use.
Hi Mishima!
Yes, I would have thought you had a baby bird or two in your past. Feeding is cool. My last bird (jay) taught me that food = love.

Hey Natalie!
Thanks, my friend. I am lucky this year--have always wanted a starling.

Melissa,
I look forward to your log about F & Z!
Cap'n,
You made me laugh right out loud! It is an oldy for sure. For many years now, I have only worn them to keep my birds in.
hahahaha
So sweet! Love the pictures.
haven't seen you in the feed for such a long time, glad you're back

now you know you have to post regular updates about this chick, right?
Noisy Nora,
Glad you like!

Brie,
It's the little wispy feathers on her head. Super cute.

Roy,
Thanks for being glad. I have decided to be in more as it keeps me sane and much happier.
I will postagain on this little bit of feathers. She is all over my bedroom, checking into everything. (I have hidden my jewelry. The jay was a great thief.)
Oh, what a sweet baby. So cool that he thinks you're his mommy! A far better fate for him than being nommed by barn cats. Or maybe it's a she? Goodness, how do you tell?

I once read a book called "Arnie the Darling Starling", about just this very situation. It had lots of good advice for raising that particular kind of bird. Very old book - don't know if it's still available.
What patience and kindness you have. I am so glad that this little starling landed in just the right place!
What a sweet grumpy face he has! I admire your patience in caring for him. I hand fed a baby bird once and it was quite an unnerving activity. My favorite part was how the bird would chirp when it heard your voice in class.

One question: if the adult starling was attempting to attack the rescuer, would she have taken the baby back, or are the babies neglected once they fall from the nest?

Keep up the good work, foster bird mommy!
Beautiful. We had one of these little guys on our deck this morning. Didn't quite have the flying part down yet. The mom kept bringing it food. We were wishing for a camera. Thanks for having one!
This is so sweet I can almost not stand it! Steph, the bonding is such a great thing a large waist pocket would work as he/she gets bigger....
Loved this -the pictures were fun. I will not make any inappropriate comments on the bra and hope you appreciate the effort.
And I thought I was the only one who hid yummy bugs in my hair.
I've had such baby bird sorrow. It's wonderful to see a success.
That is the sweetest thing I have ever heard! I found several baby birds as a youngster and they never lived. You are amazing! His little face is SO cute!!
oh man!! so jealous!!! that is really awesome, o'.
Hello UK!
SO nice to see so many of my friends here today.
I do remember that book and date my wanting a starling to that.

Mamoore,
Yeah, lucky bird. Lucky me.

Hi Lisa
I can just see you helping a little bird.Its always better to put it in the nest if you can. This nest was 35 feet up.
The parents will take it back regardless. When they are learning to fly is the critical time. If you find one that is feathered out and on the ground, try to put it up in a tree. Parents can find it there.

Chicago!
Thanks for coming by to see my bird.
Ablonde,
That's a good one! Blue footed, perhaps?

Kathy,
Glad to see you!
Dr. Spudman,
I DO appreciate the effort. If it gets to be too much, you can sneak back later and add it, okay?

Kim,
Yes, often these stories don't work out.

Eric,
A perfect phrase from the perfect blogger for it! And you made me laugh out loud.

MB,
It is a "sweet grumpy face" as Lisa Kern said. That downturned mouth spurs you to hurry up and get some more food. Its beak and throat were bright yellow and now she only has a little yellow on the sides of her beak. (The yellow makes a great target for the parent.)

Jane,
Yeah, I'm likin' it.
I wish I'd had your expertise a dozen years back when we found a baby bird in our yard. It was covered with ants, but still alive. We tried to feed it, tried to get some advice from people who might know, to no avail. The poor baby died and the kids were inconsolable for at least a day or two--it made for a sad start to their summer vacation. (This was before I had a computer; maybe advice for such matters is more easily found now, but at the time, we felt completely helpless.)
Cindy,
So sads about your long ago bird. They are so vulnerable. Just today, I was feeling appreciative of the internet for looking things up.
Sometimes, for kids, it is the summer we learn about death. We had some rabbits one summer...
that is the crankiest looking and cutest bird i've ever seen. fledgling, i mean. what a lovely thing to do and what a sweetheart of a daughter to bring the baby back to you. i can see why General Brady is jealousing since she's a major bird gal herself. you must have a milder dachshund than i do. kudoes, love! love lvoe love and gratitude
That is so frickin' amazing! I love starlings, and I love that this starling loves you. Rated, enthusiastically.
How wonderful. Just wonderful.
What a nice human bird mom you are! Very cool.
Aw! I'm jealous! I would LOVE to have my very own baby bird. What a cool experience. :)
Such an interesting post!
How wonderful! That's one lucky darling little starling. And such an expressive one, too. The 2nd and 4th pictures are priceless. I'm very much looking forward to updates!
Hi Teddy,
My doxie is pretty mild but, I keep her away cause she is very jealous. She usually keeps mommy's rules so understands that "do not kill the bird" is one of them!

