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DECEMBER 1, 2010 1:34PM

No Fear in Corvallis Last Night

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Flowers wet with rain, left at the door of the Salman al-Farisi Islamc Center  

There was no fear last night at the Corvallis Salman al-Farisi Islamic center.

A drenching November rain fell as hundreds of townspeople sheltered their candles against the wind, standing with our Muslim neighbors as we took back the Mosque from those who had tried to destroy this sacred place.

The mayor and four religious leaders addressed the hundreds of people who huddled under umbrellas and raincoats.

The mayor told us of how the Imam had been nominated as Man of the Year for his service to the community and had declined this honor because his religion taught that a person should be humble and not aggrandize himself. He spoke of how Corvallis was a family and--like a family—how we shared the sorrow of our Muslim neighbors.

The Christian pastor praised the Imam as a holy man who—in the face of this attack-- had continued to rejoice that no one had been hurt in the fire. He told us of how one of the Imam's sons had been there at that Pioneer Square Christmas Tree lighting. Had the bomb been real, this young man would have been one more American among many lost to terrorism.

The Rabbi spoke of how this dark evening was the night before Hanukkah and how our Muslim brothers and sisters had been "dealt a blow of darkness". He said that he was looking at the response to that darkness in the festival of lights of all our candles. He also told us that in those years when Hanukkah had coincided with Ramadan, the Corvallis Jewish and Muslim communities had celebrated together. The prayer was that Jews and Muslims all over the world could one day sit down together in simple celebration of brotherhood as they had done.

The Quaker minister taught the crowd a simple song "I want to be your friend", written by a Quaker man named Hamid from the Philippines who was working with youth in Afghanistan.

The Imam denounced all forms of extremism and terrorism, telling us that they had already forgiven the one or ones who had done this--not out of weakness but because there was no place for prejudice here towards anyone.

"We are sending a clear message to the whole world, to learn from this small city and the big people here. The lesson they should know is that people of different races, genders and nationalities are tonight here side-by-side, supporting each other and caring for each other and loving each other.

If we can do this in a small city, then it can be done anywhere in the world. The Muslim community--never they will forget it! We are lucky to be in this city. Thank you very much. God bless you all."

The rain lifted as we moved to circle the Mosque with our candles to surround it with light. We stood for five minutes with our private prayers and tears, reclaiming this house of worship.

Neighbors enjoying the children after the candlelight vigil 

Afterwards, everyone gathered in small groups, talking and laughing together as if after a wedding. Full of the love that we had made real, we rejoiced in the simple yet powerful act of being together.

Look at these faces. No fear, only love, here. 

Last night, we stood together in the dark against the fire which sought destruction, and we held out our own gentle fire to dispel that darkness.

Not in our town.

 

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I wish you all peace, and a chance to rebuild trust.
If only more communities would take this approach . . .
Julie,

Thanks. I think we have a good handle on it.

Owl Says Who,

I hope that we can inspire other communities. Changing minds is a worthy task.
Just beautiful O'Stephanie - one of the most important posts I've seen in a long time about what is really important during these times. I love the messages the various religious leaders provided, showing tolerance and love can prevail. This is what I posted to my FB account regarding this:

"An important post for the times - please read and "like" to show there is hope for us all to live together peaceably."

Excellent work here. Much love and light going out to you and your community right now.
Jane,
Thanks. I know what you mean. Until this Corvallis story came up, I was keeping my privacy as well.
Sparking,

Thank you for your facebooking this with such high praise. And for your wishes for love and light.

I usally do not blogwhore but felt that I owed it to my community to get their message of hope out there.
That is an unfortunate story all the way around it seemed to me, because the Somali kid in question was probably mainly lost in America, and the FBI I am sure thought they were doing the right thing, but in that case it seems to much like agents provacateur with a lost teenager who needed to live where there were more Somalis, to adapt.
But nice to see that most people know these things, and have common sense, which you showed in your demonstration.
Not in our town.

Not in any town.

Corvallis, you dun us all proud.
Tim,

I thank you wholeheartedly. I am very proud of my town today.

Don,

Thanks for your thoughtful comment. I am proud of the way that Oregon is thinking hard about how this all came about. There is a lesson in the puzzle of this young man's lost path which we need to learn and apply. By all reports, he came from a loving and non-radical family.

