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Location: West Coast Body, East Coast Heart, California,
Birthday: January 19

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Bio: I am now 44 and perfectly OK with that (but I still love it when my friends say I look like I'm 35!). I've been a mom for over 11 years now. I live a rather simple yet difficult life of trying to make sure my daughters are polite, well-educated and know they are loved beyond question. I do my best to give my family whatever they need. And I'm trying to take care of myself. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx I am infinitely trying to make people happy, make people laugh, make people feel good about themselves. I compliment often, but only with sincerity. I spend way too much time thinking about what might be the "right" thing to do in any given situation. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx This is a personal journey for me. I have grown in ways I didn't know were possible. AND AN UPDATE: Don't forget your worth. This speaks to everyone, not just me. xoxoxo ~~~~ And thx, B. My heart was beginning to thaw but your beautiful friendship has melted it. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx FURTHER UPDATE: - B, darling, you have brought me love and peace. You sent the words, "Be gentle with yourself." I am able to do so only because you have been gentle with my heart. I love you, soul mate.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx And now, it's been 18 months... So incredible to recall where I was and where your love has taken me...xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx And now, two years have passed since those first simple PMs...

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APRIL 19, 2010 5:07PM

Rate: 33 Flag

Yesterday at approximately 5pm Pacific Time, I invited Emma Peel to call me at home so we could discuss what occurred Saturday night/Sunday.

We spoke for almost two hours and in the middle of the conversation, I took my iPhone and deleted my post. It took courage for Emma to call me on the phone and we now have a greater understanding of each other.

Removing my post was not meant to be perceived as a slight against anyone who so kindly commented, from either "side," and in fact, I am greatly appreciative of ALL of the respectful comments. But I don't want "sides" here at OS and I certainly don't want to be a part of any division. THAT was NEVER my intention - it was simply to make sure you knew I am just me. I am now confident you know who I am.

Emma apologized for what happened and it was time to forgive.

Again, I truly appreciate anyone who invested their time and their heart yesterday. I hope that deleting my post did not upset anyone; it was just necessary.

Much love,

Angela

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I send my respect and love for you and Smithery, OM. You have always been so kind. Rated.

Thoth

April 19, 2010 05:13 PM

i'm glad you two worked it out in the most sensible and personal way possible. brava. i have faith again. you're a gem, angela.

femme forte aka candace

April 19, 2010 05:14 PM

This just made me smile.

Mimetalker

April 19, 2010 05:14 PM

Emma has a very gracious post about this too.

Cranky Cuss

April 19, 2010 05:15 PM

How wonderful that you both talked on the phone. I think many of us should follow your example. Listening to each other's voices is much more personal than reading someone's words. Congratulations to both of you.

Redstocking Grandma

April 19, 2010 05:15 PM

Just saying I'm glad that you both were able to work things out. You're a peach, Angela. This I have always known.

:-D

Bill S.

April 19, 2010 05:19 PM

Angela, it was a pleasure getting to know you better even under those circumstances. Thank you for being so generous.

emma peel

April 19, 2010 05:20 PM

Hats off to you both! Thank you, and thank you, emma, for sharing this with us. ~r

kitd

April 19, 2010 05:20 PM

Angela
much love says it all.

Chuck A. Stetson

April 19, 2010 05:21 PM

*applause, whistles, more applause*

Nikki Stern

April 19, 2010 05:22 PM

I loved reading this, I'm so glad it all worked out as it should. You are both ladies and you make me smile.

Lunchlady 2

April 19, 2010 05:34 PM

I'm so glad you two spoke last night; it really was the right thing for both you. Gracious posts, each.

Smithery

April 19, 2010 05:36 PM

I like what I read here...on both sides. Well done to both of you and God bless you both. This is the way differences should be settled and I wish more of us had the courage to do it.

David McClain

April 19, 2010 05:38 PM

Isn't the air fresh and cool tonight? I love spring when everything is new.

Gabby Abby

April 19, 2010 05:40 PM

This makes me feel so much better. I guess I can take my foot out of the doorway now.
Lezlie

L in the Southeast

April 19, 2010 05:42 PM

This has really infuriated me! How dare you!

SnippytheGrammarDog

April 19, 2010 05:49 PM

And I had to click the rate button seven times before it budged! I'm annoyed!

SnippytheGrammarDog

April 19, 2010 05:50 PM

*YELLP*

SnippytheGrammarDog

April 19, 2010 05:51 PM

Thank you everyone, but Emma deserves the kudos for accepting my offer to call me.

Outside Myself

April 19, 2010 05:58 PM

Brava, ladies . . . brava.

Owl_Says_Who

April 19, 2010 06:00 PM

It takes courage to do this, like I just wrote at Emma Peel's. So very glad the tide is turning. Brava!

vanessa seijo

April 19, 2010 06:03 PM

cool. very very cool.

Greg Correll

April 19, 2010 06:14 PM

The time out was a portal into a new dimension.

Redstocking Grandma

April 19, 2010 06:43 PM

I am so happy that you've both found a way to resolve this "misunderstanding". It drains valuable energy that can be applied in much more positive ways. So write my ladies, write!
R