Shaggylocks,
I love that you love starlings. Not many do. Gotta admire a successful creature.

Owl,
My bird friend!

Roger, J lynne, Jon, Scupper and Athome pilgrim--I so thank you for leaving your comments.

Woke up this am to find that my little bird is at the top rated which really touches my heart. To care about the least of Mother Earth's creatures says a lot about the quality of the folks here.
AND, after my long absence when I thought that everyone must have forgotten me, it warms my heart clear through to have so many old and new friends drop by.
I just love all of you, OSers.
What a bird story! Oh, and you're quite a bird yourself, O's.
My grandmother was a very short, pleasantly plump Mexican immigrant with heavily bowed legs. She had a bad hip that caused her to limp for many years.

She rescued a wren, and while she had it the bird was never far away. She set it free, but it stayed outside the house. One of my favorite memories is watching her limp up the street with that little bird hopping along behind her. It flew away one day, and she missed it terribly. Thanks for bringing that memory back, and enjoy the birdie!
Double aw. So sweet, so kind, so Steph.
This is so amazing. You're a great bird mommy!
Hey, Token!
Guess I am...at least, in my next life!

hrndmwmn,
What a lovely reminescence of your mother. BIrds are really so loving and loyal. What a beautiful image you have painted.

Hello, Lea!
Yeah...Hard to hide myself around here!

Hi Coyote!
So good to see all my friends!
Very cute, Steph! I had a chick die in my bra once and cried my eyes out.
Oh, Cherie! How sad but, you know, you gave it the best thing you could--an opportunity to die safe from predators.
Good to know that there is another woman who "bras" her birds...!
I'm so impressed. All that thinking about bird, bird, bird.
oh my god, I resist saying, "awwwwww....." to animal stories, but I simply can't stop myself on this one.

"It will pry with its beak into my hair to see if I am hiding any yummy bugs."

I'll giggle just a little bit whenever this crosses my mind today.

Rrrrrrrated!
Super Freaky Troll Supermodel,
Yeah, you could say I am birdbrained!

BeeTones,
Thanks for buzzing my way!
This reminds me of a video I found on AOL this morning about a woman who stashed a baby squirrel in her cleavage:

http://news.aol.com/article/squirrel-in-cleavage/555485
What a very charming story, with wonderful pictures. What happens from here, do you know? Does the starling fly away once it learns how to do so? Or do they remain as pets?
Travis,
How interesting. Some true things are stranger than fiction...

Monsieur,
Metaness have two that they have had for three years as pets. These birds, like English sparrows and Pigeons, are not protected under the wild bird act. If she is happy, if she considers me her mother and if she thrives, she can stay. She will certainly have the run of the house once she is a better flier and will shall see about the yard.
Adorable! I love the attitude on your little bird's face. Starlings are supposed to be very intelligent. Thanks for sharing.
Hi Scruffus!
Yeah, I love the birds with attitude. Jays, sparrows, starlings--they all have attitude.
simply beautiful through and through steph...as clear a window to someone's soul as I've seen in a while. Thanks.
You are such an awesome mommy, Steph. It was absolutely smile-inducing to see a post from you.

*Snoopy dance* Stephanie's BACK!!!!!
Both my bird guys!!
Thanks, bbd, for the kind comment. Must admit, this is me through and through.

Bill S,
Love that snoopy dance and the big Bill grin!
Absolutely delightful. And great pics!
Oh this is incredible O'

It's amazing how birds acclimate to human parents, isn't it?

My daughter found a sparrow in an identical situation, about the same age. We 'rescued" it, fed it a mushy kind of meal we got at the pet shop. No one was home during the days, so I would put it in a box and take it to work with me. Several times per day, I would shut the office door, let it out of the box and feed it, eventually leading to live meal worms.

After a few weeks, that little bird would fly around my office, landing on my desk, begging for meal worms. I had many people look at me with a rather odd look on their faces when they would see this going on, but hell with'em.