You may know that I have worked with a lot of at-risk youth and first generation students who always have a difficult time forging an identity stuck between two cultures. Portland actually has about 8,000 Somalis. The community met with the Portland fathers and one of the things they asked for was help with their at-risk youth.
Hopefully, Portland can become a model of how to help these young American Muslim men establish themselves as loyal Americans. This alone would make us so much safer.
Holy crap, I skipped reading the Oregonian for a couple days and totally missed this! Thanks for posting, o'steph, and I'm glad you were there to represent the sane people of Oregon.

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What an examplary act. I believe this is the purpose of any religion - to bring humanity together; not set them apart. Thank you for crossposting. Rated.
THIS is what it is supposed to be like in America! Thanks for sharing this touching account.

Lezlie
Inspiring, hopeful--it's so good to know that sanity, fellow feeling, mutual respect, sympathy and charity still have a place, still can govern our lives and social relations. Corvallis has an abundance of social capital, indeed. Thank you for this post.
Good work, my friend....
There's some Corvallis in Ashland, and versa vice ;-)
Hope to see you one of these days.
Bonnie,

Thanks so much for coming by!

Merwoman,

So glad to hear from you! You have always been one of my very favorites.
It was an incredible experience to assemble with these people. Very powerful.

FusunA
Yes, so agree. It blew me away that the Muslims and Jews had celebrated Hanukkah and Ramadan together. If only that would catch on...
Corvallis sounds like a lovely community.
"Full of the love that we had made real"
Thank you.
I entered the world three blocks from the Mosque at the former Good Samaritan Hospital.
No moral. No symbolism. Just waxing nostalgic....boy I could go for a pint of Dead Guy and a Squirrel Burger.
Patrick,

Praise from such a fine poet is praise indeed. Thanks.

Blue,
It really is a great town. Seems much smaller than the population would predict.

l'heure bleue,

Thank you for your comment, my friend. (You are teaching me French vowels with your name!)

Lezley,
I am inordinately proud of my "little town with big people". We are actually welcoming this opportunity.

Jerry,
Thanks! Corvallis is a fine town. It has been a great place to raise our kid.

dynomyte,
I agree. Ashland is a great community too.
We will get that Oregon meetup going after the holidays. Stay in touch in the meantime!
terrific, both the stand-in and the post. thanks for doing what's right.
Mr Fawkes,

I would send you a Dead Guy and Squirrel Burger if it would stand the trip. Most folks who have ever lived here (as OSU students or HP folks) have always liked the town.

My friends,
I cannot express my gratitude for your response to this post. This incident wounded me deeply as I love these people who I had come to know by teaching their children. And a hate crime here! The process is leading to light however. Not the least of which is your friendship to me.
Bless each and every one of you now and always.
Hey Angel-

Thank you so much for standing with our brothers, sisters and cousins ... this is the 60s all over again, and we will defeat hate the same way as before.

A point often overlooked is that the American Culture that we all celebrate now is, without question, that of the 3rd wave of original European immigrants who founded the USA- THE QUAKERS!

Evil, hating, so-called conservatism in America today is based not on this beautiful culture, but on the horrid elitist Cavaliers, who are now planning their 150th celebration of the attack of the Confederacy ... pretty clear who's who, n'est pas?

Aloha Kakou
This is how you fight these people. Show you're not afraid and if they burn it down, we'll rebuild it. It kills them to see people of differing races and religions smiling and holding hands.
Oahusurfer,

So glad to hear from you. No one else has such erudite and unique posts and comments as you. You are a philosopher.

Yes, I was impressed with the Quaker minister last night. Very powerful gentleness.

Aloha Kakuo, my friend.
Scanner,

Nuts how love can drive some folks around the bend!

I also got to see a student whom I have not seen since he was a fifth grader. Fine young man in college now! You know, the men are not supposed to even shake hands with women but he said--Give me a hug! And I did. This kid was always so special and remains so. Majoring in philosophy which is exactly where I thought he might wind up. A deep thinker even as a child.
Nice to read this--you have a right to be proud of your community. Good to know there are so many fine people there.
I want all champions of peace in the world to will it forth..through example and action.
Sophieh,

Thanks for commenting! Yes, the feeling last night was one of Joy. At first, we all thought that Corvallis was the last place something like this could happen. Then we began to think, Hey, it is the best of a place to happen because of what we can turn it into.
Not in our town indeed. Thanks for the link and the post. r.
femme forte,
Thanks for the support. I just could not do otherwise.