We kept the liitle guy/girl, feeding it, letting it fly around the house until we thought it's wngs were strong enough to fly. I built a birdhouse for it, put it in the birdhouse and hung it up on the porch cover. In a few minutes it shot out like a bullet. We never saw "Bayou Bonnie" again, but it was a great feeling to do that.
Steve,
Thanks for coming by.

Boomer Bob,
What a great story. Sounds like you made the perfect bird mother--to hell with everyone else! People tend to look askance, I think, because of the bird poop factor. At least, it's small poop.
Good for you!
This is cool! What kind of bird?
Oh Rich...it is a starling...
I just love his/her expression
Marcelle,
I have the same problem with the gender thing. (I may be able to tell when she/he is 6 months.) I resist calling Starlin' an "IT" as I feel she is very much her own creature as I am. Have decided upon her for now...
Update--she has gone from grumpy to pretty damn mad!
Wonderful post, wonderful act, wonderful pictures, O'Steph! And a wondrously large number of baby bird lovers. Wishing you further joy of her. Love those cheeky starlings.
Great story and pictures. BTW, I like the Katchina doll in the background.
O'Steph, what a fantastic story. And the pictures! OMG, the little one's face is just precious. What a lucky bird to have found you. :)

I am currently enjoying watching our male house sparrows feed their fledglings seeds from the feeder. It's amazing, I've never seen it before. Haven't gotten a picture yet but I'm pretty determined.... :)

Had a new birdie tonight--Black-headed Grosbeak, the first one I've seen here. Having feeders makes such a huge difference.

As for starlings--I love them, they're such characters. Feisty little buggers.

Maybe Winni? Short for Winifred? It means "Friend of Peace."

Good luck to you and the baby. :)
O.K.!

Noahvose,
Was wondering if anyone would ever notice my katchina doll in te background. I really prize him. A gift to me, he is the only doll related to sun; apparently, most have to do with rain. Sunface.

Merwoman,
Did expect my fellow bird lover!
She/he is a cute little guy. Winne sounds very good. Am trying out "Starlin" right now.
gives new meaning to birdmomma. seriously, Iearned stuff here. I love the photos. I love the story. How is the bird doing?
Yes, that is my boob on the cover! (Talk about a double take.)

Have been thinking that I should post a guide of what to do (mostly, get thee to a wildlife rehab center).

LuluandPhoebe,
Hi girl. Starlin is doing better now but did have a mishap. Need to update soon on the little rascal.

livemonster,
so agree with you. Our love with creatures can be so uncomplicated and restful.
Great story! But I couldn't help but wonder how I would react if you were seated or bending over and I took a look down your top and saw a bird coming out of your bra!

In one sense, you are infriging upon sacred turf. But in this case, I certainly understand. :)
Starlings are GREAT! We had one named "Curly" for many years and miss him still. There's a fun book - Arnie the darling starling - you might enjoy. You can also buy Mynah bird food for it - they're in the same family. We're currently rearing a sparrow named Smidge (short for smidgeon) - not the most melodious singer, but she sure is good company. The sparrows have many nests in our barn and every summer several kids fall out. Am looking forward to more photos as your kid grows!
oh that is too cute. i never had much luck with the little guys but we never had websites to go to when we were kids! you're doing a great thing sharing your tips and resources like this.
What a marvelous post. I am enchanted.
You and M&M are great publicists for starlings! Now I want one, too.
“I look forward to your log about F & Z!”

As promised! Just went up today.

Love the new avatar. Absolutely hilarious. And congrats on a well-deserved EP, as well!

Happy imprinting,

—Melissa (of metaness)
This is just wonderful. Glad you provided a proper foster home. It will be interesting if it stays around long enough to learn to talk people talk. Please keep us updated. We are hooked now!

Monte
London,
There are odder things in bras (see Travis' comment above).

Sioban,
So good to see you again!

Blue Surly,
I envy you your sparrow. Such lovely sprightly little scamps. Smidge is a great name!
bstrangely,
They are pretty tiny. At least this one had some feathers. I have saved one sparrow who was under one week but that is rare.

EmmaPeel,
Happy to enchant!

Monte and Hawley,
Yes, M&M (now the Yellow Starlings) and I may be starting a starling fad!
The book--Arnie the Darling Starling--is quite cute and has been mentioned up above. Alas, she lost Arnie due to not having any stiptic powder around. They only have about a teaspoon of blood in all.
Hello Melissa of Yellow Starlings!
Going over to have a peek!
Hey Steph, I read your update about the little bird and then returned to get the beginning of your story - this post. It is truly remarkable, as are you. Very few folks on earth care this much. I will remember this post for a long, long time. Thank-you.