Kateasley,
It was fabulous. I had never been involved in anything like it before.

Gary Justis,
Thank you, my friend. So glad to win support from such a good man as yourself.
Not in our town. Good reporting here. R
Jeff,
Thanks for noting the link to notinourtown.org. I emailed someone locally and hope to be involved in whatever comes of this.

Sheila,
Thanks! I am a bit shy about being a "reporter". I would have had more pictures if I had used the flash more. Incredible scenes around me. My camera does not do faces glowing in candlelight very well...
My kind of community. My kind of America.
~r
Joan H,

It was thrilling to be there. I hope it spreads. We all need to be living here.
I'm so glad to know that Corvallis came together and said "yes" to community and an emphatic "no" to hatred. Sounds like a great event filled with heart and sincerity, rain be darned.

RATED!
Nikki,
Thanks! In many ways, this was the best place of all for something like this to happen. It not only has brought the interfaith community together but it has increased the attendence at the Mosque. Just like there are many Christians who attend church faithfully every Easter and Christmas, there are Muslims who attend every Eid and Ramadan.

Shirel,
If Oregonians let a little rain stop us, we would never go outside all winter.
The Imam did mention how wonderful it was for us to turn out and leave the "comfort of our homes".

Notice I have gotten an Editors Pick on this. I may have reached my limit as I have gotten three of these in about one week. A long dry stretch in between though.
I bookmarked this and I'll send it around. Newsvine is an interesting idea. Best.
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BOKO,

I thank you for this. I am grateful for everyone who has facebooked it.

You would fit right in there, BOKO. IF you give it a try, friend me and I will watchlist you. (This story is doing well over there too. I gotta at least get DSL...)
Wonderful occasion-- and such are rare. Brought tears to my eyes.
Wonderful occasion-- and such are rare. Brought tears to my eyes.
Darling O'Sister,

It is worth saying twice!
Bellweather Vance,

Yes, the way it should be. Sad that it is news and not commonplace.
Scarlett,

Well said. There is nothing that can stand against it when love takes a stand itself.

(I love the look that is passing between the two women. So loving--true Agape.)
A standing Ovation for Corvallis. This was inspiring. We don't have to give into the hate. We need to fight back with nights like this one.
This reinforces my belief in all human beings, and makes me miss Oregon all the more!

Thanks for continuing to post about this! May the goodness of Oregonians and Corvallisites overflow into the rest of the world!

I'm pass this on to everyone I can.

BTW, I signed up on newsvine, but don't know how to find you to 'friend' you.
Proud and Progressive,

Thanks for the great comment. We hope that our"small town with its big people" will have an effect.

I am o'stephanie there also.

http://ostephanie.newsvine.com/_news/2010/12/01/5560937-no-fear-in-corvallis-last-night
Beautiful. Thank you for sharing this.
This story made my day - in so many ways. Affirming.
Maybe there's hope after all. This was wonderful O'Steph. & what a great little town.
mimetalker,
Thanks for showing up and commenting. It is so cool.

grif,
I ove making your day. It is very affirmin--life, love, and community.
trilogy,

Corvallis has been a great place to raise our daughter and live. After she was born we moved here from the coast and have never regreted it. Great folks.
Elisa,

Thank you. When I have something I devotedly believe in, my muse takes over and I follow.
Your town put on a beautiful and dignified tribute. My hometown is unfortunately also that of the would-be Koran burner; we also countered hateful sentiments with multi-faith shows of unity and constructive service to the community. All too often, these quiet demonstrations get overlooked--thank you for bringing attention to this.
Felicia,
I am finding that what you say is true. I ws shocked this morning when I confidently opened up the Corvallis and Oregonian online versions to find nothing about it.
The TV news was there and had stories. They would rather write about the bomber and not even any solutions to that either like working with at-risk Somalian youth.
I have joined the website notinouttown.org. Shall see if I can contribute somehow there.
What a touching event and nicely recounted o'steph. Another lesson of the wisdom of the "Think globally, act locally" adage.
There is so much to love about this post. Thanks for sharing it with us! R
Abrawang,

"Think globally, act locally" So right. This story was an international story so I guess it follows that we answer to the world.

Natalie,
Thank you for taking the time to tell me that you love the piece.
Wonderful, timely and necessary post. Thank you.
Emma Peel,
Great to see you! Thanks.
If only things like this happened more often (not the fire, obviously, but the show of interfaith harmony).

This is how you fight terrorism.
"Last night, we stood together in the dark against the fire which sought destruction, and we held out our own gentle fire to dispel that darkness."

A familiar phrase from the season comes to mind: Oh, holy night.
All those of faith are applauding.
"The Christian pastor praised the Imam as a holy man..."

Wow - this part gives me hope.

Thanks so much for keeping us updated Steph - with pictures to boot. I am so glad to hear some good things have come from this tragedy.
Thank you for sharing this! I plan to "share" on my Facebook page.
norwonk,
This is the way to fight terrorism, as you say. We make a community which repudiates it. We honor our Muslim neighbors who are our first line defense. Just read a NYT's article about 4 plots out of 10 are solved by tips from Muslims. Loyal American Muslims.

at home pilgrim,
Your phrase "o holy night" gives me the good shivers.

Chicago,
I am so glad that this story is getting play. Good stories need to be shared.

Heron,
When I spoke to my student from long ago now all grown up, he said that he was--in a sense--glad that it happened, at least here. He waved his arm at the crowd and noted what good had come of this.

bluesurly,
I thank you. I am blown away by OSer's response to this story and the many facebook likes.
I lived in Eugene and the surrounding area for many years. I lived in Blue River, Vida, McKenzie Bridge, and Springfield. There are times when I wish I still lived in that area.

When a community comes together to denounce hatred and violence it’s a good thing. Human beings must eventually transcend false divisions like those created by devotion to country, ethnicity, culture and RELIGION. Humanity is one race, one species, and imaginary divisions should be exposed for what they are.

Every religion teaches that it is THE WAY, the ONLY way. Anyone who misses this point is missing part of the problem. I wish I were not the only person pointing out this unpleasant and inconvenient truth in a thread in which everyone only wants to say something positive. Sometimes “Polly-Anna” perspectives distract from reality and lead astray.

RATED
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Rick,

So good to see you here. Thanks for the thoughtful comment.

Reality may be the charred remains of birth, marriage and death certificates from the Mosque office, but the way my community has come together is also a reality. We already had an interfaith group; now more folks are involved in it.

I have to believe in the good if it the good is to exist.
I want to heartily thank everyone of my OS friends who have made this post rocket up to second place in my two-year list of posts. Over a thousand folks have read this piece here. It now has 38 facebook likes.

I usually do not blogwhore, but I did with this one because I wanted to get the word out that hate does not win in my town. The story of the Mosque firebombing was #2 on the BBC news per Old New Lefty. I wanted the good news of how my community came together to be as widely known.

Bless you all!
steph,

I had hoped to not completely undermine the positive. I think I just see a bigger picture than the single event. But we have to take the positive wherever we can find it, I agree.
Oh, Steph - how I needed to read this tonight! It restores my faith that people can come together in peace. Much love to you, girl. XOXO
Thank you for validating "my" Oregon.

After 9/11 people here supported the Middle Eastern (Islamic) owned businesses. It made me proud.
Rick,

Love you guy! The reality that there is a huge divide in the world, mostly due to religion, is a hard one. I wish it were not so, trying to make it not so in my little corner.

You also wrote this:

"When a community comes together to denounce hatred and violence it’s a good thing. Human beings must eventually transcend false divisions like those created by devotion to country, ethnicity, culture and RELIGION. Humanity is one race, one species, and imaginary divisions should be exposed for what they are."

Lisa,

So happy that my piece lifted you up! You have always had such a beautiful heart here.

Denise,

Yeah! Go Oregon! (And not just the ducks!)
I thank everyone who came by, commented and recommended it to others. It is my second highest rated post in my over two years here. And it is still garnering looks.

I seldom forward my work but this one, I did. I felt it had a strong message of hope and love that transcended what passes for our culture. For me, it is my Christmas post...

Thank you!
peace. thank you for sharing.
At last count, this post has had 1,239 hits for which I have my OS friends to thank. I appreciate the boost to get this out.

Miraculously, my posts about this topic here and elsewhere have attracted no forthing-at-the-mouth Islamophobes but there was one here today. I won't host that.

Thanks again, my friends!